#bi gaybian

[genderstarbucks]

Can y'all stop centering the definition of lesbian around hating men and start centering the definition of lesbian around our love for women?

Like if gay was centered around the definition of hating women you'd call that misogynistic right? So why is it okay to do that with lesbian

Lesbian will never have a clear cut definition that fits everybody, but centering it around hating men feels icky

What about the lesbians that DO love men? What about us?

Being surrounded by people who think that lesbianism is just about hating men is getting tiring

Lesbianism is defined by our queer love for women, it shouldn't be defined about hating men

Also while I'm at it, the non men loving non men definition of lesbian is icky too

Nmlnm isn't as inclusive as you think it is, plus the word non men (and non women) was used to dehumanize black people

You can use the nmlnm definition of lesbian for yourself, but don't force it on others

[lesboytism]

﹕ ≛ ・🍡 ୭ BI-GAY

an individual who uses bisexual and gay labels !!

the double crescent moons represents bisexuality, with lavender representing gay love <3

not my coined term, only flag and symbol are mine and both are heavily inspired off of @/bi-lesbian's bi-gay flag !

[sir-arlieosaurus-lung-struggler]

I'm sorry I just need an irritated scream into the void rn & my throat hurts:

PEOPLE PLEASE STOP USING NON-MAN & NON-WOMAN CAUSE I AIN'T FUCKING EITHER BITCHES!!! IM DONE WITH PEOPLE USING BINARY SHIT WHEN YOUR TRYING TO INCLUDE NONBINARY PEOPLE GOD DAMN

-ahem-

Thank you for your time 😊

[mx-t4t0]

Assorted mspec gaybian flags!

I realized there was a clear lack of these so I made some, mostly for me to have a pan gaybian flag but I also made the rest of the set just because

Mspec Gaybian

Bi gaybian | Pan gaybian

Poly gaybian | Omni gaybian

No need to credit me but if you do, just say mx-t4t0 made em, no need to @ me outright <3 OP is non-traumagenic/endo friendly Radqueers don't touch Hate gets deleted and blocked, don't care didn't ask 💥💥💥

[contradictorypride]

Bi lebians are beautiful and valid💗

[aftonsparv-bugzz]

:33 < cann we stop labelling things under 1 label ? therianoprathy, otherkinnity, alterhumanity, sexuality, gender, all. shoving things into little boxes will always end up excluding someone. labels shouldnt be such a serious and rigid thing. if it fits, it fits. no one should be concerned how someone else chooses to identify. its their choice. if their experience isnt the same to yours, it doesnt make it invalid.

B33 < this post is specifically being positive towards mspec monos, lesboys and turigirls, and physical alterhumans/mentally ill alterhumans/alterhumans with a different experience to the "usual" one. i suggest youdo not reblog if youdont support those.

[pt: this post is specifically being positive towards mspec monos, lesboys and turigirls, and physical alterhumans/mentally ill alterhumans/alterhumans with a different experience to the "usual" one. i suggest youdo not reblog if youdont support those.]

[xxcalicofemmexx]

i love you pan lesbians i love you straight gays i love you bi gaybians i love you queerhets i love you lesboys i love you turigirls i love you sapphilleans i love you rometians i love you complicated identities that twist and turn and contradict themselves 💖💞💘💟💓💝💗💕

[kerestheghost]

Hehrm because I've seen multiple anti good faith people repost my stuff I jus wanna repeat

I am pro good faith labels & use them.

So please stop reposting my labels if you r against them. It's very weird.

Also if I am in ur DNI.. Please don't int w me or my labels??? Ofc you can use them, there is nothing I can do abt it but its weird.

Anyways be silly, be gay, do crime. :P

[caeliangel]

DONT FORGET TO DO YOUR DAILY CLICK TO HELP PALESTINE.

୨୧ • Koala bi gaybian

A flag for Koala bears bi gaybians!

PT. Koala bi gaybian. A flag for Koala bears bi gaybians! END OF PT.

[mogai-hotel-boss]

[ID: A set of two images. The left image is of Charlie from Hazbin Hotel with a white outline and a translucent black drop shadow in front of a splice of her identities. The right image is a blank flag splice. ID end]

Charlie Morningstar is a bigender canonically bi lesbian velaurian (gaybian/lesbigay) rainbowgender rainbowsparklovemojic demon who uses any pronouns but mostly uses she/her.

Suggested by an anonymous Discord user!

[your-fave-is-mspec-mono]

Twilight Sparkle is Mspec Lesbian!!!

[genderstarbucks]

Biflux Gaybian | Poly/plyflux Gaybian | Panflux Gaybian

Omniflux Gaybian | Abroflux Gaybian

Made by combining the multiflux gay and multiflux lesbian flags!

Ids in alt text

[losergendered]

ID: a set of 16 images in 8 pairs. each has one image of the listed goodbye volcano high character, with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Fang from Goodbye Volcano High is a canon transmasc nonbinary, canon queer, genderqueer, musigender, audiogender, genderpunk, demiaroace dino who is partnered with Naomi! They use they/them but are fine with being referred to with no pronouns ("just Fang") by friends they feel comfortable around! They have autism, but are too busy with their special interest (music) to really look into it!

Reed is a canon queer, bigay dino who is apagender/gender apathetic! He's fine with he/him but honestly doesn't really care what pronouns or titles anyone uses to refer to him, as long as you're not being a jerk about it! He has ADHD and his hyperfix is Legends 'n Lore! (LnL aka "Dinosaur DND")

Trish is a buggender, bugarian, genderpunk, gay, transneu girl/qirl who has ADHD (with a hyperfixation on entomology), anxiety, and OCD! She primarily uses she/her but is fine with any neutral or neopronouns around friends that she trusts! She is questioning being aspec, specifically quoiaroace!

Sage is a canon trans guy, canon queer, glitterbxy, gastrogender, chefgender, and pangay dino who uses he/him and is in a T4T alterous partnership with Stella! He has ADHD and his hyperfixations are cooking, baking, and cute fashion!

Stella is a canon queer, panlesbian, pan femme, transmasc girl who is also tarodesinic, tarostrology, astragirl, and tarotine! She has ADHD and her comfort hyperfixations are astrology, tarot, and divination in general! She's in a T4T alterous partnership with Sage and crushing on Nasir!

Nasir is questioning his gender and orientation, but has been too busy to really get into it because of his parent's expectations! He is questioning being a transfem boy, transfemmasc, bigender, aroaceflux, bi futch, and a bi gaybian! He currently only uses he/him because it's what everyone else uses for him, but wants to try out he/she/they pronouns with those he trusts! He has anxiety!

Naomi is a canon queer, bipan, sciencegender, autigender girl with autism and anxiety who uses she/her primarily (but is fine with any pronouns as long as you're being kind and respectful!) She is partnered with Fang and questioning being somewhere on the aspectrum, but is too busy with school to really know right now! Her special interests are Pretty Heroes, cosplay, science, and engineering!

Rosa is a canon trans girl, canon queer, a bi lesbian, cafegender, hibiscusgender, and rosegender! She uses she/her pronouns and has ADHD! Her hyperfixation is botany!

For anon!

[valentinesie]

＃％．BISEXUAL GAYBIAN / VELAURIAN ‹ ꜝ

More info under the cut!

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EXPLANATIONS ᶻz﹒﹒﹪﹒﹒＞0☆

A flag for people who are both a gaybian / velaurian and bisexual! One could also identify as mesque.

Check these outs! (☆) (☆) (☆) (☆) (☆) (☆)

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STRIPES && MEANINGS ᶻz﹒﹒﹪﹒﹒＞0☆

In order: 1. Attraction to genders that are opposite to your own 2. Being attracted to multiple genders / multisexuality 3. Attraction to genders that are similar to your own 4. Being both a gaybian / velaurian and bisexual 5. Being gay in some way shape or form 6. Being a lesbian in some way shape or form 7. Pride, queerness, complexity!

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IMAGES IDS ᶻz﹒﹒﹪﹒﹒＞0☆

A rectangular flag with stripes that are, in order: Dark violet, Lighter violet, Pink, Very light yellow, Greenish cyan, Regal blue, Dark indigo.

Two icons with 1. Rozalina Olenyeva And 2. Liliya Olenyeva, both from honkai!

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[boy-gender]

so sorry is this a dumb/offensive question but. how does being a bi lesbian/gay person work ..?the labels seem kinda contradictory to me but idk

Depends on the individual, but for me personally i consider myself a bi gay man because while i am theoretically attracted to all genders (bi), i have such a heavy preference towards men and nonbinary people (gay) that it's like living in both worlds. If i fell in love with a woman, id be attracted to her, but just casually being attracted to random people it's like a 99.9% men/masculine people, and .001% women, that I feel I'm also a gay man in practicality.

For me this is further complicated by the fact that I started dating my fiance when I was 14 and they were 15, and we've been together our entire adult lives. My sexuality is now basically single-target. Fictional men I will lust over all day, but in real life? Out of real people? I'm only attracted to my fiance. And because they're gender fluid, that also impacts my sexuality. I'm attracted to them when theyre a man, a woman, or anything else.

In general (and this is a broad generalization) being a bi lesbian or bi gay man refers to someone who might be:

bi with such a heavy preference for one gender or another that they feel both names are applicable

involved in the lesbian and gay communities who comes to realize theyre attracted to more than one gender but doesnt want to leave the community/their established relationships/support network

transitioning and this impacts how they label their sexuality.

Mostly, I'd ask a bunch of people who are bi-gay or bi-lesbian what it means to them if you want to learn more, or if you're satisfied with my answer just don't worry about people being contradictory. of course people are contradictory. we contain multitudes.

[contradictorypride]

Gxrlboything / Gxrlbxything / Girlbxything

《●°COINED BY ME°●》

☆;; a multigender label connected to being a girl/gxrl and a boy/bxy while also being a thing at the same time.