#Proship

[ablogmyirlscantfind]

me and who (im the fat one)

kissies hehe

[inho-gihun]

“stop romanticizing this ship. it’s toxic and abusive 🤬 people who ship them romanticize abuse🤬” the only thing people will take from your post is that your brain hasn’t developed well enough for you to separate fiction from reality

“fiction affects reality 🤬” by this logic, Hannibal fans are cannibals and people who like horror / slasher films are murderers

“shipping them is insensitive and triggering to abuse victims🤬” by this logic, Squid Game is insensitive and triggering to murder victims and their families, and everything is, one way or another, insensitive and triggering to some people

[corpsething]

How antis look at you when they ignore every warning for problematic content and they end up seeing problematic content

[the--queen-of--hell]

If you're a radqueer or a groomer in the proship fandom, fuck off, this is not your place.

[orukudorku]

And they’re not sadly 💔

"Be cringe be free!"

Are you cool with proshippers? Are you cool with alt art styles? Are you cool with furries? Are you cool with cute 2000s anime without you calling it loli/shota bait? Are you cool with fujoshis/Himejoshis/Fudanshis/Himedanshis? are you cool with-

[proshippers-against-censorship]

I just saw something tagged 'anti crackship'

What the fuck is wrong with crackshipping?

They're allergic to fun.

[autistichalsin]

Actually no one should be having sex. All of us are aged-up minors and the passage of time is inherently problematic

[elysiaswaifu]

i would goon to lolis and shotas in the prison. no internet? imagination

sorry that you think my fictional ship is illegal. I actually consulted a fictional lawyer about it and he had a talk with a fictional cop about the fictional laws and then they both looked at me, and very seriously said "we'll allow it because it's hot."

[myfandomrealitea]

I am actually begging some people to just let some spaces exist untouched by real-world issues and horrors.

Like I've lost count of the amount of times peaceful game or fandom servers have been ruined by people stampeding in with political rants, bitching about world issues, demanding internal activism, demanding vent channels so they can whine about their shitty parents, ect.

Like. Respectfully. Not every single space has to be inclusive of and welcoming of outside topics. The real world sucks. We don't needed to be reminded of that absolutely everywhere.

[enemywasp]

I'm sorry I keep posting my tiktok comments but please. What does this mean. What do people THINK shipping is for anymore???

[ratunderneathahat]

"Ao3 should allow multiple kudos" "I want to be able to leave more than one kudos"

COMMENT ON THE FUCKING FIC

I SWEAR TO GOD NO ONE COMMENTS MUCH NOW WHEN THE ONLY WAY TO SHOW APPRECIATION FOR A SINGLE CHAPTER IS COMMENTING AND I AM NOT HAVING THIS BULLSHIT BE LIKE TIKTOK WHERE NO ONE EVER COMMENTS POSITIVITY

FOR FUCKS SAKE JUST COMMENT ON THE FUCKING FIC YOU DON'T NEED A MULTIPLE KUDOS BUTTON YOU NEED ACTUAL WORDS

TRUST ME ON ANY WEBSITE OR APP I POST COMMENTS AND WORDS ARE 10X BETTER THAN ANY PLAIN LIKE AND WORDLESS REBLOG IF YOU LIKE SOMETHING LEAVE WORDS

COMMENT

ON

THE

FUCKING

FICS

[adulthumanproblem]

Meanwhile engaging with what's deemed "problematic" has forced me to think about my stances more and especially think a lot about consent, what it means and who can and can't consent

Engaging safely in problematic issues has made it possible for me to recognize things like manipulation and abuse much more easily, and has allowed me to see that these things aren't just done by "bad people", and neither to they need conscious effort to happen. You can be an abuser without knowing, wanting, or meaning to

Engaging in dark fictional content will not desensitize you, it will make more resilient towards real life problems

You know how in superhero where a person with new powers has to actually USE those to be able to control them? It's like that. Fiction allows you engage in harmful topics in a safe and controlled manner, so that you can face them irl without breaking down immediately. It's like stretching a muscle

And lastly, censorship has never helped anything or anyone ever. It harms people and makes them much more susceptible to abuse and propaganda and things like that

Does abstinence only sex ed reduce the number of STIs and pregnancies? Nope. They're having sex anyway, but unsafely because they never learned safe sex. Did the Tumblr porn ban reduce the amount of porn? Nope. But now you get confronted with porn whether you want to or not because the content isn't tagged for properly to avoid censorship, and artists get banned for drawing a nonsexual nipple

You're totally allowed to not like something in fiction. But always remember that fictional characters cannot be harmed in any way. Real people can. Harassing and doxxing and sui baiting real people harms REAL PEOPLE

And also, just from a logical standpoint: would you rather people did these bad things to real people? Do you value your precious fictional characters more than real people? Who is truly the immoral one here?

Just block what you don't like. I blocked most people who ship a pairing I don't like, even though I've never interacted with them. Curate your own goddamn online experience and stop harassing people over how they play with their dollies!

"Proship will desensitize you to-"

You tell people to kill themselves—adults and children alike—without thinking anything of it.

Anti-ship rhetoric has desensitized you to child exploitation, harassment, and suicide.

Stop worrying about imaginary, hypothetical problems and confront your own disconnect from empathy.

[pro-sipper]

"i want more media with zero drama, no tension, and zero problematic characters and i am not joking"

Great! Here are my recommendations:

[talonsin]

[synf3ll]

"if you're going to write dark fiction you should explicitly state that it's not okay to do in real life so that a child doesn't see it and think it's okay"

actually i don't cater my art to children, my art is not intended for children, and it's not my responsibility to parent them. hope this helps