#cluster b traits culture is

[cluster-b-culture-is]

(prefacing this with i don’t have any full cluster b disorders but I do relate to a lot of the traits and stuff and have low empathy due to some other things)

cluster b culture is experiencing empathy and sympathy as two super different things

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[evilsystemm]

uhh???

[lemony-ink]

having low/no empathy doesn't make you evil or less-than someone else

you don't owe empathy to anyone

having NPD or ASPD doesn't make you a bad person

[narcitism]

my abuser had brown hair im a victim of brunette abuse :(

[narcpixiedreamboy]

I wish people who believe in narcissistic abuse and act like people with NPD are so evil were not even human understood that having NPD can absolutely motivate people to do good things.

I have NPD and I work in education. At the school I work at, we have a couple Ukrainian kids who don’t speak English. I have begun learning Ukrainian (or well, trying to, this is my first time trying to learn a language that uses a different alphabet than English so progress is slow), specifically because I want to be the one to make these kiddos feel welcome. I want to be the one teacher who has put in effort to learn their language, rather than just trying to teach them ours. That’s a good thing to do, but if I didn’t have NPD I probably wouldn’t bother to do that and would just use google translate (like all the rest of the teachers).

I, like other narcissists, find that most of my motivation comes from looking for another narc high, and for me, I am much more likely to get a narc high from doing something good and feeling good about myself because I did something good, than I ever would from making someone else feel bad about themself. Why would I spend my time going around hurting other people for no reason when I could put my effort into doing something actually cool and then everyone will think I’m awesome because I actually did something awesome?

I know I’m not the only narcissist like this, but sure, let’s keep spreading the rhetoric that narcissists only exist to hurt people.

[mirroringshards]

"im done with this conversation" is literally the most annoying thing to hear in an argument. like no no you started this conversation you can finish it. sit back down bby and admit you were wrong.

[deceiver-of-god]

Honestly, I think apologizing is just a form of manipulation. It bothers you that the other person doesn't have a good attitude towards you, so you explain the situation, make any excuse, try to make them understand your perspective, and in the end you manage to soften them and change their attitude.

I don't think I've ever honestly apologized. When someone is upset with me, all I want is for them to stop being upset, because their attitude is inconvenient, and the only thing on my mind is "how can I talk my way out of this situation?".

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd + bpd traits culture is PLEAAASEE LOOK AT ME AND RECOGNISE THAT IM NOT OK!!!!!! please look at the songs i listen to and be concerned and please pay attention to the way i behave and acknowledge that something is off because i dont know how to ask for help but this is me trying please help me please look at me - 🐍🕊️

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[abusedpixie]

“𝐈𝐬 𝐢𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐤 𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐢𝐞“

[autopsyfreak]

‘you just think you’re better than everyone’

yes. yes i do.

[titan-god-helios]

people with npd. i love us. narcissist nation RISE UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

anyway yeah jokey bits aside every single damn narcissist, you're awesome and i hope you're having a good day filled with supply.

yes that includes overt narcissists. yes that includes narcissists who manipulate others or take advantage of situations (AND ARE WORKING ON IT OR TRYING TO (i do not condone manipulation please don't kill me you tumblrinas with piss poor reading comprehension)). yes that includes narcissists who constantly brag about their achievements or cannot mask their symptoms. yes that includes narcissists who are easily angered. yes that includes narcissists who are the stereotype of narcissism. yes it includes quite literally every single narcissist and not only those who are covert, can mask or use their narcissism to fuel them to do good.

cause quite frankly, thats not the experience of every person with npd, or even the majority. yet all of us are people (or critters !! i see you therians and nonhumans <3) and deserve to get treated with as much respect and care and kindness as one another, no matter if you're trying to get better now or will in the future or don't know if you can, or if you're "one of the good ones" (ew i hate that phrase) or whatever.

yeah go and have a good day <333

[bpdcodone]

You ever open up to someone and feel gross afterwards and weak?

[falloutboyyaoi]

my ex had high empathy. reblog to support victims of empath abuse

[narcitism]

selfcest isnt a bad idea

[cluster-b-culture-is]

NPD traits culture is "Ah, i got warned once in a server! it is time to L E A V E"

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[mirroringshards]

people say that one of the ways narcissists abuse is love bombing, but ive seen more narcissists be the victims of love bombing than the narc abuse advocates