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History wants so badly for Cleopatra to be beautiful. Like they can’t conceive of Rome being intimidated by anything less

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A PSA about trucks from a truck driver

I and some colleagues were talking about how we wish everyone could see the safety videos that our company was showing us, because I don’t think most people understand how traffic works in a truck. So here’s some things we wish everyone on the road knew.

- we’re not kidding about tailgating. If you’re right behind us on a straight highway? Chances are we have NO IDEA you’re there, which means we can’t anticipate any of your movements. Plus slowing down takes multiple downshifts, so we might start decreasing speed way earlier than you expect.

- We’re not kidding about any of our blind spots. WE CAN’T SEE YOU, GUYS.

- That bit about slowing down taking a while? The same goes for when you’re in front of us. Don’t cut off a truck. Oh god, PLEASE don’t cut off a truck. If you cut me off, I’m not irritated, I’m terrified. For YOU. It can take 7 to 9 seconds for us to stop. DON’T CUT OFF TRUCKS.

- Before you get mad about how slow we’re going on the highway, keep in mind that many companies govern their vehicles so they literally CAN’T go over 60 or 65. This is a good thing, I promise. Because…

- Do you know what happens when a car meets a truck in an accident? The car gets totaled and the truck needs a new coat of paint. You will not win this fight. I know nobody likes getting stuck behind a big dumb truck, but it’s not worth your life.

We are trying our best to protect you from our 80,000 pound death machines. Please help us out.

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Honestly intersex people have EVERY right to be angry and mean abt our marginalization.

Some of us get mutilated and brutalized by ‘professionals’ and ‘doctors’ as infants. Some of us have been lied to our ENTIRE LIVES and have had to uncover what happened BY OURSELVES!

We get co-opted by the trans community as little more than a ‘gotcha’ or as an opt-in identity.

Transmedicalists invade our communities with their “”ERM akshully being dysphoric means differing brain sex, therefore I count as intersex!1!1! 🤓👆”” when that is BULLSHIT (bc ‘brain sex’ theory has been disproven first off, and also?? intersex refers to chromosomal and gonadal variations, not your fucking brain??)

Or the trans-radfems, who call MANY of us ‘transmisogynists’ or accuse us of being TERFs bc we dare to correct the absolutley RAMPANT intersexism they spew.

‘TME/TMA’ ‘Are you AFAB intersex or AMAB intersex’ ‘I wish I were born intersex’ ‘Intersexism is just misdirected transphobia’ ‘Technically HRT makes you intersex’ ‘don’t call me perisex’….

FUCK YOU GUYS, ACTUALLY! THE FACT THAT IVE DEALT WITH MORE ERASURE AND INTERSEXISM FROM OTHER TRANS PPL THAN I HAVE FROM CIS PPL IS FUCKING EMBARASSING. DO BETTER.

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Intersexism should be a cancel worthy offense. I want to see some of you fuckers apologize. I want people in this community to be made ashamed of their bigotry against intersex people.

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What to do if you find yourself homless- written by someone who has actually been homeless

Most important: Spend the money you have on a motel. Churches probably will not actually help and shelters can be dangerous or turn you away. At a motel you have free breakfast, access to running water, and a lockable place to sleep. Do not waste money on a gym membership like the popular version of this post says to do, YMCA memberships are like $40.

2. Contact family and friends. Now is not the time to worry about being a burden. Your survival and safety comes first and that is all that matters, anyone worth having in your life will agree.

3. Start a gofundme. Even if someone can’t offer you a place to stay, they might be willing to toss out $5 so you can eat today.

4. Libraries have free wifi. Apply to any and all jobs you can think of if you aren’t already working.

5. Any home is a good home. Even if it’s a dingy apartment in a bad neighborhood. If its cheap and you can afford it, snatch it up. 

6. Pancake mix and peanut butter are filling, cheap, and last a long time.

PLEASE SHARE THE FUCK OUT OF THIS

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This blog is a safe space for people with psychosis, intrusive thoughts, BFRBs, PDs, those with low/no empathy, violent impulses, people with odd/unpopular/unsavory hyperfixations and special interests, addicts who aren't clean even if they never plan to be, people with poor hygeine, paraphilias, and any other less-pallatable neurodivergency and/or mental illness that is heavily stigmatized.

Your circumstances don't make you less human and worthy of respect and compassion, nor do they automatically make you a bad person.

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so can we start hunting down white liberals now or what

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If you’re a Non-Muslim and you see a Muslim praying in public, could you please not pass in front of them?

Go behind them, but not in front. 👍

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So I keep seeing people warning others about a "gore raid" that is supposedly going to happen and to close their inboxes to 'stay safe'.

And I want to remind people that most of the time the warning itself IS the attack. It's people trying to make you afraid and shut down your blog without having to do anything.

It's like how people call in a bomb threat without there actually being a bomb at all.

The threat is the point.

I know a lot of the people spreading the message are well meaning, but never capitulate to mysterious warnings of impending terrorism.

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Post is set for a week, let's see how it goes...

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the level of censorship around this man is ridiculous, what happened to free speech? It’s just his name.

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you guys made luigi mangione trend for days and I need to see the same energy for brianna boston. she is a 43 year old mother of three who ended a phone call with blue cross blue shield (after being denied a claim) “delay deny depose, you people are next” and is now being held under a 100,000$ bond and could face FIFTEEN years of prison if charged. she has no weapons, her record is clean, and yet she is being held behind bars. they are afraid of the public and are trying to subdue. do not let them!!!! be outraged that our freedom of speech is being threatened!!!!! deny defend depose! free brianna boston!

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Clips from the intersex documentary Every Body (2023) featuring interviews from Sean Saifa Wall, River Gallo, Alicia Roth Weigel, John Money, a 90's international intersex group meetup, a mother of an intersex kid who was told to stop having kids, and in the final clip, David Reimer - the man who was the basis for John Money's experimentation that is still used on intersex infants today.

This compilation is in response to the queer community on tumblr being painfully ignorant and unaware of the medical abuse intersex people endure today, and every day of our lives. For some reason, there's this idea that this sort of shit cannot be happening to us, because it's "malpractice" (despite being standard medical practice) or because it's rape or mutilation or child abuse, or because of any other reason. This is happening. This is very real. David Reimer ended his life a couple years after the interview given here. I was eleven when the medical abuse began and fifteen when I was assaulted and punished by a female OBGYN for being intersex.

Please care about our stories. Please believe us. PLEASE stop seeing our pleas for help and community as a challenge to you, your life, your identity, or other queer people. We are fucking suffering. Please listen, even if it hurts! Please understand that

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“here’s what we know about the uhc shooter”

WRONG! He is a suspect and we should treat him as such. He should be treated as innocent until proven guilty, not guilty until proven innocent. He’s a person of interest not the killer. I don’t care what the media or authorities are saying, he’s a human being who deserves a fair trial and deserves to be treated as innocent until proven otherwise.

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"I don't want to read this" is totally valid.

"This is disgusting to me" is totally valid.

"I don't want to read this because it is disgusting to me" is totally valid.

"I don't think anyone should be allowed to read or write this because it is disgusting to me" is authoritarian.