#valid or invalid

[idontmindifuforgetme]

i really like this guy but he wears skinny jeans with slides :(

HWOSBSOSYAO

[st-a-y]

Feeling like you're too much is honestly one of the worst feelings to possibly exist. It just feels like you need to stop being yourself and existing all together. It's like you crawl out of your own skin and laugh in disgust at what remains, it's pathetic. And so saddening.

[tudirkulosis]

it is 2024 can we PLEASE stop w these kind of videos now. thanks

[thetardigrape]

HEY.

Feel however you want to feel about the OFMD S2 finale but DO NOT make claims about a "straight white man" ruining the show. The writers room was mostly queer POC. Don't erase their skill, hard work, and representative voices just because you're upset. Show some respect.

[valinoar]

one thing i hate ab the hotd fandom is that back in my day u could just like joffrey and not get crucified for it because we had the brain capacity to understand that yes he is a terrible terrible person and a literal tyrant but he’s still a fucking compelling character. w hotd everyone is desperate for some moral high ground and it’s soooo annoying. let us like our fucked up characters in peace nobody here is perfect, that’s literally the point of the dance. they all commit atrocities and comparing them like this just to shame each other and prove one side is better than the other is such a waste of time.

[bloodonvalentine]

endos claiming to be oppressed is lowkey jaw droppingly outrageous

you're really that dense?

YOU are ableist. YOU are feeding into oppression.

"oh i'll never support ableists"

look in the goddamn mirror

why do you think actual systems say you aren't punk if you're endo? because you're the oppressor. you're the one making it 10x worse for actual disabled folk. a REAL punk would never do that. a REAL punk wouldn't ignore the majority of the scientific community in favour of living in a dumbfuck circlejerk of quacks.

the lack of self awareness is unreal

[biteofboredom]

How fucked is it that I, a trans man, feel uncomfortable referring to myself as a man purely for the comfort of others.

9 times out of 10 I call myself a trans 'guy' because the people around me get uncomfortable at the idea of a man, which I have internalised and now feel bad for identifying as a 'threat' or something to be disliked.

Trans men (and cis men for that matter), it's okay to be a man. There is nothing wrong with being a man.

[scientificbiosecurity]

"lesbian men" when they realize that they aren't lesbian and just making allat up to look special (they are straight)

[puke-ur-gutz]

"you don't descend into right-wing rhetoric just because you have a mental health crisis" speak for your own family and experiences. this is a documented phenomenon in cis-men.

[sirenium]

The queer community became a joke once people started doing validity olympics

[shadowymetalhead]

If I was a code, and you would type me in, it would say invalid.

(I wanted to say enter me, but yeah)

[idontmindifuforgetme]

he has a gf

we don’t engage in infidelity here. spraying u with water

[midnight-wood]

tell me why our favorite cutie pie, Xavier, likes to tell us you don’t need sports/exercise to live and then proceeds to wear a hoodie that says this

(BlanchE Good health is always young Life needs sports)

SIR

[plague-and-creatures]

People who try to define lesbian solely by the exclusion on men and men aligned people are weird and come off as kinda immature to me

And I'm not just talking about the "nmlnm" people, I'm also talking about the people that will question a lesbian's sexuality if she idolizes a male celebrity, because no lesbian could ever like a man enough to put pictures of him all over her wall unless she wasn't really a lesbian

Apparently????

It's the people who make it a point that they have a distaste for or hatred of men, and they've tied that into their sexual orientation

Then they go "can we have something that's not all about men for once?", not realizing that by using the exclusion of men to define a certain identity they still are making it all about men

And talking about bi-lesbians with people like this always comes down to what is basically "well bisexuality can include attraction to men and I don't want boy cooties on my sexuality!"

Literally grow up

[mcbride]

I 1000000000% believe in Carol and Daryl going canon

my name's hanna, and i am toxic and aggressively positive about #caryl. i believe in what i am watching on screen, i believe in Melissa, and i believe in hope. cause we all gotta believe in something. 😊

[pluralhottakes]

Let's be honest- anti endos have done far more damage than pro endos have done. As an UDD system, we get a lot of crap because it's not a "final diagnosis". Because of antis, we keep looking for validation from other systems to exist. We have npd, and the way some people go on about our dire need of acceptance has got us to crash. Its horrible

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