#plural tag

[heirtocragflame]

autism be damned, my dog girl headmate sure can do laundry

[felixcosm]

idk if anyone can relate but this is me when i'm stressed. no i dont want to be fronting right now. NO i won't leave front.

❗💖endos, tulpas, mixed systems are welcomed and loved 💖❗

[ontologicallyeviltortureprincess]

This is my angersona, she's kinda mean and we do NOT let her out of the basement

[lovecatsys]

one of the reasons i think that is hard for singlets to wrap their brain around about us plurals is that no one of us has the same experiences with everything.

i always see singlets asking us how we experience X or what X is like for us and the truth is that.... everymany of us is different.

there's some discourse around the idea of whether or not sysmembers can die in the headspace. The truth is that sometimes they can for some people! but other times they can't! Sometimes people define things like dormancy and death differently. Sometimes there are different laws inside of our headspaces, that don't apply inside of the real world. We can experience supernatural things, someone might already be dead when they show up and still exist and front. Because they're a ghost, or a zombie, or whatever else. And maybe sometimes they can't be. Sometimes the laws of the physical world do apply in headspace. Everybody is different!

Also, sometimes plurals are going to find certain things offensive, and others won't. We personally find it really offensive to think of ourselves as "parts of a whole" instead of "many people sharing a body" But I've seen others who actually find that it's comforting and healing to think of themselves as "parts" who were created from trauma. It literally always depends on the system.

[quirinus-quire]

Reminder to all the headmates/alters out there that developing a distinct style of talking, an accent, a sense of style, a sense of individuality, aside from the rest of your system, takes practice a lot of the time. You don't need to feel like you're not distinct enough, figuring out who you are can take time, and figuring out how you are most comfortable talking and existing is a process of trial and error. Don't fret about it– you'll figure it out eventually.

[corrupted-os]

🦴⛓️; One thing I don’t understand is how in some plural spaces there’s a rule like “littles must be accompanied by a big/caretaker!” As if we have control over that?

Usually our littles front alone. They can handle themselves, though (as long as Scout stays quiet, because pups voice is SO different and high-pitched and pup can’t mask pupself). Idk just fronting isn’t something especially disordered systems can control, sometimes non-disordered systems can’t either.

Offline we have our partner system who is great at calming us down when we’re triggered, and their own caretaker will front for our littles. I’m sure most other systems (especially those around our body-age) have their coping skills?

Idk it’s just a weird rule! Weirdly controlling over other systems! I haven’t seen anyone else talk about this and it’s really strange.

[robin-a-constellation]

Anyways, to be a bit more positive after my last post,

Systems who are bodily people of colour, you're cool as hell. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. You're just as valid of a system.

[the-theater-collective]

more userboxes our& bestie sys made for us& :]

[partsofapuppy]

happy pride month to all the systems this year!

whether you're all queer, just a few of you are queer, you all have a collective queer identity, you all have different sexualities and genders,

you're systemfluid, your queerness is intrinsically tied into your systemhood, you have an "unconventional" queer identity (such as aplatonic or mspec mono or lesboy or turigirl or neogenders or you use neopronouns,)

you have trauma around being queer,

you're questioning, you're a tranny, a fag, or otherwise; to all the queer systems, i wish you the best pride you can possibly have, and i hope you and your alters, parts, and headmates are proud of themselves and their queer identities.

take care of yourselves this year, and stay safe <3

don't add dni tags to my post; anyone of any syscourse stance and system type can interact. pride is for everyone

[pt: don't add dni tags to my post; anyone of any syscourse stance and system type can interact. pride is for everyone /end pt]

[heirtocragflame]

figuring out that i'm plural has been super disorienting but there is an upside of getting to see my mind and tendencies towards self loathing from an outside perspective and seeing just how silly it really is.

[felixcosm]

Some pro-endo reminders 💟 Free to use/steal!

[ontologicallyeviltortureprincess]

Never really been able to commit to empty spaces or being a furry because I'm incapable of deciding on an identity for myself. Am I an angel? Maybe! A dragon? Could be? A doll? A cat? A witch? Totally!.... sometimes. Maybe. Actually I changed my mind. It doesn't feel right anymore. I'm something else, I think. Ask me again tomorrow.

[lovecatsys]

YOU 🫵 (&)

The plural reading this.

You& need to learn plural history.

Read LB Lee's Quick'nDirty Plural History! It's free and an easy read!

Part 1

Part 2

Part 3

Part 4

And while you're at it, check out this archive of plural sites, and read When Rabbit Howls by Truddi Chase!

Instead of focusing on internet community infighting, learn your history and know your rights in the real world!

Singlets are also welcome to read and reblog, we need more allies who know our history too!

[quirinus-quire]

Fictives who identify closely with their source, who talk about their source/exomemories like it's their life, who engage in the fandom of their source, who "blorbo-ify" themselves, who want to be treated like their source, who read fanfiction of their source, you guys are awesome & valid as fuck.

[www-sys-net]

BEGGING at this point for plural discord servers that aren't fucking dead 😭🙏

[robin-a-constellation]

If you post anti-endogenic rhetoric and tag that post with the pro endo tags I will hate you for all eternity and I'm only slightly exaggerating.