#trans man lesbian

[1tz-4ll-m3]

Supporting Lesboys means supporting:

1. Multigender Lesbian people using "Les" for their "Fem side" and "Boy" for their "Masc side"

2. GNC Women who like to be called "boy" for gender nonconformity

3. Trans Women and Transfems reclaiming being called a "boy"

4. Transmasc Lesbians reclaiming being called a "boy"

5. Trans Men who don't feel misgendered by the term "Lesbian" and/or feels like their attraction to women is still queer

6. He/Him lesbians reclaiming being called a "boy"

Support all of them, or support none of them.

[everyponie]

I absolutely need yall to understand that lesbian trans men and straight trans men experience attraction differently, our experiences are different, and that is OKAY! Neither experience is wrong. Both experiences and ways of loving women are beautiful. These experiences are allowed to coexist with eachother.

I am a FTM lesbian because I was a cis/nonbinary lesbian first, and found out I was a transgender man later in life. The way I was attracted to women never changed. It still felt lesbian. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Straight trans men are amazing people. Lesbian trans men are amazing people. Both offer great things to the queer community.

[sirenium]

'trans men have the lesbian label forced on them when they're heterosexual' and 'trans men can be lesbians' are concepts that do coexist. The point here, for anyone who may have missed it, is that identity is up to the individual and not what someone else decides for them, which includes forcing a trans man to identify as straight when they don't identify as such. You cannot be willing to dismantle the expectations of sex and gender without the will to let go of your little rules to sexuality. Things just happen that don't fit preconceived boxes, get over it.

[blubberinganarchist]

Reminder that your queer identity does not have to "make sense" for it to be valid.

You can identify as "conflicting" identites such as a trans man lesbian.

You can label yourself with the tiniest microlabel that nobody's heard of. (Or come up with your own)

You can identify as a one of the "weird" queer identites.

You can grab any and all labels that you feel fit you.

Or you can use no labels at all.

Being queer means being yourself; you are as valid and as queer as the more "socially acceptable" queers.

[doomsdayradio]

i love you mspec lesbians and bi lesbians and pan lesbians and omni lesbians and ply lesbians and abro lesbians and mspec gays and bi gays and pan gays and omni gays and ply gays and abro gays and mspec straights and bi straights and pan straights and omni straights and ply straights and abro straights and abros and gaybians and lesboys and trans man lesbians and turigirls and trans woman gays and enbyhets and aplatonics/aplspecs

[puppy--boy]

I love being a lesbian

I love lesboys

I love trans women lesbians

I love trans men lesbians

I love nonbinary lesbians

I love butches

I love femmes

I love futches

I love studs

I love stems

I love disabled lesbians

I love fat lesbians

I love thin lesbians

I love tall lesbians

I love short lesbians

I love aspec lesbians

I love PoC lesbians

I love intersex lesbians

I love otherkin/alterhuman lesbians

I love mspec lesbians

I love gaybians

I love poly lesbians

I love lesbians with a girlfriend

I love lesbians with a partner

I love lesbians with a boyfriend

I love lesbians in a qpr/qpp

I love lesbians who are single

I love lesbians who aren’t looking for a relationship

I love lesbians who don’t want a relationship

I love you lesbians <333

[genderqueerdykes]

please don't assume that all transmasculine lesbians are detrans, terfs, or hate transfeminine people. my ex girlfriend (amab transfeminine) admitted to me that she was nervous getting into our relationship because i'm a trans male lesbian and she thought i would exclude transfemmes from lesbianism.

i have no idea why she thought that, because i called us lesbians and openly called myself a butch dyke, and acknowledged her womanhood from the get go. i was very much enjoying her womanhood- please don't get assumptions in your head about transmasculine lesbians, we are not all the violent stereotypes you see online, many of us just have complex relationships, and building unnecessary walls between similar and compatible identities is not the way to go about building a bridge to a healthy united lesbian community.

this is not what lesbianism is about. lesbianism is about acceptance in diverisity in identity, not standing with your hairs on end waiting for someone else to be a piece of shit. don't secretly think that every other lesbian is out to get you, it's not doing you any favors! trans male lesbians are not infiltrators, we are your lovers, friends, bedfellows, brothers, siblings, fathers, uncles, and more! we live here!

[mr-weirdo-mcgee]

"As a lesbian..no" "as a trans man.. no-" OMG SHUT UP, YOU CAN'T POLICE PEOPLE'S IDENTIFIES, YOU DON'T WANNA DATE MAN?? DON'T! GODDAMN

[lascivuscorvus]

I think the reason why some transmascs don't call their attraction to women straight might be, simply, because if it was straight, it wouldn't be stigmatized by society. I pass around 50% of time so when I'm intimate with a woman in public, I'm at risk of being harassed. Even when I do pass, upon learning I'm trans, bigots demonize me for being attracted to people of the same sex/with the same body as mine. It's still gay to them.

Not to mention the fact that in my country, unless I change my gender marker, it's impossible for me to get married to someone with the same gender marker, as same-sex marriage is illegal. My attraction to women will always feel more "gay" to me despite me leaning more on the masc side of gender. I very much still experience the homophobia written into the law.

Trans men are men and all but you cannot deny that we're still *trans* men and cis men do not face the same obstacles as we do when pursuing relationships with women.

[t4transsexual]

saw someone on tiktok tell someone they preceived as a straight trans man (the person in question was a nonbinary lesbian who just said the lesboy label rocks) that theyre "not a lesbian and will never know what its like to be a lesbian" and its like ok. as someone whos identified as a straight trans man and is now a nonbinary lesbian. you DO realize trans men who are only attracted to women have the same experiences that most lesbians do? on account of them either being lesbians or lesbian-adjacent? like before i came out as trans and even when i was living as a trans man do you think i just got to skip comphet, corrective rape, shame for being a lesbian, shame for being a butch, struggles with my identity, forcing myself to like men because all my friends were doing it, predatory lesbian stereotyping, just because i was transmasc or even a trans man? you think that didnt just like add extra complexity to the already complicated thing? like you do realize lesbian transmascs and even straight transmascs/trans men all have lesbian experiences? like literally the difference in a lesbian trans man and a straight trans man in terms of life experiences is just like. the word one might use tbh lmfao

[ftmlesb]

my gf cant keep her hands or pussy off of me now that she sees me as a girl ...

i love how she constantly gropes my tits, lifting my shirt to suck on them any chance she can get

her pussy gets so wet from my tits and she begs me to keep them. she tells me ill regret it if i ever chop them off and i think shes right

she loves my curves and doesnt hesitate to call them what they are either

shes such a lesbian and theres no denying how much she gets turned on by my female body

[genderstarbucks]

LESBOYS??!! In my adopt me? I don't think so

[learnqueeridentities]

Lesboy or boy lesbian (boysbian) is an identity for an individual who in some way identifies as a boy/man that is gay/queer for women (lesbian). It can include:

• an individual who is cusper/evenic between transgender man and a cisgender butch lesbian.

• an individual who is cusper/evenic between a (lesbian) transgender woman and gender non-conforming cis man.

• a cross-aligned lesbian, such as a man-aligned/solarian girl or a woman-aligned/lunarian boy.

• a multigender individual or an individual who otherwise identifies as male and female simultaneously (girlboy) and feels attraction to women.

• an individual who is genderfluid and identifies as a lesbian, even when they are male.

• a centrigender individual experiencing a gender in between fiaspec and miaspec while femaric.

• a lesbiangender, sapphicgender, lesbiagender, or sapphogender man or masculenby/enboy.

• anyone else who is in some way a boy/man and feels their attraction to women is gay/queer.

[sirenium]

"I support trans people!" quick, are you normal about the concept of transandrophobia? Do you think it's just 'white men trying to be oppressed'? Do you brush it off as merely misdirected transmisogyny? Do you scoff at the struggles of trans men and go 'but trans women have it worse! talk to a trans woman and see how bad THEY have it!'?

Do you use a trans man's chest size as an excuse for constant misgendering? Do you hold transmasculine people to a standard of needing to be feminine so to not scare the women, but proceed to not take their gender seriously if they do perform femininity? Do you use your horribly veiled misandry as an excuse to make trans men feel unsafe in queer spaces?

Are you normal about AFAB transfems and AMAB transmascs? Intersex trans people? GNC trans people? Trans people who use xenogenders? Trans people who use it/its or other neopronouns? She/her transmascs and he/him transfems? Can you acknowledge that, sometimes, people are simultaneously transmasc and transfem? Do you accept transmasc women, transfem men, etc?

Do you invalidate the identities of trans women who have beards, or present 'masculinely'? Do you see them as predatory posers? Do you go out of your way to misgender trans women who happen to actually be predators, because 'clearly they were just men'? Do you shame trans women for exploring their sexuality?

Are autistic trans people not able to make decisions on their own transition, as far as you're concerned? Are our ways of expressing and seeing gender 'stupid' to you? Is the concept of autigender too 'insane' to you? Do you see our gender identities as simply jokes?

Can you survive being around a trans man lesbian or a veldian (link) trans woman? Can you support a multigender person who is both gay AND lesbian? Can you include transmasculine nonbinary people in your 'support' of nonbinary lesbians?

I've used the term 'conditional support' a few times, but it is very much conditional support if you explode over one trans person's identity, and then turn around and act all supportive of another's. If all it takes for you not to support a trans person is how they label their gender or sexuality, how they present, what their body looks like, etc, you are not supportive of trans people! Your 'support' is very limited and strict. You have one rigid idea of what trans people are 'supposed' to be, and anyone who deviates isn't valid or worthy, and that is NOT the kind of behavior an ally should exhibit. It is not the way you treat other trans people, and it is far from supportive.

[restless-cadaver]

friendly and lovely little reminder that the word "lesboy" is not a slur or a dirty word!! its a label and its valid <3

[doomsdayradio]

i love you bi lesbians i love you pan lesbians i love you omni lesbians i love you poly lesbians i love you abro lesbians i love you gaybians i love you straight lesbians i love you lesboys i love you trans men lesbians i love you turigirls