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genderqueerdykes · 5 months ago
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you know, it makes sense to talk about when older queer people living as themselves inspires younger queers to do the same, but i don't think we talk enough about how the bravery of young queers can inspire and help older queers, too. like, actually seeing younger trans men who don't bind and wear dresses makeup and keep their hair long has inspired me to feel more comfortable being a feminine trans man.
actually, seeing young queers who use neopronouns helped me feel more comfortable in using pronouns i genuinely like as opposed to pronouns i feel obligated to use for everyone else's comfort. actually, seeing young queers who identify as things like gaybians, fagdykes, lesboys, girlfags, and other "contradictory" labels made me feel more confident in being those things, too. there is something to be said about the bravery of people who are just learning how to express themselves fully.
i think we can all take pages from each others' books. we all have something to learn from and teach each other. of course older queers being there for the younger generations is important, but older queers have a lot to learn from younger generations, too.
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womanman · 1 year ago
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“We need more weird queer people” Y’all can’t handle 90% of the ways multigenders label their sexualities
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justdavina · 5 months ago
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Such a kissable transgender gurl! She's wonderful! She's adorable!
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everyponie · 3 months ago
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waow
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sapphic-boy · 2 years ago
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Okay yes you reblogged a post about a boyfriend being a girl but are you like actually normal about multigender people especially about multigender lesbians and gay dudes
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applebees4prez · 9 months ago
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riz being aroace as well as fabian’s gay awakening is the only correct option but also the funniest one. this loser (affectionate) is obsessed with you but in somehow the most platonic way possible and there’s a second where you think he might like guys and has even dated one but nope it’s the manifestation of his fears of his total lack of romantic attraction. meanwhile girls are asking YOU why you always bring HIM up and you can’t face the fact that you are actually just as obsessed with him because you are just afraid of your sexuality as he is of his. crazy.
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lesbianpolls · 3 months ago
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happy international lesbian day!! especially to:
male lesbians and lesboys and boydykes
transmasc and transfem and transneu and transfemmasc and all other trans lesbians
nonbinary and multigender and xenogender lesbians
intersex lesbians
lesbians who use he/him pronouns and neopronouns
aromantic and asexual and aplatonic and afamilial and all other aspec lesbians
queerplatonic and alterous lesbians
polyamorous and nonmonogamous lesbians
bi and omni and ply and pan and abro and all other mspec lesbians
gaybians and straightbians
butch and femme and stud and futch lesbians
lesbians with stigmatized disorders
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old-acc-discourseisdumb · 1 year ago
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stop assuming you can deconstruct gender without deconstructing sexuality when its all just people trying to communicate complex identities with limited vocabulary
aka if you can accept gender is a social construct of labels so bigender girlboys make sense, you should be able to accept lesboys
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YOU use contradictory labels (has this been done yet?)
YOU use contradictory labels!
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haunted-thing · 8 months ago
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hey daily reminder that if you say “but multigender people aren’t actually men!” in your argument against mspec lesbians / lesboys that is, infact transphobic. if you don’t deny whatever womanhood that person may have or lack there of gender that person may have why would you deny their manhood? you cannot bend other peoples gender identities just to fit YOUR beliefs. It’s their identity not yours.
-sincerely, a multigender lesboy
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80s-masked-slasher · 19 days ago
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"we need more weird gays"
you can't handle it is someone only uses xenos
you cant handle it if someone is gay and a lesbian
you can't handle if someone identifies as a boy and a lesbian
you can't handle is someone is nonhuman and that affect their identity
you can't handle if someone is a system making their identity veey complex
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lovelydisgusting · 6 months ago
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no more infighting over identity labels. i just saw a post where op listed various queer identity microlabels, sorted into two categories under "support" and "don't support". It was super silly, but also made me frustrated and sad. so here's my message to my fellow severely online queers: other queer people are not your enemy. you might think their labels are nonsense, or contradictory, or even offensive - learn to accept this. remember what you are fighting for: freedom of identity, freedom of expression, bodily autonomy, liberation from binary-hetero-patriarchy. FOR ALL! playing identity cop is utterly counterproductive to the cause.
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justdavina · 2 months ago
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Tiffany Colleman: Beautiful Trans Women's Off the Shoulder Blue Ruffle Dress!
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everyponie · 6 months ago
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sorry but being autistic and "not understanding conflicting labels" is NOT an excuse to put queer labels on your dni. Saying "lesboys dni" is just as bad as saying "trans men dni" or "lesbians dni". You can't pick and chose which queer people you do and don't accept. You either accept us all or accept no one. We are a community. Don't use autism to excuse transphobic and lesbophobic behavior.
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tgirlmouse · 1 year ago
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i don't feel nearly as ashamed or hesitant to talk about my queer tgirl attraction to men as my tguy brothers would feel talking about their attraction to women
obligatory "if you're a trans guy and your attraction to women is het, that's real and okay! your trans experience isn't a monolith and other trans people being different doesn't make you different or wrong"
like, think about it: hardly anyone bats an eye when a tgirl uses grindr or calls herself a faggot, but as soon as a man calls himself a lesbian, everyone gets on his ass. anything for an excuse to shit on lesbians, i guess. it makes me angry that nobody sees this hypocrisy or these ties back to the lesbian separatism that infected the community post-70s. it's not gone, it never went away
this isn't exactly profound news to anyone who gives a shit about lesbian history. just something i find interesting
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