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i really like this guy but he wears skinny jeans with slides :(
HWOSBSOSYAO
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it is 2024 can we PLEASE stop w these kind of videos now. thanks
#tw homophobia#tw ableism#obviously this is an exaggeration but like. is it?#these videos attract the WEIRDEST combination of like actual right wing “i hate everyone who isn't 'normal' by my definition” ppl#and like. queer and nd people who crave validation from conservatives and want to prove “we're not like THOSE freaks”#the right hates everyone. it doesn't matter if your name is thomas and ur fully transitioned or ur name is ✨️arson✨️ ze/it/pup#if u dont fit their narrow idea of “normal” anything u say is immediately invalid#mental illness#nd#neurodivergent#cringe culture is dead#cringe culture#cringe#tiktok#ableism#queer#queer discourse#transgender#transphobia#anti exclusionist#leftist
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HEY.
Feel however you want to feel about the OFMD S2 finale but DO NOT make claims about a "straight white man" ruining the show. The writers room was mostly queer POC. Don't erase their skill, hard work, and representative voices just because you're upset. Show some respect.
#ofmd s2#ofmd s2e8#genuinely your feelings are valid but your criticism is not#most of the show's writers are not straight white men#and to say a straight white man ruined things completely invalidates their work on the show#do you really think they contributed nothing#that they were all just tokens#seriously stop it
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Can anyone tell me why lesboys/turigirls/gaybians are so hated in the queer community when the entire point of this community is to be yourselves and destroy gender norms?
Aren’t we supposed to be supporting every form of queerness, even weird and confusing forms, and continuing to break down those societal pressures around sexuality?
Everyone preaches inclusivity, freedom, and equality, and tells you to be queer and proud! Until you’re too queer. Until your queerness can’t just be boiled down to “boy who likes girls” or “nonbinary who likes girls”. Sometimes gender and sexuality are twisted up and combined together, sometimes they’re complicated. Sometimes gender isn’t one feeling, but a bunch of tiny feelings. Sometimes gender is several things at once.
So why is all of that so easy to accept… until it comes to lesboys/turigirls/gaybians? Why is it so hard to understand that I’m both a boy and a girl who is gay for men and lesbian for women? Using the terms I use gives me euphoria. And why is it okay to take my euphoria from me when you just don’t want to understand my identity?
The same arguments I see thrown around attacking lesboys have been used against neopronouns and xenogenders. But now xeno/neo users are LITERALLY using those arguments against other identities. How does that make sense??
#𝟎𝟎𝟏 ⭑ ( LIVE FROM INKOPOLIS )#rant post#mogaiblr#lesboy#turigirl#gaybian#i fear there’s far too many people who don’t actually understand mspec labels#mspec safe#pro good faith#good faith identity#good faith safe#lesboys are valid#turigirls are valid#gaybians are valid#intersex queers are valid#stop forgetting about intersex people#and stop acting like every new identity is evil and invalid
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one thing i hate ab the hotd fandom is that back in my day u could just like joffrey and not get crucified for it because we had the brain capacity to understand that yes he is a terrible terrible person and a literal tyrant but he’s still a fucking compelling character. w hotd everyone is desperate for some moral high ground and it’s soooo annoying. let us like our fucked up characters in peace nobody here is perfect, that’s literally the point of the dance. they all commit atrocities and comparing them like this just to shame each other and prove one side is better than the other is such a waste of time.
#house of the dragon#hotd commentary#hotd critical#hotd fandom#hotd#team black#team green#rhaenyra targeryan#daemon targaryen#alicent hightower#aemond targaryen#jacaerys velaryon#lucerys valeryon#aegon ii targaryen#this doesn’t invalidate other valid criticism of characters#i just think that while we can criticise characters (rightfully) we should also just be able to like them
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#sherliam#william james moriarty#sherlock holmes#yuukoku no moriarty#moriarty the patriot#yuumori#my art#you know how william is worried abt other ppl trying to be mindful bc of his left eye right#and it got me thinking about#what if he's self-conscious about it#like appearance wise#and then comes sherlock who turns out to be worried about it as well#but for an entirely different reason#and it kinda makes william feel bad#william's worry is valid still#but sherlock helps him look at it differently#...honestly!#what i've been typing is just my hc but#canonically that's what sherlock always does#offer people other perspectives about their problems without invalidating their feelings#master of detangling i'd say#he's amazing and i like him a lot
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How fucked is it that I, a trans man, feel uncomfortable referring to myself as a man purely for the comfort of others.
9 times out of 10 I call myself a trans 'guy' because the people around me get uncomfortable at the idea of a man, which I have internalised and now feel bad for identifying as a 'threat' or something to be disliked.
Trans men (and cis men for that matter), it's okay to be a man. There is nothing wrong with being a man.
#ftm trans#trans man#transgender#internalised transphobia#transandrophobia#trans men are valid#men are valid#this post is not shitting on women or saying anything to invalidate women#queer#lgbtq#lgbtqia
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The queer community became a joke once people started doing validity olympics
#invalid this not valid that motherfucker people are trying to erase us ALL from society#queer#lgbtq#lgbt#trans#xenogender#mspec lesbian#mspec gay#lesboy#turigirl
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If I was a code, and you would type me in, it would say invalid.
(I wanted to say enter me, but yeah)
#meme humor#dankest memes#dark humour#dark humor#humour#humor#meme#dank meme#dank memes#tumblr memes#funny post#funny shit#Valid#Invalid#haha#funny stuff#funny#funnyshit#funny memes#sad thoughts#sadgirl#dark memes#lol#lol memes#funny tumblr#og post#og#lol sorry#rant post#random
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People who try to define lesbian solely by the exclusion on men and men aligned people are weird and come off as kinda immature to me
And I'm not just talking about the "nmlnm" people, I'm also talking about the people that will question a lesbian's sexuality if she idolizes a male celebrity, because no lesbian could ever like a man enough to put pictures of him all over her wall unless she wasn't really a lesbian
Apparently????
It's the people who make it a point that they have a distaste for or hatred of men, and they've tied that into their sexual orientation
Then they go "can we have something that's not all about men for once?", not realizing that by using the exclusion of men to define a certain identity they still are making it all about men
And talking about bi-lesbians with people like this always comes down to what is basically "well bisexuality can include attraction to men and I don't want boy cooties on my sexuality!"
Literally grow up
#queer discourse#lesbian#mspec lesbian#pro mspec lesbian#sapphic#anti exclusionist#fuck exclusionists#bi lesbian#pan lesbian#lesboy#he/him lesbian#hating men is not a valid reason to invalidate others#fuck off safequeers#exclusionists need to grow tf up
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endos claiming to be oppressed is lowkey jaw droppingly outrageous
you're really that dense?
YOU are ableist. YOU are feeding into oppression.
"oh i'll never support ableists"
look in the goddamn mirror
why do you think actual systems say you aren't punk if you're endo? because you're the oppressor. you're the one making it 10x worse for actual disabled folk. a REAL punk would never do that. a REAL punk wouldn't ignore the majority of the scientific community in favour of living in a dumbfuck circlejerk of quacks.
the lack of self awareness is unreal
#actually plural#anti endo#did system#endos are fakers#did#endogenic#plural#tulpas are invalid#endos are invalid#plurality#endos aren't real#anti endogenic#endo system#endos#endo#endogenic system#endos are liars#endos arent valid#endos are ableist#plural community#pluralgang#pluralpunk#syspunk#system punk#actually a system#actually actually a system#actually diagnosed
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he has a gf
we don’t engage in infidelity here. spraying u with water
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I 1000000000% believe in Carol and Daryl going canon
my name's hanna, and i am toxic and aggressively positive about #caryl. i believe in what i am watching on screen, i believe in Melissa, and i believe in hope. cause we all gotta believe in something. 😊
#twd#the walking dead#caryl#i have zero agendas#i aint gonna come to you and force you to believe anything#you do you#whatever you're feeling is valid#so dont come and try to invalidate my own feelings#you've been warned#my toxic positivity might be contagious!#hanna.txt
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Let's be honest- anti endos have done far more damage than pro endos have done. As an UDD system, we get a lot of crap because it's not a "final diagnosis". Because of antis, we keep looking for validation from other systems to exist. We have npd, and the way some people go on about our dire need of acceptance has got us to crash. Its horrible
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#anon let me tell you a thing about validation#it comes from WITHIN YOU and your system#you are the ones who know your experiences best#don't let some random idiots on the internet tell you who and what you are#they aren't you and they don't know you#you are your own validation#that goes for ALL systems out there who suffer from feeling invalidated#your existence is real because you are real#remember all of this please#pluralgang#plural community#plurality#pro endo#pluralpunk#endo friendly#mixed origin system#traumaendo#endogenic safe#plural#plural positivity
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"lesbian men" when they realize that they aren't lesbian and just making allat up to look special (they are straight)
#woohoo finally not a proship slander post since u guys keep harrassing me for it#should I start posting lesboy and other invalid term slander#I will still post proship slander tho#just saying chat#XD#lesboys aren't valid#anti lesboy#lesboy dni#anti gaybian#anti straightbian#anti proship#anti darkship#anti lolicon#darkship dni#anti paraphilia#doodle#anti shotacon
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I feel like there’s a metaphor in here somewhere
#aroallo#aromantic allosexual#aro#aromantic#aspec#something about how media treats aroallos#or how people think aro=ace#just reread this and it sounded like I was saying aroallos are invalid I SWEAR IM NOT#I love aroallos you are amazing#and sooo valid#im overthinkinggg anywayssss
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