#poly lesbian

[elysianmadness]

Happy lesbian visibility week/day to every lesbian around the world! I hope you're going to have a wonderful week, wherever you are. Your lesbianism is perfect and needed in the world. In this household, we love and appreciate the diversity of the lesbian experience <3

[transmhyra]

[genderstarbucks]

Can y'all stop centering the definition of lesbian around hating men and start centering the definition of lesbian around our love for women?

Like if gay was centered around the definition of hating women you'd call that misogynistic right? So why is it okay to do that with lesbian

Lesbian will never have a clear cut definition that fits everybody, but centering it around hating men feels icky

What about the lesbians that DO love men? What about us?

Being surrounded by people who think that lesbianism is just about hating men is getting tiring

Lesbianism is defined by our queer love for women, it shouldn't be defined about hating men

Also while I'm at it, the non men loving non men definition of lesbian is icky too

Nmlnm isn't as inclusive as you think it is, plus the word non men (and non women) was used to dehumanize black people

You can use the nmlnm definition of lesbian for yourself, but don't force it on others

[thehealingsystem]

happy mspec lesbian week 💜

[buntress]

🌸🌙 Queer Stars :: Mspec Labels 🌸🌙

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Bi Lesbian // Pan Lesbian // Poly Lesbian Omni Lesbian // Bi Gay // Pan Gay Poly Gay // Omni Gay // Lesgay

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More Here [link] Mspec Lesbian & Gay flags by @bi-lesbian

F2U w/ credit <3

[bilesproblems]

Just in case any baby mspec lesbians are here, that might still be unlearning the validity bullshit and drawing lines in "acceptable" vs "unacceptable" lesbian identities:

You are not gonna be one of the good ones. Even if you're one of the ones who isn't attracted to men at all, the exclusionists will never accept your mspec identity because it goes against their hatred. The transmasc bigender lesboy who's primarily a guy but still feels like a lesbian will validate your identity and affirm your simultaneous lesbianism and mspec attraction. Even if you're a SAM user so clearly you're experiencing 2 distinct identities, exclusionists will decide on a whim that SAM users can't be lesbians and they'll demand you leave the community. The omni lesbian who's got a heavy preference for women and so calls themself a lesbian will validate your distinct experiences as two different things, deserving of having both labels.

You have to learn to give these people the same acceptance. They are your community. They are the people that will listen to you when you explain how you're simultaneously mspec and a lesbian, and they're the ones who will validate your identity. You need to unlearn the things exclusionists say. You need to unlearn "nonmen loving nonmen" as the One True Definition of Lesbian. It will take a little bit, I know. It's an adjustment. But if you push away the community you have, then you'll end up alone. The people who would have accepted your identity don't want to associate with you because you invalidated them. The people who most of your beliefs align with hate your identity. So please, don't push away the community. Take time to learn it, accept it, and be part of it. Ask questions if you want to, in good faith. If you have to, make up an explanation like exclusionists do, but instead of something bad faith, make up something you'd accept (I did this with binary trans man lesboys when I was still attached to nmlnm, because I was thinking about orchid aces and how despite not fitting a definition they're still a part of the asexual community because their unique experience makes them feel more like an asexual than an allosexual, and I realized that would totally apply to a lot of binary trans man lesboys). Whatever it takes to accept the rest of your community because if you reject it, you're aligning yourself with people who hate you.

I learned this from experience. I wanted to be one of the good ones for a hot minute. I was against pan lesbians despite being a bi lesbian because I hadn't even thought of split attraction and I thought "well bi is compatible with being a lesbian because 2+ genders and nmlnm don't contradict but pan lesbian isn't because all genders and nmlnm do." I was resistant to non-SAM mspec lesbians that liked men. I was resistant to lesboys. But thankfully I held my tongue long enough to hear them talk about their history, their experiences, and point out how genderqueerness and multigenderism would very obviously allow men to be lesbians (before I had my epiphany about binary trans man lesboys). I am forever grateful that I didn't voice my shitty baby bi lesbian opinions and immediately push away the community that accepted me as a lesbian, as a biromantic, as a term collector, and as all of me. I got the chance to grow as a person.

So even if none of this stuff makes a lot of sense to you yet, I promise you will get it in time. Do not try to be one of the good ones. You'll never be accepted by the people you're trying to appeal to. The people who will accept your explanations, will also accept the rest of the community and their explanations. You don't have to other anyone to be accepted by the people who are willing to accept you.

[puppy--boy]

I love being a lesbian

I love lesboys

I love trans women lesbians

I love trans men lesbians

I love nonbinary lesbians

I love butches

I love femmes

I love futches

I love studs

I love stems

I love disabled lesbians

I love fat lesbians

I love thin lesbians

I love tall lesbians

I love short lesbians

I love aspec lesbians

I love PoC lesbians

I love intersex lesbians

I love otherkin/alterhuman lesbians

I love mspec lesbians

I love gaybians

I love poly lesbians

I love lesbians with a girlfriend

I love lesbians with a partner

I love lesbians with a boyfriend

I love lesbians in a qpr/qpp

I love lesbians who are single

I love lesbians who aren’t looking for a relationship

I love lesbians who don’t want a relationship

I love you lesbians <333

[bookmothic-dyke]

I keep saying my type is like alt/goth girls… but in practice I keep falling for adordorkable, and yet startlingly hot, nerds.

Gods are fellow neurodivergent girls pretty.

[pupiipawzz]

[satyrradio]

Happy Mspec Lesbian Week ‼️

[kissingwomenat3pm]

Daily reminder that lesboys n turigirls are very 💕💞💖💝💓💘💗💌💕💞💓💖💗💝💘

[oy--with-the-poodles-already]

”mspec lesbians and lesboys DNI” BOOOOO!! 🍅 BOOOO!!!! 🍅 🍅 🍅

[sir-dyke-genderpunk]

I wish people would stop taking advantage of butch chivalry. It’s so fucking frustrating. A chivalrous butch is such a beautiful thing. Butchness (especially butches who follow classic butch code/practice chivalry) is a type of masculinity that allows for vulnerability and the breaking of so many barriers. To see butches so often be picked up, played with for a bit, and then dropped completely out of nowhere/abused/have their kindness used against them etc. is absolutely infuriating. Butches are already so fucking hated in our community and our history is actively trying to be erased. I feel like so many people date butches just because they know they can take advantage of us. Or use us for sex until they get tired of us and then ditch without ever even implying something was wrong beforehand. Fuck.

[genderstarbucks]

[ID: 2 images that are a drawing of a white hand with the middle finger up with a lesboy bracelet and an mspec lesbian ring on the middle finger. They both have a white background. They both say "FUCK OFF!" on the left side of the image. The image on the left has "FUCK OFF!" in a black text and the image on the right has "FUCK OFF!" in a red text.

I'm tired of the exclusionsinism within the queer community. Lesboys and mspec lesbians have been here for decades (since AT LEAST the 70's) Read up on your queer history. We're not leaving this community.

[loveletterliom]

KITTY MSPEC LESBIANS mspec lesbians, bi lesbians, pan lesbians, omni lesbians, ply lesbians, and abro lesbians — who feel connected to cats or kittens in some way, are otherkin therians nd stuf, etc... if u like cat aesthetics too

[astrumaur]

M-spec Lesbian | Bi-Lesbian | Pan-Lesbian Poly-Lesbian | Omni-Lesbian | Lesboy

Bi-Lesbian requested by Anon. Figured I could make others too <2