#narc abuse does not exist

[a-sip-of-milo]

It's always infuriated me hearing people say that children have it easy. It's only gotten worse as I've gotten older and have been able to reflect on my childhood and see the children around me grow up.

They do not have it easy. They don't get a say in most important things. They're seen is unintelligent, yet expected to understand things that full grown adults struggle with.

They've got a job, which is school, that is actually proven to not be working for a lot of them; myself included. They're expected to sit still and in silence for at least forty minutes at a time, and those with ADHD are treated as though they're immature and lazy because they often physically can't do it.

Far too many of them have abusive parents that lie through their teeth to make people think everything is fine, and of course, who would believe the child over the parent?

Aspects of abuse has been normalised. Parents are sympathised with when children open up about the things they've gone through, especially if they're not physical. They're told that their parents are only doing this because they love them, or that the child needs to start seeing things from their point of view. Meanwhile, adults can freely complain about their children on public forums and to friends and family and get away with it because "it's hard being a parent".

Fuck off and do better.

DNI Believers of narcissistic/borderline/anti-social/histrionic abuse.

[witch-of-the-creek]

Reblog to kiss a narcissist on the forehead

[imagoodone-iswear]

and now for the people in the back:

NARCISSISTIC ABUSE DOESN'T EXIST!

WHAT YOU MEAN TO SAY IS EMOTIONAL ABUSE!

STOP DEMONIZING AN ENTIRE GROUP OF PEOPLE (thats a TON of ppl btw) WHO HAVE NO FAULT OF THEIR OWN IN DEVELOPING A DISORDER CAUSED BY ABUSE AND TRAUMA IN AND OF ITSELF!

YOU ARE ONLY DOWNPLAYING AND DISBELIEVING EMOTIONAL ABUSE WHEN ITS JUST AS TRAUMATIZING AS ANYTHING ELSE!

if you use 'narcissistic abuse' as a legitimate category then you also have to acknowledge 'autistic abuse'! you cant use one but then discard everything else because suddenly "that doesnt exist"!

you want to be the good guys? then maybe stop demonizing people who also just have a disorder. im not excusing harmful behaviour or trauma, we all make mistakes, even egotypicals. what i want is for you to stop grouping in every bad experience or interaction with us!

try to understand and help, not demonize. mocking, triggering and putting down narcissists for their symptoms or disorder will never move anyone to get help!

[lemony-ink]

If you believe in narc-abuse or NPD abuse, block me. I do not want ableists on my dash.

[lunarghoulette]

the imo/npd creature.... love this thang

imo doesn't have a crown, i just thought it fit because i (a pwnpd) have delusions of grandeur as many of us do

[only-man-in-the-sky]

[cyrusclouds]

happy narc abuse awareness day!!

friendly reminder that narc/narcissistic abuse isn't a real thing. narcissistic personality disorder is a real disorder that real people have, and a vast majority of those people are not abusers and never will be. to imply that narc abuse is real is to imply that the person abused you because they have npd, which is an untrue and ableist statement. a person does not abuse because they have a disorder, they do not abuse because they have trauma, they do not abuse because they are in a bad place mentally. a person abuses because they are an abusive person who needs to work on themselves.

people with npd are not abusers.

-fellow cluster b personality disorder haver

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

"Guys don't worry, we're not targeting pwNPD! All cluster b personality disorders are abusive!"

i think i should be allowed to hunt egotypicals for sport

[expressionless-fr]

Remembered some narc abuse truther said something in the lines of... "if you're selfaware and know what's good and wrong it's not about you ily, you deserve love"

and.. do you realize that's still ableist right. do you realize people who aren't selfaware deserve love, human rights, choices, etc right? do you

you realize you're not being "progressive" by saying such, right?

[ur-all-fucking-idiots]

AHHHHHHH TRYING TO SEARCH LITERARY ANYTHING ABT NPD IS SO FUCKING ANNOYINGGGGGG

'Do you need help recovering from a narcissistic relationship 🥺🥺🥺? Here's a therapist!'

SHUT UUUUPPPPPPP. MY FUCKING GOD ITS ON ALL OF THE SITES I FOUND I AM LOSING MY MIND

[a-sip-of-milo]

[throwmetothefaes]

"i was abused by a narcissist" no you were abused by a person stop dehumanizing your abuser you fucking ableist ass

(if you say im policing language of the abused good because ppl shouldnt get to be ableist just because they fucking got abused)

ugh

[witch-of-the-creek]

After that post that was going around yesterday about how to ‘banish a narcissist,’ I think this needs to be said

If you think narcissist is just another term you can use for self-centered abuser, or stars forbid use the term narc abuse, then get away from me. Unfollow me. Block me.

Narcissism is a personality disorder. A real actual medical issue.

The amount of stigma people with npd face is killing these people. Stigma that use of the word narcissistic in place of abusive or self centered is actively contributing to.

Anyone with any disorder or disability or illness can be an abuser, but you don’t see people going around saying terms like ‘anxious abuse’ or ‘adhd abuse’ even when anxiety can cause someone to lash out and hurt others and adhd can cause inattentive neglect

You can just say abuse. You can say self centered.

Do not throw people with npd under the bus. Do not use your trauma to justify ableism and sanism.

[im-so-not-fine-man]

narc abuse but in the sense that pwnpd are the ones being abused.

[empath-abuse-awareness]

Narcissists are so beautiful and handsome and wonderful, they deserve to be proud for all that they have survived especially with such a distressing disorder

[liyahwild]

everytime i hear my egotypical mother refer to my father as a narcissist i mentally regurgitate. like no, don't put him in kahoots with my fabulous people?!