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i really like this guy but he wears skinny jeans with slides :(
HWOSBSOSYAO
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Get in the car if you are asexual aroace or aromantic

#aroace#asexual#aromantic#asexual pride#asexuality#aromantic pride#aromantism#aroace pride#we hate allosexuality#trio of forgotten sexualities#trio of invalid sexualities 😭#we deserve recognition#Regina George meme#👌 👌👌 👌 💯 👌 👀 👀 👀 👌👌good shit#arospec#acespec#aroace spectrum#aro/ace#meme#you are valid#canon#facts
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these are the murderbot artworks Tommy Arnold did for the Subterranean Press omnibus editions of the series, and a photo of Kevin R. Free, who narrates the murderbot audiobooks. when fans complain about the casting for the tv show, there is a very real basis for it in these past official/canonical aspects of the book series
#the murderbot diaries#tmbd#murderbot show#like. it is completely normal and wonderful to headcanon a character#who doesn’t have an in-text description#as a person of color in fanworks and such#im not criticizing that or saying that sort of fandom-wide design decision is an invalid base for an argument against the casting#i just feel the need to point out that there is very real and apparent subtext in these aspects of the series#that have suggested murderbot is brown#even if these things didn’t exist. i still think you could make valid arguments about the merit of having an actor of color in this role#i just really want to emphasize that there is a canonical basis for the common fan perception of mb as a poc#sorry if im over-explaining my point#im just really put off by the casting of a blonde white man as mb#i also want to be clear im not trying to like. lambast the show or get it cancelled or anything#creative decisions were made. things are set in stone already. whatever#i personally already dislike it very much and am not looking forward to it#im just trying to like. explain why im so pissed about this ig#💫
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Fun fact: Do not argue with or try to educate people who use the valid / invalid stuff they WILL NOT listen
#.⎯♗·】#“this thing isnt valid because i said so!!”#you are talking about real living breathing and alive beings... what the fuck do you mean “invalid”#mogai#mogai community#liom#liom community#pro good faith identity#good faith labels#lesboy#turigirl#gaybian#mspec lesbian#mspec gay#sapphillean#alterhuman community#alterhuman#nonhuman#nonhuman community#therian#fictionkin#otherlink#factkin#physical nonhuman#otherkin#endo friendly#non traumagenic friendly#<- not into syscourse but i am putting endo safe stuff because you cant know whats going on in someone elses mind yk#paraphilia safe#paraphile safe
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HEY.
Feel however you want to feel about the OFMD S2 finale but DO NOT make claims about a "straight white man" ruining the show. The writers room was mostly queer POC. Don't erase their skill, hard work, and representative voices just because you're upset. Show some respect.
#ofmd s2#ofmd s2e8#genuinely your feelings are valid but your criticism is not#most of the show's writers are not straight white men#and to say a straight white man ruined things completely invalidates their work on the show#do you really think they contributed nothing#that they were all just tokens#seriously stop it
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one thing i hate ab the hotd fandom is that back in my day u could just like joffrey and not get crucified for it because we had the brain capacity to understand that yes he is a terrible terrible person and a literal tyrant but he’s still a fucking compelling character. w hotd everyone is desperate for some moral high ground and it’s soooo annoying. let us like our fucked up characters in peace nobody here is perfect, that’s literally the point of the dance. they all commit atrocities and comparing them like this just to shame each other and prove one side is better than the other is such a waste of time.
#house of the dragon#hotd commentary#hotd critical#hotd fandom#hotd#team black#team green#rhaenyra targeryan#daemon targaryen#alicent hightower#aemond targaryen#jacaerys velaryon#lucerys valeryon#aegon ii targaryen#this doesn’t invalidate other valid criticism of characters#i just think that while we can criticise characters (rightfully) we should also just be able to like them
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endos claiming to be oppressed is lowkey jaw droppingly outrageous
you're really that dense?
YOU are ableist. YOU are feeding into oppression.
"oh i'll never support ableists"
look in the goddamn mirror
why do you think actual systems say you aren't punk if you're endo? because you're the oppressor. you're the one making it 10x worse for actual disabled folk. a REAL punk would never do that. a REAL punk wouldn't ignore the majority of the scientific community in favour of living in a dumbfuck circlejerk of quacks.
the lack of self awareness is unreal
#actually plural#anti endo#did system#endos are fakers#did#endogenic#plural#tulpas are invalid#endos are invalid#plurality#endos aren't real#anti endogenic#endo system#endos#endo#endogenic system#endos are liars#endos arent valid#endos are ableist#plural community#pluralgang#pluralpunk#syspunk#system punk#actually a system#actually actually a system#actually diagnosed
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Sorry guys I gotta speak my truth on this one
I'm not kidding when I say that I think that blaming shit media literacy from fans on shipping/shippers avoids the actual root of the problem to throw people you can easily throw under the bus (simply because it's not unpopular to consider people who post about ships or ship characters in media as having lesser or derivative tastes by default)
And here's why.
I think when you blame people who are "shippers" or "consume media through shipping lenses", the true root of it all is a mindset problem.
In actually, putting on shipping lenses can be helpful when trying to analyze a piece of media. When analyzing media you're supposed to approach it through a number of mindsets and put on different lenses (both to deepen your personal understanding of the media, and to pick it apart and see what you can find there (whether intentional or not on the author's part)), and different ships can be some of those lenses
When it comes to ships between main characters (for those who are genuinely willing to see what the narrative is showing with their relationship and what it's doing), there are times when analyzing it from a shipping lens may be helpful. As someone from KH fandom, I have seen people come to deeper understandings and pick canon apart in the process of analyzing a relationship that is genuinely integral to the story (platonic or not). I've also seen people get into rarepairs of characters who barely interact or who just suffer little screen time, and I've seen them come to better understandings of those side characters and how they potentially fit into the world of the media simply because people are now focusing on these characters and how they fit into the narrative.
Frankly, I resent the idea that the only way to truly objectively analyze a piece of media is by turning off the part of your brain that gets excited over relationships and individual characters. Don't get me wrong, that is a way to approach a piece of media and a valid one at that, but the truth is that we cannot be free of bias.
For instance, I was watching House MD with my parents circa last year. At some point I started heavily tuning into what was going on with House and Wilson's relationship. My parents, on the other hand, were largely watching casually. They're not thinking of character relationships or getting heavily invested in most characters, they're watching because they like watching. One of them in particular did try to analyze things that were happening in the show as they happened. However, when it came to the scene late in the series where House threw out Dominika's letter approving her American citizenship, my parents could understand that he was doing that because he didn't want her to leave, but not much beyond that. I ended up explaining to them that House's fake marriage for Dominika was an explicit parallel to when Wilson was living with House in the early seasons. Both situations started with House being none too happy about it but ultimately letting them stay, spending a considerable amount of effort getting them to leave/getting this situation to be finally over so he didn't have to deal with it anymore, and then by the time a piece of news comes through that would mean the person in question actually leaves, House hides this news as long as he can. Because he doesn't actually want them to leave and has grown attached. And by doing this he became a self fulfilling prophecy. By reacting to the truth of Wilson and Dominika leaving him the way he does, he seals his fate and they ultimately leave anyways. Maybe I ship Hilson, but becoming open to how their relationship was handled allowed me to transition to doing character studies and recognizing patterns/parallels that I wouldn't have noticed if I didn't particularly care about the characters or their relationship.
Likewise, I've seen mutuals complain about how people who don't like or don't care about certain characters often overlook these characters (what they're actually like and their place in the narrative), while the mutuals in question (by default) are able to come to deeper understanding of what the writers/story is trying to do because they care about this funky guy
You can't eradicate bias when you're engaging in media analysis, but you can consciously put on a range of lenses and observe the media through different povs with the goal of understanding the media better or bolstering your reading of it. And those lenses/povs can include focusing on specific relationships or the perpective of certain characters
And this is why I say it's actually a mindset problem. Shippers and people who have this one blorbo they like a lot aren't inherently terrible "fandom brained individuals" who are the root of media analysis problems. The problem only arises when people's readings/analysis of a piece of media are inherently restrictive/narrow and self centered. Your problem is with people who view a piece of media through a ship they like but don't keep an open mind about it, and whose "media analysis"/views on canon cannot be split from fanon and their comfortability levels. These are the people whose "media analysis" starts and ends with justifying their fanon as canon, whose views on media revolve around sorting characters and relationships into categories they personally enjoy rather than trying to understand what's going on.
Here's another example.
Here we have a fictional ship we'll call uhhhh...Blanebin. this fictional ship I made up on the spot for characters that don't exist named Blane and Corbin
Person A is super into Blanebin. They're part of the main cast of characters and canonically childhood best friends, so person A (as much as they enjoy fanart and fic) is also enjoying analyzing how narratively important to each other they are. Recently, Corbin started dating another character in canon, but Person A is enjoying watching how Blane is reacting to this. "Is this potentially a tell that Blane is jealous or is having complicated feelings about this? What if he was, how would that contextualize his behavior this season? Here's what I think based on how Blane dealt with explicit jealousy last season in a different situation". It's not impossible that person A is still missing further understanding due to their obsession with Blanebin, but at the end of the day this obsession has allowed them to start picking through the characters both in and outside this relationship. It has allowed them to see potential subtext and theorize on what might happen next with these characters' relationship. Not to mention that with addition of Corbin dating someone else, instead of trying to erase this fact or state that Corbin canonically isn't into that person, Person A is trying to factor in how Corbin's current dating life affects his relationship with Blane (irregardless on personal views on the nature of Corbin's relationship with the person he's dating).
Person B is also super into Blanebin. They really enjoy fanart and fic of the characters, love obsessing over their moments together, and just feel like there's really something between the characters. To person B, every moment between them is just further proof that the writers are ship teasing them. But Corbin getting together with someone else this season? Oh that pissed person B off. They cannot believe that even though Corbin and Blane are CLEARLY gay for each other the writers had Corbin get with someone else this season. Perhaps, they think, it was even a decision specifically made to spite fans. How evil of the writers to tease a perfectly good ship and then have them not get together first? They must have been just doing those teases to get views from Blanebin shippers those scoundrels. To Person B, since Corbin started dating someone when he obviously has some chemistry with Blane (even though the series is far from over) means that Blanebin can never get together now and Corbin x person he's dating is ruining Blanebin by existing. In fact, they think, this is terrible writing for Corbin to be dating someone else because they don't like that relationship and don't see the point. Obviously if the writers were good then Corbin would have started dating Blane instead because this was supposed to be the Blanebin show.
Person C despises Blanebin. Don't get them wrong, they've always enjoyed the character's childhood friendship, but they actually have always thought Blane would have been better off with Victoria. They have a lot of moments too! But they're tired of seeing people ship Blanebin. Corbin just got together with someone else, so obviously that's not gonna work out. Plus Corbin and Blane totally has always given person C bro vibes. In fact, person C thinks, sure Corbin and Blane have a close friendship, but people shouldn't be shipping them. Person C likes Blanetoria and Blanetoria can't be canon if Corbin is in the way of it. So Person C likes to read Blanebin as siblings anyways. Sure they're canonically friends, but obviously their friendship turned into brotherhood. This means that nothing can be in the way of Blanetoria and Corbin can keep dating the person he's already canonically dating. Actually, now Blanebin just straight up makes Person C uncomfortable. Don't the pesky shippers understand that Blanebin are sibling coded because they're childhood best friends and that they're important to each other because they're brothers? It's obvious to anyone with eyes.
Sure, ships are involved here, but is the root of this problem shipping? Character A isn't as knowledgeable of other characters in the plot due to this lens they're using, but at the end of the day they're dedicated to analysis. Their love of the characters is pushing them beyond what they like or dislike to try to understand what might be happening through their lens. Not perfect, but they are slowly broadening their horizons. But Person B and C's problems here are their restrictiveness. What is or should be canon to them is tantamount to what they personally like or find comfortable. Is person C actually analyzing the this fake show when they decide to "read" Blanebin as basically canonically siblings (and this all of their moments are totally a bro thing) just because they don't like Blanebin and the idea of them getting together over Blanetoria makes them uncomfortable? Is person B actually analyzing this fake show when their "analysis" of Blanebin goes only as far as asserting it's being ship teased and deciding anything short of canonizing Blanebin is a targeted attack or "bad writing" because it's not what they wanted personally to happen?
This is what I'm talking about. This is the mindset. Shipping isn't the problem. The problem is when people marry fanon and canon to the point where they have a vested interest in superimposing their fanon over canon as "a reading" and trying to make "collective decisions" on what is canon (or what canon is trying to say) based on what does or doesn't make them uncomfortable. The problem is people being restrictive and centering their own likes and dislikes in the conversation, so they can only interact with canon "analysis" wise by deciding what is canon or should be canon "as obviously agreed on by everyone". You can't simply claim you like media analysis. To be able to analyze media and bolster your views on any given canon, you must be open to looking at it through multiple povs, to studying characters without trying to pretend things you don't like don't exist or do like do exist. There is a balance that must be kept between trying to keep objectivity and putting on specific focus/bias based upon the lenses you're putting on. You have to be willing to try to figure out what a media is doing or saying, not saying you're trying to figure out what it's saying while in actuality trying to define the narrative around what people believe it's saying in ways that suit you.
Thank you for coming to my ted talk.
#fandom wank#on the flip side it really just doesn't all happen with shipping#doesn't this go the same way when someone hates a character so they brand them with terrible terms and act like they're terrible without#actually taking a second to analyze them simply because they dislike that character?#Hell I've seen people get really invested in platonic relationships on the fanon side‚ start labeling them as siblings because the idea of#people shipping them makes them uncomfortable‚ and then when new canon doesn't fulfill their hopes they still act like those characters#being siblings to each other is canon because it makes them uncomfortable if that's not true#I've seen people watch a trailer for a piece of media before it comes out‚ build up an entire story in their head based on that trailer#that they've designated as their perfect idea of how to handle concepts presented in the trailer‚ and then when canon doesn't end up going#that way they decide that it's bad writing simply on the grounds that this wasn't the story they wanted. so they unironically act like#writers can only be good writers if the writers play into their specific wants as the audience or things they as an audience member thinks#would be great#genuinely even if people turn off the ship side of their brain or the side that gets obsessed with characters they can still be one of those#people who acts like they love media analysis but ultimately are shit at it#I didn't put this in the body of the post cause it didn't really fit but I have to say this too#I think that 'There are multiple readings one can glean from a text and no reading is the 'true' one‚ and this is okay' and 'not every#reading is a valid one or a good one' are statements that can and should coexist#There is a difference between genuinely reading into a piece of media based on what is happening in it and purposely miscontruing and#twisting canon in a direction that contradicts text so you can then quell all criticism by saying that it's just 'a reading' and#'all readings are valid'#What I'm saying is that if you see a blue car‚ the way you get 'valid readings is people who are determining what shade of blue it is or#what it being a blue car means or the author's intent making the car blue or even speculation as to why it's blue and not potentially other#color. A case of an 'invalid reading' in this case is if someone pointed at the blue car‚ said it's canonically red and the author obviously#intended it to be red and it's canonically red‚ and then when people point out that the car is very much not canonically red (that you#can see it is a very clear shade of blue) this person doubled down and started saying that the 'haters' are being rude by implying that#their personal reading of the text is invalid (in other words 'no you can't get mad at me for saying the blue car is red because it's my#reading of the text and all readings are valid no matter what!')#anyways sorry for going off there#it just pisses me off when people repeat the argument that people who like certain things as fans are inherently unable to perform good#media analysis and are the root of fandom media illiteracy.
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he has a gf
we don’t engage in infidelity here. spraying u with water
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gotta finish writing this buckquin before i see torres gets a proper character arc
#cara writes#excited for the movie to validate#or invalidate!#my current thoughts on torres#buckquin#joaquin torres#also#bucky barnes
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"lesbian men" when they realize that they aren't lesbian and just making allat up to look special (they are straight)
#woohoo finally not a proship slander post since u guys keep harrassing me for it#should I start posting lesboy and other invalid term slander#I will still post proship slander tho#just saying chat#XD#lesboys aren't valid#anti lesboy#lesboy dni#anti gaybian#anti straightbian#anti proship#anti darkship#anti lolicon#darkship dni#anti paraphilia#doodle#anti shotacon
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The queer community became a joke once people started doing validity olympics
#invalid this not valid that motherfucker people are trying to erase us ALL from society#queer#lgbtq#lgbt#trans#xenogender#mspec lesbian#mspec gay#lesboy#turigirl
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tell me why our favorite cutie pie, Xavier, likes to tell us you don’t need sports/exercise to live and then proceeds to wear a hoodie that says this

(BlanchE Good health is always young Life needs sports)
SIR
#love and deepspace#lads#lnds#Xavier#xavier love and deepspace#lads xavier#lnds xavier#don’t need sports doesn’t like to work out#which is valid#wears clothes that say life needs sports#invalid#bruh
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If I was a code, and you would type me in, it would say invalid.
(I wanted to say enter me, but yeah)
#meme humor#dankest memes#dark humour#dark humor#humour#humor#meme#dank meme#dank memes#tumblr memes#funny post#funny shit#Valid#Invalid#haha#funny stuff#funny#funnyshit#funny memes#sad thoughts#sadgirl#dark memes#lol#lol memes#funny tumblr#og post#og#lol sorry#rant post#random
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People who try to define lesbian solely by the exclusion on men and men aligned people are weird and come off as kinda immature to me
And I'm not just talking about the "nmlnm" people, I'm also talking about the people that will question a lesbian's sexuality if she idolizes a male celebrity, because no lesbian could ever like a man enough to put pictures of him all over her wall unless she wasn't really a lesbian
Apparently????
It's the people who make it a point that they have a distaste for or hatred of men, and they've tied that into their sexual orientation
Then they go "can we have something that's not all about men for once?", not realizing that by using the exclusion of men to define a certain identity they still are making it all about men
And talking about bi-lesbians with people like this always comes down to what is basically "well bisexuality can include attraction to men and I don't want boy cooties on my sexuality!"
Literally grow up
#queer discourse#lesbian#mspec lesbian#pro mspec lesbian#sapphic#anti exclusionist#fuck exclusionists#bi lesbian#pan lesbian#lesboy#he/him lesbian#hating men is not a valid reason to invalidate others#fuck off safequeers#exclusionists need to grow tf up
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I 1000000000% believe in Carol and Daryl going canon
my name's hanna, and i am toxic and aggressively positive about #caryl. i believe in what i am watching on screen, i believe in Melissa, and i believe in hope. cause we all gotta believe in something. 😊
#twd#the walking dead#caryl#i have zero agendas#i aint gonna come to you and force you to believe anything#you do you#whatever you're feeling is valid#so dont come and try to invalidate my own feelings#you've been warned#my toxic positivity might be contagious!#hanna.txt
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