#gaybian

[redtail-coins]

I think I was right the first time on which half of each flag to use, but you guys can also have a reverse version as a treat. Reminds me of genderfaer. So any genderfaer gaybians you might want this version just to match.

I have made a gaybian flag, from the dawn lesbian flag and unnamed veldian flag

Beholdeth!

[Image ID: A 7 striped flag. Colors, in descending order, are: dusty purple; purpleish blue; sky blue; white; salmon; pale orange; pale yellow. End ID]

Gaybians can suggest names for the flag. I hope you guys enjoy this.

[genderqueerdykes]

you know, it makes sense to talk about when older queer people living as themselves inspires younger queers to do the same, but i don't think we talk enough about how the bravery of young queers can inspire and help older queers, too. like, actually seeing younger trans men who don't bind and wear dresses makeup and keep their hair long has inspired me to feel more comfortable being a feminine trans man.

actually, seeing young queers who use neopronouns helped me feel more comfortable in using pronouns i genuinely like as opposed to pronouns i feel obligated to use for everyone else's comfort. actually, seeing young queers who identify as things like gaybians, fagdykes, lesboys, girlfags, and other "contradictory" labels made me feel more confident in being those things, too. there is something to be said about the bravery of people who are just learning how to express themselves fully.

i think we can all take pages from each others' books. we all have something to learn from and teach each other. of course older queers being there for the younger generations is important, but older queers have a lot to learn from younger generations, too.

[womanman]

“We need more weird queer people” Y’all can’t handle 90% of the ways multigenders label their sexualities

[sapphic-boy]

Okay yes you reblogged a post about a boyfriend being a girl but are you like actually normal about multigender people especially about multigender lesbians and gay dudes

[justdavina]

Such a kissable transgender gurl! She's wonderful! She's adorable!

[applebees4prez]

riz being aroace as well as fabian’s gay awakening is the only correct option but also the funniest one. this loser (affectionate) is obsessed with you but in somehow the most platonic way possible and there’s a second where you think he might like guys and has even dated one but nope it’s the manifestation of his fears of his total lack of romantic attraction. meanwhile girls are asking YOU why you always bring HIM up and you can’t face the fact that you are actually just as obsessed with him because you are just afraid of your sexuality as he is of his. crazy.

[jeweledviolets]

please interact or credit if using!

[everyponie]

waow

[squidfreak]

[Image ID: An image of a black man wearing a black shirt and baseball cap, on a balcony overlooking a lawn, with another balcony noticeable on the man's right. At the top of the image is a lot of text. First is white text stating "I bring a sort of". The second is white text over a black background, clearly covering previous text, stating: 'none of this really matters, Labels are something we use to describe an aspect of our identity with, not rules we set on ourselves and others. We love who we love, and we express ourselves how we want. Labels don't have set rules or definitions as just like everything else doesn't. It is all constantly changing. Describe your love how you want, describe your gender how you want, It's your life." The third white text states "Vibe to the Community that queer exclusionist don't really like." The words "Community" and "queer exclusionist" also cover a black background, clearly covering up previous text. End Image ID.]

Credit to @the-church-of-strabismus for the image ID!

[lesbianpolls]

happy international lesbian day!! especially to:

male lesbians and lesboys and boydykes

transmasc and transfem and transneu and transfemmasc and all other trans lesbians

nonbinary and multigender and xenogender lesbians

intersex lesbians

lesbians who use he/him pronouns and neopronouns

aromantic and asexual and aplatonic and afamilial and all other aspec lesbians

queerplatonic and alterous lesbians

polyamorous and nonmonogamous lesbians

bi and omni and ply and pan and abro and all other mspec lesbians

gaybians and straightbians

butch and femme and stud and futch lesbians

lesbians with stigmatized disorders

[old-acc-discourseisdumb]

stop assuming you can deconstruct gender without deconstructing sexuality when its all just people trying to communicate complex identities with limited vocabulary

aka if you can accept gender is a social construct of labels so bigender girlboys make sense, you should be able to accept lesboys

[yourfavusescontradictorylabels]

YOU use contradictory labels (has this been done yet?)

YOU use contradictory labels!

[haunted-thing]

hey daily reminder that if you say “but multigender people aren’t actually men!” in your argument against mspec lesbians / lesboys that is, infact transphobic. if you don’t deny whatever womanhood that person may have or lack there of gender that person may have why would you deny their manhood? you cannot bend other peoples gender identities just to fit YOUR beliefs. It’s their identity not yours.

-sincerely, a multigender lesboy

[tgirlmouse]

i don't feel nearly as ashamed or hesitant to talk about my queer tgirl attraction to men as my tguy brothers would feel talking about their attraction to women

obligatory "if you're a trans guy and your attraction to women is het, that's real and okay! your trans experience isn't a monolith and other trans people being different doesn't make you different or wrong"

like, think about it: hardly anyone bats an eye when a tgirl uses grindr or calls herself a faggot, but as soon as a man calls himself a lesbian, everyone gets on his ass. anything for an excuse to shit on lesbians, i guess. it makes me angry that nobody sees this hypocrisy or these ties back to the lesbian separatism that infected the community post-70s. it's not gone, it never went away

this isn't exactly profound news to anyone who gives a shit about lesbian history. just something i find interesting

[craigjones-marry-me-plz]

how it feels trying to explain your queer identity 500 times to people who don't even care and will still think "you're not real"

[justdavina]

Sexy gothic gurl! Halloween is just around the corner girls! Get those dresses ready to wear if you already haven't!