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You Don’t Attract the Wrong People. You Ignore the Right Signs

It’s easy to believe you’re cursed in love. That something about you attracts narcissists, addicts, avoidants—like you’ve got some broken magnet inside. But here’s the truth:

You don’t attract the wrong people. You overlook the red flags that tell you exactly who they are.

It’s not because you’re blind. It’s because your nervous system is tuned to what feels familiar—not what feels safe. If you grew up around emotional chaos, neglect, or inconsistency, then unpredictability feels like home. You’re not choosing pain. You’re choosing patterns you already know how to survive.

Kindness might feel boring. Directness might feel suspicious. Consistency might feel smothering. And dysfunction? It might feel like love. Not because it is—but because it mirrors what you had to navigate to feel close to someone.

This doesn’t make you broken. It means your pattern recognition system is trying to protect you with outdated information. Until you regulate your system, you’ll keep calling chaos chemistry and pushing away anyone who doesn’t make you feel like you're constantly performing.

It’s not about blaming yourself. It’s about taking your hands off autopilot. Attraction isn’t always insight. Sometimes it’s your trauma doing the choosing.

Are you unlucky in love, or just used to mistaking familiarity for safety?

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Please let this be true……..

Girls who’re anxious for no reason I love you so much

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Girls who’re anxious for no reason I love you so much

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the way my best friend would do rounds on tumblr

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Do I go on a roller skating date w a tall man this weekend or do I lie down like a deer and accept my fate

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Had to take a PHQ and GAD for my first therapy sesh w this new therapist and it was so weird bc as a medical assistant I gave this test to so many patients already I practically have the options memorized

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spent one of the season's rainiest days sipping coffee, catching up reading and making sense of old notes

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btw i tried ur tips on my wavy hair and it turned out amazing!!!!! I lauv you

My dying wish is to help the girlies reach their hair goals

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23 is when you start those formative experiences, they're gonna last to at least 25... But probably stabilizing then and by 27 you're more good to go

girl there’s no way this ill brain will calm down by 27 but still I will look forward to this prospect

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enlightenments of Vienna

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Gonna chill out the rest of May and then change my entire life in June. Possibly July if that doesn't work out. Certainly no later than September or October.

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23 is literally my 21 like im having all the formative experiences I should’ve had at that age

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Your blog feels like a lovely mirror

You feel like a lovely mirror

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I’m not giving u guys context but never ever deal w a straight man use me as your cautionary tale

girl stfu

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Talking to this girl is like pulling teeth btw in case anyone is wondering how this is faring

girl stfu

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girl stfu