#system

[r0ttingsystem]

Being a system is so weird like my mummy and daddy didn't like me so now I'm sans the skeleton

[fleshfictive]

NOT supportive to your system friends:

- "can you make [alter] front?"

- always asking who's fronting

- getting upset when they can't remember something

VERY supportive to your system friends:

- giving them money

- "here's $50 for you"

- relinquishing your money to them

- offering them money

[miice]

Common things in DID that no one likes to talk about

- switches that feel like you’re turning into someone else rather than them taking control (non-possessive switching)

- being unable to recognize amnesia until something requires you to remember something you forgot

- staying in the front for weeks at a time

- being unable to communicate with alters internally (this is so common why does everyone act like this is weird?)

- feeling like you don’t have any problems because you feel disconnected from them

- constant denial

- rapid identity, label, and appearance changes

- comorbidities, particularly personality disorders, anxiety disorders, and the schizophrenia spectrum

- autism (there is science pointing towards autistic people being more susceptible to trauma)

- disliking your system

- wanting final fusion

[candyrain-collective]

a comic about my experience with other people's perception of my DID/OSDD. might do more pages in the future? we'll see.

[umbravioletcia]

this is so me. We slosh between I and we all the time, wish we had a term to cue others in on the singular system 'we' and the 'we' of our system+ outsiders. Using 'I' sometimes doesn't feel right, i refers to an individual and we are always present even if we don't want to. To say 'I' to refer to us as the Parthy system is to deny our plurality. To deny our experience. We are a constantly singing chorus

It can be a bit difficult at times to explain how our weird little soupy subsystem exists and functions within our overall system, so to provide a bit of a visual aid, we made a quick... comic? Infographic? Whatever this is!

[thecreepycrawlersss]

being plural means a headmate pulling you into headspace to cuddle with you and help you go to sleep because of your& insomnia

being plural means smiling and laughing at a joke one of your headmates made, or having witty banter with them as you make a meal that you'll both be able to enjoy

being plural means a headmate going "its okay, you don't have to do this, i can do it" and you thanking them because yeah, you cant do that, and thats okay

being plural means thinking about your headmates when buying new clothes, or seeing a shirt or pair of pants for sale and going "they'd love that !!"

being plural means making one of your headmate's simplyplural profile, and spending lots of time perfecting it so that it fits them to a T

being plural means knowing you aren't alone

being plural means knowing that your headmates, your friends, your family, are always there for you

being plural means love.

THIS POST IS INCLUSIVE OF SYSTEMS OF ALL ORIGINS !!! DO NOT BRING SYSCOURSE ONTO THIS POST.

[antiendovents]

woof,, okay. Been a while since I been here and I just wanna, rant. Cause jesus Christ

I am not actually as mad as I usually am when I do this, but, like,, still. Sometimes I'm just,, reminded of how desperate endos are to get into systems spaces and I just... can't believe it. Like WHAT.

Like, these people will straight up ,, lie ,, about being pro endo and then will,, be surprised,, that when they join an ANTI ENDO safe space,, people there are anti endo?? And then they'll crash out and scream "I'm being harassed" when they're called out???

And like,, I dunno. This is just fucking crazy to me. Imagine being SO desperate to pretend to be disabled and that you literally lie your way into safe spaces for disabled people, try to gain a role of power in said safe space, and then lash out on members and staff of the safe space because,, you lied?? And because they don't support endos?? Even though you knew that from the fucking start?? Because it was literally in the rules?? And description?? I don't know,, endos are just sooo soo fucking dumb

(not to mention how predatory it is to be an endo, go into a space filled with people who are uncomfortable and even traumatized by endos, and then to attempt to try and gain power over a large amount of those people.. ew. I won't get into that now though)

[skeletonthecreator]

not only is the evil alter trope stupid and bad but it also just doesn't come close to capturing the true horrific realities of being a system, such as one of your headmates being a swiftie

[crypt-keeper-collective]

Shout out to the systems that went through a “I’m fiction kin, oh also im gender fluid, and.. sexuality fluid? My face looks weird but I’m just gonna ignore it. I just have a bad memory, it’s nothing. Why does my name not feel right anymore? I wish I could just wear wigs everyday.” Kind of phase

And all the systems that had a “I refuse to call myself anything other than fiction kin until further notice,OR EVER” phase

[amity-moonrise]

[drag-queen-trav]

Cough, the host, cough cough

the "cycle"

[oil-bh]

3am doodling to figure out 1x

[do not use without permission]

[martyrpolls]

Systems, plurals, multiples and more, do you ever notice alters ( or your equivalent ) showing signs of trauma or bad experiences you haven't been through?

[sysboxes]

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[elise-flaren]

lol real bro i hate when im forced into meditating

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