#ply-gay

[respirgender]

gaybian | gaybian | gaybian turigirl-lesboy gaybian | mspec gay | mspec lesbian pan gay | ply gay | omni gay

free to use, credit is appreciated but not required

[noahizslay]

unpopular opinion time: just because someone is queer doesn't mean they are automatically a good person.

[genderstarbucks]

[ID: 2 images that are a drawing of a white hand with the middle finger up with a lesboy bracelet and an mspec lesbian ring on the middle finger. They both have a white background. They both say "FUCK OFF!" on the left side of the image. The image on the left has "FUCK OFF!" in a black text and the image on the right has "FUCK OFF!" in a red text.

I'm tired of the exclusionsinism within the queer community. Lesboys and mspec lesbians have been here for decades (since AT LEAST the 70's) Read up on your queer history. We're not leaving this community.

[xxcalicofemmexx]

queer flower wallpaper collection!

(kinda) requested by this anon. unfortunately, they never got back to me about what exactly they wanted. BUT i'm fond of this template, and decided to fill the request anyway (⁀ ◡ ⁀)

white background version here

[doomsdayradio]

i love you mspec lesbians and bi lesbians and pan lesbians and omni lesbians and ply lesbians and abro lesbians and mspec gays and bi gays and pan gays and omni gays and ply gays and abro gays and mspec straights and bi straights and pan straights and omni straights and ply straights and abro straights and abros and gaybians and lesboys and trans man lesbians and turigirls and trans woman gays and enbyhets and aplatonics/aplspecs

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

Nah fr though, don't reblog my shit if you're hateful towards any queer identity!!

If you don't like pan, ply, or omni people, fuck off.

Hate MOGAI? Get bent.

If you don't like acespecs and/or arospecs, fuck off.

Hate mspec lesbians? Leave right tf now.

If you don't like enbies, fuck off.

Hate cultural identities? Turn tf around.

If you're hateful towards any of these identities and/or lesbians, bi people, gay people, trans people, or any other part of this community, get the literal and actual fuck out of here.

WE DON'T DO EXCLUSIONARY BULLSHIT IN THIS SPACE! WE NEVER HAVE! AND WE NEVER, EVER, EVERRRR WILL!!

This is a safe space for queer people, especially the ones who get spoken over and shit on all the time, NOT hateful and bigoted people. And when I say hateful and bigoted people, I'm including queer people who feel the need to hurt and harm and harass and shit-talk other queers. Go anywhere else if you wanna be a jerk!! Hope this helps 🫶🏾🫶🏾

[bi-lesbian]

[dragonpride17]

IDs in alt text

some aro and ace venn diagram edits using these (link) flags!

[rouge-the-bat]

happy pride reminder mspec lesbians and gays are the coolest (proof: i am one)

[loveletterliom]

CLOSETED / COVERT MSPEC GAY

— aka daisy achillean or poppy gay if u want a code name

meant to represent anyone under the mspec gay/turian/etc umbrella who doesn't openly identify as such. colored based on a variety of daisies and poppys to represent the history of gay men and gay love; a broader definition of gay.

also inherently reclaiming the pansy craze shit bc i wanted to use flowers and 90% of historical gay flowers are slurs (but i love them so im using them) (not the slurs the flowers)

[yourfavismspechomohet]

love, there’s no such thing as a “bi lesbian.” someone can’t be bi and a lesbian. Coming from a lesbian myself it just doesn’t happen that way. Being a bisexual means that you like BOTH, being a lesbian means you ONLY like non men. It’s a mockery of real lesbians, it’s not a real sexuality.

Let’s take this apart separately, shall we?

“There’s no such thing as a Bi Lesbian”

Tell that to all the Bi Lesbians that follow me, and like my posts, and request for posts.

Tell that to the Bi Lesbians I reblog from and talk to occasionally.

Tell that to the older queers that identify as Bi Lesbians.

I guess apparently they don’t exist then. 🤷

“Someone can’t be Bi and a Lesbian”

Ah, this is a very popular one on this blog that I keep getting. I could link you to those, but I won’t. Here’s some ways you can be Bi and a Lesbian at the same time:

Biromantic Homosexuals

Homoromantic Bisexuals

Bi people who label themselves as Lesbians, to reclaim queer history. Because ALL Sapphics, regardless of if they were attracted to men or not, were referred to as Lesbians.

Bi people may also label themselves as Lesbians to reclaim being called a Lesbian by Biphobes trying to get them to pick one.

Bi people who lean more towards women, may call themselves Bi Lesbians.

Abroromantics/Abrosexuals may label themselves as Bi Lesbians because their orientation only swings back and forth between those two.

“Coming from a Lesbian myself, it just doesn’t happen that way.”

Well, for the second part, “It doesn’t happen that way”, just go back to the previous comments on “Someone can’t be Bi and a Lesbian”. It does and can happen.

Now for the first part “Coming from a Lesbian myself”. I hear this a lot. Not just from Lesbians, not just from queer people, but people of all different communities, one thing I hear all the time is “Coming from a [Blank] myself”. You need to understand that you are not the only Lesbian on earth. And Lesbians are not a hive-mind. You’re not all the same, and you’re not all going to have the same opinions. If that were the case, all Lesbians would look, talk, act the same way, and have the same views. But you don’t, because you’re not a hive-mind. Simply implying that all people of the same sexuality should have the same opinions is wrong. Believe it or not, I’ve seen all different kinds of lesbians who were Pro-Mspec Lesbian, who were Anti-Mspec Lesbian, and were neutral on Mspec Lesbians. And if all Lesbians had the same opinions, you would not be separated on these different opinions.

“Being a bisexual means that you like BOTH, being a lesbian means you ONLY like non men.”

Being Bi means that you could just about like any gender. It doesn’t just mean both, as in men and women. Bi people could definitely just be attracted to women and men, but they’re also Bi people attracted to all different kinds of genders under the Nonbinary umbrella.

As for being a Lesbian, it means that you’re attracted to women and Nonbinary people. And if we can agree on that, we also have to agree that there are other Nonbinary genders where one identifies as a woman AND a man, that you may also be attracted to. Saying that Lesbians don’t like men excludes Multigender people. Even if that’s not how you mean for it to sound, I can tell you that a lot of Multigender people feel that way.

Also, a common misconception is that Non-Men and Non-Women is okay to use for Gay and Lesbian definitions. It’s not. What you probably didn’t know, is that the terms have racist origins. Black and indigenous queer people have literally been talking about this since this definition was coined. “Non-Men” and “Non-Women” are terms that have been historically used to describe the degendering of black people.

Forcing these terms for queer definitions is Anti-Black, I could forgive you if you didn’t know that and stop using those definitions after now knowing the origins.

But if you still use these definitions even after knowing this, congratulations! You’re racist! Pretty sure there was a book about this, “Bad faith and anti-black racism” by Lewis R. Gordon.

“It’s a mockery of real lesbians, it’s not a real sexuality.”

Mspecs have just as big a part in Lesbian history as Lesbians.

All sapphics were Lesbians regardless of if they liked men.

The term “Bi Lesbian” has been around since the 70s. I’d like to see you try and tell an older queer Bi Lesbian, that they’re “mocking” Lesbians and that their sexuality isn’t real. They probably accomplished more than you have in your entire life, because you want to fight with people on queer labels that you think are and aren’t valid because apparently no queer identity is acceptable unless you agree with it.

Love, wether you like it or not, Bi Lesbians and even male Lesbians have always existed and will continue existing. And they don’t need your permission to be themselves.

[intersexfairy]

i may be a gay man but you better believe that when i see a pretty woman and turn into a deer in headlights because her beauty intimidates my poor little head that i mean it in the gayest way possible. this obviously also applies to pretty men. i am bisexual. happy pride <3

[noahizslay]

[genderstarbucks]

Abro between bi + gay

Abro between bi + gay | Abro between bi + lesbian

Abro between poly/ply + gay | Abro between poly/ply + lesbian

Abro between pan + gay | Abro between pan + lesbian

Abro between omni + gay | Abro between omni + lesbian

More flags based off of this cause that's literally me

[xxcalicofemmexx]

queer flower wallpaper collection!

(kinda) requested by this anon. unfortunately, they never got back to me about what exactly they wanted. BUT i'm fond of this template, and decided to fill the request the best i could (⁀ ◡ ⁀)

black background version here

[en8y]

[IMAGE ID: twelve rectangular banners, all of which have blinking outlines. the six on the left have flashing names, while the six on the right have still gradients instead. the first four have the veldian/turian flag as a background, with a matching flashing border; the first two have the word “veldian” in the middle, and the third and fourth have the word "turian" in the middle. the fifth and sixth have the daybreak gay flag as a background, with a matching flashing border; they both have the words “daybreak gay” in the middle. the seventh and eighth have the polysexual flag as a background, with a matching flashing border; they both have the word “polysexual” in the middle. the ninth and tenth have the alloaro flag as a background, with a matching flashing border; they both have the word “alloaro” in the middle. the eleventh and twelfth have the pink and purple polyamorous flag as a background, with a matching flashing border; they both have the word “polyamorous” in the middle. END ID.]

a few blinkies for myself! free to use; please link back/credit if you can!