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[doomsdayradio]

i love you mspec lesbians and bi lesbians and pan lesbians and omni lesbians and ply lesbians and abro lesbians and mspec gays and bi gays and pan gays and omni gays and ply gays and abro gays and mspec straights and bi straights and pan straights and omni straights and ply straights and abro straights and abros and gaybians and lesboys and trans man lesbians and turigirls and trans woman gays and enbyhets and aplatonics/aplspecs

[respirgender]

mspec straight | bi straight | pan straight ply straight | omni straight | pan lesbian ply lesbian | omni lesbian | contrapan

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[gloaming-sometimes]

dear transhets, mspecs who are mlw or wlm, aspecs who are mlw or wlm, straight lesbians/gays/mspecs, polyamorous straights or any other queer person who is attracted to the opposite gender i wish you a wonderful day & you are awesome & you belong in the queer community just as much as the rest of us & i hope the next time youre in a fast food drive thru line the orders get mixed up and you get more than what you payed for and its your favorite foods on the menu.

[yourfavismspechomohet]

love, there’s no such thing as a “bi lesbian.” someone can’t be bi and a lesbian. Coming from a lesbian myself it just doesn’t happen that way. Being a bisexual means that you like BOTH, being a lesbian means you ONLY like non men. It’s a mockery of real lesbians, it’s not a real sexuality.

Let’s take this apart separately, shall we?

“There’s no such thing as a Bi Lesbian”

Tell that to all the Bi Lesbians that follow me, and like my posts, and request for posts.

Tell that to the Bi Lesbians I reblog from and talk to occasionally.

Tell that to the older queers that identify as Bi Lesbians.

I guess apparently they don’t exist then. 🤷

“Someone can’t be Bi and a Lesbian”

Ah, this is a very popular one on this blog that I keep getting. I could link you to those, but I won’t. Here’s some ways you can be Bi and a Lesbian at the same time:

Biromantic Homosexuals

Homoromantic Bisexuals

Bi people who label themselves as Lesbians, to reclaim queer history. Because ALL Sapphics, regardless of if they were attracted to men or not, were referred to as Lesbians.

Bi people may also label themselves as Lesbians to reclaim being called a Lesbian by Biphobes trying to get them to pick one.

Bi people who lean more towards women, may call themselves Bi Lesbians.

Abroromantics/Abrosexuals may label themselves as Bi Lesbians because their orientation only swings back and forth between those two.

“Coming from a Lesbian myself, it just doesn’t happen that way.”

Well, for the second part, “It doesn’t happen that way”, just go back to the previous comments on “Someone can’t be Bi and a Lesbian”. It does and can happen.

Now for the first part “Coming from a Lesbian myself”. I hear this a lot. Not just from Lesbians, not just from queer people, but people of all different communities, one thing I hear all the time is “Coming from a [Blank] myself”. You need to understand that you are not the only Lesbian on earth. And Lesbians are not a hive-mind. You’re not all the same, and you’re not all going to have the same opinions. If that were the case, all Lesbians would look, talk, act the same way, and have the same views. But you don’t, because you���re not a hive-mind. Simply implying that all people of the same sexuality should have the same opinions is wrong. Believe it or not, I’ve seen all different kinds of lesbians who were Pro-Mspec Lesbian, who were Anti-Mspec Lesbian, and were neutral on Mspec Lesbians. And if all Lesbians had the same opinions, you would not be separated on these different opinions.

“Being a bisexual means that you like BOTH, being a lesbian means you ONLY like non men.”

Being Bi means that you could just about like any gender. It doesn’t just mean both, as in men and women. Bi people could definitely just be attracted to women and men, but they’re also Bi people attracted to all different kinds of genders under the Nonbinary umbrella.

As for being a Lesbian, it means that you’re attracted to women and Nonbinary people. And if we can agree on that, we also have to agree that there are other Nonbinary genders where one identifies as a woman AND a man, that you may also be attracted to. Saying that Lesbians don’t like men excludes Multigender people. Even if that’s not how you mean for it to sound, I can tell you that a lot of Multigender people feel that way.

Also, a common misconception is that Non-Men and Non-Women is okay to use for Gay and Lesbian definitions. It’s not. What you probably didn’t know, is that the terms have racist origins. Black and indigenous queer people have literally been talking about this since this definition was coined. “Non-Men” and “Non-Women” are terms that have been historically used to describe the degendering of black people.

Forcing these terms for queer definitions is Anti-Black, I could forgive you if you didn’t know that and stop using those definitions after now knowing the origins.

But if you still use these definitions even after knowing this, congratulations! You’re racist! Pretty sure there was a book about this, “Bad faith and anti-black racism” by Lewis R. Gordon.

“It’s a mockery of real lesbians, it’s not a real sexuality.”

Mspecs have just as big a part in Lesbian history as Lesbians.

All sapphics were Lesbians regardless of if they liked men.

The term “Bi Lesbian” has been around since the 70s. I’d like to see you try and tell an older queer Bi Lesbian, that they’re “mocking” Lesbians and that their sexuality isn’t real. They probably accomplished more than you have in your entire life, because you want to fight with people on queer labels that you think are and aren’t valid because apparently no queer identity is acceptable unless you agree with it.

Love, wether you like it or not, Bi Lesbians and even male Lesbians have always existed and will continue existing. And they don’t need your permission to be themselves.

[yourfavusescontradictorylabels]

Misako (Ninjago) is maverique and bi het, and Wu (Ninjago) is nonbinary and pan het

Misako from Ninjago is maverique and bi het!

Wu is nonbinary pan het!

[maythefailedartist]

I was kinda bored and made myself a lgbt ball :')

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

contradictory labels culture is other people assuming how your sexuality works ALL THE TIMEEE. "oh so youre straight romantically and pan sexually/pan romantically and straight romantically?" "oh so youre genderfluid and youre pan, but say youre straight when youre the opposite gender?" NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im BOTH!!!!!!!!!!!!! i am straight and pansexual at the SAME TIME!!!!!!!

Never assume guys ❌

[redacted-coiner]

NOTE: I quite literally don’t care about discourse don’t bring it up or I’m just blocking you.

BI Straight, Mesrien, Pan Straight

Poly Straight, (overall) Mspec Mono, Omni Straight

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[xxcalicofemmexx]

pan gays and turians 💚👽⚪💠💙

pan lesbians 🧡🌞⚪🌸💗

pan bis 💖💜💙

pan plys 💖💚💙

pan omnis 🌸💞🍇🧢💠

pan gaybians 🌷💗⚪🌊📘

pan straights 🖤🎱🐘🔳🕊️🏳️

💖💛💙 pansexuals, panromantics, pansensuals, panaesthetics, panalterous, panplatonic, pan pan pan 💖💛💙

[gender-mailman]

Panstraightpalettic!

A palettegender related to the pan straight flag color palette

Coined by me. Requested by no one.

[catlesboy]

hii. another random flag drop. pan straightbian (so pan lesbian + pan straight).

[ridibulous]

whart is a boy lesbian ?1

a lesbian who is also a boy! right on the tin

TO CLARIFY: this label is often used by various queer folk, such as transmascs who ID with the term lesbian, multigender people, and lesbians who simply feel happiest calling themselves boys, men, or male! to name only a few examples (because I couldn't possibly list them all)

I think contradictory labels are cool and awesome and swag and allows queer people to describe and label their various gender & orientation experiences in a way that makes them most comfortable.

[genderstarbucks]

MspecstraightVS / MspecgaybianVS Terms!!

BistraightVS is a term for when you feel like your straight and bisexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

BigaybianVS is a term for when you feel like your gaybian and bisexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

PolystraightVS is a term for when you feel like your straight and polysexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

PolygaybianVS is a term for when you feel like your gaybian and polysexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

PanstraightVS is a term for when you feel like your straight and pansexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

PangaybianVS is a term for when you feel like your gaybian and pansexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

OmnistraightVS is a term for when you feel like your straight and omnisexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

OmnigaybianVS is a term for when you feel like your gaybian and omnisexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

AbrostraightVS is a term for when you feel like your straight and abrosexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

AbrogaybianVS is a term for when you feel like your gaybian and abrosexual identity are fighting or competing to be the most intense, can be considered a fluid orientation, but doesn't have to be.

@cisqueer-archive @queerhet

[dragonpride17]

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mspec hetero venn diagram edits!

using these (link) flags by @haunted-thing and this (link) straight flag!

[yourfavismspechomohet]

The two different kinds of people I get on my blog:

Anyways, Bi Lesbian Sadness is real 🙌

Fuck exclusionists 💝

[yourfavusescontradictorylabels]

Sakura Kinomoto from Cardcaptor Sakura is panhet!

Sakura Kinomoto from Cardcaptor Sakura is pan het!