#pro paraphilia

[pearapeachfuzz]

Why should I not be proud of who I am, if who I am isn't hurting anyone?

[nyannyannyanx3]

"I love okegom. DNI boyfriend to death and TCOAAL fans"

"I love yaoi. DNI fujoshis"

"I love RPF/toxic yaoi/doomed yuri/selfcest/selfshipping. DNI proshippers"

"I love mentally ill people. DNI if paraphile or paraphilic disordered"

do you hear yourself?

[rights4allmeansall]

facts about pedophilia:

-up to 5% of males are attracted to minors

-up to 4% of females are attracted to minors

-up to 5% of all people are estimated to have pedophilia

-66% are minors when they discover their attractions

-most know between the ages of 12 & 16 so the average age is 14

-over 1 in 3 experience suicidal thoughts

-the most common age they first attempt suicide is 14

-"map" (minor-attracted person) is an umbrella term that was popularized by mental health experts

-36% have never told any non-map in their personal life about their attractions

-35% of primary care providers get at least 1 disclosure of minor attractions

-thought suppression is counterproductive

-stigma causes increased isolation & mental disorders

-pedophilia is not a mental disorder

-minor attractions are not illegal

-peer support for maps is promoted by experts

-up to 85% of maps never offend

-maps can have long-term romantic & sexual relationships with adults

-estimates suggest that as low as 25% of all child sexual abusers are maps, while the other 75% abuse for power & control

-experts warn that conflating maps with abusers could increase rates of sexual abuse

-anti-predator vigilantes cause increased abuse

-predator hunters cause suicides & make prosecuting abusers harder

-law enforcement agencies oppose anti-predator vigilantism

-false reports of csam make it harder for real abusive content to be identified

-minor attractions function like peer attractions

-experts consider pedophilia an age-based sexual orientation

-experts consider minor attractions to be queer identities

-there is no mainstream effort to include minor attractions in the lgbtq community

-conversion therapy for maps is harmful & ineffective

-treatment programs that imply maps need help to not offend are counterproductive

-anti-map stigma enables abuse

-stigma can increase a map's risk of offending

-therapy for maps should be centered around self-acceptance

-most maps are interested in seeking professional support

-maps face numerous barriers when seeking professional support

-stigma prevents maps from seeking therapy

-24% of mental health professionals would report a map who had never offended & did not want to

-some maps seek professional support for reasons unrelated to their attractions

-maps are as capable of self-control as non-maps

-non-offending maps have a higher level of empathy for children than non-maps

-maps who interact with children are less likely to view sex with children as acceptable

-maps tend to talk about consent more than non-maps

-child protection & mental health experts support map activism

-the map community has led the effort to make support for maps more widely available

that’s probably enough. let me know if there’s another paraphilia or any other thing i should do this for! :)

[animal-creature]

If any transid or para needs to hear this,

You will be alright.

You will be safe, you will be comfortable, you will be free, you will be happy.

We will be accepted. It's inevitable. We're making progress day by day. Our communities grow rapidly, people who were once skeptical change their minds and become accepting.

You will survive, and you will live.

Please keep going on.

There's always someone fighting for you.

[numbercestt]

Im sorry but accounts like this one are so stupid

Like, ok, you hate pedophiles. Thanks for letting we know but honestly, you putting a flag behind a random character is not gonna change anything.

Actual pedophiles definitely are not caring about that lol

[inuette]

Official (Anti) RQ Archive

[PT: Official (Anti) Radqueer Archive. END PT. ]

　Last Updated (DD/MM/YY): 08/01/24. This archive will be updated over time, so make sure to check back regularly if you can! If you have anxiety regarding opening links, no worries! All these posts are archived under our "archived" & resources tags.

Anti-RQ Terms/Flags

'PRAT' meaning

'Fluffy Para'

'Arissomei'/'Arissodic'

'Atypical Dysphoria Awareness' (Creator Boundary)

Reclaimed Transage, Transracial (Adoptee), Transspecies and Transabled Flags

Reclaimed Transabled Flag 2 + Symbol

BIID Flag + Symbol

Parahealth

RQ Terms/Flags

'Faux Cult'/'Fult' and Flags

Xenoanarchism

Other Terms

Doc

PSAs

Radparas

'Kandiqueer'

'Xenosatanism' and Xenosatanist Flags

'@//sophieinwonderland'

The Angel's Web "Fult"

'Not All Radqueers'

Initial 'Fult' PSA

"The Ezra Files" (Content/Trigger Warning: (Pro-C) Pedophilia, Incest, Bestiality, Zoosadism, Toddler/Baby Abuse, Grooming, CSEM Trading, Rape, Abduction, Admissions Of CSA, Admissions Of Incest, Admissions Of Bestiality…)

TransN*zi Symbols

Other Resources

What IS A Radqueer? Why Are They Bad?

RQ Original Coining Info

RQs are a Cult

RQs and Stochastic Terrorism

The Insult of 'Cisdisabled'

BIID and RQ Grooming

RQ '2024 Calendar'

Talk of Atypical Dysphoria

WHY Misuse of Transrace and the term 'Trace' are Bad

Talk of "Transautism"/being "Transautistic"

You Cannot 'Coin' A Medical Disorder/Talk of "MUDs"

Intrusive Thoughts About =/= Actually Believing in Them

'I have intrusive thoughts about ...' isn't a 'Valid' Excuse

Transitioning When It Comes To TransIDs and TransX Identities

Transethnic People Aren't Valid (Focuses on East Asians & Koreans)

There Are Better Ways to Cope with Atypical Dysphoria

Why Arissomei/Arissodic is its Own Term

Racial Hierarchy and Being "Trace"/"Transracial"

Blackface is Blackface — Your "Intent" Doesn't Matter

Alternative (Non-TERF Rhetoric) Anti-Radqueer Arguments

Suibaiting Radqueers ISN'T Okay

If You're Thinking of Leaving the RQ Community

'Cracker' is Not a Slur

Suibaiting RQs isn't Welcome Here

Radinclus does NOT Mean Radqueer

Misusage of Languages in RQ Spaces

How-To's

Reporting a RQ for Inciting Violence

(Fighting Against) RQs Rebranding Terms as 'RQ Terms'

Coping with Atypical Dysphoria

Getting Out and Staying Out Of the Community

General Tips

Reaffirmation

Reaffirmation of Why RQs are Bad (TWs included in the post)

BIID (Body Integrity Identity Disorder) =/= Radqueer (Affirmation)

[muzzled-dog-001]

I still can't believe the rq community is so hated on, this place genuinely has been one of the nicest communities I've been in- like, everyone here is simply so respectful and genuinely supportive,,

[hazard-consent]

hazard consent ⚠️🔐

A flag and emoji code for the hazard consent(link) stance.

Emoji code: ⚠️🔐

Hazard consent is for

Explicit and informed consent

Harm reduction, and understand the difference between hurt and harm

Non-offenders and recovering offenders, paraphilic disorders, moral OCD and intrusive thoughts, and those who want to participate in harmless contact

Acceptance of every paraphilia, kink, fetish etc and creating a safe community

Fighting and dismantling ableism and sanism targeted at paraphilic individuals

Hazard consent is against:

Non-consensual contact including with animals, children and unconsenting individuals

Contact for pedophilia, zoophilia, biasophilia, incestophilia and non-consenting necrophilia, somnophilia, inibriphilia, or anything else that can be pre-consented to. Roleplay doesn't fall under this

Attaching inherent morality to any type of paraphilia, kink or fetish or deeming something as inherently "gross", "wrong" or "weird"

Ableism and sanism

For more information on hazard consent, refer to the original coining post(link) or feel free to ask questions in my inbox.

I was originally hesitant to make a flag or emoji code because it's a stance and not an identity, but I've come to view it as a matter of accessibility and making this stance more well known, as I think it could be valuable for many people.

Cross tagging between communities for exposure

[flag id: a rectangular pride flag with 15 horizontal stripes. the 1st and 15 look like black and yellow caution tape; the 2nd and 14th are wider and dark orange with a dashed line through the center, each dash being white, yellow, red and blue in a pattern; the 3rd-5th and 11th-13th are thin with an orange to pastel yellow gradient; the 6th and 10th stripes are spiked and black; the 7th and 9th are thin and yellow; and the 8th stripe is white with a black outline on either side, and a blue dashed line through the center. in the center is a yellow caution sign with a black exclamation point in the center and black outline /end id]

[zoophilic-disorder]

🌱 Affirmations for zoophiles who were exposed to zoophilia and harmful content at a young age...

You are not at fault for your own paraphilia, you did not cause this for yourself, and you are not to blame,

You are still a good person, you are not lesser as a being for indulging or discovering these things at a younger age,

You are not an abuser for viewing animal harm before you could make informed decisions,

You are not disgusting, impure, or irredeemable for having had access to this content,

Your past acts do not define you, you understand the harm within those ideals and that content now,

It is okay to make mistakes, fuck up, and learn (hard way or not), you are not evil, you were a kid.

Regardless of if you were groomed into this content or zoophilia in general, or you discovered it on your own, you're not to blame.

You do not want to hurt animals, you will not reenact what you saw, you will be okay. Getting into harmful things when you're younger and have less of an understanding of the true harm behind it can make things much scarier as you get older. Not all zoophiles are bad people, including you.

You are not a bad person.

When I was much younger, I accessed this content, believing it wasn't harmful as I wasn't the one committing the acts. I didn't understand that I was still indulging in things that were at the exploitation of real animals, that a real animal was still being abused.

The guilt and self disgust from knowing I had access to that content is so repulsive now, and its made my intrusive thoughts significantly worse. I cannot go back in time and stop myself from doing this at such a vulnerable age, I can only continue on where I can and do my best to reduce harm.

You are not alone in doing things like this.

You will still be loved.

[creationsofjoyusnight]

Made a transcontrolled pony! :D

[nyannyannyanx3]

why are antis ALWAYS, and I mean ALWAYS, hypocrites?

"we want to protect children"

you send death threats and dox underage proshippers or try to gaslight them into believing they're being groomed. the only "children" you're "protecting" are anime dragon girls.

"we want to prevent these things from happening in real life before they do"

you PROVOKE them into doing it. without giving sympathy or pity or care to someone with mental problems and urges like these will 100% make them want to act out on real people.

"I'm not proship! I don't harass people for their fictional ships-"

ur proship, then.

"proshippers shouldn't be allowed to interact with us normal people"

this one speaks for itself. seriously? you're a group of fourteen year olds who threaten everyone for their fictional ships. you pretend to be good.

[rights4allmeansall]

times when it’s hard to remain a non-violent person:

1. when researching paras & finding a paper trying to tie zoophilia to being autistic

like hello??? & the paper says they couldn’t find any other such claims… gee i wonder why😐 i’m ab to start doing my own studies & writing my own papers because- sigh.

update: found another ab some boy in sri lanka that literally says “this is extremely rare” okay so why write an entire paper connecting it then.

update 2: “ADHD causes paras” yeah alright.

[lovetheunliving]

I want a rapist to make love to me. I want to feel the warmth, the desire, the affection from the same flesh, the same actions carried out by said flesh, that scarred another so deeply that their fear inhibits them from ever being able to comfortably pursue the same tenderness.

[animal-creature]

"DNI: paraphiles" ah yes, excluding literally more than half of the population. If you do this you have no idea how common paraphilias are. And you probably think that the only paraphilias to exist are the big three. (Reminder that any kinks and fetishes are paraphilias too) No knowledge of the topic whatsoever

[proshipezreal]

One thing that does annoy me about the proship community is how many people use the phrase "harmful paraphilas" like. I thought you guys knew that thoughts ≠ actions. There is no such thing as an inheritly harmful paraphilia, only harmful actions. If you mean "actual abusers" just say that. There are plenty of people with "harmful paraphilias" that would never hurt anyone or anything. Just because some people with those paraphilias do bad things that doesn't mean everyone who falls into that group does or will.

Saying or just implying someone is inherently harmful for thoughts they literally cannot control, and that most do not act on, is anti behaviour honestly. Just because someone thinks or feels something that doesn't mean they're going to do that, just like how if someone writes or enjoys something in fiction that doesn't mean they condone it irl. Use your brains people.

[peppermint-bloodshed92]

You Are Loved