#anti radshit

[sggsgbnydcbb]

I fucking hate the radqueer community I hate "trans autistic" fuckwads like I have been sitting here sobbing my eyes out because being autistic keeps me from doing simple tasks like washing dishes or taking out trash I have literal bruises from hitting myself during meltdowns and you fuckwads fucking want that!? You are idiots you're all idiots

[princetris]

One thing I really hate as a darkshipper is people who fucking hide behind the proship label. Proship is not a pass to be a terrible person, it is centered around FICTIONAL and FANDON content. You literally CANNOT be proship if:

-You DO harass people over fiction / shipcourse (keep in mind criticism ≠ harassment)

-You are RADQUEER, proshippers do not condone "pro contact" shit and REAL WORLD HARM. Please stop associating with proship you are a walking contradiction.

-You are RIGHTWING, aka everything we go against

-You are a RADFEM, I've never seen someone who claims to be a radical feminist and a proshipper at the same time but radfems are very sex-negative and puritan. Go figure.

-You have EXCEPTIONS on what people can explore in fiction. Letting people ship what they want and create the fanworks that they want INCLUDES what you hate.

-You're AGAINST darkshippers that don't use it to cope.

Edit: Of course the terf found my post.

Edit2: Of course the TRANSID radqueer found my post

[subl1maze]

hi! i am a paraphile. we need to talk about paraphilias.

the big three are the ones most people know. aka, pedophilia, zoophilia, and necrophilia.

some people (if not most) do not want to be attracted to this. it is a result of trauma and a survival mechanism made up by the human mind.

not every paraphile wants to act on their impulses. most dont. but because these disorders are so stigmatized, they often cannot get the help they need or want to get better at managing it.

i do not believe animals, children, or anything dead can consent. this is upheld by the law and the moral code of human nature-- protect kids and animals, respect the dead, dont harm them.

some people act these out via kink. which is okay as long as it is done safely and consentually.

there are certain paraphilias that are completely harmless. some people are attracted to rain, some are attracted to plushies.

i myself am an autoassasinophile. i find being close to death or injured very very attractive. i deal with this via my partners. they both help me out, with consent and safety measures in place. i am allowed to stop anytime i want, and so are they.

paraphiles arent evil. they are people too, and deserve to be treated as such. the more we encourage the destigmatization, the more people can get help and manage these impulses better. its not normal for these thoughts to be ocurring, but they can be managed.

be nice. you dont know what happened or what is happening to someone.

[this post is okay to reblog. thank you ^^]

[antiradqueef]

[sincerely-aaliyah]

I know I already made a post about this, but why is pedophilia so normalized?? I keep seeing posts with the tags “m@ps please interact”, “irl shota”, “irl loli”, “xenosatanist” and more. how did we get to the point where you can say that you’re a pedophile on social media and all you’ll get is praise and attention?

people making posts like “minors can consent”/“adults and minors should kiss” is NOT something that should be excused. even if you’re just joking, that’s not something you should joke about.

[inuette]

Official (Anti) RQ Archive

[PT: Official (Anti) Radqueer Archive. END PT. ]

　Last Updated (DD/MM/YY): 08/01/24. This archive will be updated over time, so make sure to check back regularly if you can! If you have anxiety regarding opening links, no worries! All these posts are archived under our "archived" & resources tags.

Anti-RQ Terms/Flags

'PRAT' meaning

'Fluffy Para'

'Arissomei'/'Arissodic'

'Atypical Dysphoria Awareness' (Creator Boundary)

Reclaimed Transage, Transracial (Adoptee), Transspecies and Transabled Flags

Reclaimed Transabled Flag 2 + Symbol

BIID Flag + Symbol

Parahealth

RQ Terms/Flags

'Faux Cult'/'Fult' and Flags

Xenoanarchism

Other Terms

Doc

PSAs

Radparas

'Kandiqueer'

'Xenosatanism' and Xenosatanist Flags

'@//sophieinwonderland'

The Angel's Web "Fult"

'Not All Radqueers'

Initial 'Fult' PSA

"The Ezra Files" (Content/Trigger Warning: (Pro-C) Pedophilia, Incest, Bestiality, Zoosadism, Toddler/Baby Abuse, Grooming, CSEM Trading, Rape, Abduction, Admissions Of CSA, Admissions Of Incest, Admissions Of Bestiality…)

TransN*zi Symbols

Other Resources

What IS A Radqueer? Why Are They Bad?

RQ Original Coining Info

RQs are a Cult

RQs and Stochastic Terrorism

The Insult of 'Cisdisabled'

BIID and RQ Grooming

RQ '2024 Calendar'

Talk of Atypical Dysphoria

WHY Misuse of Transrace and the term 'Trace' are Bad

Talk of "Transautism"/being "Transautistic"

You Cannot 'Coin' A Medical Disorder/Talk of "MUDs"

Intrusive Thoughts About =/= Actually Believing in Them

'I have intrusive thoughts about ...' isn't a 'Valid' Excuse

Transitioning When It Comes To TransIDs and TransX Identities

Transethnic People Aren't Valid (Focuses on East Asians & Koreans)

There Are Better Ways to Cope with Atypical Dysphoria

Why Arissomei/Arissodic is its Own Term

Racial Hierarchy and Being "Trace"/"Transracial"

Blackface is Blackface — Your "Intent" Doesn't Matter

Alternative (Non-TERF Rhetoric) Anti-Radqueer Arguments

Suibaiting Radqueers ISN'T Okay

If You're Thinking of Leaving the RQ Community

'Cracker' is Not a Slur

Suibaiting RQs isn't Welcome Here

Radinclus does NOT Mean Radqueer

Misusage of Languages in RQ Spaces

How-To's

Reporting a RQ for Inciting Violence

(Fighting Against) RQs Rebranding Terms as 'RQ Terms'

Coping with Atypical Dysphoria

Getting Out and Staying Out Of the Community

General Tips

Reaffirmation

Reaffirmation of Why RQs are Bad (TWs included in the post)

BIID (Body Integrity Identity Disorder) =/= Radqueer (Affirmation)

[tabbywaslost]

To all radqueers out there, I have some very useful tips!!

Let's begin!

1. Getting off the internet and getting some help because you guys are not okay in any way!

2. Stop thinking that you are the future because anyone in the right state of mind isn't gonna accept you as valid, ever.

3. Smell some fresh air from outside and look at what's outside for a sec, I'm sure you forgot.

4. Stop trying to convince people that you are valid.

5. Stop taking disorders, illnesses and trauma.

6. Stop thinking you're from another race.

7. And this one is for the adult radqueers: STOP PREYING ON CHILDREN ON THE INTERNET YOU MOTHERFUCKERS.

Also, kindly fuck off </3.

[nichelink]

nichelink: a newly coined niche relationship/relationship dynamic that differs from social norms, but is consensual and aware of potential risks.

differ from the norm: this is flexible and vague on purpose. see the ‘examples’ section.

probably niche: niche, probably not many people will identify as this, it’s just now been invented and posted on tumblr dot com, but it’s still a valid want and identity label.

aware of potential risks: this is inspired by the kink phrase Risk-aware consensual kink or risk-accepted consensual kink (RACK), and it means that everyone in the relationship is silently nodding and acknowledging there might be risks. you don’t have to prove yourself to others on this, don’t feel expected to tell everyone your personal business on how you’re managing this risk, because it’s not their relationship…

consensual: this is inspired by the kink phrase Consensual non-consent. basically it means that everyone in the relationship agreed to have the relationship play out a certain way, and the relationship may play out (maybe in a sort of roleplay-like fashion) like it’s non consensual, but everyone in the relationship is both expecting this to happen and still has the ultimate say on if things need to 100% stop or if it’s time for them to leave the relationship.

newly coined: i want to make it clear that existing relationship dynamics shouldn’t be shoved into this label because that feels disrespectful to those existing words, so essentially this means that existing words for it didn’t 100% describe this dynamic, so you can’t just say xyz thing is actually this term. (however, if you find one of these describes something you've already been doing for years, it's perfectly fine to start identifying with this of course.)

examples:

relationship where one person is treated as if they are an object owned by the other/s in the relationship

relationship where one person is treated as if they are a deity, and the other/s in the relationship are their followers

relationship where one person is treated as if they are a pet owned by the other/s in the relationship

relationship where one person is treated as if they are a child adopted by the other/s in the relationship

relationship where one person is transforming the other/s in the relationship into something

labels under this umbrella have a Ratings System.

All-Ages: a label that is suitable for all ages.

16+: a label that would be best if it was only used by people 16 years or older (bodily). this doesn’t mean that it’s NSFW or something, but should be used when the term has something pretty intense or serious about it which probably shouldn’t be practiced with younger people. all terms under this umbrella that involve identity modification or training are inherently 16+.

18+: a label that is inherently not suitable for people under 18 years (bodily).

grammar:

nichelinking: the state of being in this kind of relationship with someone else. “we’re nichelinking,” “we might start nichelinking”

nichelink: 1) the specific terms themself. “i coined a nichelink,” “definition: an all-ages nichelink where you…” 2) the relationship itself. “our nichelink,” “his last nichelink”

nichelinker: someone who participates in nichelinking.

there is currently no word for having a nichelink-related crush on someone, suggestions welcome.

inspirations

neurowiry

relationship anarchy

roleplay

found family tropes

desirdae

dissomei

my own personal experience of becoming someone’s “dad” - i made a friend in high school who i came out as transgender too, and then as a joke based on how people in the undertale fandom called toriel “mom,” we began referring to me as my friend’s “dad.” this joke stuck and then started genuinely being a serious part of our friendship. reflecting on this made me realize that there’s actually lots of relationships in life that’re similar, where you refer to each other as something unusual and it feels like it changes the entire status of your friendship. i liked the idea of making a word someone can use for this kind of friendship/relationship if they wanted.

i did a lot of writing about what this term means and can be used for and it ended up being long so you can read it on this page. (updated 1/10) here are some of the faq questions (but not all, so please read that page):

is this a k*nk thing?

no, it’s not intended to be. there are plenty of nichelink terms usable by anyone at any age. however if you’re an adult and you find a term appealing and start to use it because of k*nk things, more power to you, go right ahead.

is this anti r*dqueer?

i don’t find it makes sense to say that something that isn’t a stance term/blankqueer term is anti this or pro that. but this term was inspired by r*dqueer “consensual abuse” relationships, and i did start working on this because i saw that there were a lot of people who craved a specific relationship dynamic or way of being treated who felt like they couldn’t get that outside of the r*dqueer community, so i wanted to make a risk-aware and safer alternative that is not attached to a harmful community known for abuse, transphobia, racism, etc.

if you crave being treated a certain way, yes even in a “harmed” way, this term is welcome to you.

can i coin my own?

not yet. i’m still working out the kinks (🥁✨) on definitions and guidelines. i also have a big list of terms i’d like to coin for it. you can send me a request at least.

can i post this term on…

wiki/term definition sites: yes, and you don't have to ask, but i would like to be informed.

pinterest/other social medias: no, never, i'm not comfortable with someone else posting my term for me.

tags: @antiradqueerguy | @radiomogai | @the-silent-fellowship | @harmlesspersonalidentityarchive | @beyond-mogai-pride-flags | @desirdae-archive | @dissodic-archive | @kiruliom | @anti-rq-gumi | @antiradqueerguy | @neopronouns // ask to be untagged

general flag for all All-Ages nichelinks:

general flag for all 16+ rated nichelinks:

[shyprincessasugarcookierainbow]

Age-Autisossiation Aka Autistic Age Dissociation:

(Term/Identity And Flag Coining Made By Me, I Apologize If Someone Else Has Already Came Up With Something Similar).

Definition: An umbrella term or label of identification for when someone considers themselves to feel a certain level of dissociation with to their chronological/physical age due to their autism and possibly other forms of neurodivergence including any sort of trauma they feel may be related to how they connect with such. This usually is meant to be in relation of negative feelings due to this dissociation such as anxiety, sadness, anger, emptiness and etc.

(For example, someone might identify as a person with age-autisossiation if they feel as if they are mentally/psychologically a childish adult when in reality they are still a minor or a child that acts more grown up when in reality they are a legal adult).

This term is specifically antiradqueer aka anti-harmful transID and while I understand I cannot technically force anyone to not identify with this term I've coined for myself and others who may relate to me, I would appreciate my wishes to still be respected at the very least. I do not support those who identity as "pro-para"(or at the very least "pro-c para"), "transdisabled", "transracial/transrace", "transtrauma", "transautistic"/"transadhd"/"transptsd" and others of that sort. Please get away from my blog and seek help.

(So for awhile I had been thinking about making my own personal identity flags related to my hyper-specific experiences and how I process the things around me, but I'm not an expert on how to format stuff related to the subject at hand so I'm just gonna leave the one I made right here along with the different stuff related to it. Please don't hate me if it's accidentally offensive or something to anyone, I just sometimes don't know how to properly explain how I am to be honest).

[malformed-encephalon]

Administrator

An administrator is an alter role that refers to an overseer who remains co-fronting/co-conscious constantly. This role may be passed between overseers, or it may be a permanent role.

Endogenic/non-traumagenic/mixed origin systems are not permitted to use this term. This is a traumagenic system exclusive term.

[gayfujoshithater]

Whats so attractive about fictional minors? For the most part they look and act like irl minors so whats attractive about that?

[hearts4ayame]

[sage-thee-herbmaster]

The radqueer fandom is dying. Reblog to make it die faster :3

[anti-radshits]

honestly, "consensual" abuse is bullshit. "abuse is just love!!!" no abuse is NOT love, and will never be. abusers don't "love" you. stop romanticizing the shit out of that stuff.

[cccat-in-a-meat-sack]

SHOUTOUT TO ANTI RADQUEERS <333

Shoutout to anti radqueers who struggle with intrusive/violent thoughts!!

Shoutout to anti radqueers who sometimes want to identify as transid terms!!

Shoutout to anti radqueers who used to be in the radqueer community!!

Shoutout to anti radqueers who don't participate in discourse!!

Shoutout to anti radqueers who identify as arissomei terms!!

Shoutout to anti radqueers who don't like members of the anti radqueer community!!

Shoutout to anti radqueers who have been harmed, indirectly and/or directly, by the radqueer community!!

Shoutout to anti radqueers!!

[sourisking]

[image ID: The “Don’t make me tap the sign” meme from the Simpsons, the sign changed to say “being neutral is just as bad as accepting it”]

Feel free to ask me to explain, I can’t say it’ll be comprehensive tho