#paraphile

[paraily]

yesterday's trauma is today's fetish

[promotionaldisk]

purposely getting me to age regress and then violently fucking me while i sob and moan uncontrollably because i don’t understand what’s going on

[urstoryteller]

thought crimes arent real. that includes thoughts about real life things. just so yall know

[xxnecromaniacxx]

theyre takin me down to the morgue to get my virginity taken away tomorrow

[eliza-the-hunted]

I'm an aspiring psychologist, I don't like discussing certain things online because I know how knee jerk and defensive everyone is...but this is annoying me, so I gotta say it:

A lot of you have a paraphilia and you don't even realize it.

Paraphiles come in all shapes and sizes. It's literally just anything considered sexually abnormal, which is anything that's not basic, vanilla sex.

Paraphile isn't a big, scary, icky word. It doesn't always just mean "pedophile", or "zoophile". It can be a huge range of things. If you have a fetish that a normie would consider abnormal or weird, you could most likely consider yourself a paraphile!

Paraphila literally just translates to "atypical attraction".

If you want an example: I am a fictiphile, I am attracted to fictional characters more-so than I am IRL people. This is a paraphilia.

I'll probably delete this later, because I know how much people hate this topic, but it's just been annoying the heck out of me.

Here is a list of what's considered a paraphilia:

Common paraphilias: Vore, cannibalism, inflation, diapers, most BDSM, petplay, and more.

Be more educated, stop treating paraphile/paraphilia as some big scary no-no word.

[seeresultssweep]

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ik this blog is dead but yknow what, im gonna take advantage of my following to make an important post:

this pride month, i want you to educate yourselves & support the "controversial" queers.

& no i dont mean people with contradictory labels or xeno pronouns or those who use outdated/offensive terminology. i mean the people that even the most sex-positive, pro-kink, self-proclaimed perverts think are dangerous freaks who deserve to die.

i mean the paraphiles & people with taboo or stigmatized kinks/fetishes. i mean the people into the most taboo & stigmatized things like children, animals, corpses, & incest. i mean the people into violent things like murder, gore, rape, & abuse. i mean the people into unsanitary things like piss, shit, vomit, sweat, & snot. i mean the people into things that are constantly memed on like feet, armpits, bodily excretions, cartoon characters, pool toys, & plushies. i mean the people with attractions that would be illegal, immoral, or downright impossible to act out in real life.

no attraction is inherently harmful or evil. there are safe ways to indulge in these things such as fictional content, roleplay with consenting partners, & custom sex toys.

no, i dont think paraphilias are lgbt+ identities. they cant really be grouped into the same category or treated the same way as being gay or trans. but paraphilias are undeniably queer, as theyre highly stigmatized attractions that fall outside the norm. paraphiles face far more violence & hatred than any other lgbtq identity you can think of. it is still normalized & accepted to subject paraphiles to abusive treatments that have been proven to be cruel & ineffective, such as conversion therapy, forced sterilization, & excessive medication. even queer people forget their own history & advocate for this kind of abuse for paraphiles. there is no safe space for paraphiles to seek support, acceptance, or community the way lgbtq has pride, & that's a damn shame.

& believe it or not, many (maybe even most!) paraphiles are gay, bi, pan, poly, trans, nonbinary, aro, ace, & any other lgbtq identity you can think of.

so yes, paraphiles belong at pride. spend this month unlearning preconceived biases & educate yourself on what paraphilias actually are & how theyre not inherently dangerous.

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[paraily2]

I always felt alienated as someone who has childhood sexual trauma but wasn’t hurt by a pedophile. I didn’t know where I fit.

Was I hurt by an adult? Yes. 

But they didn’t do it out of lust or attraction. I felt the need to justify my trauma by somehow convincing myself that maybe they were attracted to me–even though they weren’t.

Quite frankly, I didn’t believe I had sexual trauma until I was able to truly comprehend that MAPs and child molesters are two very different things. I clung onto the idea so much of the “inherently evil pedophile who sought out to get me” because it felt like the only way to validate my trauma.

I realize that is no longer the case, and understanding that my abuser(s) weren’t MAPs has been healing for me. I’ve been able to look at my trauma objectively rather than making it easily digestible for myself and others.

I know there are so many others like me—those who also suppress their childhood sexual trauma because their abuser doesn’t fit the “scary pedophile who likes kids” mold.

I see you all. Your sexual trauma deserves to be acknowledged.

Learning that most sexual abuse doesn’t stem from attraction but instead power is a valuable thing for everyone to learn. And I can only hope that knowledge becomes more widespread.

[cannibalsmayhem]

◞ map　 cosang 　...

꒰ mapcosang ꒱　for　pals　who　are　map　and　cosang　at　the　same　time　...

◞ necro　 cosang 　...

꒰ necrocosang ꒱　for　pals　who　are　necro　and　cosang　at　the　same　time　...

◞ insomniac　 cosang 　...

꒰ insomniacosang ꒱　for　pals　who　are　insomnophile　and　cosang　at　the　same　time　...

[mons7errr]

paraphiles are cool and awesome and thinking we need to be in wards is ableist and just stupid

[bokuwaamdallla]

oh we never showed this bf here so

we have 2 archive accounts on pinterest!!

transid archive

para archive

[paraily]

My heart goes out to trans paraphiles.

You are not a disgrace or making the trans community look bad. The stereotype of the “perverted, predatory transgender” should have never existed in the first place. 

You belong here and are beautiful ♥️

[promotionaldisk]

ngl the more “problematic” a person is the more i wanna ride them til i pass out

[rqplushie]

🐾 pettoism !! 🐾

🐶;; a fult/neoreligion based on living like an animal/pet!! (using things like food bowls, chew toys, dog beds, faux ears and tails, edible animal food and treats, etc!!)

🦴 ~ coined by me!

🧸 - requested by anon <3

[parasiticly]

*carving my name into your chest* oh oh fuck i fucked up i didn’t spell it right oh jesus christ everyone is gonna think i’m an idiot oh no oh no oh n

[corporatecoinings]

Anti-contact paraphilia/c freak

A flag for anti-contact paraphiles who are freaks / can reclaim the slur freak | for freaks that are anti-contact paraphiles.

This is not for / not intended to be used by transids/transx and radqueers.

Anti-contact paraphile flag by @rwuffles

Freak flag by @enderluna

[kittyshenhe]

tag game!

Reblog this with pictures of things you'd give to your mutuals/friends as a gift

@n3on1nf3cti0n

@xx-lun4c3st-xx

@honestloverboy

Merry Christmas!🎄🎁☃️