#covert npd

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

Covert npd culture is being tried of masking and acting nice to just barely/not get any acknowledgement. -🪼🫧

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[bpdcodone]

You ever open up to someone and feel gross afterwards and weak?

[mirroringshards]

people say that one of the ways narcissists abuse is love bombing, but ive seen more narcissists be the victims of love bombing than the narc abuse advocates

[cccat-in-a-meat-sack]

A list of narc abuse believers for all my lovely pwNPD to block <333

@dragon-master-kai

@liquid-pie

@understandingclusterb-npd

@beenthereregrettedthat

@wilwheaton (hasn't been on for a few months but oh well)

@terrified-of-life

@secretlykoishi

@lostmf (I believe)

@nothing0fnothing

@greenevergreens

@silent-t0n

@not-a-narc-apologist

@anscathmarcach (they blocked me boo hoo)

@galactic-spec-of-dust

@selkie-ifs

@internum--urbes (also hasn't been on for a while)

@daughterofanarcissistwoman

@narcissistic-abuse-blog (wow they have their own blog :0 they hate borderlines too just so y'all know)

@furiousgoldfish

@webanglikethat (not 100% sure????)

@jay7vera

@daringdaphne

@enbygunderson

@houseofdonald

@uncoveringthenarcissist

@callmecandle

@dontbestupiditsnotthathard

@soberscientistlife (doesn't really believe in narc abuse per se, but still is very anti-NPD)

@survivingnarcissism

@howtohealfromnarcissisticabuse

@healingchildhoodtrauma

@snapnarissisticabuserecovery

@narcsurvior (either the above two blocked me or their blogs don't exist anymore)

@beauspot

@cosmic0de

@howtohealfromnarcissisticabuse

@narcopathicabuse

@narcsurvivor

@actuallydiagnosedtraumagenic (says that's it's okay to say you can be a narcissist without having NPD)

To find these people I used the following tags: #narcissistic abuse #narcissistic abuse is real #raised by narcissists #surviving narcissism

This is not an argument post. If you want to argue, shoot me an ask. This is a blocklist so that pwNPD can feel safe. You don't like, block me or send an ask. I am not here to care about your feelings. This list is also not complete/definitive. If you have other people to add, again, send an ask or comment. I love you NPD's <333

[titan-god-helios]

people with npd. i love us. narcissist nation RISE UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

anyway yeah jokey bits aside every single damn narcissist, you're awesome and i hope you're having a good day filled with supply.

yes that includes overt narcissists. yes that includes narcissists who manipulate others or take advantage of situations (AND ARE WORKING ON IT OR TRYING TO (i do not condone manipulation please don't kill me you tumblrinas with piss poor reading comprehension)). yes that includes narcissists who constantly brag about their achievements or cannot mask their symptoms. yes that includes narcissists who are easily angered. yes that includes narcissists who are the stereotype of narcissism. yes it includes quite literally every single narcissist and not only those who are covert, can mask or use their narcissism to fuel them to do good.

cause quite frankly, thats not the experience of every person with npd, or even the majority. yet all of us are people (or critters !! i see you therians and nonhumans <3) and deserve to get treated with as much respect and care and kindness as one another, no matter if you're trying to get better now or will in the future or don't know if you can, or if you're "one of the good ones" (ew i hate that phrase) or whatever.

yeah go and have a good day <333

[imagoodone-iswear]

does anyone else have extreme trouble with backpaddeling or just feeling this urge to downplay themselves every single time something is supposed to come from myself?

everytime im stable with a decision and an opposing decision or an agreeing decision comes up, i immediately second guess and feel like i have to downplay this or change my decision because this came from ME so "yk its not that bad after all" or "im sure i just thought wrong its actually better than my brain makes me think".

yeah sure...

im so sick of saying yes but then being like "yk what, no,,, thats not my opinion, nah, its not even that bad, we can just do whatever you want its fine" after 3 years (/hyp) of pondering what the fuck i even want.

its so fucking annoying i cant even put it into words. and every single time too. i just have this urge to downplay myself, my thoughts, my opinions, my struggles, everything from myself. so i also backpaddle on a lot of stuff because suddenly im just "nah its not that bad, i swear".

[amenbpdtism]

Does anyone else with covert npd see life as a competition they're constantly losing?

A while ago, I saw that a creator with npd say narcissists constantly see life as a competition while borderlines constantly see it as unsafe and I kinda see it as both? I both often feel unsafe very often and see it as a competition I'm constantly losing but I was wondering if anyone else with bpd/npd comorbidity or vulnerable/fragile/covert npd see life as a competition they're constantly losing as well?

[yourfavhasnpd]

Covert NPD flag. Edited version of paranoid-and-pretentious' edited version with Isobugs NPD symbol

[trekahouse]

Do yourself a huge favor, and run as fast as you can from people who are running from their healing. Behaviors never lie. People who deny themselves in the mirror, will deny your reality and cause you your sanity.

Treka L. House

— when the mask slips, don’t talk yourself out of what you see. trust your intuition.

[luluscandystore]

im literally the best how can people not like me?

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

covert npd culture is the people in your life saying “you’re not a narcissist! you’re so sweet! plus you’re nothing like my abusive dad or ex who is DEFINITELY a narcissist.” it’s so infuriating. npd doesn’t equal abusive. also i literally mask most of my symptoms, even to my therapist because of the fucking stigma around this disorder (and bc i want everyone to like me bc everyone HAS to like me)

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[bpdcodone]

I hate when people act like there better than me like no your not. Sit the fuck down

[mirroringshards]

i had a dream last night that there was a video called "every type of narcissist IN ORDER" and there were 136 different types of narcissists

[clusterrune]

stop calling every self-centered, self-serving, self-absorbed, manipulative, cold and apathetic person you meet/know a narcissist.

npd is a disorder. not something you can apply to every person you dont like or who is hurtful.

if you were to live with a condition that people only associate specific stigmatized negative traits to and only thought of those traits when they heard about your condition and hated you for it, you'd be upset and hurt by the misinformation and misunderstanding too. especially if it prevented you from getting the help and support you needed. thats what happens to us, to many people with all kinds of conditions.

people associate those things with us and immediately apply our term to anyone with those traits and deem them unworthy of help, making it harder for us to be deemed worthy of the help we need.

use different descriptors, theres tonnes of them.

Narcissus didn't live his life, stare at his reflection and have a flower named after him just for a term based off his name to be used in vain.

[eclaire-went-bam]

"covert" narcissist this "overt" narcissist that, are y'all actually that consistent?

[jelliibeanz]

goodnight to people with npd who are genuinely upset about it and wish they could feel empathy