vampire-nyx
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"Because I said so" straight up isn't as good an answer as you think it is.
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if it doesn’t feel like this when you discuss media with your friend then you’re not doing it right

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"He's an escaped schizophrenic/ a diagnosed psychopath/has multiple personalities/etc!!"
Yeah, and I'm turning off my TV ¯\(ツ)/¯
#I know I’m always preaching but please play Outlast#it’s extremely cathartic when you’ve dealt with decades of shit ableist media#the immediate antagonists are mentally ill people but the game absolutely beats you over the head#with the fact that they are victims and it’s not their fault and you’re never encouragéed to think the mental illness is evil#I totally understand hesitance to play an asylum based horror game but I PROMISE it balances immediate scares with making you understand the#overarching hauntingly tragic narrative of a corporation abusing vulnerable people and the horrors of forced institutionalization
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my high school used to start at 7:30 and I lowkey think that was child abuse
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we need to invent a way to explain how deep running and pervasive and subliminal racism and antiblackness is without immediately sounding like an insane conspiracy theorist
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“hes a woman to me” IS HE? or are you equating women with submissive character traits you've arbitrarily put on a random man
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my doctor told me i have to do PT this fucking sucks
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No, Google Docs, there is a distinct difference between "cussing" and "cursing."
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I love the Ally response vs the Trans Woman response
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Sometimes it's refreshing to remember that there is no such thing as being objectively right or wrong, there's just people of different perspectives, and someone whose activities or lifestyle are obviously wrong to you might look at you the exact same way.
Came by a discussion about how some people insist that it's normal in a relationship to always be - and always have to be - watching your partner to make sure that they're not cheating. Starting from the assumption that simply having the opportunity to cheat is all it takes, and the only way to keep one's partner exclusive is to systematically eliminate all opportunities to fuck someone else.
And I started thinking, what's the fucking point in that? Trust is supposed to be the foundation of a relationship. That's not even a relationship at that point, you're essentially just playing house with someone that you don't even actually like.
Then I recalled hearing someone else say the same thing about romantic relationships that have no sex. That you're just playing house with someone you don't like. And that was illuminating. Some people will just rather be in a relationship with sex but no trust, or in a relationship with trust but no sex, and think that the opposite side is just flat-out objectively wrong about what a relationship is.
Sometimes you've just go to look at the way that some other people choose to live, and quietly think to yourself: "wow, I would rather kill myself than live like that, but I guess if someone has to be living that way, I'm glad that someone else is doing it."
#‘isn’t it interesting that there’s no universal right or wrong and two very different relationship style can be equally as horrified#at each other and both think the other is insane’#‘oh my god op I’m one of those relationship structures and the other is OBJECTIVELY EVIL!!!! how could you not account for this!’#some people do not understand that you can acknowledge things you don’t agree with and understand them logically
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it’s like society will die if it doesn’t refer to trans men as women for like. two seconds.
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Non passing trans men don't benefit from misogyny whatsoever, besides possibly on the internet. If they are seen as a woman in someone's eyes, especially legally, they do not benefit from it. If you are not seen as a man by society, regardless of if you are or not, you do not benefit from misogyny.
It's that fuckin simple.
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