#plural tag

[felixcosm]

idk if anyone can relate but this is me when i'm stressed. no i dont want to be fronting right now. NO i won't leave front.

❗💖endos, tulpas, mixed systems are welcomed and loved 💖❗

[salty-an-disco]

I don't talk much about my own plurality in relation to this game (mainly cause it still feels like a pretty new discovery for us. just last year, we were 100% sure we were a singlet despite relating to systems before), but I see a lot of talk about Long Quiet's systemhood (which is awesome and I'm glad it exists), but not too much about Shifty's, which is the one we relate to the most.

She's composed of many individual pieces, but she's also a Whole composed of those pieces. You cannot meaningfully separate the individual parts from the whole, but you also can't deny their individuality.

She's very median system to me, and has really helped me understand ourselves a lot better now that we know we're a system.

[lovecatsys]

one of the reasons i think that is hard for singlets to wrap their brain around about us plurals is that no one of us has the same experiences with everything.

i always see singlets asking us how we experience X or what X is like for us and the truth is that.... everymany of us is different.

there's some discourse around the idea of whether or not sysmembers can die in the headspace. The truth is that sometimes they can for some people! but other times they can't! Sometimes people define things like dormancy and death differently. Sometimes there are different laws inside of our headspaces, that don't apply inside of the real world. We can experience supernatural things, someone might already be dead when they show up and still exist and front. Because they're a ghost, or a zombie, or whatever else. And maybe sometimes they can't be. Sometimes the laws of the physical world do apply in headspace. Everybody is different!

Also, sometimes plurals are going to find certain things offensive, and others won't. We personally find it really offensive to think of ourselves as "parts of a whole" instead of "many people sharing a body" But I've seen others who actually find that it's comforting and healing to think of themselves as "parts" who were created from trauma. It literally always depends on the system.

[saiiboat]

offering a plural alternative to Thats what she said jokes: "thats what we said" for when that sentence is fairly multiple in nature

[quirinus-quire]

Reminder to all the headmates/alters out there that developing a distinct style of talking, an accent, a sense of style, a sense of individuality, aside from the rest of your system, takes practice a lot of the time. You don't need to feel like you're not distinct enough, figuring out who you are can take time, and figuring out how you are most comfortable talking and existing is a process of trial and error. Don't fret about it– you'll figure it out eventually.

[heavenkyssed]

i love being in a system because that's where my husband is

[the-theater-collective]

more userboxes our& bestie sys made for us& :]

[corrupted-os]

🦴⛓️; One thing I don’t understand is how in some plural spaces there’s a rule like “littles must be accompanied by a big/caretaker!” As if we have control over that?

Usually our littles front alone. They can handle themselves, though (as long as Scout stays quiet, because pups voice is SO different and high-pitched and pup can’t mask pupself). Idk just fronting isn’t something especially disordered systems can control, sometimes non-disordered systems can’t either.

Offline we have our partner system who is great at calming us down when we’re triggered, and their own caretaker will front for our littles. I’m sure most other systems (especially those around our body-age) have their coping skills?

Idk it’s just a weird rule! Weirdly controlling over other systems! I haven’t seen anyone else talk about this and it’s really strange.

[heirtocragflame]

we're like if a slime girl got split into three parts but immediately merged back into one

[felixcosm]

Some pro-endo reminders 💟 Free to use/steal!

[salty-an-disco]

I'm starting to realize the reason I'll sometimes suddenly change how I go about drawing (including slight difference in style and the process itself) might be related to the different facets

I'm not gonna look much deeper into it cuz it honestly sounds like too much work when the differences are sometimes pretty minor (and Vi will probably do it for me), but it's a thing that just dawned on me

[lovecatsys]

My plural perspective on Severance is that the innies deserve to be able to exist in the outside world as their own people and be able to switch with their outies on a daily basis. Whether or not this will actually end up happening in the story is debatable but they have the right to exist on their own terms instead of being reintegrated.

[saiiboat]

HAPPY YEAR OF PLURALITY. MASS UNDORMANCY EVENT.

genuinely kind of mind-blowing. plus the general feeling of my head exploding but yeah :3333 this is a huge thing for us and is a big step on our healing jouney or whateverrrrr like nerd shit or something ^_^

freed the blog up by titling it what it actually is which is our big personal blog for anyone in the system. our "main" so to speak. wowwwwww we're a blogger who uses a main blog now can u believe..

[quirinus-quire]

Fictives who identify closely with their source, who talk about their source/exomemories like it's their life, who engage in the fandom of their source, who "blorbo-ify" themselves, who want to be treated like their source, who read fanfiction of their source, you guys are awesome & valid as fuck.

[partsofapuppy]

happy pride month to all the systems this year!

whether you're all queer, just a few of you are queer, you all have a collective queer identity, you all have different sexualities and genders,

you're systemfluid, your queerness is intrinsically tied into your systemhood, you have an "unconventional" queer identity (such as aplatonic or mspec mono or lesboy or turigirl or neogenders or you use neopronouns,)

you have trauma around being queer,

you're questioning, you're a tranny, a fag, or otherwise; to all the queer systems, i wish you the best pride you can possibly have, and i hope you and your alters, parts, and headmates are proud of themselves and their queer identities.

take care of yourselves this year, and stay safe <3

don't add dni tags to my post; anyone of any syscourse stance and system type can interact. pride is for everyone

[pt: don't add dni tags to my post; anyone of any syscourse stance and system type can interact. pride is for everyone /end pt]

[the-theater-collective]

we forgot to post these, also by our bestie sys