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vacantgalaxies · 3 months ago
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If Character AI really is trying to remove romantic roleplays from its platform, I'll be the first to say it.
That will be everyone's future if people keep trying to censor any fiction they decide is too gross to exist. Censorship won't stop at the crappy AI platforms that waste energy and steal online art or "gross" fiction, it'll keep going until fiction as we know it ceases to exist. Even the most innocent and pure fictional stories like My Little Pony or Bluey will become unrecognizable. That's what censorship does.
"Except for-" No. There are no exceptions. If you censor one thing, no matter how gross or morally abhorrent you think it is, everything gets censored.
Also, censorship will always negatively impact LGBTQIA+ stories. Fiction or non-fiction, SFW or NSFW, our stories will get hit by censorship whether that was your intention or not.
This is the closest I'll get to getting involved with proship/anti discourse on here. I've stepped away from both labels because one goes against me being anti censorship, and for the other, I just don't want to get dragged into petty drama by people that don't know what a block button is.
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heyftinally · 1 month ago
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Okay, I almost ranted about this on a reblog, but it can (and probably should) be it's own post.
Fiction effects reality and fiction does not effect reality are BOTH true.
Yes, I'm going to elaborate in the most unedited, covid-fueled rant I can, as tumblr intended. Hold on to your butts, grab a soda, and strap in.
First and foremost, I need all of the piss on the poor readers to stop their feral response typing - READ what I'm ACTUALLY SAYING before you start bitching about what you're pretending I said. Got it? Good.
This is going to involve nuance. Yes, I know, this website is allergic to nuance. Pop a Benadryl, you'll be okay.
Now, for real:
Fiction DOES effect reality BUT
Only in subtle ways. Absolutely nobody is going from your average normal Sarah to a cold blooded mass murderer because they played silent hill or something. People who become murderers always have some other motive, usually long term and/or severe (ie years of abuse, victim of trafficking, untreated psychological disorder usually paired with abuse, etc).
When I say fiction influences reality, I mean kids who grew up hearing Disney's Pocahontas say "you think the only people who are people are the people who look and think like you, but if you walk the footsteps of a stranger, you'll learn things you never knew you never knew" are more likely to be accepting of diversity than the kids who exclusively grew up on South Park and Family Guy.
I mean reading stories of real people's struggles with disabilities not being accommodated will make you more likely to notice inaccessibility in your daily life, and make you more likely to be accommodating to those who need it.
I mean reading about how a character was skeptical of or easily misled about something via the media can make you more critical of what you read.
Fiction effects reality because if you only consume one kind of media, we assume that's the only way things are. If we consume a vast array of media, we learn to explore different possibilities.
Fiction does NOT effect reality IN THE WAY THAT
Reading a fanfic (or even a published novel) with dubious themes is inherently going to normalize those themes in your reality.
Millions of people watched Hannibal, but cannibalism didn't surge.
Lolita is a rather famous novel, yet I've never heard of it being the sole reason someone suddenly condoned pedophilia out of nowhere.
Horror movies do not routinely make people murderers.
Fiction is not enough to make someone completely change their morals.
So where is the line?
Exactly where your critical thinking ends.
Because yes, there are people who watch shows like South Park and Family Guy and take the crass, bigoted, and otherwise truly vile jokes at face value, and find the humor in that. There are also people who watch it and see the jokes as hyperbole emphasizing just how terrible the people in the show are. Yes, some of this also has to do with the show writers, but again - your critical thinking is what tells you "is this show promoting being racist, or is it showing this character as racist to drive home what an absolute shitbag they are?"
The other aspect is your personal moral compass and ability to adapt.
Yes, I'm talking about echo chambers.
If you can NEVER accept being wrong, or if you refuse to change your mind on a specific topic (again, like racism), so instead of adapting you seek out people who are more likely to agree with you, you may find yourself starting to agree with other viewpoints that previously you wouldn't have.
And this can be good OR bad - if being friends with someone who agrees with you that racism is wrong, they may influence you to also start believing homophobia is wrong, and that's a good thing! But the reverse can also happen, and that's bad.
But media alone didn't do that - it was one of MANY contributing factors, including race, religion, disability (or lack thereof), income, how you were raised, where you live, and more.
So whenever I see people talking about "pro-ship" and "anti-proship", all I can think is
Shipping is only one tiny thing that media can influence you on - why is shipping your sticking point, but not murder?
You aren't capable or willing of engaging with the media you consume in EITHER direction.
Being anti/proship is irrelevant. If anything you're just telling me whether or not toxic purity culture is part of your specific flavor of media illiteracy. It means nothing of substance.
Instead of worrying about who ships what, worry about how your views and actions shape how you percieve and impact those around you.
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catgirl-catboy · 1 year ago
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oceansarepink · 5 months ago
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Just so you guys know, sending me messages like “don’t follow/pls block @ username they’re a pro shipper” and nothing else, does little other than confuse me.
My policy is that ‘proship’ as a label is just not on my radar, unless they have specific heinous shit on their blog. It has become a vague term and the discourse can become very unnecessarily nasty. This is solely my experience and I know the proship types can harass too but….I don’t wish to proclaim myself as either. I have only been harassed by someone who was an ‘anti’ trying to police my blog for not being ‘anti’ enough.
I’m probably not ‘enough’ for either side and I see proship and anti as a false dichotomy.
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urfavisaminor · 1 month ago
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yknow, the vocaloid with the singing
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Hatsune Miku is a minor ! (16, changing age)
if u take advantage of her non canonical age to sexualize her then u should dr1nk bl34ccch btw so gross how normalized it is
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artfightdramaconfessions · 4 months ago
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Artfight but mainly this blog has made me aware of how much I've curated my online circle. Like I only ever see posts about how the proship vs anti thing is stupid and then there will be someone who's out there using proship like it's a slur
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fangirllllpriv · 2 years ago
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The dichotomy of “proship” VS “antiship” is weird to me, because it means completely different things to different people. I’m a bare bones example of an antishipper, because I don’t support adult x minor and I don’t support family x family. That’s an incredibly shitty thing to portray positively. And there are other kinds of pairings I’d rather not go near, but won’t hate on anyone for.
But someone else might call me a proshipper because I’m willing to ship characters in their late 20s with characters in their early 50s. Or hell, even some people think enemies to lovers is proshipping. There are blurred lines in what counts as proship in terms of how something is portrayed, too. What is the line between portraying something dark and “proshipping”, however you want to define it?
So here are some dynamics that might be considered controversial, let me know what you think in the notes. Remember, try to consider if you think these dynamics count as proshipping, not whether or not you’d be personally comfortable with them:
Adults with a large age gap.
“Minor coded” characters being shipped with adults. (That’s a whole other topic)
Bigot X Minority
Therapist X Patient
Prisoner X Guard
Enemies
Rivals
Adoptive siblings that met when they were older than 10
Two people that physically fight
Hero X Villain
Villain X Anyone
Two people that knew each other when one was a minor and the other was an adult but now they’re both adults (think Monica and Richard’s storyline from Friends)
Kidnapper X (adult) Victim
Someone X themselves from an alternate universe or from the future/past (the age old question about selfcest: incest or masturbation)
Human X Monster
I’m realizing I can think of so many pieces of non-derivative media that outright contain these dynamics.
I’m so tired I need sleep now
Edit: apparently I got the definitions wrong. Apply this to “what do you consider controversial”
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funny-anti-takes · 3 days ago
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Shayshaylee
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This is someone’s alt account, guess whoever this is didn’t want people who follow them on their main to think they need media to hold their hand and portray dark themes as inherently bad!
I think user shayshaylee should go back to watching pre-school kids shows because shows where *gasp* crimes happen is too much for them to handle, given that they said they need a show to portray crimes as a very bad thing so it teaches them basic morals!
So if the show didn’t explicitly tell you that what’s happening in it is bad, are you going to hurt someone? Please log out before you do!
Dark media isn’t here to teach anyone a lesson, it’s made with the assumption that you, the reader or viewer, already know that whatever is portrayed in it is bad.
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antiship-callout · 3 days ago
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Are you truly anti-harassment, @ anti-paradise?
Before we begin with this post, we would like to make the following clear:
asks, submissions and notifications have been turned off. We will not be looking at or answering any comments or reblogs, should there be any
we do not like being called proship, anti anti, anti or anti-shipper. We are critical of "both sides"
we are aware that most of the depicted accounts are owned by teenagers, with two or maybe three exceptions.
we are strictly against harassment and do not wish for the individuals here depicted or anyone else to be harassed
at the same time we are aware that there is at least one harasser who keeps interacting with the individuals described in this post, and who these individuals call "shoo". We condemn any harassers' actions
we collected screenshots from different posts, but we are not associated with any person
Now with that out of the way let's talk about the "infamous" anti proship group that has been making the rounds on tumblr. If you know who we are talking about, it is the individuals frequently found defending, following and or reblogging from the blog "anti-paradise" who was previously known as antiproshipconfessions.
We decided to categorize the group as "anti-fans". Unlike normal fans who interact with media or a person they are a fan of with genuine passion, anti-fans invest time and "passion" into mocking, criticizing, spreading bad faith rumors, and posting malicious posts or articles about the media, person or group they hate. This may also border sometimes on strong and negative obsession.
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This specific group shows clear signs of this preciously mentioned anti-fan behavior.
We also need to mention that all of the people within their circle want fictional characters to be treated like human people, and anyone who tells them that fictional characters do not have human rights is quickly slandered as "insane".
They are invested in denying people of their humanity, their identity and are constantly breaking their own DNI as seen in the first screenshot above. They pretend that they are just "criticizing" people, but genuine criticism does not give anyone the right to make false accusations. If you want to criticize a work posted online, you begin with analyzing it, giving your thoughts and offering improvements.
Instead, these people made clear that their goal is to attack any small fish they perceive as "different" or "weird". They have not spoken up about bigger and controversial personalities whose works have wider reach such as Colleen Hoover, George R.R. Martin, Neil Gaiman, or Maïmouna Doucouré (Director of the movie "Cuties" - which was criticized for sexualizing the cast members, most of which were young girls)
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We have also looked through all of the accounts they have targeted in the past or present, and none showed any sign of worrying behavior towards or about (prepubescent) minors.
However, we are excluding people who identify as radqueer from this. We do not support them, but we believe that they should be left alone as well.
But why are these haters making these false accusations?
One of the major reasons is the concept of reciprocity: negative energy or behavior can be mirrored and reciprocated by those who encounter it.
Or simply said: haters attract hate. And haters rarely hate alone, they feel empowered when they hate the same thing together, and will encourage others into hating the same thing or people.
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Hate groups form identities through symbols, rituals, myths and conspiracy theories, which enhance the members' status and, at the same time, degrade the object of their hate.
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We would like to emphasize on the word "degradation". In the beginning of the post, we have described that these anti-fans deny their enemies their humanity and their identity.
This hate group has been noticed by both anti-shippers and pro-shippers because they have decided to use the loaded term "degenerate" and its variants against pro-shippers, and continue to defend the usage of this term.
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The screenshots above show that these people have been educated about the term and why they should not use it (by anti-shippers as well), but they ignored it in favor of continuing to defend and "giggle" about the controversy. It's just a "silly word" and using Nazi terms is no big deal apparently
And for those unaware, here is a small history lesson on why "degenerate" has explicit Nazi origins.
It was used centrally within their ideology since the 1920s to describe any group varying from their notion of the ideal human ("Aryan," straight, cis, etc). During the 1930s, the term was most known for the 1933 Nazi book burning (the destruction of literature considered as "Un-German") and the infamous 1937 Nazi exhibit "Degenerate Art."
Today, people like Nick Fuentes, Richard Spencer, and Donald Trump continue to use the term degenerate to attack minoritized people and political opponents.
Anyone who seriously uses the term "degenerate" is invoking Nazi ideology. When they call POC, Jews, queer/trans people, or anyone who may differ from them "degenerates," they're calling for our extermination. This is also something anti-paradise has not only "joked" about, the other hate group members supported it as well.
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The extreme radicalization or just reactionary behavior, the need to defend open death threats, book burning, the erasure of their enemies' (proshippers) humanity, the eagerness to call them "illegal aliens" like racists call immigrants and refugees, the call to criminalize adult material, which will always affect and hurt minoritized people, the accusations that their enemies are "faking" their trauma, and denying that they are also LGBTQ+ or BIPOC/Jewish is extremely worrying.
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Some people have played their behavior down as "rage bait" coming from "uneducated" teenagers, but the eagerness they display when they degrade people they hate tells, in our humble opinion, a different story. We also believe that most anti-shippers at least respect pro-shippers' basic human rights and identities - these hateful people do not.
The accounts with the random usernames and standard tumblr profile picture is the previously mentioned harasser "shoo". Most of their accounts are deactivated
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Curiously enough they want to "redeem" pro-shippers of their wrongdoings, but to do that you must actually see "wrongdoers" as human. People who merely exist in their own spaces and who do not intrude in yours are not evil. People who respect internet etiquette are not criminals, nor can someone "recover" from being in favor of letting people be, even if someone ships something they dislike.
You must respect a human person on grounds of being a human if you want to redeem them.
And to be human means that no one is good or bad, we are simply people.
Secondly, these people erroneously compare being in favor of letting people ship whatever they want as long as it's fictional to a coping mechanism. But being in favor of or against ships is not a coping mechanism, and they never suggest a coping mechanism that, in their eyes, is better than adhering to fandom and internet etiquette.
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We also find it quite interesting that an adult, rainbow-starheart, has come to the defense of yet another hateful person (or teenager, we are not sure), who keeps using the term "degenerate", who agreed with the intent to criminalize adult material and who called for the destruction of a queer webtoon.
Naturally we do not see issue with people disliking "Boyfriends", but just because you may not like it doesn't mean you should wish for its or any art piece's destruction.
We also have reason to believe that the hate group members do not care about copying and or indirectly supporting Republicans and their plans to harm and censor LGBTQ+ people. They most likely know who they're sounding like - and chose not to care
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The screenshot above depicts the Heritage Foundation's "Project 2025"
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And this screenshot is Oklahoma's new planned bill to criminalize adult material. This bill doesn't directly name trans people, it makes a reference to gay and trans people instead ("warps young people's perception of the opposite sex").
Have you noticed that the Republican Senator is calling adult material "degenerate material" and likens it to a highly addictive drug? These people also believe that one can "recover" from a nonexistent porn or sex addition despite the fact that major health organizations recognize it as a behavioral problem rather than an addiction instead.
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Our belief is that people like these, despite identifying with left leaning identities and movements such as LGBTQ+, have never truly unlearned internal biases or have picked up anti-kink rhetoric and sex negativity from conservatives.
This is made evident as they only target anything related to sex, sexual assault and sexual health or kink, and associate transgressive fiction and kink with pedophilia.
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The screenshot of rulerzreachf4n7's complaint about Medrano's show "Hazbin Hotel" proves this as well, to them the only problem lies in the fetishization of sexual assault. Other problematic behavior such as Val's love-bombing, violence and the manipulation of Angel is ignored.
Lastly, we are concerned that this inappropriate and concerning behavior is encouraged by another adult. We do not know how connected they are to the hate group above as they have previously never interacted with each other before until the harassment started.
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The conversation in this screenshot shows that this adult and rainbow-starheart have become "protectors" to (these) minors, and this inappropriate behavior has unfortunately been normalized in fandoms.
Do not misunderstand, we are not accusing either adult of grooming, we simply criticize inappropriate behavior some of them (may) have shown such as:
promoting anti science beliefs and encouraging youths to trust random bloggers more than medical professionals
seeking validation and emotional support from minors
posing as "one of the good ones"; a self proclaimed protector of children and the vulnerable.
showing minors 18+ material to "warn them" about certain artists
encouraging minors to openly discuss pedophilia and sexual abuse in art
casually discussing sexual topics openly or privately with minors.
reblogging public posts from or encouraging minors to publicly discuss the "ethics" of kink based on personal disgust
making themselves seem safe compared to artists who draw or write the "nasty" media they or the minors they encourage cause scenes over
bonding over how "gross" certain sexual topics are
encouraging minors to catfish people they believe to be pedophiles and or sexual predators to "expose" them or to gain evidence
encouraging minors to seek out and "criticize" adults (random strangers) about (their) kink(s)
A true "safe adult" who has the best intentions for a minor or minors would not encourage them to "make connections" to or discuss pedophilia so openly. Minors should not discuss or be encouraged to talk (to random strangers) about any of these things on a public platform, it is inappropriate and unsafe for them especially
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Now we would like to finish this post with the following:
You are allowed to dislike or feel disgusted about anyone and anything, for any or no reason at all
remember that anyone can be a predator regardless of the ideology they have, the things they support or how they treat others
disgust is a defense mechanism that protects us from harm, but not everything that triggers feelings of disgust is harmful
if you are truly disgusted by someone or something, it is healthier and easier to avoid the person or the thing rather than mocking, attacking or verbally abusing the person or the thing
blocking people is not censorship, it is a tool to make your internet experience more pleasant
to any harasser/to anti-fans/to shoo: do not engage or stop engaging, move on and leave people alone
here is your chance to let this discourse finally die. Do not contribute more to it because it will affect you too
Fandoms are for many a place to escape life. Do not join fandoms if your intent is to be a hater
please do not encourage for the censorship of art in an age where this is happening again. It does not benefit you at all
remember that trauma is always dark and never clean, as such healing process of a survivor may be messy
education and information is power. Do your own research instead of blindly believing others or rumors
verdict: anti-paradise and followers are not anti harassment
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septrose · 2 months ago
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I'm gonna be an asshole.
Look. I'd say im neither proship OR anti. I'd say I really can't care what people do but perhaps thinking rape / incest is sexy is weird.
But.. being on fanfiction related reddits has made proships seem WAY more annoying holy fuck.
I swear they're obsessed with antis and them getting the upperhand.
Both sides are annoying sure but at least.. anti's like.. aren't creepy I guess. idk idc.
edit: since im dumb and forgot to say. Uh proship doesn't *actually* mean you like dark topics / romanticize them. It just means you are well.. pro-ship. You think people shouldn't be so strict on what people make / ship.
The better term to use would actually be darkship which means you DO ship those taboo stuff (ex; incest and age-gaps)
comship also exists but thats.. well in the name (complicated). think immortal x mortal.
The reason why I said that's what proship is was because im stupid but also because that's.. I guess the rounded term. Proship could mean either you're again censorship or you like taboo ships. unbrella term it seems.
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www-sys-net · 1 year ago
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Anyways here's yalls unfriendly reminder that despite how fucking stupid the proship/antiship discourse is, I would still entirely be on the side of pro!
Curate your own fucking internet experience. I do not care if I somehow trigger you because it's not my responsibility to cater to every single person on the internet.
Especially when the term "trigger" is being used so loosely. 7/10 times you're just uncomfortable, not triggered. A lot of you all are so engrossed in online spaces that it's degraded your knowledge of actual issues.
And that's entirely fine. Nobody should ever force you to interact with content that makes you uncomfortable or that could harm you.
But your trauma or your discomforts are your own. They're not mine. And hopefully, they never will be. I can only hope that you can get the help you need to move forward instead of wallowing in self pity because it makes people feel bad for you.
Blocking is a right that you have. Nobody should be telling you that blocking people makes you weak or that you've somehow lost some fight or argument for keeping yourself safe as best as you can.
But when it comes to it, that's that. You can't impose anything on anyone else because you dislike it or because it makes you uncomfortable.
Also, if you're going to use a legally definable term, I'm begging you all to actually understand what that term entails. Cause it really seems like quite a lot of you are throwing around words and terms that aren't actually applicable, and then you'll ignore anyone who points out you're being incorrect.
Your trauma does not give you the right to impose your thoughts onto others. Antishippers have no right to use their trauma to force someone to censor themselves. Proshippers have no right to use their trauma to force someone to interact with content that makes them uncomfortable.
Disagree? Congratulations, you have the right to block us and move on with your life.
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catgirl-catboy · 2 years ago
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So. You've just heard the words "proship" and "anti" for the first time. Or maybe you've been hearing them for a while, and you decided to look up what they mean. Or maybe you've just stumbled upon this post.
A quick disclaimer! I, the person that wrote this post, am a proshipper. However, I will try to present both arguments from an objective and unbiased point of view. However, there may be small mistakes from the antiship side of things, of which I am sorry. This post was made in good faith to help people who have never heard of this discourse before. If you're an anti and would like to give your two cents about my section on antis, feel free!
I have also linked several sources in the replies section, since links tend to fuck with the tumblr search engine. Feel free to look into those if you'd like to read more on the subject. (and please do before trying to correct this post, since there's a lot of misinformation going around on the subject!)
Antishipping:
Since the term antishipping originated before the term proshipping (even if the proship ideology existed first), it seems like a good place to start.
Antishipping is the belief that certain types of fandom content reflect badly on the people that create and consume it. Antishippers believe that if you interact with that content enough, your real-life morals get loosened, and you are more likely to want to commit the crimes depicted in said content.
Some antishippers think that people that already have a desire to commit said crimes are more likely to enjoy content depicting those crimes, and thus liking that content is a "red flag". I've seen both arguments about equally.
What do I mean by said content? You'll get a slightly different definition from anti to anti, but common targets of this logic include:Ships with a large age gap. Ships that have one character under the age of adulthood, and one over. Incestuous ships. Ships between real people like celebrities. Ships deemed racist/sexist/ableist/homophobic/transphobic by the fandom. Abusive ships. One thing I've noticed about antis is how sex and romance focused they seem to be. They rarely apply the same logic to fics depicting crimes such as assault and murder, despite those also being just as illegal IRL.
Proshipping: If antishipping is the belief that certain ships reflect badly about your character, proshipping is the belief that it does not.
There are a lot of misconceptions about the word proship, so allow me to do a quick tangent about what a proshipper is not:
Proship is not short for problematic ship. The term proship was named to oppose the pre-existing anti ship. It is pro as in for.
Proship is not a synonym for pedophile. Proship is all about what you think is okay to depict in fiction, not your real life sexual preferences. For instance, the proshipper writing this is asexual and incapable of having a sexual interest in anyone.
Proship is not an assertion of comfort for every type of problematic ship. Quite a lot of proshippers are uncomfortable with incest and age gap ships. The only requirement to be a proshipper is that you don't think someone is a bad person for writing/reading problematic fiction.
Why do proshippers think this? There is a variety of reasons among the community, but as a general rule of thumb they try to give people the benefit of the doubt. That person who writes incest fic could be hitting on their own family. But they also could be a victim of incest and write to come to terms with what they went through. They also could be an only child that finds the idea of a big brother having a crush on them hot. Without having an honest conversation with them, we have no real way of knowing.
I won't overshare, but the main reason I enjoy abusive dynamics in fiction is because I was abused in the past. I like the idea of finding catharsis in fiction, where characters that remind me of my abusers can grow and change for the better. I don't think that'll make me more likely to abuse the people close to me. I'd argue that since I understand what behaviors are abusive better, I'm actually less likely! (I had to unlearn a lot of shit.)
Problems with the antiship community:
A lot of antishippers harass people that make content for ships they dislike. Despite antishippers being upset at the perceived normalization that problematic ships might cause, a lot of them normalize using violent language to people they disagree with. A lot of antishippers are comfortable dehumanizing proshippers and have little compassion. Despite a lot of antis calling for better trigger tagging of fictional content, they rarely trigger tag their violent threats to people that make content they are morally opposed to.
A lot of antis overuse words like "pedophile" and "Child Porn" (tangent: the proper terminology for pictures of a (real, IRL) minor is CSEM or Child Sexual Exploitation Material. It is never porn.) in situations when they don't actually apply, creating alarm fatigue and difficulty communicating when an actual crime is being committed. Governments have asked antis specifically to stop clogging up their hotlines with reports of porn of fictional characters.
A small but dangerous subsection of antis will knowingly expose NSFW content to minors to show them what proshippers are creating. This is an IRL crime, and should be reported if you ever encounter it.
A lot of antishippers strech the definition of problematic to include ships they personally dislike. I have seen anti shippers bashing the relationship between a 14 y/o character and a 16 y/o character, despite that not being much of an age gap at all. This causes the rise of excuses like "sibling coding" (the implication that two characters that are not biologically related or are adopted siblings are siblings for found family reasons, and can't be shipped.)
Antishippers frequently call for problematic content to "remain out of the main tags", which would seem a logical request at first. They do not wish to know such content is being created. However, this makes it harder for the people not in the fandom to avoid seeing said content. Some people have fandom tags blocked for trigger reasons, and following the antis advice of not putting things in the main tags can put those people in danger. (Most proshippers put multiple trigger warnings on their content for people to search for and filter out.)
There is a lot of ableism in the antiship community, with two of their frequently used insults being "get help" and "proship freaks". Many antis frequently expect users who want to interact with them to check a "carrd" (an external website where they keep lists of who they do and don't want to see on their blog.) which can frequently be eyescorching and hard to read for people with visual sensitivities.
A lot of antishippers overshare information about themselves to dangerous levels. It is common for them to share their names, exact ages, and triggers. This could be used to hurt them by malicious trolls, and is not a good idea.
Instead of creating new websites where the rules cater to them, antis will try to bend (or just) the rules of existing websites that are more in line with the proship ideology. Despite believing these websites lower the moral character of everyone that uses them, the willingly choose to use them anyway.
Problems with the proship community:
(this is by far the section I am the least confident in writing, so if you would like to reblog this with problems about the proship community I did not mention, I will not be upset. I try to make this post as objective as humanly possible.)
Many critics of the proship community describe it as an "echo chamber", and there is some truth to that. There is a lot of pressure to be comfortable with the darkest of problematic ships, else you may get accused of not being a real proshipper.
There is also overlap between the proship community and several communities like consang, radqueer and transid. You have to do your research on who you follow if you (understandably) wish to avoid those communities.
There is a lot of hostility to "neutrals" of this discourse from the proship community. (Personally, I don't think neutrals exist. Either fiction makes you worse, or it doesn't. Its a binary issue. That being said, ID as neutral to this if you want, I won't stop you.)
This could either be a bug or a feature depending on who you ask, but I notice a tendency to prefer ship positivity over nuanced discussion or talk about dynamics/headcanons.
Quite a lot of proshippers have victim complexes (probably due to all of the suicide baiting) and will take any disagreement with them in the worst possible light.
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lilyrose-terraharuka · 2 years ago
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Antis, stop harassing Proshippers. Just block and ignore them.
Proshippers, block and ignore antis.
If you harass someone, you will get reported.
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skin-perambulator · 2 years ago
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The internet is the only place where you will see someone call themselves an activist and their only activism is quite literally just quote retweeting people explaining the in-depth reasons as to why it’s completely right and just for them to be able to look at an anime child making an ahegao face and why you’re actually the one in the wrong and oppressing them on this matter and infringing on their rights.
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weaselbeaselpants · 2 years ago
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Genuinely sorry for @alligatorjesie cuz that's not cool. For what it's worth I've seen lots of proshippers telling people to unalive themselves on the assumption that someone else was criticized them and therefor and anti and therefor deserving of the exact same treatment they themselves had been put through. Princess Weekes is a proshipper and she got death threats from other proshippers for daring to be 'anti-apoligist'. Oh, and, of course then yes! I did see antis saying weekes and Sarah Z should unalive themselves because they were proshipper-apologists. You are assuming every selftitled anti is the same kind of person who's sent you that awful virtriol. Where I believe you def had more than one person do that to you, those people are bad shit people who make the anti communities a shit place the same way the proshippers I just mentioned attacking Weekes and Sarah Z are also shit people ruing (I guess) your community.
My point is that these exact terminologies aren't helping people - especially hurt people. They're further dividing people from what are our allies because we are treating every anti/proshipper under the sun like the worse case scenario and not someone who's also lost in the terminology-semantics. These are terms coined to keep the everyfan happy and comfortable but they're being used by fandom-moms to dictate how we interact w everyone ever who disagrees about the semantics of categorizing ourselves and not the broader strokes of if we're actually bad people or not -and they're NOW being treated as boogiemen terms in our own little microcausom moral panics against each other because we're all too scared of our abusers to leave a community where people are still abusing us.
And I learned from my own fandommutual to block people not when I know they're a bad person, but when I know they're just going to be argumentative and hate me. Much love Alligator. Also I genuinely like your banner art.
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funny-anti-takes · 3 days ago
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Hi and welcome!
Decided to make this side blog because why not? I think laughing over silly antis is better than giving them your attention!
I will post screenshots and give my 2 cents below, but this blog won’t interact with antis!
RULES
I want no one to go out of their way to harass any person or people shown in the screenshots
Death threats, racism, ableism, slurs and other forms of bigotry or strong hate is not encouraged here!
You can send me submissions if you want to
Oh and as mentioned, this is a side blog! Means I can’t send people asks, and if you receive any they’re not from me! That’s all
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