#anti para

[critterkiddo]

Its very interesting to see a new wave of tumblr users go out of their way to defend Ezra, claiming he was a victim of callout culture against trans women.

(Ezra is not in fact a trans woman.)

"he didn't do shit that deserved that." Hm. Let's see.

Here is Ezra celebrating a pedophile exposing genitals to children.

Here is Ezra gaslighting a victim of CSAM, saying it was their fault.

Here is a moderator of Oddballs, appointed by Ezra himself and even a friend, getting caught grooming 3 children for CSAM.

These are just to name a few things that Ezra has done, along with y'know.

Creating a site that gives (pro contact) pedophiles direct access to children.

But sure. He "didn't do shit".

[methlabsex]

antis encouraging people to report proship content to organizations that fight against csam is so, so sad

[randomprosho]

"thought crimes aren't real" is only meant for fiction, not something for pedos/zoos/necros to use as an excuse for their fucked up fantasies involving real people/animals.

[thestarswentblack]

This was from a proshit post so here’s some more for y’all <333

🔮🪄 / 🎨🍯

🌙🦢 / 🪵🐾

🦩🎀 / 🎹🐞

🍄🍁 / 🦴🍡

🍒🧃 / 🎟️💄

🎸🎆 / 💎🕯️

[2000swootie]

"To be proship you kinda have to be pro(non-contact)-para" No we don't actually! <3 proshippers who are CSA victims shouldn't have to see the tags invaded by people who think being attracted to real life kids is okay! Yes even if they say they're ""non-contact"". You're just a grifter looking to co-op a community that's already being demonized by 90% of modern day fandom!!! Go away!!!

[cannibalslvt]

"ERM!! You cannot go on blocking sprees in the pro para and radqueer tags because what about their feelings? You're anti disorder if you don't accept them in your space 🥺."

I do not care, I'm blocking everyone that pisses me off and makes me feel unsafe.

[sadicubus]

Why should you support, or at least respect, paraphiles?

Stupid little [informational] rant on why there's nothing wrong with paraphilias and paraphilic disorders, yes that includes the bad ones, and why anti-paraphilia is technically ableist. "S-so i'm ableist for not liking pedophilia?!" shut up and listen.

Before I go all out here's some terms you should know ;

anti-contact : someone who doesn't support *practicing paraphilias, more specifically ones that cannot be consented to.

pro-contact : someone who supports *practicing paraphilias

there's also neu-contact, complex-contact, blah blah

*practicing : a paraphile who practices (acts on) their paraphilia

non-practicing : a paraphile who doesn't practice (act on) their paraphilia

okay keep reading for the actual reasons, please repost to spread awareness /nf.

To start, paraphilias are completely uncontrollable just like any other fetish or even mental condition. Their causes are mostly trauma, internet exposure at a young age, and sometimes can be passed down through genetics. Again, they cannot control any of those, so why judge them for it?

Because of the way paraphilias are looked down on, it makes it difficult for them to seek treatment or even supportive communities. Especially younger paraphiles who may not be in a good environment or feel too ashamed to tell anyone about it. Not being able to get help can lead paraphiles to harm others or themselves.

Paraphiles do not choose to be paraphiles, they do choose however, whether they act on their paraphilia or not. If you still don't understand, let me explain it in a different light. Take NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) for example, people view those with that disorder as horrible and abusive (which isn't true mind you.) NPD is also caused by trauma or genetics, and narcissists have the choice of being abusive or not, just like any other person.

So what makes it so different from other mental conditions, especially since paraphilic disorders are also a thing? They're only viewed horribly because of the stereotypes, just like almost every mental condition. Does that make them deserving of being discriminated against, for something they have no control over?

Now take anti-para and replace it with something else, like anti-PTSD or anti-hypersexual, now that doesn't sound like something you'd want to be, does it? Be support of all neurodivergent / mentally disabled people, not just some.

[familyromantic]

Spreading common sense 🙂

[undead-discourse]

Just had to see some fuck shit on my dash, so here's an unfriendly reminder since I'm changing how I run shit here:

Pedophiles are not welcome on this blog.

Zoophiles are not welcome on this blog.

Necrophiles are not welcome on this blog.

People who support, defend, or otherwise interact with pedophiles, zoophiles, and necrophiles are not welcome on this blog.

Antis and proshippers are both more than welcome to interact I don’t care, but all pedos, zoos, necros, and pedo/zoo/necro defenders will be blocked.

[just-paraphilic-disorder-things]

@ Paraphiles who use "but I was sexually abused/groomed" as an excuse to continue the cycle of abuse

[critterkiddo]

we popping big bottles today!

[methlabsex]

"radqueer and proship are like brothers" A FAIRY DIED!!!!!YOU KILLED A FAIRY

[randomlycreatedtxmblr]

sent to me, person wishes to remain anonymous

The following is a series of screenshots from the Radbugs server where members state kids as young as 10 years old are able to consent. The member mentioned this is what started the shit show.

(This will be reblogged to include the rest)

[thestarswentblack]

Apparently we’re the crazy ones for not wanting people who want to diddle kids and think about diddling kids around kids.

[2000swootie]

FINALLY found a proshipper who isn't pro-para 😭 I tried migrating to aethy because their rules state that they don't allow pro-para/paraphiles but I'm STILL seeing a lot of paraphiles who are supposedly "anti-contact" on there and others who support paraphiles as long as they're "anti-c". I'm tired and just want to post about my fictional shenanigans about my faves without feeling unsafe, yk? I no longer feel safe in proship tags, and honestly coining a new term doesn't sound like a bad idea

Sorry for the long ask lol, you're cool and I completely agree with all your proship stances, have a nice day <3

Its no big deal to send an ask, dw!

I hate how quickly proship tags have devolved onto a bunch of paraphiles posting about how they wanna do things to *real* people/animals (bc the zoophiles aint getting a pass either) and how a lot of people in the community just accept it because of some irrational fear of gatekeeping (which is entirely due to how the term has been grossly misrepresented over the years. *some* gatekeeping is good, guys, it keeps genuinely bad people out!)

as far as making a new label goes, im still calling myself proship; if we just pack up and move to a different tag or w/e then these people will just keep ruining our already bad reputation with 'the normies' of fandom. the real solution is pushing these paraphiles out of the community, they dont belong here and should know that.

[xbloodxwaterx]

When someone in the comments section of a discourse post makes a good point but when I go to their blog I find out they’re a radqueer that identifies as a transabled