#histrionic

[starfilled-galaxy]

We need an actual tag for HPD ONLY, not umbrella cluster b stuff, an actual HPD tag, cuz even the actually HPD tag is taken over by general cluster b posts

[raincamp]

its so humiliating having to admit to people that sometimes my only motivation for doing something is for validation or attention

[0pooleart]

I'm going to be making a music video all by myself

Coming soon or not soon I'm not sure

[ersatz-introspective]

this bitch collects cluster b's like pokémon who let him cook‼️‼️

[epick-cluster-b-blog]

they should make a forum or something for pwHPD and pwNPD to post their works or their selfies and the only replies allowed are compliments. not empty compliments either, they have to be genuine or specific compliments and praises. for ppl who are writhing in pain from not getting enough attention or praise

[tumbler-polls]

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Submitted by @anon.

[hlstrionics]

꒰ྀི HISTRILIX

Histrilix: An HPD experience in which it affects how you show affection, bonds, and feelings in general. It may feel superficial, inconsistent, disconected, or generally different to the way people without hpd experience these things, and may cause issues with forming relationships or bonds.

It may or may not be considered part of one's orientation, and it may be arospec, aspec or aplatonic, depending on the person using the term.

This is an HPD version of Anisolix, colors inspired by this HPD flag

[honestlyhistrionic]

HPD seeking / withdrawing

I've been going back and forth on coining some terms like these, but I figured I'd give it a shot!

These terms describe two sides of the histrionic experience. The first, seeking, refers to a period where a person with HPD needs more attention than they usually need. They may be more prone to acting out to get that attention, and they likely will feel more distressed than usual when they don't get the attention they need.

The second, withdrawing, refers to a period where a person with HPD pulls away from others. They might delete social media, unfriend people, skip plans, ignore messages, not leave the house, etc.

Both experiences can be related to feeling ashamed or criticized. Some histrionics will be more likely to react to shame with seeking, and others may be more likely to react with withdrawing. They can also be unrelated to shame; some histrionics may find they end up seeking or withdrawing with seemingly no cause.

These terms are exclusive to people with HPD or HPD traits.

[lithiis]

not to brag but i have a friend who gives me attention when i explicitly express i need it and understands that im cluster b and actively cares for me with it

[kiruliom]

ah the vicious cycle of "I feel like I dont have a place in the real world so Im spending most of my social energy daydreaming" but that leads to me losing my place even more in the real world

[dodgeryy]

Anyone with personality disorders willing to share difficulties in relationships/intimate connections?? Asks, comments, rbs??

-Cluster b (borderline) trying to get to know more about the other clusters and PDs because you never really understand until you talk w em I find.

For me personally the main trigger is just fear of abandonment and emotional permanency. Which literally categorizes bpd but idk if other clusters are as interpersonally defined and recognizable as b???

You're all valid! This is a safe space correct me if I said anything wrong.

[mechanicalmonarchbutterfly]

Surviving is all you owe yourself.

You are here, so you survived.

You are here, so you can survive.

You are here, so you will survive.

You are here. You are a survivor.

All you need to do is survive.

[daffythefox]

i hate how all the posts on the histrionic tag are like. posts that mention every pd. can i have some stuff about just hpd for once.

[epick-cluster-b-blog]

manifesting that every histrionic reading this gets showered with love and attention forever and ever

[jeanjaquesrousseou]

The B of Cluster B stands for BITCH PLEASE LISTEN TO ME

[hlstrionics]

꒰ྀི HISTRIOPLATONIC

an aplatonic spectrum term which can be used to signify "abnormal" perceptions of platonic relationships that can be seen in those with HPD

this is inspired by antiplatonic by @aspdboyfriend and can serve as an HPD version of antiplatonic, the symbol is by ratbastardz