#gaslighters

[trekahouse]

Do yourself a huge favor, and run as fast as you can from people who are running from their healing. Behaviors never lie. People who deny themselves in the mirror, will deny your reality and cause you your sanity.

Treka L. House

— when the mask slips, don’t talk yourself out of what you see. trust your intuition.

[starlightsweetheart]

Someone needs to write a thesis on this, please.

I honestly can’t understand the lack of…(sorry, I couldn’t stop myself) intelligence of Riley and Rucas (and Joshaya) fans and how they can possibly buy into the “Maya turned into Riley” and the “Maya never actually liked Lucas, she only liked him because she turned into Riley” bullshit? I guess it’s because they are stans of the character/couple, and they just don’t care about actual facts:

a) You can’t turn into someone else. It’s not frickin’ possible. People can change, but they can’t turn into someone else.

b) You either like someone or you don’t, it’s as simple as that (and again we’ll emphasize this point: you can’t use an excuse of liking someone because of “turning into someone”, see a)).

c) Trying to manipulate and convince someone to believe that they have changed their personality to become you and insisting that the only reason why they were interested in someone is because they turned into you… that is abuse.

This is exactly what Riley was doing to Maya. Insisting that Maya changed into her, insisting that Maya only liked Lucas because she became her, and that was also the reason why Maya was doing better in school.

Riley was doing that while also showing how low her opinion of Maya actually is: Maya will have 5 husbands, accusing Maya of pulling the fire alarm, accusing Maya of theft (if I was Maya, that would be the final nail in that friendship coffin).

Riley needs Maya to be inferior to her. Riley needs to be superior, it props her up. She can’t have someone from a broken home becoming better than her… and Riley’s absolutely can’t have Lucas pick some lowlife over her.

Also, I wonder if there’s something wrong with the Matthews family, period. Cory likes to take pot shots at Maya and her life… and then we have another gaslighter (and narcissist), Josh Matthews.

Josh loves the idea of Maya pining over him and waiting for him. Having someone fangirl-ing over him gives his ego a huge boost, and he’s not going to let that go. So, instead of using Riley’s gaslighting accusations, he comes up with another bullshit excuse: Maya only like Lucas because she was trying to protect Riley 🙄🤬. This way he kills two birds with one stone. He gets to keep having fawning over any scrap of attention he throws her way, while his niece gets the guy. Win-win for the Matthews.

It honestly makes me wonder the actual reasons of why GMW was cancelled. Was Disney getting complaints from parents over the way Maya was being treated? If I was a parent, I sure wouldn’t want my kid watching a show which was partly based on bullying and manipulating a character, never mind that it was the main character doing the bullying and manipulation.

Thoughts?

[kissofthemorningsun]

I wish I would have chosen me instead of fulfilling all your needs.

[bpd-thefallen]

The thing about letting people know you have BPD is that they’ll make every issue about you and forget to look at themselves, too

[cattlefactory]

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

Toxic people can be toxic without even realizing it. Bad energy stay far away..

[sidewayspeace444]

Hi Scott Evans! 👋🏼

[spiderbae2319]

Hey watched Nimona for the first time today😍 (loved it, totally cried) and don’t cancel me🤞, but is anyone else getting some serious gaslighting vibes from Goldenloins? 😬 Like at the bar he was all like; “She’s lying to you… you have to listen to me… I’m the one you can trust… I LOVE you… Don’t you trust me?” After he cut his boyfriend’s ARM OFF, accused him of murder, and hunted him down. 🫣Then at the end of the movie they’re back together?! 😦 I smell an unhealthy relationship. 😐 So uh, yeah, thoughts?

[americanwh-6-re]

I cannot do this anymore, sure theyre my friends but please youre taking all i have aka better character and interests, just leave already

[devastateddreaming]

No one gaslights like mom.

[deprivedofembrace]

Holy shit, my dad was the gaslighter the entire time. That sneaky fucker

[deathsoundslovely]

Sounds exactly like my ex! I hope my future relationship(s) will be healthy and they will understand mental illness and not get annoyed with you because you’re falling apart. I felt so alone because of you

[sissyamandasworld]

i’ve realized that i should probably like not have an opinion bc i’m lije such a bumb bimbo that needs more brainwashing 🤤🤤

i kant wait to become a bumb little cum bimbo

[duckygg]

"I'm not invalidating your trauma"

-Continues to invalidate and gaslight said trauma and stick up for a guilty friend out of pure ignorance even though they weren't a witness to any of it-

Same stupid bitch-Gets blocked on everything first.

Same stupid bitch-literally searches for anything available to block just to make the point.

Lmao how sad and pathetic you know your wrong and stupid yet you searched for something just apease your sad existence lmao when you learn the truth I hope you think back on how stupid you are ❤️

[franksthoughtdaughter]

It’s going well thanks for asking