#fuck off safequeers

[plague-and-creatures]

People who try to define lesbian solely by the exclusion on men and men aligned people are weird and come off as kinda immature to me

And I'm not just talking about the "nmlnm" people, I'm also talking about the people that will question a lesbian's sexuality if she idolizes a male celebrity, because no lesbian could ever like a man enough to put pictures of him all over her wall unless she wasn't really a lesbian

Apparently????

It's the people who make it a point that they have a distaste for or hatred of men, and they've tied that into their sexual orientation

Then they go "can we have something that's not all about men for once?", not realizing that by using the exclusion of men to define a certain identity they still are making it all about men

And talking about bi-lesbians with people like this always comes down to what is basically "well bisexuality can include attraction to men and I don't want boy cooties on my sexuality!"

Literally grow up

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

as a bi-Gay with BIID pleeeeease don’t don’t tell me that’s the Safequeer flag in your “Radqueers fuck off” thing

(please keep in mind I’m stupid as fuck and am bad with colors)

Nope! It is the anti-radqueer inclusionist flag. Don’t worry, I hate safequeers too.

[i-never-grew-up]

Welcome to my blog, my name is Apollo and I go by he/they/it pronouns.

You might know me from previous blogs like I-exist-mofos, ApolloTheSpaceTrans, or apollo-the-crazy. I have deactivated my Tumblr accounts a few times due to intense panic.

Due to trauma, I've never quite gotten to grow up and be a proper child, so now I spend my days, hoping to god that I'm mature enough and that I won't make a joke at an inappropriate time. Unfortunately, I almost always mess up and start spiralling because I know it's my fault.

I made this blog to just goof off and have a safe space for myself and others.

DNI:

- Basic DNI

- xenophobes (yes, even towards Americans.)

- people who make jokes about school shootings and shit like that (I've done that before but I know better now, it's not dark humour it's just a dick move.)

- anti (educated) self diagnosis

- Anti Xenogenders

- Xenosatanists

- Radqueers

- Safequeers

- Pro contact paras (I have intrusive thoughts of someone dissecting me and fucking me and I hate it please stay away from my blog)

- Under 13s (sorry kids)

- MDNI blogs (again, sorry, but if you interact with me you're breaking your own DNI)

- 'is he acoustic?, Nah, he's restarted' (you know who you are you ableist fucks)

- Those who believe in *insert cluster B disorder* abuse

- people who romanticise disorders

Thin ice:

- Swifties

- 18+, just don't be creepy

This account is:

- pro Palestine, Congo, Sudan, Ukraine, any country going through problematic shit.

- mostly neutral on syscourse. We are a traumagenic system and have more important shit to care about. Endos, stay in your lane.

- pro feminism

- anti TERF

- pro reclaiming slurs that are yours to use

- pro good faith identities (if you don't support them pls fuck right off!)

Tag key

#Apollo talks - me talking about random shit

#Apollo does important shit - basically last tag but serious

#Apollo reblogs things - reblogs

#Apollo responds - answering asks

#Apollo does stupid shit - miscellaneous shite that doesn't fit in any other category

Userboxes! (From @anti-rq-boxes):

Have fun in this weird and whacky place

<3

[antiradqueer]

TW: Trans/Nazi mention

Tbh. As a "neutralqueer" (neutral or anti on most issues due to a lack of self control over opinions but generally complex transid- not openly), FUCK HYPOHARMFULS AND PRO-CS WITH A BURNING PASSION!!!

Like, the point of transharmful is that you don't transition into them. Because they're harmful! There's less harmful ways to alleviate dysphoria without becoming AN ACTUAL FUCKING NAZI HOLY FUCK!?!?!!?

And the point of acknowledging paraphilias and accepting them is BECAUSE THEY'RE DEMONIZED AND ALWAYS SEEN AS PRO-C!!! I support consent and careful, explicit planning with all parties for gray areas. BUT IF THEY CAN'T CONSENT??? FUCK NO! NO, KIDS CAN'T CONSENT, NON-SENTIENT ANIMALS CAN'T CONSENT, CORPSES CANNOT CONSENT, PEOPLE WHO LITERALLY DON'T CONSENT CAN'T CONSENT!

Sorry, just, really pissed off. I can't publicly live my stances or I'll lose everything (I deserve to tbh) but it's hard to not criticize this shit!

(P.S, Non-Disordered transplural is fucking stupid, and nobody can force entire communities to be "transid" or "radqueer" or adjacent, either. Single individuals don't get to control terms and how they are used.)

I... am not sure if you are a radqueer or not?? /genq safequeer sounds like it's under the umbrella, but I'm not sure. if it is, I strongly advice to reevaluate if you truly want to be in the community. because like you said, you are strongly against hypoharmful and pro-c. but the problem is, the radqueer community IN ITSELF and the movement IN ITSELF supports both, no matter what you personally say. I've seen multiple posts state that the coiner of radqueer explicitely said that radqueer is a pro-c term (or at least not anti-c). THAT'S the problem! saying you are against pro-c but still being radqueer is like saying, I don't know, "yeah, I'm racist but I don't think anyone should be killed for their race, in my opinion that's too much. beating someone up is where I draw the line" - it doesn't work like that, because the racist "movement", in lack of a better word, is INHERENTLY not against killing people because of their skin color. if you truly want to be against hypoharmful and pro-c, you have to stop supporting the radqueer community now. because as long as you support the movement, you support pro-c fuckers.

if you are not radqueer, ignore the paragraph above lmao - but the point stands regardless of that.

alsooooo I don't get what you mean at the end exactly, with "non-disordere transplural is fucking stupid"? I think all transids are fucking stupid* BUT if you feel like you have to "transition" into being plural, the only way that is possible AT ALL is by becoming a non-disordered system. period. [don't start syscourse here, that's not my intention either, I'm just saying that if becoming a system is possible, then it is by becoming a non-disordered one]

(*there are exceptions, like the original meanings of transrace, transage, etc. and some are more harmful than others of course, but still.)

[404shcats]

I agree with the "safequeers fuck off" statement, accidentally stumbled upon a rabbithole on what safequeer was, lol

Lmao yeah safequeers sure are something. -Felix

[silentfoxproductions]

DNI & BYF & DI!

DNI (Do Not Interact) if:

Heavy Christians

Homophobic, transphobic, sexist, racist, etc

Pro-Capitalism/Anti-Anarchy

Proship/Anti-Anti/Comship/Darkship

Anti-Kink

Anti-Abortion/Pro-Birth

Pro-Gun

Theriscum/Othermeds

Sysmeds

Queer exclu groups (Battleaxe Bis, Longsword Lesbians, etc)

Supports heavily controversial people (mostly politicians)

Anti-Furry/Avian/Scalie

Think queer is a slur

Use Slurs you can't reclaim (ex: white person using n-word)

Queer exclus (anti-mspec lesbians and gays, etc)

Anti-Sex Work

Radfem, TERF, FART, TER, TEHM

Flag discourse on stupid stuff (ex: saying vincian flag is lesbophobic cuz it uses a similar line style like what-)

Police pronouns and labels

Pro-Trans X (go fuck yourselves, "transabled" dipshits)

Pro-Contact Para (maps, zoos, necros, and other seriously harmful shit)

Anti-Inclus/Anti-Critinclus (we aren't exclus for being against pedophiles- we're decent beings omfg)

RadQueers (basically pro-para, pro-ed, medpunk, and pro-trans x dipshits)

Medpunk (excluding BIID, basically shit like transabled, but excluding BIID)

"Safequeers" you aren't inclusionists, your an exclusionist in sheep's clothing

Partake in cringe culture and/or on cringe subs

Xenosatanists

Police others trauma

Anti-Cishets

KAM (Kill All Men)

Misogynistic and Misandry

Against AMAB transmascs and AFAB transfems

Support AI "art"

Anti-Intersex or discriminate against intersex people

Xenomeds/Xenoscum (Peeps who believe you need dysphoria to be Xenogender like what)

Supporters of the creator Fuboo/InvertedMindInc

Supporters of Electricpuke (fictives/kins of their creations are fine to int! Just don't mention EP around us at all)

Fans of Dream AT ALL. (Including Irls and fictives. Sorry but we can't associate at all.)

BYF (Before You Follow)

We/We’re

Pro-Kink

Pro-Abortion

Pro-Furry/Scalie/Avian

Pro-mspec lesbians/gays

Pro-GNC lesbians/gays

Pro-PNC lesbians/gays

Support ALL good faith identities

Pro-NSFW artists

Pro-Xenos and Neopronouns

We are a RADICAL INCLUSIONIST

We support ALL systems! (Yes that includes Endos and Willogenics!!)

We don't censor queer

We use reclaimed slurs (rtard,fggot,dke)

We are a Critical Inclus (transx isn't trans, paras don't belong in queer community)

We understand the difference between harmful paraphilia and kink, please know the difference!! Don't rope us kinksters in with fucking pro-contact pedos/zoos/etc!!

Proud anti-shipper! (Proshippers can fuck off! Get your abusive pedo shit off of my blog)

We support non-contact paraphiliacs (just not those who are making genders and sexualities and transx of their paras)

We have a few paraphiliac disorders (sadly necrophilia but we are strictly anti-contact and getting therapy for it)

We support paraphilias that are not harmful and the harmful ones that are strictly no-contact

Pro-BLM, StopAsianHate, #MeToo, & Land Back Movement

We call ourselves a femboy. We understand it's history, but we are not using it in malicious intent. We're a femboy. We're a twink. Deal with it.

We support transspecies used in their original way, as for alterhumans/therians/otherkins!

We are a Sunset Paraphile and a Fluffy Paraphile. (We can't find the links to them tho but DO KNOW ITS STRICTLY ANTI-CONTACT AND PRO RECOVERY)

DI (Do Interact)

If you/you're:

Part of FNAF, TOH, Cuphead, DELTARUNE/UNDERTALE, DDLC, Analog Horror Fandom!

Metal fan (both music and machinery)

Foxkin/Vulpiskin

Use fox xenogenders

Part of any marching band

Satanists

Followers of Lucifer and Lilith

Like Bo Burnham

Kinky asexuals

Brandon Rogers fan

Rad/Crit Inclus

Etc Info on us:

We are a traumaendo system with some willogenic headmates! We have USDD & we are the Cavrin System.

We are both otherkin & therian. We just say we are Alterhuman and we're polykin.

We just identify as Queer for an umbrella term but for very standard we are Abrosexual Oriented AroAce Gaybian & Multigender Xenic Nonbinary

We got lotsa pronouns but just use he/they for most of us.

We have a few paraphilias and for the non-consensual one (necrophilia sadly) we HIGHLY ARE ANTI-CONTACT. We are also a fictophile and an objectophile with some others that are minor and we just don't care. Again. We are ANTI-CONTACT FOR THE HARMFUL AND NONCON ONES

We sometimes struggle with tone indicators and putting tags on posts, please be patient with us!

We are 18 (going on 19 soon) so please be wary of adult topics stated on this blog.

Other Blogs of Ours:

@mansionofblood - Blog related to a Slasher fanfic me and my friend are doing

@yourdecayeddeer - Blog for our fictive Lawrence

@drillandhammerslut - Blog for our fictive Strade

@soap-and-bubbles - Blog for our fictive Jo

[a-cringe-fictive]

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Hi, welcome to my blog darling!

I'm a Roguefort Cookie fictive, i go by any prns and i enjoy creating labels!

Requests are open! I will make labels, userboxes, headcanons, dividers, headers and banners.

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Coining Info

✔ Will coin ✔

Note: I have the right to deny any request for whatever reason. Please don't request more than 3 labels per ask.

Genders

Orientations (including allions and objectum)

Aldernic terms

Altsex terms

Vesil terms

Cronosian terms

Alterhuman terms

Gizmorial terms

Pronoun flags

Hearthic terms

Cognitones

Xenidens

Neurodivergent/MAD flags

Vior terms

Wiretypes

Theoret terms

Regression terms

❌ Won't coin ❌

Note: if you don't know if i'll coin something or not feel free to ask!

Anything radqueer related

Related to minorities i'm not

Related to media i don't know or that is NSFW/kink centered

Discourse related labels

[image ID: The shelterqueer flag as a divider with its symbol on the left and in the right, in the middle it says "B Y I". End ID]

I call everyone darling if that makes you umcorfortable please tell me.

I'm from The Animal System but please don't treat me as my alters, i'm not them and i don't agree with them. I do understand if you feel umcomfortable interacting with me.

Im pro endogenic, tulpagenic, willogenic, parogenic, xeno origin and any non traumagenic systems!

I hate terf, pro life, anti alterhuman, racists, sexist, xeno/transmed, anti self dx, fakeclaimer, pro/neu c paraphile, harrasers, pro/neu consang, ableist and xenomisic individuals so if you are any of those DNI.

Im a lostadultflux and bodily a minor so please don't interact if your blog is NSFW/kink centered.

Im proudly a mspec gaybian and have other "cringe" identites, so if you dislike that this blog is not for you.

Please use tonetags when talking to me.

Please do not bring discourse here, specially syscourse.

I'm an ex radqueer, please don't ask radqueer related things.

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[ceooflamp]

Safequeer is probably one of the most terminally online things I've seen ajxnxn omfg. I am not safe I will bite your fucking face off. That does not mean i support transage and i don't think we should be giving the term radical queer to people who support shit like that. Radical does not always equal TERF or bad person or someone who actively hurts the LGBTQ+ community. Radical feminism yeah that shit is just TERFs. But Radical Queer? Outside of whatever you all are trying to create, that just means someone who radically accepts their own queer identity and other queer people. And that is not indicative of pro-mapitude or some bullshit.

We would not have pride without radical queers. If you think physically fighting against cops isn't radical then you need to PLEASE google some shit.

But also this goes for people who go "Rad queer means i think people should be able to look at kids being drawn in sexual situations" like have you ever met your local butches they will punch you in the fucking face for that 😭.

[cometzangoose]

Temporary pinned while I think of a more extravagant one

Moon Snail, 22, any pronouns but He/They/Zan/She preferred

Genderfaun, Homoromantic Bisexual, Safequeer (A.K.A. Terfs, Endos, Radqueers fuck off)

System, but still slowly finding things out

Single but willing to date if you beat me in a Puyo battle /hj

Uhhh part of some fandoms but need to sort them out

That’s it ig. Maybe follow me for random ramblings and occasional self indulgent art