#sapphillean

[i-identify-as-tired]

Hard to be a genderfuckery sapphic transmasc at my college because most of the lesbians are rather exclusionary and transphobic. There would probably be a lot of backlash about me claiming the butch label even though I identified as a lesbian (particularly butch) for like 4-5 years of my life before I realized I was trans and then for a while was bi. It makes it difficult to be a dyke when they police what they think that is allowed to be. Like guys, just because I call myself a man most of the time doesn't mean I'm not perceived as a lesbian 90% of the time I mean look at my haircut. I have a girlfriend, we are sapphic and a little bit Butch4Butch. Can I not just vibe with the gnc, sexuality nonconforming, and trans (masc and fem) lesbians? Please?

[womanman]

“We need more weird queer people” Y’all can’t handle 90% of the ways multigenders label their sexualities

[obsidiandious]

I like you, prides your ducks

Order of flags from left to right top down Yellow duck - rainbow pride flag - bisexual flag - Pansexual flag Transgender flag - non binary flag - Asexual flag - Gay man Flag Lesbian Flag - AroAce flag - genderfluid flag - Aromantic

Order of flags from left to right top down yellow duck - xenogender flag - gender queer - polysexual sapphillean flag - omnisexual - agender - intersex demi sexual - demi romantic - demi girl - demi boy

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH! We can't forget our Palestinian brothers and sister that are no longer with us this month

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[sapphic-boy]

"queers have got to get weirder" y'all cant even handle people who have more than one gender

[lesboytism]

𐙚 ﹐sapphillean

someone who is sapphic and achillean simultaneously due to being nonbinary. ex: a boygirl who feels sapphic towards women and achillean towards men

my flag redesign ꒱

[1tz-4ll-m3]

If a label fits you, you have every right to use it. Even if it’s “contradictory”.

Being queer is not a club that people can exclude you from.

If your queer identity doesn’t hurt anyone, own it.

[squidfreak]

They're calling lesboys radqueers now ooohhnm my Gooodrfffddd

[smilepilled]

shout out to gaybians. fagdykes. dykefags. gaybilesbians. lesbigays. gay lesbians. lesbian gays. turidykes/dykurians. sapphilleans. dykeldians/veldykes. gays who feel lesbian. lesbians who feel gay. anyone who's lesbian/sapphic and gay/turian/veldian/achillean at the same time, by any means. you guys rock!

[menacewithawolfcut]

my gender is 65% a boydyke, 35% a girlfag, 100% some indescribable, gender-neutral (but not genderless) entity beyond the male/female binary, but all of the above at the same time, hope that helps

[pupiipawzz]

anyone else simultaneously both gay and straight in all directions?

[bilesproblems]

The queer community really normalized the words for fluidity and multigenderism but not the experiences at all.

I'm not the first to make this type of post, but I'm gonna go beyond just what the original said (and I'll edit this to include a link when I find the original again on my dash because it usually shows up once a week): we've normalize words like boygirl but most people haven't normalized actually being a boy and a girl, or a man and a woman, at the same time, and for fluidity they don't normalize actually being a boy or man and being a girl or woman at different times. Instead "boygirl" is just used like a label for androgyny or worse neutrality (nothing wrong with being neutral but being a boy and a girl is NOT that). We normalize the words bigender and genderfluid but never recognize them as actually having multiple genders. Bigender people are treated like half and half, and together androgynous or neutral instead of both of their genders at once, and genderfluid people are just seen like nonbinary people who use different pronouns and different times. We normalize the words but we don't normalize being sapphic and achillean, veldian and lesbian, a lesbian man or a veldian woman, straight and lesbian or straight and veldian. The things that are experienced by multigender people. We normalize the words but we don't allow bigender people to identify with anything other than "bigender" and we don't allow genderfluid people to identify with anything other than "genderfluid." If they want to label their orientations their options are mspec, trixic, toric, and enbian, and anything else is wrong. They're never allowed to say they're straight, and if they are allowed to be veldian/achillean or lesbian/sapphic (and they only get to pick one), they must degender themselves and pretend they don't experience womanhood or manhood.

Similarly, we normalize the word abrosexual but many don't allow abrosexuals to identify as anything but abro. They're not allowed to identify as any of the orientations they experience, even with some regularity. They might be allowed an mspec term - but they're never allowed to say they're veldians, or lesbians, and god forbid they identify as both. Even when they're experiencing being one of those things, it's not "allowed" for them to use the terms because the community deemed fluidity as not *really* the things they experienced because it's not permanent.

If we are gonna normalize the labels of multigender, genderfluid, and abrosexual can we actually get it in our heads that some people are multiple full genders at once, and if they're a man, a woman, and nonbinary, they are AS MUCH of a man as any monogender man, AS MUCH of a woman as any monogender woman, and JUST AS NONBINARY as any monogender enby? Can we get it though our heads that some people experience multiple full genders at different times, and they are AS MUCH of a man as any statically gendered man when they experience manhood, AS MUCH of a woman as any statically gendered woman when they experience womanhood, and JUST AS NONBINARY as any statically gendered enby when they experience enbanhood? Can we get it through our heads that some people experience multiple orientations at different times, and they are AS MUCH of a lesbian when they experience lesbianism, AS MUCH of a veldian when they experience veldianism, JUST AS STRAIGHT as any other straight person when they feel themselves straight, and JUST AS MSPEC when they experience attraction to multiple genders?

(there's also people who experience multiple orientations at once, statically, but we haven't even been normalized yet so. Yeah.)

[abyssblooded]

npdsapphillean — for when you have npd / npd traits and it intertwines with being sapphillean in some way or vice versa.

notes :

self-indulgent flag. it is also a remake of an old version i had made prior, but now deleted.

please don't post this onto other websites or on any wikis without asking for my permission.

[womanman]

Everyone needs to get real normal about how male/female multigender people label their attraction Right Now. I am no longer asking.

[bloomshroomz]

Sunset Ocean Pride Flag

I had this idea to make a flag for people who are gay for both men and women, without it being tied to a specific label. Whether you identify as bi, pan, omni, queer, gay, sapphillean, velaurian, unlabeled, or whatever the case may be, you can use this flag if you are gay for both men and women. Personally, I am gay in all directions and identify as bi, omni, queer, and gay.

The flag incorporates themes from both the sunset lesbian flag and the ocean gay flag, hence it being based on a sunset over an ocean. It visually symbolizes the unity of both gay attraction to women, and gay attraction to men. (Not necessarily exclusively! People who experience attraction to nonbinary people are also included, as are people whose attraction is not strictly gay. I'm attracted to all nonbinary genders, and my attraction to women and primarily woman-aligned people is partially straight.)

The top three stripes represent the "sunset" portion of the flag, and have meanings inspired by the lesbian flag.

Grape represents gay attraction to women. You may also describe this as lesbian attraction, sapphic attraction, trixic attraction, or whatever else you may prefer, as long as it essentially feels gay.

Rose represents independence, serenity, and peace. These were three major themes in the sunset lesbian flag which were not shared with the ocean gay flag.

Coral represents diversity, community, and love. These were themes present in both the sunset lesbian and ocean gay flags, which is part of why this portion of the sunset also represents marine life. The sky blue stripe in the ocean section shares this meaning.

The center white stripe represents gender nonconformity, transgender/genderqueer people, intersex people, and unique relationships to gender and sex. These were themes present in both the sunset and ocean flags, and are also common meanings for center white stripes in queer flags.

The bottom three stripes represent the "ocean" portion of the flag, and have meanings inspired by the ocean gay flag.

Sky blue represents diversity, community, and love, as the coral stripe does. This portion of the ocean also represents the sky.

Lapis represents joy, healing, and fortitude. These were three major themes in the ocean gay flag which were not shared with the sunset lesbian flag.

Dark indigo represents gay attraction to men. You may also describe this as vincian attraction, achillean attraction, toric attraction, or whatever else you may prefer, as long as it essentially feels gay.

You do not need permission to use this flag for any reason, whether it is for personal or commercial use. It is public domain.

[sapphic-boy]

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

Contradictory label culture is looking for other sapphillean blogs, and being extremely confused by ones with "mspec lesbians & supporters" in their DNI. Like what? How are you going to be against contradictory labels when you yourself identify with one lmao

Bro that's so weird!? I mean on other social media platforms people genuinely think sapphillean is the same as Gaybian, how are you gonna hate Mspec lesbians, that's like your long lost cousin!