#relarionships

[abbuzad4]

[manicmermaidmagic]

✨GOALS✨

[myboyfriendisawesomeholyshit]

Cheap date ideas due to the fact that I am broke but still want to make him feel loved:

-get dressed in our fanciest clothes and get gas station snacks

-star gazing

-nature walks

-late night bedroom dance session

-following YouTube tutorials for ballroom dancing together

-movie night on my vhs setup

-paper star making sesh

-swimming at the local swimming hole

-walk to the marina

-picnic at the park

[diariodeunaansiosa]

Fuimos tanto que al final no quedó nada.

[sl8tersstuff]

I knew I loved you when I didn’t choose the window seat on the train to avoid your gaze.

I wanted to look at you instead.

[samxcamargo]

Book: Night Drives 🖤

[dreamgirlvibes]

Affirmations for “Self Love & Boundaries” in relationships:

I will not love anymore created versions of you in my head.

I will not take all the great moments and form it into a person thinking that when you intentionally hurt me, it is just a facade.

I no longer will carry the responsibility of showing grace to someone who keeps showing me who they are over and over again.

I will not tolerate anymore intentional abuse even if I love you till death.

I won’t change myself to help you dangerously control me in a way where I cannot be myself.

I will say no to everything I have to walk on eggshells for.

I will choose me. Every time. And when I say me- I mean my self respect, my boundaries, my standards and my love languages.

I will no longer accept the bare minimum fully understanding that the bare minimum is not congruent with grace.

I love me more than I will ever love anybody else. Period. Because without me- there is nothing.

[probablyintensemuses]

I need advice asap!

Im 21 years old and im a student in college. I work a coffee shop job. My boyfriend is 23 years old and works a full time job as a computer engineer for a company and makes 70k a year if not more. I’m considering breaking up with him, but before why, I’ll elaborate.

Me and my boyfriend live together.

His apartment burned down in late 2022, early 2023. Until he found a place he stayed with me and my family. When he got his place he asked me to move in on a few conditions: id cook and clean.

We have a dog. I handle most of everything for the dog except for maybe walking and play.

My boyfriend and I had a huge fight months ago, nearly a year ago, because when I wasn’t there, I was hanging with friends, he broke into my laptop and searched my messages and found old sexual messages between me and this girl and accused me of cheating. Yet he never broke up with me.

He hardly ever speaks to me and makes it seem like I’m an annoyance.

He doesn’t respect my boundaries and always pushes me

Now he wants me to quit my job and get a serving job so I can pay half the rent as well as my other expenses.

He wanted to visit his parent in Florida and drive using my car. Dealership said my wheels weren’t good and I needed them all replaced. He paid for it and told me I had to pay him back even thought I never asked. He drove my car down there and doesn’t pay shit on it! And is trying to do it again, but I said no this time.

He hardly interacts with my family.

He doesn’t help me financially but expects me to help him. The most she’s bought me is a few books and stuff. When I bought him a 1.2k dollar amp for his college graduation and I was broke, that came out my savings and it burnt in the fire.

I constantly bend over backwards for him and get hardly anything in return. I think our relationship has run its course I just have no idea what to do.

I just need advice I feel so stuck and stupid. Can anyone help me? Mg parents keep telling Me to come back home and finish school, save my money. But idk I’m afraid he’ll expose my sexuality to them cuz he said he would.

Two last things, this is more recent, my boyfriend is supposed to be going to Florida in a few days and I can’t afford to come —context it’s his brothers engagement party—I already expressed this. Not I mention it would be out 3rd anniversary while he is down there and he hasn’t said shit about it. Also instead of helping me he just sends me screenshots of flight costs and shit.

Another thing happened the other night. I got kind of drunk and was sitting on the couch. I wanted to talk to him and was begging for him to come talk to me and sit with me. And he got so annoyed and said he was tired and walked away and kept ignoring me even though I was calling for him. But had energy to play on the video game and laugh with friends and play with our dog not even an hour earlier. His response when i called him on that?

“I worked ten hours today. You didnt.”

Am I the asshole, what should I do?

[real-hot-grl-shi]

i miss having someone to love.

I wish i had someone to care about. I wish i had a person to call and talk for hours. I wish i had someone to take out. I wish i had someone to run in the rain with. I wish i had someone to kiss. I wish i had someone to hug. I wish i had someone to laugh with. I wish i had someone to cry with. I wish i had someone talk to. I wish i had someone to write poems for. I wish i had someone to watch our favorite shows together without feeling pressured to be somebody else around each other. I wish i had someone to understand my feelings as best as they can. I wish i could look at a couple and think of me and them right off the bat. I wish i had someone to see my rights and wrongs, and not just see one side about me. I wish i had someone to love on. I wish i could just go on a simple walk with somebody. I wish i could have someone see me for who i am.

I wish i had someone to love.

[ashlee-rae]

One day you will want to know how my hair looks

And if I still smell the same

You'll miss the crease of my smile

And the way my nose scrunches when I laugh

When you close your eyes and look into hers

You'll wish you were looking in mine

You'll miss the things I would say

And you'll tell old jokes I would tell

It stings your tongue because it doesn't feel the same

And those words you speak to her

Don't feel right when they're not for me

And so you'll try to talk to me

Because you didn't know you could miss me so much

You never thought there would be a day id walk

For good

And you wish upon a star

Just to hear my voice one last time

To feel my skin

And to remember what it was like to be young

And in love; together

But that will be the day

You finally don't get a reaction

Because I have already moved on

[abbuzad4]

[radiorebel23]

he’s a ten but he makes you carry him around in a backpack

[unapologeticmelancholy]

Found this amusing. This is an excerpt from one of the earliest recorded texts in human history: the Sumerian Instructions of Shuruppak, 2600 BC. Oh, how little we've changed!

Source: Black, J.A., Cunningham, G., Fluckiger-Hawker, E, Robson, E., and Zólyomi, G., The Electronic Text Corpus of Sumerian Literature (http://www-etcsl.orient.ox.ac.uk/), Oxford 1998- .

[manicmermaidmagic]

[feefymo]

Evan Peters has a girlfriend. At the risk of being redundant, I would also like to delve deeper into the issue and, perhaps, with opinions that are a little... borderline? In short, there is only one fact and it has been widely reiterated by the sane part of the fandom: it doesn't concern us. It's not healthy, it's not fair, it's not empathetic towards the people being targeted. They are human beings like us and those who feel hurt, betrayed (?!), in possession of who knows what right... cause pain to the aforementioned. It risks becoming a source of real difficulty within a couple who don't need this toxicity. I'm the first to be a little delusional and admit my "crush" for Evan Peters as such but my God, folks: please! How can this be the way to ease your suffering (and here I suspend any judgment)? Be dignified and stop spreading hate like confetti, what the fuck!

Okay. Bye. xoxo

[sl8tersstuff]

“I love you”

“It will pass”