#relationships

[dangerouslyfurrydragon]

Date someone who naturally brings out your inner child, makes you laugh, never stops flirting with you, and loves you a little extra on the days you don't feel so loveable.

[loveelizabeths]

love elizabeth s.

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

I hate when people imply that you can't love others before you love yourself, when actually most of us learn how to love ourselves through being loved by others. Which means that if you haven't been loved properly by others, the solution to that trauma usually isn't to try to fix yourself in isolation

[graysongoal]

I love this.

[incognitopolls]

Assume that this is not a business trip and neither person is obligated to go; they've chosen to go on this trip and no one else is going. Assume you are unable to go for whatever reason.

Compatible orientations means, for example, your partner is a lesbian and the friend is a woman who dates women; your partner is a bisexual man and the friend dates men; your partner is a straight woman and the friend is a straight man; etc.

(If you/your partner are poly, add whatever context would be necessary for you personally to consider it cheating if your partner were to do anything romantic or sexual with them.)

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[desultory-suggestions]

Stopping yourself mid-conflict to change your perspective is allowed! It’s okay and normal to be mid argument with someone and realize you disagree with your own stance. Often I find myself and others caught up in trying to win the argument (not the point of arguments!) or too embarrassed to back down and be wrong. I promise there is so much more pride in going “Stop! I’m wrong. I hear you and I see how I wasn’t in the right and I want to amend my view” than digging your heels in.

[m00wd]

I can say goodbye to you a thousand times, but I still don't know how to leave.

—M00wd

[mosscaller]

Then let me be ruined. Let me cloak you in my love.

Drown in my devotion. Allow a moment, so you may know the depth of my soul and I will speak our love into the ages.

— Ocean Vuong, from On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous (via letsbelonelytogetherr)

[going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi]

not super into the idea of being married but VERY into the idea of getting to say "this is my husband" or "gotta get home to my wife"

[dspressed]

I highly recommend a clingy, lovey-dovey partner. Life’s too short to be with someone who acts like showing love is a chore

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[loredwy]

To be honest, if you say that only when watching a fat person eating something deemed unhealthy, and stay completely silent when you see a thin person do the same, I see how it could be considered fatphobic.

You'd be relating health to fat distribution, and guessing that "if theyre thin, they may not be eating this unhealthy foods often enough to get fat". Meanwhile, for the fat person, itd be a guess that "they probably dont eat healthy foods often or excercise enough", which is where the recommendation would come from.

Its a matter of context. Just like backhanded compliments can be found in comments of pictures of fat people sometimes, talking about "how brave they are, if I were fat Id never dress that way" or similar wording.

Intentional or not, it can end up being offensive in certain contexts 🤷

The funny thing is that I can fully see where a lot of very dumb discourse on this site came from but it doesnt make it any less perplexing

"Weight is most often determined by genetics rather than lifestyle choices, and the connection to health is not as black and white as TLC would have you believe": yeah, im with you.

"A person's health is not in any way connected to their worth as a person, and its not any of your business how healthy someone is to begin with, nor is it fair to demand fat people bend over backwards to perform health for you in a way you never ask of skinny people": absolutely. Completely agree with you.

"Saying that vegetables and exercise are good for you is fatphobic": okay what the hell happened here

[seraphinitegames]

I love the implication in ex bobby's route in book 2 that no matter how not close or close you and rebecca are she always hates bobby's guts. 'What is he doing here?' Bro said fuck that man

Rebecca is definitely not a Bobby fan, hehe! :D

Thank you so much for the fun message! :)

[incognitopolls]

For the purposes of this poll, "couch" can also mean any other atypical "bed" solution– futon, pile of blankets on the floor, etc.

"A specific person moves to the couch regardless of who got sick"– for example, your partner has back issues and can't sleep on the couch, so if either of you gets sick you're the one who moves to the couch.

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