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i'm sorry ur uterus lineage is shedding shawty
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Honestly, unfortunately, my life only started making sense and I started having the courage to live my truth after I turned 25 going into 27 and beyond. It took me until 25 to have the courage in my convictions enough to start musical lessons and learning guitar and until 27 to start solving some social riddles which were not making any sense to me. I'm like almost 34 and things are still gentle sliding into place and stop feeling such an internal war about who I appear to be vs who I actually am and living that truth, even if it's annoying and embaressing and sometimes not a win. I felt like a fake a lot of my life as a teenager and at this young age (30 something) I am starting to feel like I'm easing my way over to a more truthful satisfying honest life, where I can look myself in the mirror and be okay.
I love every part about this ask anon 🩷 thank you sm for sharing, this gives someone in their early 20s like me sm comfort to know
#I wish you all the best! Only at 22 did I feel brave enough to start pursuing piano#And I’m sure as I get older I’ll be emboldened to try even more things#Some things truly only come w age#I have sm to look forward to in my 30s#And contextualizing it as youthful is so important bc in my 30s I’ll be capable of doing everything I can do in my 20s#Someone will go into my inbox like why are u so obsessed w youth#And it’s like this rly isn’t what this is?? Why are you obsessed w making our 30s seem like we have one foot in the grave#When that’s not the case in every sense
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it’s so weird how people are constantly remarking on how your brain doesn’t fully develop until 25 and you can’t make truly informed decisions until that age but then will turn around and call a woman over the age of 25 a hag/old..
No and not to mention all the memes that are like “you’re basically pushing 30 and decrepit once you’re past 26” …. Like I’m all for jokes, but this is weird!! Ofc this is owed to the very valid pressure of aging imposed on women, but—speaking for the US, bc that’s where I’m from—metrics have been looking so good lately, what w the median for first pregnancy rising to 35 / women freezing their eggs etc. This should be removing the pressure to meet certain milestones at a certain age / glorify your 20s as the be all end all for youth, but this isn’t reflected in modern culture and I find that weird! Why do we need another couple of decades to normalize not seeing your 30s as senile 😭😭
#I’m v fortunate that I was raised by a woman who looked her very best at every age and was very normal ab it#So I don’t have this anxiety except w relation to achievements#But I’m never up at night thinking 30 will be my downfall as far as anything else goes
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Who’s gonna tell the local 19 year old tiktoker that 10 years is not that big of a difference in the grand scheme of things and time will rush her like a freight train too
“she’s aging so well!!” and the woman they’re referring to is like 27. touch grass
#Also do ppl realize that we’re all part of the same generation#You as someone in your late teens or early 20s are in the same package w someone who’s like 30#We will all die around the same time this is literally negligible when we’re all in our 30s and 40s#Relax omfg#Side note but why is Gen z so backwards w everything im lowkey ashamed#The only thing we did right is the new median for women to have babies is now like 35#Eveything else is a disappointment
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Can we talk about this actually bc the mystique behind turning 30 is so insane to me… yes nothing is wrong w aging. Yes aging is a privilege. But let’s not act like a woman is an old hag the moment she turns 30 either. Gen z is so weird w/ aging it actually drives me insane!! Like this was always the case, but gen z takes aging so much harder than other generations that all sense is lost and now 27 is senile. Get a grip omfg
“she’s aging so well!!” and the woman they’re referring to is like 27. touch grass
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Korean skincare really is MILES ahead on sunscreen it’s crazy… every American brand feels so greasy and like synthetic material on my skin but theirs is so lightweight and it doesn’t irritate my combo skin to apply it multiple times throughout the day
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“she’s aging so well!!” and the woman they’re referring to is like 27. touch grass
#This is why tumblr has been my only form of social media for a while#I can’t handle this bro#I want to be as insulated from ppls thoughts as possible
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A man holding a bouquet of red roses on a public bus in Cairo 21/12/2016
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Studio Drift: Fragile Future III (2011)
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don't get stuck again <33
no promises…
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YouTube commenters are light years ahead
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Most people need to be failed a number of times over and over again by objective experience before they are open to the possibility, either intuitively or at the suggestion of a friend, that the peace and happiness for which they seek does not lie in objective experience, but lies in the knowing of their own being as it truly is. For some people. They only have to really suffer once to realize that I have invested my happiness in this object or in this relationship and it has let me down—every object or relationship, sooner or later, lets me down—some people only need to taste that failure once or twice before they are open to this new possibility, whereas other people suffer bitterly throughout their lives. — Rupert Spira 🪻🐇
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