#turigirl

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

Daily reminder, no one can invade sexuality by identifying as it, that's literally a label, and Turigirls are the best.

[cloudboundcritters]

"we need more weird queers!!"

you start parroting TERF talking points the milisecond someone says they are a lesboy or gaygirl

you cry when mspec lesbians/gays exist

you refuse to use neopronouns or it/its, even when those are a persons only set of pronouns

you expect a-specs to experience attraction in some way (yes, that includes platonic attraction)

you exclude intersex people

you can't even accept furries.

[cathcoiner]

𐙚    good - faith objectum flags

  ꒱꒱    in order ; turigirl objectum , bi gay objectum , bi lesbian objectum , gaybian objectum

    ─── flags for those who are any of the above labels & objectum !

    if any of these have been made before, please tell me ! credit if using : benadrylallergy on pin , cathcoiner on tumblr  (˶ˆᗜˆ˵) 

[lesbian-vampyre]

"can i identify as [sexuality] and still identify as [gender]" YES.

[transonlyspace]

[noahizslay]

unpopular opinion time: just because someone is queer doesn't mean they are automatically a good person.

[lesbianumbreon]

If you think it's inappropriate for trans women to also identify as twinks or femboys, you're not ready for queer discourse.

If you think it's inappropriate for trans men to also identify as butch lesbians, you're not ready for queer discourse.

Step back and let trans folks find a home in whatever identity we feel comfortable in. If a trans person renounces everything to do with their birth sex, awesome. If they still identify with parts of their birth sex, awesome. If you accept pronouns and name changes, you should understand that queer people know our own identities better than anyone trying to enforce them for us. Shoving queer people into boxes is bad whether you're on the left or the right.

[takethebunny-andrun]

Here's your sign to let your identity flow peacefully outside the box. Your personality is just a concept so it makes sense that your identity doesn't completely fit any man made constructs, and that's OK!! You don't have to use labels, or you can use them all!! You can use a label just because it feels just a little like you. You can use labels even if they contradict each other. You can let your identity pour out any social standard, and just exist, exist as it is fully and freely. We are all such complex creatures, living life as it is. As long as you aren't causing harm, just let yourself be YOURSELF!!

[errrr-vent-blog]

"wait but how can that work ?" instead of asking how their queer identity works, and how can it be valid, maybe ask them their experiences. ask how it feels to themself being a mspec mono, or lesboy, or turigirl, or whatever. instead of getting angry at queer identities which dont fit your standard, just perhaps let it go and ask them as a person what their identity means to them. stop policing identities and open up your mind a little.

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

Whenever someone uses a Google definition for an argument (about LGBTQ+ terms) it actually pisses me off like no Google isn't always right, especially about this.

[sirenium]

people who are hated and invalidated by even other queer people, stay alive.

[cloudboundcritters]

I'd rather hangout with the straight boyfriend than the queer cop who insists they're one of the "good ones" while harassing people of color

I'd rather hangout with the straight palestinian grandma than the queer zionist who keeps insisting that the death of palestinians is the one way ticket to queer liberation

I'd rather hangout with the leather dyke who is a mspec gaybian and uses paw/pawself pronouns than the puritan who makes "callout posts" clearly targeting disabled queer artists

[paranormalbadges]

Badges in Order: Lesboy, Gaybian, Turigirl, Bi Lesbian, Bi Lesbian, Bi Gay, Bi Gay, Bi Straight, Multisexuality

All of these are F2U (free to use) with or without credit! Made with SimplyPlural in mind, but can be used for anything the user sees fit.

[craigjones-marry-me-plz]

how it feels trying to explain your queer identity 500 times to people who don't even care and will still think "you're not real"

[1nky-quill]

I love the diversity of trans people

I love how each and every one of us has our own unique experience with our queerness

It truly inspires me every time to think about it, because even if all of us are different in one way or another we’re still part of the same community, we’re still a family in a sense.

That’s why is saddens me when I see so many other queer people cast people from the community because their experience with their gender and sexuality doesn’t align with their own experiences/what they expect that person’s experience to be.

Please love other trans people, all other trans people, because we only have each other, and I think it’s very special that we all have a different experiences with expression and sexuality.

[clownshrooms]

happy pride to everyone who uses "contradictory" labels. mspec lesbians, mspec gays, lesbigays, gaybians, velaurians, lesboys, turigirls, boygirls and girlboys, oriented aro/aces, cistrans ppl, and everyone else i didn't mention <3