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[historyinclusionist]

Harmless Personal Identity coining

Since the term I crafted has been picking up steam in a couple places, I decided it's time to make a official post for it and propose a flag. I'm not good at making flags and you're welcome to redesign the above one if you like this term.

Harmless Personal Identity (HPI) is an umbrella term meant to describe personal identities that people might assign to themselves, coin for others, make pride flags for, and so on, but not any identities that inherently cause harm. If an identity checks the following boxes, it can be called a Harmless Personal Identity.

Harmless: It doesn't encourage predatory behavior, racism, ableism, transphobia etc just by existing.

The identity is being labeled because it makes the person using it comfortable. Not to harm others by deceiving them. For example: LGBT people and systems are not intending to deceive others and simply want to live as they are. This doesn't mean that the term in question is completely free of criticism or couldn't be used in bad faith—I think every term that's ever been coined could be used in bad faith. This means that it may be unusual or strange, especially to people who aren't familiar with the social groups/contexts the term was coined in, but the definition doesn't encourage people to appropriate culture, speak over people of color, commit inc-st/p-dophilia/z-ophilia, or otherwise cause harm to themselves or another living being as part of that identity.

Example: "Transhawaiian" is not an HPI, because by virtue of it existing the coiner and anyone who uses this term are saying that "Hawaiian" is a feeling someone can decide they feel and apply to themself at will, instead of the racial minority that "Hawaiian" actually is.

Personal: Identities which are wholly self-determined and locatable only within that person's interaction with and relations to the world around them.

In general—Other people cannot determine your internal view of yourself because they cannot be you, therefore your identity is personal! Someone who's unfamiliar with xenogenders may tell me that I cannot be -insert gender- because -thing- isn't a gender, but my gender is inside me and I cannot possibly give them the ability to feel it for me. It is located only within me.

This includes labels that get called "contradictory", like identifying as a lesbian and a man at the same time. If you're not familiar with multigender and multisexual lesbian spaces that might sound strange, but gender+presentation and orientation labels are purely self-defined—they are the coiner/anyone who uses that term saying "this is how I would describe my attraction to -insert gender here-," "this is how I would describe my gender that only I can feel inside my head and can't physically show to someone else," and so on. A bisexual lesbian's identity is not saying that all lesbians are bisexual or that they should identify that way; It is saying that that individual determined themself to be bisexual and lesbian.

(This does not extend to, again, racism and cultural appropriation. Queer labels are a self-defined thing, whereas racial and ethnic identity and things like congenital disorders can have self-defined aspects but are largely on a completely different quadrant of identity and can't be "decided" in the same way that queer labels can.)

Identity: A self-applied label or understanding of yourself.

This one is straightforward mostly. I would like to note that this does include things like reclaimed slurs and derogatory words, since in those cases, it's that person who's been called that word choosing "you know what? I AM a -slur- and I love myself for it!" instead of it being used to put them down.

Ok, so what identities specifically?

MOGAI (xenogenders, neogenders, neo/newly coined orientations, presentation terms, neopronouns+etc)

Alterhuman (the entire alterhuman umbrella, excluding any culturally appropriative behavior)

Most plural culture/coined terms for plural experiences

Other identity umbrellas (Dissomei, desirdae, reclaimed xenoidentities, xenonatures, neurowiry,+etc)

And so on. Is it not a radqueer, transrace, transx, etc term or would you call it a "good faith identity"? It most likely fits here.

This also includes a category of personal identity I've been seeing more and more lately, which are these uncategorized identifications with specific words that have pride flags. Some examples: 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5

Ok, cool, do I identify as this?

You would say "I use harmless personal identities"/"I support harmless personal identities"/I coin harmless personal identities"+etc. This is less an identity and more of a faster way to describe these identities.

TD;LR— Identities that are probably niche, but don't harm people like radqueer/transid/transrace/transabled do.

Tagging: @gender-jargon | @neopronouns | @radiomogai | @kiruliom | @aspectsofidentity | @beyond-mogai-pride-flags | @neopronouns | @antiradqueerguy

Alt flags and more things are beneath the cut:

Two alternative flag ideas which I abandoned, but you can use if you want.

The phrasing "locatable only within your interaction with and relations to the world around you" came from a Tumblr post by txttletale (lost link). This term and the author have no affiliation with them, I just thought it was a wonderful way to phrase this concept. This would later inspire me to coin the term History Inclusionist, which then led to me sort of backwards-coining HPI to describe it.

You don't have to be a History Inclusionist to use the term HPI and I won't tell you not to interact with me if you aren't one.

I might make subset flags later. Maybe?

[11/21/2024] I forgot to add that @kiruliom helped me adjust the flag colors. Thank you.

[hysangel]

⠀⠀⠀⤷⠀⠀⸝⸝ Merfriend

︵︵﹒｜ a flag for when one uses Merfriend in place of partner , boyfriend or girlfriend; it does not have to be exclusively.

Flag/Original thing by @rwuffles :3

[rwuffles]

PUPFRIEND．   ➷

pt: pupfriend. end pt.

⚘   ⌣   definition．

 a flag for when one uses pupfriend in place of partner , boyfriend or girlfriend; it does not have to be exclusively.

pt: definition, a flag for when one uses pupfriend in place of partner, boyfriend or girlfriend; it does not have to be exclusively. end pt.

COINER．  the chimera boy & the entity draped in eyes．  ➷

⚘   ⌣   n/a．

TAGS．  @seapupz @angeltism @zoeynovie @jigumis @sysnarc @wailingclowns．  ➷

[ghostlywatchers]

⌒ foxfriend ⨟

a flag for when one uses foxfriend in place of partner , boyfriend or girlfriend ; it does not have to be exclusively 𓈒

Coined by ⸺ kai

⇢ self indulgent (half)

Tagging ⸺ @equine-equius @brittlehare-shopping-center @apileofmoss @smilepilled @rwuffles ( coiner of the flag template / term [ ? ] ) @radiomogai

[daybreakthing]

Divine/Godly Entity Kin ⚓

divine/godly entity kin flag!

for anon!

tagging @radiomogai & @daybreakflags!

[cocajimmycola]

miku boy

a flag for miku boys, boys who like miku, mikus who are boys, or anyone who is in some way connected to being a boys and hatsune miku.

taglist; @radiomogai @ballerinoloverboy

[flagautismguy]

non-human body flag

for anyone who has / is in a body that is not human, regardless of what labels they use

[dixons-mogai]

Boysdontcryfemsongic

A songic gender connected to/influenced by Boys Don't Cry by The Cure, but in a feminine way!

Requested by Anon!

Taglist :: @mewgai @brittlehare-shopping-center @ghostlywatchers @jiiamp @rwuffles @the-astropaws @smilepilled @vampitsm @catboy-autism @silliette @bluecube-coins @discrophy @vampire-overlord @twiiibee

[vndead-pvppy]

Save Mohammed ..

Dear humanity,

Please Help Me – My Son May Die at Any Moment. I am in desperate need of your help. My son’s life is hanging by a thread, and he may not survive without urgent medical treatment This was after he was shot by an Israeli drone He was critically injured in his feet. Time is running out, and we are facing a critical situation. I am asking for your generosity to help us save him – either through a donation or by sharing this urgent plea with others

I beg you, i kiss your feet, to help my son. My son may die at any moment

Donate now:👇👇 gofundme.com

‎‏Thank you for your compassion and support during this critical time.

#free_palestine 20 🍉🇵🇸

!!!!

[clowncary]

plaidos shut the fuck up forever challenge impossible at 3 am

you don't understand intersex culture

how do yoy know what a tme intersex person is????????????

[chronicallyleggless]

Aroace userboxes (sunset) pt. 2! (Double)

A couple people rebloged and said they’d like these, so I made them!

[hysangel]

⠀⠀⠀⤷⠀⠀⸝⸝ Merfiend

︵︵﹒｜ a flag for when one uses Merfiend in place of partner , boyfriend or girlfriend; it does not have to be exclusively.

Flag/Original thing by @rwuffles ^^

[rwuffles]

HEARTFRIEND．   ➷

pt: heartfriend. end pt.

⚘   ⌣   definition．

 a flag for when one uses heartfriend in place of partner , boyfriend or girlfriend; it does not have to be exclusively.

pt: definition, a flag for when one uses heartfriend in place of partner, boyfriend or girlfriend; it does not have to be exclusively. end pt.

COINER．  the chimera boy & the entity draped in eyes．  ➷

⚘   ⌣   n/a．

TAGS．  @seapupz @angeltism @zoeynovie @jigumis @sysnarc @wailingclowns．  ➷

[caeliangel]

FLAG MAKING RESSOURCES !!

tagging: @cocajimmycola @puriette @neopronouns @genderstarbucks @genderselkies @estrogenism @haunted-thing @mogai-sunflowers

If you want to be untagged, pls lmk!

note: I do not use most of these, but I digged on the internet in order to find stuff that could very much help to make flags!

★╷﹕INSPO PALETTES

sites that will help you get inspiration with colours and generate colour palettes from nothing or even from words.

coolors.co

colorhunt.co

colormind.io

mycolor.space

colormagic.app

picular.co

perchance.org

hexcolor.co

pinterest

★╷﹕FLAG MAKING

apps and sites to make flags.

any drawing app

flag-creator.com

tennessine.co.uk

teamultima.org

★╷﹕PRIDE FLAGS

collection of flags.

pride-flags on deviantart

lgbtqia fandom

★╷﹕TEMPLATES

templates to make flags for simple or more complicated terms.

neopronouns on deviantart

flag templates by crowdsourcedgender

pride-flags in deviantart

★╷﹕NAMING

sites and information to help naming certain terms.

thewordmixer.com

namecombiner.info

unique-names.com

study.com: latin roots

latin and greek roots pdf

thoughtco.com (latin & greek roots 1)

en.m.wikipedia.org (latin & greek roots 2)

google translate

using the languages you speak (ie I often use irish or french when naming my stuff!)

★╷﹕SYMBOLS

Bunch of links where symbols, templates and such are in order to make symbols on your flags.

ask-pride-color-schemes

logodesign.ai

logomakr.com

pride-flags gallery : (01) (02) (03) (04) (05)

apps: canva, picsart, etc

★╷﹕TERMS

suffixes card: (here)

suffixes vs systems: (here)

In-nature: (here)

[winecovered]

　⟢　Clingy　𓃉

A flag for anyone who is, has been called, or considers themselves clingy! Intended for those with personality / attachment disorders, but anyone that is inherently clingy can use it.

　— Requested by anon .