#ply gaybian

[genderstarbucks]

Can y'all stop centering the definition of lesbian around hating men and start centering the definition of lesbian around our love for women?

Like if gay was centered around the definition of hating women you'd call that misogynistic right? So why is it okay to do that with lesbian

Lesbian will never have a clear cut definition that fits everybody, but centering it around hating men feels icky

What about the lesbians that DO love men? What about us?

Being surrounded by people who think that lesbianism is just about hating men is getting tiring

Lesbianism is defined by our queer love for women, it shouldn't be defined about hating men

Also while I'm at it, the non men loving non men definition of lesbian is icky too

Nmlnm isn't as inclusive as you think it is, plus the word non men (and non women) was used to dehumanize black people

You can use the nmlnm definition of lesbian for yourself, but don't force it on others

[neopronouns]

flag id: a flag with 7 stripes, which are light sky blue, soft purple, pink, light green, turquoise, soft indigo, and light red-pink. end id.

banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.

a transmascfem ply gaybian flag for anon!

tags: @radiomogai, @orientation-archive, @fem-mogai | dni link

[lesbianpolls]

happy international lesbian day!! especially to:

male lesbians and lesboys and boydykes

transmasc and transfem and transneu and transfemmasc and all other trans lesbians

nonbinary and multigender and xenogender lesbians

intersex lesbians

lesbians who use he/him pronouns and neopronouns

aromantic and asexual and aplatonic and afamilial and all other aspec lesbians

queerplatonic and alterous lesbians

polyamorous and nonmonogamous lesbians

bi and omni and ply and pan and abro and all other mspec lesbians

gaybians and straightbians

butch and femme and stud and futch lesbians

lesbians with stigmatized disorders

[doomsdayradio]

i love you mspec lesbians and bi lesbians and pan lesbians and omni lesbians and ply lesbians and abro lesbians and mspec gays and bi gays and pan gays and omni gays and ply gays and abro gays and mspec straights and bi straights and pan straights and omni straights and ply straights and abro straights and abros and gaybians and lesboys and trans man lesbians and turigirls and trans woman gays and enbyhets and aplatonics/aplspecs

[bilesproblems]

The queer community really normalized the words for fluidity and multigenderism but not the experiences at all.

I'm not the first to make this type of post, but I'm gonna go beyond just what the original said (and I'll edit this to include a link when I find the original again on my dash because it usually shows up once a week): we've normalize words like boygirl but most people haven't normalized actually being a boy and a girl, or a man and a woman, at the same time, and for fluidity they don't normalize actually being a boy or man and being a girl or woman at different times. Instead "boygirl" is just used like a label for androgyny or worse neutrality (nothing wrong with being neutral but being a boy and a girl is NOT that). We normalize the words bigender and genderfluid but never recognize them as actually having multiple genders. Bigender people are treated like half and half, and together androgynous or neutral instead of both of their genders at once, and genderfluid people are just seen like nonbinary people who use different pronouns and different times. We normalize the words but we don't normalize being sapphic and achillean, veldian and lesbian, a lesbian man or a veldian woman, straight and lesbian or straight and veldian. The things that are experienced by multigender people. We normalize the words but we don't allow bigender people to identify with anything other than "bigender" and we don't allow genderfluid people to identify with anything other than "genderfluid." If they want to label their orientations their options are mspec, trixic, toric, and enbian, and anything else is wrong. They're never allowed to say they're straight, and if they are allowed to be veldian/achillean or lesbian/sapphic (and they only get to pick one), they must degender themselves and pretend they don't experience womanhood or manhood.

Similarly, we normalize the word abrosexual but many don't allow abrosexuals to identify as anything but abro. They're not allowed to identify as any of the orientations they experience, even with some regularity. They might be allowed an mspec term - but they're never allowed to say they're veldians, or lesbians, and god forbid they identify as both. Even when they're experiencing being one of those things, it's not "allowed" for them to use the terms because the community deemed fluidity as not *really* the things they experienced because it's not permanent.

If we are gonna normalize the labels of multigender, genderfluid, and abrosexual can we actually get it in our heads that some people are multiple full genders at once, and if they're a man, a woman, and nonbinary, they are AS MUCH of a man as any monogender man, AS MUCH of a woman as any monogender woman, and JUST AS NONBINARY as any monogender enby? Can we get it though our heads that some people experience multiple full genders at different times, and they are AS MUCH of a man as any statically gendered man when they experience manhood, AS MUCH of a woman as any statically gendered woman when they experience womanhood, and JUST AS NONBINARY as any statically gendered enby when they experience enbanhood? Can we get it through our heads that some people experience multiple orientations at different times, and they are AS MUCH of a lesbian when they experience lesbianism, AS MUCH of a veldian when they experience veldianism, JUST AS STRAIGHT as any other straight person when they feel themselves straight, and JUST AS MSPEC when they experience attraction to multiple genders?

(there's also people who experience multiple orientations at once, statically, but we haven't even been normalized yet so. Yeah.)

[respirgender]

gaybian | gaybian | gaybian turigirl-lesboy gaybian | mspec gay | mspec lesbian pan gay | ply gay | omni gay

free to use, credit is appreciated but not required

[queersekai]

Day 7: Varioriented identities (using the split-attraction model; can be aspec or not)

Aro omni velauriuan (gaybian/lesbigay) L/n Luka, ply bennetian Shizuku, pan lesboy Kohane, bi veldian/turian (gay man) Rui, and bi lesbian Mizuki!

As a bonus, Rui and Mizuki match.

Alternate Luka, Kohane, Rui, and Mizuki costume recolors by @/dragaliareferencearchive.

[xxcalicofemmexx]

pan gays and turians 💚👽⚪💠💙

pan lesbians 🧡🌞⚪🌸💗

pan bis 💖💜💙

pan plys 💖💚💙

pan omnis 🌸💞🍇🧢💠

pan gaybians 🌷💗⚪🌊📘

pan straights 🖤🎱🐘🔳🕊️🏳️

💖💛💙 pansexuals, panromantics, pansensuals, panaesthetics, panalterous, panplatonic, pan pan pan 💖💛💙

[lairofsirenium]

Alternative Black cat lesbian flag

[ID: seven stripes, top to bottom: magenta-ish purple — with the next two stripes being creating a gradient by being slightly darker each time — crimson, dark blue — with the last two stripes creating a gradient by being slightly lighter each time. The left version has a black silhouette of a cat, with a white 'shadow', and the right version does not. End ID]

Definition: a lesbian that is seen as harmful to the community, much like black cats are seen as omens of bad luck.

[losergendered]

ID: a set of 60 images in 30 pairs. each has one image of the listed character from futurama with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Philip J. Fry from Futurama is a bipan nonbinary man with autism, ADHD, and PTSD that uses he/they!

His girlfriend is Leela, a transgender, intersex, aceflux woman that uses she/her and xe/xem! She has autism, ADHD, anxiety and PTSD!

Philip's nephew, Professor Hubert J. Farnsworth, is a bisexual man with synthesia who is neurodivergent! Philip is his 30-times great uncle!

Philip's best friend is Bender, a bisexual robot with autism, NPD, HPD, and depression that is okay with being addressed with he/him!

Amy Wong is a straight demigirl who is autistic, has an eating disorder, and is hypersexual! She goes by zi/her!

Her boyfriend is Kif, a genderfae, paraboy, aliengender, asexual, bi straight, ply straight alien with anxiety, PTSD, and autism! Kif goes by any neutral-based masculine pronouns!

Hermes Conrad is an omni straight, omniflux man with OCD and anxiety!

He is married to LaBarbara, an intersex, nonbinary woman who is a straight sex-favorable asexual! She is also polyamorous!

Their son is Dwight Conrad, who is a trans boy that is gay and questioning his romantic orientation!

He is best friends with Hubert's son, Cubert, who is a pansexual boy!

Hubert is close friends with John F. Zoidberg, an abrosexual, omnipan, straight, AMAB, transmasc decapodian that is autistic and has OCD, depression and ADHD!

Calculon is a heteroflexible, quoiflux, bifluid manbot that is neurodivergent!

Linda van Schoonhoven is a butch-femme, trans lesboy that uses she/xi/he, is autistic and has depression!

Xi is friends with Morbo, an aroace, bi turian, aplatonic alien with bipolar disorder!

Randy Munchnik is a femme, trans gay man with autism!

Hubert's rival, Professor Ogden Wernstrom, is a polysexual man with synthesia!

Hurbert ex-lover, Carol Miller, who also goes by "Mom," is a frayromantic, asexual woman with NPD and bipolar disorder!

Her eldest son, Walt, is trans and gay!

Walt's young brother, Larry, is agender and uranic!

Their younger maternal half-brother, Igner, is xenogender and marsic!

All three brothers are autistic!

Leela's parents, Turanga Morris and Munda, are both intersex, genderless, T4T mutants!

Yivo is an agender, genderless, abrosexual, polyamorous being! Shklee's sexuality is fluid between omnipan, omnisexual, pansexual, omniflux, panflux, pan gaybian, omni gaybian, mesque, and violenatian! Yivo's pronouns are shklee/shkler!

Roberto is a demiboy, masculine, demisexual, trans manbot who is gay and uses he/it! Roberto has psychosis, is schizospec, has PTSD, is autistic and has ADHD!

The Donbot is a mafiacoric, libramasculine straight manbot! The

Donbot's wife, Fanny, is a sex-ambivalent, high femme, asexual heteroromantic fembot!

Their daughter, Bella, is a nonbinary, femme, dyke, straightbian, lesboy who uses feminine and neutral pronouns!

Joey Mousepad is a demisexual, genderqueer, fag, gay manbot who is dyslexic, has ADHD and uses he/xe/they!

His colleague/friend is Francis X. "Clamps" Clampazzo, who is nonbinary, an azurenby, butch, masculine, toric, and gay! He is auDHD, dyslexic, bipolar, has PTSD, and uses they/he/xe/she pronouns!

The Robot Devil is a transmascfem, trans/FTM, transsexual, GNC, genderfluid, aroacespec, frayromantic, greyromantic, nebaeromantic, demisexual, demiT4T, ambiamorous, femme, masculine, turigirl, gay man! He is pronounfluid depending on what his gender is and goes by the name "Bee" which is short for Beelzebot! He uses he/him for when masc presenting, she/her for fem presenting, they/them for neutral presenting, no pronouns for no gender presenting, they/he for masc/neu presenting, they/she for fem/neu presenting, he/she for masc/fem presenting, and all pronouns for masc/fem/neu/non-gender presentation! He has autism, BPD, anxiety, PTSD and hypersexuality!

For @transsexual-jackskellington !

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

GBTQIAPN+ Lesbian Pride Flag

(G)BTQIAPN+: (gay), bi, trans, queer/questioning, intersex, pan/ply, non-binary, or other (plusic). See also BPQUA/BTQ+

Lesbian: queer attraction to women (qlw/wlq); homo wlw/gay nlw (nblw); lesbianly affectionate/partnering; amorously/gamously or fidelitously/relationally sapphic.

It can be a solidarity unifying flag for gaybians (velaurians), multi/mspec (bi/ply/pan) lesbians, trans lesbians, nonbinary/genderqueer lesbians, queer lesbians, intersex lesbians, and more.

[genderstarbucks]

Biflux Gaybian | Poly/plyflux Gaybian | Panflux Gaybian

Omniflux Gaybian | Abroflux Gaybian

Made by combining the multiflux gay and multiflux lesbian flags!

Ids in alt text

[broken-dollhouse]

Lesbian / Gay Flags

Discourse is also not allowed on this post , we will likely just block , we make these stamps for anyone who may find use in them and don't wanna deal with discourse

NOTICE : When it comes to these stamps please follow the original creators boundaries. I ask mine are followed exclusively in terms of interactions , the original creators are to be followed when it comes to use of the flags however. Should the original creator wish we remove this post we will , simply send us an ask or dm in relation.

Please feel free to send asks with flags you want to see as stamps , we're currently working through a list of more well known identities along side any flags in our likes [said list includes bi , pan , omni , ply , lesbian , gay , trans , and similar identities] , you can find all of the current flags here [link] as it's often updated before we post

Flag Creators: Lesboy - @/beyond-mogai-pride-flags Gaybian - @/batpoisonz Lesbidian + Veldibian - @/caeliangel Turigirl - @/blankmogai

Lesbian | Aurora Lesbian | Lesboy Lesbidian | Gaybian | Veldibian Gay | Turian | Turigirl

[jacks-genders]

Bilesbianlexic // Panlesbianlexic

Plylesbianlexic // Omnilesbianlexic

Mspeclesbianlexic // Abrolesbianlexic

Bilesbianlexic: a gender that is/is related to the word "bi lesbian"

Panlesbianlexic: a gender that is/is related to the word "pan lesbian"

Plylesbianlexic: a gender that is/is related to the word "ply lesbian"

Omnilesbianlexic: a gender that is/is related to the word "omni lesbian"

Mspeclesbianlexic: a gender that is/is related to the word "mspec lesbian"

Abrolesbianlexic: a gender that is/is related to the word "abro lesbian"

Can you believe no one has done lexegenders with mspec lesbian identities yet?! <- am also planning to do gay, straight, and gaybian.

Tagging @mogai-sunflowers and @epikulupu

image ids in alt

[bilesproblems]

I'll be honest I haven't been too hard at work on my essay about mspec lesbians and exorsexism in discussions about us (from both sides honestly) because I'm just finishing up school. As soon as I'm out I will be taking a gap year so I'll have more time to write it

But! This post is not just an apology... It's an application! Would you like to be a guest writer for the exorsexism essay? Well then just apply here! Answer a few questions about yourself and your experience with exorsexism and I'll contact you about writing for me. I already have one guest writer planning to write for me but the more, the merrier! If you want to be able to tell exclusionists, and even those in this community, that you're here and hurt that you were forgotten, you can!

Happy writing all applicants!