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stuckinapril · 7 months ago
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i really like this guy but he wears skinny jeans with slides :(
HWOSBSOSYAO
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tudirkulosis · 10 months ago
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it is 2024 can we PLEASE stop w these kind of videos now. thanks
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thetardigrape · 1 year ago
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HEY.
Feel however you want to feel about the OFMD S2 finale but DO NOT make claims about a "straight white man" ruining the show. The writers room was mostly queer POC. Don't erase their skill, hard work, and representative voices just because you're upset. Show some respect.
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gur0hana · 1 month ago
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Can anyone tell me why lesboys/turigirls/gaybians are so hated in the queer community when the entire point of this community is to be yourselves and destroy gender norms?
Aren’t we supposed to be supporting every form of queerness, even weird and confusing forms, and continuing to break down those societal pressures around sexuality?
Everyone preaches inclusivity, freedom, and equality, and tells you to be queer and proud! Until you’re too queer. Until your queerness can’t just be boiled down to “boy who likes girls” or “nonbinary who likes girls”. Sometimes gender and sexuality are twisted up and combined together, sometimes they’re complicated. Sometimes gender isn’t one feeling, but a bunch of tiny feelings. Sometimes gender is several things at once.
So why is all of that so easy to accept… until it comes to lesboys/turigirls/gaybians? Why is it so hard to understand that I’m both a boy and a girl who is gay for men and lesbian for women? Using the terms I use gives me euphoria. And why is it okay to take my euphoria from me when you just don’t want to understand my identity?
The same arguments I see thrown around attacking lesboys have been used against neopronouns and xenogenders. But now xeno/neo users are LITERALLY using those arguments against other identities. How does that make sense??
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valinoar · 1 year ago
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one thing i hate ab the hotd fandom is that back in my day u could just like joffrey and not get crucified for it because we had the brain capacity to understand that yes he is a terrible terrible person and a literal tyrant but he’s still a fucking compelling character. w hotd everyone is desperate for some moral high ground and it’s soooo annoying. let us like our fucked up characters in peace nobody here is perfect, that’s literally the point of the dance. they all commit atrocities and comparing them like this just to shame each other and prove one side is better than the other is such a waste of time.
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ultopias · 2 years ago
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biteofboredom · 3 months ago
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How fucked is it that I, a trans man, feel uncomfortable referring to myself as a man purely for the comfort of others.
9 times out of 10 I call myself a trans 'guy' because the people around me get uncomfortable at the idea of a man, which I have internalised and now feel bad for identifying as a 'threat' or something to be disliked.
Trans men (and cis men for that matter), it's okay to be a man. There is nothing wrong with being a man.
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sirenium · 8 months ago
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The queer community became a joke once people started doing validity olympics
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shadowymetalhead · 3 months ago
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If I was a code, and you would type me in, it would say invalid.
(I wanted to say enter me, but yeah)
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plague-and-creatures · 7 months ago
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People who try to define lesbian solely by the exclusion on men and men aligned people are weird and come off as kinda immature to me
And I'm not just talking about the "nmlnm" people, I'm also talking about the people that will question a lesbian's sexuality if she idolizes a male celebrity, because no lesbian could ever like a man enough to put pictures of him all over her wall unless she wasn't really a lesbian
Apparently????
It's the people who make it a point that they have a distaste for or hatred of men, and they've tied that into their sexual orientation
Then they go "can we have something that's not all about men for once?", not realizing that by using the exclusion of men to define a certain identity they still are making it all about men
And talking about bi-lesbians with people like this always comes down to what is basically "well bisexuality can include attraction to men and I don't want boy cooties on my sexuality!"
Literally grow up
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bloodonvalentine · 18 days ago
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endos claiming to be oppressed is lowkey jaw droppingly outrageous
you're really that dense?
YOU are ableist. YOU are feeding into oppression.
"oh i'll never support ableists"
look in the goddamn mirror
why do you think actual systems say you aren't punk if you're endo? because you're the oppressor. you're the one making it 10x worse for actual disabled folk. a REAL punk would never do that. a REAL punk wouldn't ignore the majority of the scientific community in favour of living in a dumbfuck circlejerk of quacks.
the lack of self awareness is unreal
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stuckinapril · 7 months ago
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he has a gf
we don’t engage in infidelity here. spraying u with water
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mcbride · 2 months ago
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I 1000000000% believe in Carol and Daryl going canon
my name's hanna, and i am toxic and aggressively positive about #caryl. i believe in what i am watching on screen, i believe in Melissa, and i believe in hope. cause we all gotta believe in something. 😊
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pluralhottakes · 1 month ago
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Let's be honest- anti endos have done far more damage than pro endos have done. As an UDD system, we get a lot of crap because it's not a "final diagnosis". Because of antis, we keep looking for validation from other systems to exist. We have npd, and the way some people go on about our dire need of acceptance has got us to crash. Its horrible
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scientificbiosecurity · 6 months ago
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"lesbian men" when they realize that they aren't lesbian and just making allat up to look special (they are straight)
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whatsacrush · 5 months ago
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I feel like there’s a metaphor in here somewhere
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