#anti contact

[rights4allmeansall]

facts about pedophilia:

-up to 5% of males are attracted to minors

-up to 4% of females are attracted to minors

-up to 5% of all people are estimated to have pedophilia

-66% are minors when they discover their attractions

-most know between the ages of 12 & 16 so the average age is 14

-over 1 in 3 experience suicidal thoughts

-the most common age they first attempt suicide is 14

-"map" (minor-attracted person) is an umbrella term that was popularized by mental health experts

-36% have never told any non-map in their personal life about their attractions

-35% of primary care providers get at least 1 disclosure of minor attractions

-thought suppression is counterproductive

-stigma causes increased isolation & mental disorders

-pedophilia is not a mental disorder

-minor attractions are not illegal

-peer support for maps is promoted by experts

-up to 85% of maps never offend

-maps can have long-term romantic & sexual relationships with adults

-estimates suggest that as low as 25% of all child sexual abusers are maps, while the other 75% abuse for power & control

-experts warn that conflating maps with abusers could increase rates of sexual abuse

-anti-predator vigilantes cause increased abuse

-predator hunters cause suicides & make prosecuting abusers harder

-law enforcement agencies oppose anti-predator vigilantism

-false reports of csam make it harder for real abusive content to be identified

-minor attractions function like peer attractions

-experts consider pedophilia an age-based sexual orientation

-experts consider minor attractions to be queer identities

-there is no mainstream effort to include minor attractions in the lgbtq community

-conversion therapy for maps is harmful & ineffective

-treatment programs that imply maps need help to not offend are counterproductive

-anti-map stigma enables abuse

-stigma can increase a map's risk of offending

-therapy for maps should be centered around self-acceptance

-most maps are interested in seeking professional support

-maps face numerous barriers when seeking professional support

-stigma prevents maps from seeking therapy

-24% of mental health professionals would report a map who had never offended & did not want to

-some maps seek professional support for reasons unrelated to their attractions

-maps are as capable of self-control as non-maps

-non-offending maps have a higher level of empathy for children than non-maps

-maps who interact with children are less likely to view sex with children as acceptable

-maps tend to talk about consent more than non-maps

-child protection & mental health experts support map activism

-the map community has led the effort to make support for maps more widely available

that’s probably enough. let me know if there’s another paraphilia or any other thing i should do this for! :)

[numbercestt]

Im sorry but accounts like this one are so stupid

Like, ok, you hate pedophiles. Thanks for letting we know but honestly, you putting a flag behind a random character is not gonna change anything.

Actual pedophiles definitely are not caring about that lol

[3mo-mvtt]

I love this

(Also, my hair kinda looks like this!! Except lighter, to my dismay)

[sukunabear]

I'll hang myself cus why is every anti so dense bro it hurts my head so bad

how hard is it to understand,,,,let me speak in caveman terms.

it fake? ya! can make art! relationship okay only in fiction! uncomfortable? block! victim? me too!!!

[dstrider-3]

antis acting like youre going to die or youre a terrible person for things you consume fictionally or thoughts you have remind me of terrible christians/catholics who say youll die and go to hell for xyz

[inuette]

Official (Anti) RQ Archive

[PT: Official (Anti) Radqueer Archive. END PT. ]

　Last Updated (DD/MM/YY): 08/01/24. This archive will be updated over time, so make sure to check back regularly if you can! If you have anxiety regarding opening links, no worries! All these posts are archived under our "archived" & resources tags.

Anti-RQ Terms/Flags

'PRAT' meaning

'Fluffy Para'

'Arissomei'/'Arissodic'

'Atypical Dysphoria Awareness' (Creator Boundary)

Reclaimed Transage, Transracial (Adoptee), Transspecies and Transabled Flags

Reclaimed Transabled Flag 2 + Symbol

BIID Flag + Symbol

Parahealth

RQ Terms/Flags

'Faux Cult'/'Fult' and Flags

Xenoanarchism

Other Terms

Doc

PSAs

Radparas

'Kandiqueer'

'Xenosatanism' and Xenosatanist Flags

'@//sophieinwonderland'

The Angel's Web "Fult"

'Not All Radqueers'

Initial 'Fult' PSA

"The Ezra Files" (Content/Trigger Warning: (Pro-C) Pedophilia, Incest, Bestiality, Zoosadism, Toddler/Baby Abuse, Grooming, CSEM Trading, Rape, Abduction, Admissions Of CSA, Admissions Of Incest, Admissions Of Bestiality…)

TransN*zi Symbols

Other Resources

What IS A Radqueer? Why Are They Bad?

RQ Original Coining Info

RQs are a Cult

RQs and Stochastic Terrorism

The Insult of 'Cisdisabled'

BIID and RQ Grooming

RQ '2024 Calendar'

Talk of Atypical Dysphoria

WHY Misuse of Transrace and the term 'Trace' are Bad

Talk of "Transautism"/being "Transautistic"

You Cannot 'Coin' A Medical Disorder/Talk of "MUDs"

Intrusive Thoughts About =/= Actually Believing in Them

'I have intrusive thoughts about ...' isn't a 'Valid' Excuse

Transitioning When It Comes To TransIDs and TransX Identities

Transethnic People Aren't Valid (Focuses on East Asians & Koreans)

There Are Better Ways to Cope with Atypical Dysphoria

Why Arissomei/Arissodic is its Own Term

Racial Hierarchy and Being "Trace"/"Transracial"

Blackface is Blackface — Your "Intent" Doesn't Matter

Alternative (Non-TERF Rhetoric) Anti-Radqueer Arguments

Suibaiting Radqueers ISN'T Okay

If You're Thinking of Leaving the RQ Community

'Cracker' is Not a Slur

Suibaiting RQs isn't Welcome Here

Radinclus does NOT Mean Radqueer

Misusage of Languages in RQ Spaces

How-To's

Reporting a RQ for Inciting Violence

(Fighting Against) RQs Rebranding Terms as 'RQ Terms'

Coping with Atypical Dysphoria

Getting Out and Staying Out Of the Community

General Tips

Reaffirmation

Reaffirmation of Why RQs are Bad (TWs included in the post)

BIID (Body Integrity Identity Disorder) =/= Radqueer (Affirmation)

[rayday-mayday]

First anti interaction, yall!!! Gotta throw tomatoes at this clown like I promised I would a while ago.

Imagine demonizing pedophiles and contributing to the systemic issues of pedophiles being afraid to reach out for help. Imagine being part of the reason they don't get therapy which then increases the risk of them abusing a child.

Absolute buffoon lmao

[anti-radqueer-zone]

I mean, how much more blatant can it be? They're not even hiding it behind "transition" or "dysphoria" anymore; they're just straight up saying they're faking disorders. Honestly, the Radquer community is just full of fakers and racist people who want to make fun of the trans community, whether they're trans themselves or not.

[imfromthedeepblueunderworld]

miku saying fuck pedos

Pro-contact pedos (and other HARMFUL paras) are disgusting, Miku even said it herself!!! Be anti-contact, just like Miku!! :D I kinda made them more general instead of being JUST about pedos, but it's fine :3 if u wanna request a stamp or blinkie then just go to my ask box thingey ��

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

I’m tired of being nice about it. Tumblr needs to ban the radqueer tag and related tags.

Kids are interacting sexually with full grown predators. Kids are being groomed into thinking that being ‘pro-contact’ is okay. Kids are being told they can consent, along with animals. Kids are being told that it’s okay for them to literally produce CP of themselves. People are freely calling themselves nazis and rapists.

Is this what you want your platform to be? Kids being groomed? It’s sickening that we have to be the ones to drive predators off the platform. Do better. Get rid of this community.

[caracoldimi]

I hate coming across people posting things like "Reblog/Rt to kill a pedophile!!" or "Pedophiles are not people!!", it's even worse when it's actually reblogged by a mutual 😧

Important edit: I'm NOT talking about predators, I don't fw yall, get the fuck out pls

Important edit2: children can't consent and we KNOW that very well. If you disagree, once again, get the fuck out

[hazard-consent]

hazard consent ⚠️🔐

A flag and emoji code for the hazard consent(link) stance.

Emoji code: ⚠️🔐

Hazard consent is for

Explicit and informed consent

Harm reduction, and understand the difference between hurt and harm

Non-offenders and recovering offenders, paraphilic disorders, moral OCD and intrusive thoughts, and those who want to participate in harmless contact

Acceptance of every paraphilia, kink, fetish etc and creating a safe community

Fighting and dismantling ableism and sanism targeted at paraphilic individuals

Hazard consent is against:

Non-consensual contact including with animals, children and unconsenting individuals

Contact for pedophilia, zoophilia, biasophilia, incestophilia and non-consenting necrophilia, somnophilia, inibriphilia, or anything else that can be pre-consented to. Roleplay doesn't fall under this

Attaching inherent morality to any type of paraphilia, kink or fetish or deeming something as inherently "gross", "wrong" or "weird"

Ableism and sanism

For more information on hazard consent, refer to the original coining post(link) or feel free to ask questions in my inbox.

I was originally hesitant to make a flag or emoji code because it's a stance and not an identity, but I've come to view it as a matter of accessibility and making this stance more well known, as I think it could be valuable for many people.

Cross tagging between communities for exposure

[flag id: a rectangular pride flag with 15 horizontal stripes. the 1st and 15 look like black and yellow caution tape; the 2nd and 14th are wider and dark orange with a dashed line through the center, each dash being white, yellow, red and blue in a pattern; the 3rd-5th and 11th-13th are thin with an orange to pastel yellow gradient; the 6th and 10th stripes are spiked and black; the 7th and 9th are thin and yellow; and the 8th stripe is white with a black outline on either side, and a blue dashed line through the center. in the center is a yellow caution sign with a black exclamation point in the center and black outline /end id]

[sourisking]

[image ID: The “Don’t make me tap the sign” meme from the Simpsons, the sign changed to say “being neutral is just as bad as accepting it”]

Feel free to ask me to explain, I can’t say it’ll be comprehensive tho

[profic-robloxian]

Tumblr in its usual nonfunctionality refused to let me reblog this creep properly, so here's this.

What a disturbing and rude comment. What kind of person says shit like this? Oh wait, it all makes sense: only a person who wants to sexually assault children!

@narctistic you are a predator, get the FUCK off my blog and OUT OF THIS COMMUNITY. You are sick and evil. We offer no tolerance for the likes of you. Crawl into a pit and rot.

[corporatecoinings]

Anti-contact paraphilia/c freak

A flag for anti-contact paraphiles who are freaks / can reclaim the slur freak | for freaks that are anti-contact paraphiles.

This is not for / not intended to be used by transids/transx and radqueers.

Anti-contact paraphile flag by @rwuffles

Freak flag by @enderluna

[foxylalonde]

I luv u minor paras, u have a place in this community and u will never be alone as long as you're here <3 stay safe and stay yourself!!!