#anti contact

[translilithlesbian]

ive heard from quite a few discord friends that it defends lolicons and pro contact ppl, alongside a paraphilia channel with no rules on the big 3 so im not surprised

Hi, prominent tumblr user Equinox who runs multiple blogs with thousands of followers is my rapist, the person who controlled me for two months and a liar.

I will be sharing this everyday! :)

[softiestuffie]

Adoptive siblings in fiction fucking is a special kind of nice to me because you have half the fans arguing that "adoptive siblings are siblings! you shouldn't ship them!" and the other half saying "technically they aren't blood related so it's okay for them to do it" and im over here like "they want to fuck nasty BECAUSE they're siblings <3"

[attack1ngvertic4l]

hi! i am a paraphile. we need to talk about paraphilias.

the big three are the ones most people know. aka, pedophilia, zoophilia, and necrophilia.

some people (if not most) do not want to be attracted to this. it is a result of trauma and a survival mechanism made up by the human mind.

not every paraphile wants to act on their impulses. most dont. but because these disorders are so stigmatized, they often cannot get the help they need or want to get better at managing it.

i do not believe animals, children, or anything dead can consent. this is upheld by the law and the moral code of human nature-- protect kids and animals, respect the dead, dont harm them.

some people act these out via kink. which is okay as long as it is done safely and consentually.

there are certain paraphilias that are completely harmless. some people are attracted to rain, some are attracted to plushies.

i myself am an autoassasinophile. i find being close to death or injured very very attractive. i deal with this via my partners. they both help me out, with consent and safety measures in place. i am allowed to stop anytime i want, and so are they.

paraphiles arent evil. they are people too, and deserve to be treated as such. the more we encourage the destigmatization, the more people can get help and manage these impulses better. its not normal for these thoughts to be ocurring, but they can be managed.

be nice. you dont know what happened or what is happening to someone.

[this post is okay to reblog. thank you ^^]

[jackrabbitcollective]

Whenever anti endos follow me on main I get confused and I'm just like "why are you here?"

Sometimes I'll go up to them and just raise a paw and be like "Hi I'm jackrabbit and I'm proendo lol" and leave without explaining anything

I geniunely hope they change and just stop giving a shit about what endos do, since they're not inherently faking by being outside of the norms. System stuff is poorly researched as it is. Give people grace!

[ssinfuel]

I'll hang myself cus why is every anti so dense bro it hurts my head so bad

how hard is it to understand,,,,let me speak in caveman terms.

it fake? ya! can make art! relationship okay only in fiction! uncomfortable? block! victim? me too!!!

[suresuresureaursure]

New ship Just dropped (transspecies x zoophile ball)

[dstrider-3]

antis acting like youre going to die or youre a terrible person for things you consume fictionally or thoughts you have remind me of terrible christians/catholics who say youll die and go to hell for xyz

[mynameisuranus]

CONTACT STANCEBALL

Pro-Contactball, Anti-Contantball, Nuetral-contactball,Pro-consentball, Complex Contactball, Recipro Contactball, and mirror contactball

( I'm fluid between being Completly anti-contact, Nuetral contact(anti leaning), and mirror contact. i did this for fun)

[inuette]

Official (Anti) RQ Archive

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"The Ezra Files" (Content/Trigger Warning: (Pro-C) Pedophilia, Incest, Bestiality, Zoosadism, Toddler/Baby Abuse, Grooming, CSEM Trading, Rape, Abduction, Admissions Of CSA, Admissions Of Incest, Admissions Of Bestiality…)

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RQs and Stochastic Terrorism

The Insult of 'Cisdisabled'

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RQ '2024 Calendar'

Talk of Atypical Dysphoria

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You Cannot 'Coin' A Medical Disorder/Talk of "MUDs"

Intrusive Thoughts About =/= Actually Believing in Them

'I have intrusive thoughts about ...' isn't a 'Valid' Excuse

Transitioning When It Comes To TransIDs and TransX Identities

Transethnic People Aren't Valid (Focuses on East Asians & Koreans)

There Are Better Ways to Cope with Atypical Dysphoria

Why Arissomei/Arissodic is its Own Term

Racial Hierarchy and Being "Trace"/"Transracial"

Blackface is Blackface — Your "Intent" Doesn't Matter

Alternative (Non-TERF Rhetoric) Anti-Radqueer Arguments

Suibaiting Radqueers ISN'T Okay

If You're Thinking of Leaving the RQ Community

'Cracker' is Not a Slur

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Radinclus does NOT Mean Radqueer

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BIID (Body Integrity Identity Disorder) =/= Radqueer (Affirmation)

[squidfreak]

ily paraphiles who plan on therapy to work through understanding why they're a paraphile and how to cope with it

ily paraphiles who don't plan on therapy and are perfectly happy how they are

ily paraphiles who are in therapy and working on how to cope and understand themselves

ily paraphiles who can't get help because they're scared of being seen as a monster, ashamed, or embarrassed

ily paraphiles who specifically date other paraphiles

ily paraphiles who have "harmful" or "problematic" paraphilias

ily paraphiles who have intrusive thoughts about their paras

ily paraphiles who express themselves through artwork or fanfiction or just anything creative

ily paraphiles in the kink community

ily paraphiles who don't understand why they are the way they are

ily any and all other paraphiles that aren't on this list, you're still human (or a creature, if you're nonhuman :3)

[synthedicfucker]

Am I the only one who finds it weird how people have just started shipping PV and SM after the last two updates after the whole fandom criticized it for being “proship” and “problematic” but now that’s it’s popular people are just pretending it never happened??? It might just be my algorithm though, idk, I’ve been proudly shipping PV and SM since SM was introduced. 🤷

[sadicubus]

Why should you support, or at least respect, paraphiles?

Stupid little [informational] rant on why there's nothing wrong with paraphilias and paraphilic disorders, yes that includes the bad ones, and why anti-paraphilia is technically ableist. "S-so i'm ableist for not liking pedophilia?!" shut up and listen.

Before I go all out here's some terms you should know ;

anti-contact : someone who doesn't support *practicing paraphilias, more specifically ones that cannot be consented to.

pro-contact : someone who supports *practicing paraphilias

there's also neu-contact, complex-contact, blah blah

*practicing : a paraphile who practices (acts on) their paraphilia

non-practicing : a paraphile who doesn't practice (act on) their paraphilia

okay keep reading for the actual reasons, please repost to spread awareness /nf.

To start, paraphilias are completely uncontrollable just like any other fetish or even mental condition. Their causes are mostly trauma, internet exposure at a young age, and sometimes can be passed down through genetics. Again, they cannot control any of those, so why judge them for it?

Because of the way paraphilias are looked down on, it makes it difficult for them to seek treatment or even supportive communities. Especially younger paraphiles who may not be in a good environment or feel too ashamed to tell anyone about it. Not being able to get help can lead paraphiles to harm others or themselves.

Paraphiles do not choose to be paraphiles, they do choose however, whether they act on their paraphilia or not. If you still don't understand, let me explain it in a different light. Take NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) for example, people view those with that disorder as horrible and abusive (which isn't true mind you.) NPD is also caused by trauma or genetics, and narcissists have the choice of being abusive or not, just like any other person.

So what makes it so different from other mental conditions, especially since paraphilic disorders are also a thing? They're only viewed horribly because of the stereotypes, just like almost every mental condition. Does that make them deserving of being discriminated against, for something they have no control over?

Now take anti-para and replace it with something else, like anti-PTSD or anti-hypersexual, now that doesn't sound like something you'd want to be, does it? Be support of all neurodivergent / mentally disabled people, not just some.

[sourisking]

Reminder that Harm Against Minors is a tumblr report option that should be used!

[Reminder that harm against minors is a tumblr report option that should be used!]

I’m so serious when I say this but if someone says they want to rape children fucking report them. Instantly. Tumblr will request an email response with links, and I’d suggest using a third party archive source if at all possible.

[polycoins]

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transobsession: a term for a transexperience where one identifies as being someone's obsession. this can be the desire to have an obsessive lover, or to have an obsessive bully, or being a BPD person's FP, or being a being a transobesssed's obsession.

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Anti-contact paraphilia/c freak

A flag for anti-contact paraphiles who are freaks / can reclaim the slur freak | for freaks that are anti-contact paraphiles.

This is not for / not intended to be used by transids/transx and radqueers.

Anti-contact paraphile flag by @rwuffles

Freak flag by @enderluna

[rayday-mayday]

First anti interaction, yall!!! Gotta throw tomatoes at this clown like I promised I would a while ago.

Imagine demonizing pedophiles and contributing to the systemic issues of pedophiles being afraid to reach out for help. Imagine being part of the reason they don't get therapy which then increases the risk of them abusing a child.

Absolute buffoon lmao