#“you” meaning anti-transids

[philialov3r]

ᴸⁱᵏᵉ ⁱᵗ ᵒʳ ⁿᵒᵗ, ᵇᵘᵗ ᵗʳᵃⁿˢⁱᵈˢ ᵍᵉⁿᵘⁱⁿᵉˡʸ ʰᵉˡᵖ ᵖᵉᵒᵖˡᵉ ᵘⁿᵈᵉʳˢᵗᵃⁿᵈ ʷʰᵒ ᵗʰᵉʸ ᵃʳᵉ ᵃⁿᵈ ʰᵉˡᵖ ᵗʰᵉᵐ ᶠᵉᵉˡ ᶜᵒᵐᶠᵒʳᵗᵃᵇˡᵉ ʷⁱᵗʰ ᵗʰᵉᵐˢᵉˡᵛᵉˢ. ᵀʳʸⁱⁿᵍ ᵗᵒ ᵗᵃᵏᵉ ᵗʰᵃᵗ ᵃʷᵃʸ ᵒʳ ᵇᵘˡˡʸ ᵗʳᵃⁿˢⁱᵈ ᵘˢᵉʳˢ ᶠᵒʳ ⁱᵗ ʷⁱˡˡ ᵒⁿˡʸ ᶜᵃᵘˢᵉ ᵐᵒʳᵉ ʰᵃʳᵐ ᵗʰᵃⁿ ᵍᵒᵒᵈ ᵃⁿᵈ ⁱᵗ ʷⁱˡˡ ᵇⁱᵗ ʸᵒᵘ ⁱⁿ ᵗʰᵉ ᵃˢˢ ˢᵒᵐᵉ ᵈᵃʸ

[vinecoveredgarden]

BTW You don't owe anyone interaction.

Racist being rude? Block em!

Transphobe ignoring reality and being really sexist? Block em!

Homophobe being generally unpleasant? Block em!

Anti being really obviously wrong? Block em!

Troll being a troll? You guessed it - block em!

[sourisking]

some people just don't give a shit about discourse, some dont have the mental energy to, and you know, you can't have a fucking opinion on everything thats happening in the world

I have low energy as well. Doesn’t mean I don’t have opinions on the shit I’m educated on. If you actually refuse to have an opinion on something you actually know about you fucking suck. It’s not hard to have the opinion that kids can’t consent or that genocide is bad or even people shouldn’t be hurt for their gender.

I’m not asking people to give input I’m asking them to give a shit. You don’t have to be involved in discourse to have an opinion, you moron.

[vampire-nyx]

Insane every time I see a post that’s like

Come check out my server! It’s 🌈✨para friendly✨🌈!*

*ONLY IF YOU SUFFICIENTLY HATE YOURSELF. RADQUEERS AND PARAPHILES THAT THINK YOU DONT NEED INTENSIVE THERAPY TO CURE YOUR PARAPHILIAS ARE NOT ALLOWED!!!!!

[obsessivefangirl]

It's really funny to me when republican queer pick mes get rejected and kicked for being gay. Don't get me wrong it's deplorable what they do to their gay "friends" but you joined their side to harass, silence, and discriminate against queer people but you never thought even for a second that they didn't care about you either?

Same vibe

[dollswan]

" Transabled ppl only want to transition to invade disabled spaces " = " Trans woman only want to transition to invade women ' s spaces "

" Transrace ppl will never understand what it means to be [ race ] " = " Trans men will never understand what it means to be a man "

" TransIDs are ridiculous , you can ' t transition to [ insert thing ] " = " Xenogenders are ridiculous , you can ' t transition to [ insert xenogender ] "

" You can ' t just transition to being a different race . You will always be [ bodily race ] " = " You can ' t just transition to being a different gender . You will always be [ AGAB ] "

" Autistic ppl will never accept transautistic ppl into their safe spaces " = " Women will never accept trans woman into their safe spaces "

The list goes on and on and on and on , honestly . Transid antis , please stop using transphobe rhetoric , I beg of you . Come up with something NEW instead of spitting up things that transphobes say on a regular basis .

From what I have seen , a lot of antis who publicly say these things are not cis themselves . So , it makes so sense to spew the ideals that their oppressors would spew at them if given the chance .

[inuette]

Official (Anti) RQ Archive

[PT: Official (Anti) Radqueer Archive. END PT. ]

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Anti-RQ Terms/Flags

'PRAT' meaning

'Fluffy Para'

'Arissomei'/'Arissodic'

'Atypical Dysphoria Awareness' (Creator Boundary)

Reclaimed Transage, Transracial (Adoptee), Transspecies and Transabled Flags

Reclaimed Transabled Flag 2 + Symbol

BIID Flag + Symbol

Parahealth

RQ Terms/Flags

'Faux Cult'/'Fult' and Flags

Xenoanarchism

Other Terms

Doc

PSAs

Radparas

'Kandiqueer'

'Xenosatanism' and Xenosatanist Flags

'@//sophieinwonderland'

The Angel's Web "Fult"

'Not All Radqueers'

Initial 'Fult' PSA

"The Ezra Files" (Content/Trigger Warning: (Pro-C) Pedophilia, Incest, Bestiality, Zoosadism, Toddler/Baby Abuse, Grooming, CSEM Trading, Rape, Abduction, Admissions Of CSA, Admissions Of Incest, Admissions Of Bestiality…)

TransN*zi Symbols

Other Resources

What IS A Radqueer? Why Are They Bad?

RQ Original Coining Info

RQs are a Cult

RQs and Stochastic Terrorism

The Insult of 'Cisdisabled'

BIID and RQ Grooming

RQ '2024 Calendar'

Talk of Atypical Dysphoria

WHY Misuse of Transrace and the term 'Trace' are Bad

Talk of "Transautism"/being "Transautistic"

You Cannot 'Coin' A Medical Disorder/Talk of "MUDs"

Intrusive Thoughts About =/= Actually Believing in Them

'I have intrusive thoughts about ...' isn't a 'Valid' Excuse

Transitioning When It Comes To TransIDs and TransX Identities

Transethnic People Aren't Valid (Focuses on East Asians & Koreans)

There Are Better Ways to Cope with Atypical Dysphoria

Why Arissomei/Arissodic is its Own Term

Racial Hierarchy and Being "Trace"/"Transracial"

Blackface is Blackface — Your "Intent" Doesn't Matter

Alternative (Non-TERF Rhetoric) Anti-Radqueer Arguments

Suibaiting Radqueers ISN'T Okay

If You're Thinking of Leaving the RQ Community

'Cracker' is Not a Slur

Suibaiting RQs isn't Welcome Here

Radinclus does NOT Mean Radqueer

Misusage of Languages in RQ Spaces

How-To's

Reporting a RQ for Inciting Violence

(Fighting Against) RQs Rebranding Terms as 'RQ Terms'

Coping with Atypical Dysphoria

Getting Out and Staying Out Of the Community

General Tips

Reaffirmation

Reaffirmation of Why RQs are Bad (TWs included in the post)

BIID (Body Integrity Identity Disorder) =/= Radqueer (Affirmation)

[buntress]

⌖ What Is Non-Harmful Transitioning?

[PT :: What is non-harmful transitioning?]

As the term Desirdae has become more popular, a thing I have noticed is people not understanding what "non-harmful transitioning" means. Which is quite fair! It's a very, very vague term that can be used in a multitude of ways. So, in order to curb this slightly, I feel it necessary to elaborate on what, to me at least, non-harmful transitioning entails. If the original coiner, @ghosting-plural-userboxes or @desirdae-archive would like to add anything I would love that! Ty for making this term btw, it's been genuinely so helpful <3

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⌖ What is harmful transitioning?

[PT :: What is harmful transitioning]

I think in order to get into what non-harmful transitioning is, we should first get into what qualifies as harmful transitioning. So, to me, harmful transitioning is as follows ::

Transitioning by using methods of self harm, such as cutting, burning, bleaching ones skin, etc.

Transitioning by harming others, whether physically, emotionally, or spiritually // metaphysically.

Transitioning by putting yourself in traumatic situations, such as putting oneself in a situation to be groomed, assaulted, physically or emotionally harmed, etc.

Transitioning to have a disorder // disability one does not have, such as harming oneself in order to acquire a physical disability or enacting stereotypical behaviors to "act" as if they have a certain mental illness or disability.

Transitioning in a way that harms minorities of all kinds. Such as using blackface, yellowface, asianfishing, etc in order to "transition" towards different POC identities.

Transitioning to hateful and bigoted ideologiess that harm others.

Simply put, transitioning in a way that actively harms yourself or others is harmful transitioning.

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⌖ So, what is non-harmful transitioning?

[PT :: So, what is non-harmful transitioning?]

Having gotten some basics of what counts as harmful transitioning out of the way, let's get onto examples of non-harmful transitioning!

Dyeing ones hair as a form of transition.

Partaking in more foods of a specific culture in order to feel more comfortable, while acknowledging one is not part of that culture (this enters a grey area with headmates, as not everything is black and white)

Accepting ones disabled traits, that they already have, and learning that no matter how they experience it, it is enough.

Learning more about cultures in order to feel more comfortable with yourself, while still acknowledging you are not a part of that culture. (Again, gets muddy when it comes to headmates)

Getting piercings, body modifications, etc done by professionals as a form of transition.

Starting HRT or other forms of medical transitioning.

Getting cosmetic surgeries (nothing that would change the appearance of your own race, of course) done by professionals as a form of transition.

And likely many other ways to do it that aren't harmful! There are really, truly, so many ways to go about this that aren't harmful I promise you. I can think of an infinite number of ways to do this stuff non-harmfully.

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⌖ What makes Desirdae different from TransID?

[PT :: What makes Desirdae different from TransID?]

Simply the means of which one may transition. Desirdae is firmly anti-harmful transitioning for any reason while TransID is pro all forms of transition, harmful or not. You can see this in terms like transnazi, transrace, transplural, and many transharmful identities that it is often encouraged to transition into these things, despite the harm such things do. Desirdae, on the other hand, actively discourages harmful transitioning. So while things like Desirharmful, Desirskintone, etc do exist it is actively said by the creators that one should not harmfully transition into these terms. I will say, many do not make it clear that for some terms there is no way to non-harmfully transition*. But I chock this up to people being, rightfully, tired of constantly having to explain their experience with this term isn't inherently harmful. But it is still an issue I believe should be fixed when possible. * [PT :: there is no way to non-harmfully transition]

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I understand the worries many have towards Desirdae. We do not want just another TransID clone to take over and create yet another space full of radqueers who push for things like legalization of non-consensual relationships or what have you. That is a fair worry to have, and it was a worry I initially had as well. But in exploring these terms and the community that they have fostered, I have found that this is quite the opposite. It is a community based purely on consent, recovery, and a safe space for people to speak on their issues where as radqueer and transID often push anti-recovery and anti-consent rhetoric. This is the key difference between these two terms, I believe. One feeds into harmful behaviors and seemingly pushes people to the worst versions of themselves while the other is more of a "hey, I understand these feelings, I feel this way too, it's not OK but we can recover together."

If I missed anything, am incorrect about something, or if one has questions I myself am more than happy to answer. While this is not a term and community I created, it is one I am happy to be a part of and want to grow into something helpful.

Thank you for reading, I hope you all have a lovely day. Remember to be kind, anger towards fellow mentally ill queers does nothing but push the agenda of the oppressors <3

[the-hadal-zone-sys]

Oh btw if you say you support introjects but are weird about factives of bad people you actually don't support introjects thanks for coming to my ted talk.

Edit from Jonathon: I can't believe I have to add this, but this post was made by a mixed origins system and is NOT intended for anti-endos. Supporting systems means supporting all systems, I would think that should be obvious.

Edit #2 from Cloud: we are anti transid and VERY anti contact for harmful paras, RQs please stop interacting with this post, it's not for you.

[cannibalsmayhem]

Transage symbolism.

orange - beings who are older than their time lived yellow - nonlinear and otherwise non-traditional age identities white - opposition to oppression and systems that perpetuate it, including capitalism, gatekeeping, and things like ageism and age norms pink - beings that are younger than their time lived purple - ageflux and agefluidity

(flag meaning).

Jellyfish mascot.

The first flag became the most widely known and recognized transage flag. Some transage people consider it to be too similar to the sunset lesbian pride flag and find this similarity unfortunate.An alternative flag was made in August of 2022 by a transage activist (Laura).

According to her design, the gold color symbolizes older ages (autumn and summer), green stands for younger ages (spring), and white means agelessness and transition. This flag did not become as popular as the other one, but the jellyfish mascot she added to it gained more recognition.

Moon symbol system.

The base of the symbol is a hourglass flipped to the side, symbolizing break of the usual flow of time or a transitional period. In two parts of the hourglass are moons in various phases, the one on the left ("from") denoting the person's chronological age, and the one(s) on the right ("to") denoting their intra age.

The moon phases from waxing crescent to waning crescent symbolize age ranges from nepio to geronto, and new moon symbolizes agelessness, or not stating one's age. Partial lunar eclipse (moon lit from below, in grey) symbolizes unusual age experiences. Black and white moon softly lit from the right side stands for the concept of "younger", and one lit from the left side stands for the concept of "older". Moons can be overlaid with various symbols to convey nuances, such as a paw to convey age in dog years, or an infinity symbol to denote infinite age.

Cloud symbol system.

The cloud symbol system was created in May of 2022 by the Treehouse System and was illustrated by Pappy. Each cloud represents an age-alignment of being OtY, YtO, ageless, and any combination of the three, as well as a separate cloud for those who are outside of age norms. Each term is based around different types of clouds.

Cumulian: Older-to-younger (OtY)

Cirrian: Younger-to-older (YtO)

Stratian: Ageless

Cirrocumulian: Both OtY and YtO

Cirrostratian: Both YtO and ageless

Stratocumulian: Both OtY and ageless

Nimbian: OtY, YtO, and ageless

Nebulian: Outside of the age binary

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[rudolphs-silver-hammer]

every single anti-transid argument is either rooted from anti-transgender arguments or misinformation btw

"trace is racist because trace beings will never have the experiences of the race they want to be!"

terfs say things like this about trans women, which already makes it a bad argument. people saying this also almost always assume that all trace people are physically white which... isn't true

"transid is a bad term because it's copying transgender!"

transgender is not the only word with the prefix "trans". there's transfusion, transformation, transplant, transparent, et cetera et cetera. "trans" as a prefix just means "to/on the other side of"

"transids are stupid because you can't transition to another race/having a disability/etc.!"

not only is this transmed rhetoric (implying you have to transition to be trans), it's also just simply incorrect. a large portion of disabilities, for example, are developed and not present at birth. you can go blind or deaf, you can get amputated, you can become paralyzed—you get the point.

no transabled person wants the bad parts of disabilities, they just want the quirky symptoms!

not true. i've seen several transabled and transseverity beings talking about how they were excited because they're showing negative symptoms/their negative symptoms are worsening. even for the beings where this Is true... most cisdisabled beings don't care for their negative symptoms either, but i don't see people getting mad at cisdisabled beings who say they wouldn't get rid of their disabilities even if given the chance

um, well, the transid term is still bad because it's pro harmful transitioning

ignoring the fact that you can transition with every single non-transharmful transid in a non-harmful way, this is still incorrect. although most pro-transid beings are pro-transition, transid as a term Itself is inherently neutral on all types of transitioning. you can be pro-transid and still anti-transitioning

if your only arguments are repackaged transphobia and literal lies, that means you're the one in the wrong

[gutsondisplay]

"go tell your parents that your transID!"

My mother just admitted she wish she was thai, not to mention she already knows I'm in this community

"go to a therapist!"

I have one, they see nothing wrong with how I identify nor are they concerned about my para's

"no one irl would be your friend"

I would argue I have too many friends, and yes they know I'm transID + my para's (and they aren't even radqueer)

"well what about your partners huh?"

My partners are also radqueer / adjacent, also have para's, and transIDs

"go touch grass!"

Oh go outside? Like this?

"you just wanna fetishize minorities!"

Oh no, I am *bodily* a minority. I am Jewish, black, and I am disabled

That's a metal bar and screw in my leg, that will never come out and it's the only way I can walk, it hurts like a bitch daily

"you wanna minimize harm!"

I come from a family who was jewish in Poland during WW2, and I myself was trafficked when I was younger. I out of anyone don't wanna minimize harm, I want people to understand what harm is and give autonomy to everyone, and autonomy sometimes means letting people hurt themselves if they really want that, they understand what they want more than you do.

"You wanna hurt others!"

You cannot prove a negative, only a positive, come back to me about the harm I specifically caused when you get proof.

So, any anti stalking, I encourage you to give me a genuine argument for your side

[bupsafr3ak]

Vampqueer / gothqueer

Vampqueer is a term for vampkin/transvampire rad/satisqueers and/or goth rad/satisqueers! You cannot use this term if you are politically right-wing or similar, to use it you must be center, left or radical left.

Originally this term was cited by an anti, which was for anti-para and anti-transid queers, but I decided to claim it to our community. I made a new flag from scratch and gave it a new meaning! (The term was a created few days ago so it’s little known, let’s make the new meaning more famous!)

[rwuffles]

very firm reminder:

even if you use or want a term for something, it may not always be appropriate.

pt: even if you use or want a term for something, it may not always be appropriate. end pt.

identifying as dissoimmoral or desirharmful / desirharmed terms is fine. i understand the atypical dysphoria — trust me — but publicly displaying them on your account either: 1.) disrespectful and / or downright offensive, or 2.) puts you at risk of becoming a victim as you are publicly stating the want / desire to be hurt in some manner.

that's part of the issue in identifying with transids; those of us who are anti-radqueer can all agree on the issues behind identifying as transnazi or transharmful terms overall. they trivialize & minimize the actual effects of these actions. you're also actively establishing your status as "i can be a victim" by publicly listing things as desirvictim, transtrauma, and similar terms on your rentries or pronouns.cc or whatever you decide to put them on!

some things do not need to be shared on the internet. i think a lot of you need to relearn what the fuck "internet safety" is and means.

this doesn't mean you can't keep track of these things. no, i keep track of them — i do so on private google docs that i only share to my safe people. if you have memory issues and want to remember these things, i get it; if you like having every part of your identity mapped out, i get it; if you like just having it for your own convenience, i get it!

but listing that shit, in public, where anyone & everyone has access to it is actively putting yourself at risk.. do the smart thing.

[thedigitalwave]

Seeing that bitchy crosstagger saying "hey antis 🥺 dont worry those filtht radqueers will never be accepted into society!!" Is just. Well. Telling, raw and gross.

You know, it's really really fucking strange to me that people genuinely say out loud that a group majorly composed by minorities trying to be themselves will never be accepted into normal society. What is normal society? Your everyone-stays-the-same, divide-all-into-distinct-groups, never-let-mental-illness-be-normal society? Cause that's not normal to me. That's fascist.

I know I'm saying a big word there. I don't mean it in the "all antis are secretly alt-right" way. I mean "all antis are explicitly conservative in some way", though.

How can you propose us the idea that everything needs to stay the same, never progress, that minorities need to stay minorities and privileged people need to stay privileged, that certain people should stay in the shadows, and not be conservative?

By saying transid-identifying people should never transition, you're saying that. By saying paraphiles should never be accepted, you're saying that.

I hope you realize what you're doing now. This isn't protecting anyone. This is maintaining the status quo.