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[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd culture is making myself a yummy grilled cheese because i am awesome

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[slasherology]

BEING PUNK IS:

supporting all of the LGBTQ+ community (including mspec folks, intersex folks, lesboys, gaybians, transmascfem folks, afab transfems, ect)

supporting dissociative trauma survivors (this includes being anti endos/ableists, believing itbc* abuse is real, believing persecutors are NOT "evil")

supporting autistic people (this includes being supportive of stimming in public, being pro nonhuman identities, using tone tags when asked)

supporting kink pride (this includes non harmful paraphilias, "weird" kinks, being pro sex workers)

supporting all cluster-b disorders (this includes not viewing people with these disorders as "evil", not using terms like narc or yandere if you can't reclaim it)

* intentional torture based conditioning

[th1rdt3chnician]

who up hating pop psychology

[livingfictionsystem]

A lot of pop psychology gets thrown around and since I already have a headache, here's preventing you lot from making it worse.

Love-bombing: A manipulation tactic of increasing affection and grand gestures before or after doing something abusive, specifically to weasel one's way out of consequences.

What it is not: A streak of affection and generosity towards friends/loved ones.

Trauma-bonding: Knowingly traumatizing someone to take advantage of their vulnerable state, to then act like the "hero" or the one who cheers them up.

What it is not: Bonding over similar traumas.

Gaslighting: *Knowingly* convincing someone they cannot trust their own perception of a situation in pursuit of one's own narrative.

What it is not: Misaligned perception of events.

Narcissist: Someone afflicted with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a traumagenic cluster B disorder, that struggles with self-obsession, paranoia, craving validity from the public, delusions of grandeur, and social disconnection.

It is not: Your rubbish ex that cheated on you.

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

-Xanthe

[unbearable-swagger]

I will be like "I'm fine" and then another fucking event will occur

[solitaryschizoid]

neurotypicals will be like "you can't self diagnose" and then diagnose everyone they dislike as a narcissist

[autopsyfreak]

my anhedonia is eating me alive so i’m making these mental illness memes to cope

[underwhelmingalchemist]

*mom voice* You can get these words back when you know what they mean

[planesofdelusion]

What Narcissism Is:

holding yourself to extremely high standards (if I'm not perfect at it, I'm a failure)

being incredibly sensitive to criticism (becoming suicidal if you think someone thinks you're bad at something)

having a very brittle sense of self-worth that's heavily reliant on what others think of you

What Narcissism is Not:

being uniquely abusive

having no morals

being a bad person

ETA: this is not an exhaustive list of NPD traits! more traits than these are necessary to have NPD! I chose these particular features to emphasize things that aren't often talked about outside of dedicated NPD communities and to highlight the fact that NPD is a disorder based in the internalized fear that you are never good enough.

[finnslay]

A little reminder that the "scary" neurodivergents belong in the community too. The ones with intrusive thoughts. The ones who seem self-centered.

The people with ocd, bpd, npd. Stuff like that. They belong here too.

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd culture is wanting to be diagnosed with as much disorders as i can. yes i have npd yes im depressed yes i have a panic disorder yes im schizospec yes i have aspd yes i have gender dysphoria yes i have so many things wrong with me!! cuz im special! im unique! die!

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[hisenemy]

An hour of chaos in my mind before back to nothingness 💖

[vinvmei]

"let's not be ableist!", "every mental illness should be respected" and "using slurs, especially ones that based on illnesses is wrong!" people after they call every abusive and evil person they met "narcissist", "psychopath" and "sociopath":😂👍

[chronicallyqueercoining2]

"We need more mental health acceptance and awareness!" Y'all still call ppl with cluster b disorders evil 💀

"We need more weird people!" Y'all COMBUST when someone is xenic 💀

"Healthy coping mechanisms are important!" When someone age regresses, you call them creepy 😭

"More people need to be proud of who they are!" When you see a furry, you cry 😭

(U should totes follow me if ur a supporter of these so I can b on the good side of tumblr XD /nf!)