#bi lesboy

[genderstarbucks]

[ID: 2 images that are a drawing of a white hand with the middle finger up with a lesboy bracelet and an mspec lesbian ring on the middle finger. They both have a white background. They both say "FUCK OFF!" on the left side of the image. The image on the left has "FUCK OFF!" in a black text and the image on the right has "FUCK OFF!" in a red text.

I'm tired of the exclusionsinism within the queer community. Lesboys and mspec lesbians have been here for decades (since AT LEAST the 70's) Read up on your queer history. We're not leaving this community.

[lesboytism]

i love being a lesboy!!!

[tiedupcowb0y]

tumblr butches get behind me. Never set foot on twitter please you're too sexy and beautiful they cannot handle a butch who calls himself a man

[anarcho-catboyism]

My identity is for myself and no one else. Stop mistaking your discomfort for harm. If you're uncomfortable, that's something YOU have to work out, preferably far away from me.

[pupiipawzz]

sometimes y’all have got to get normal about the fact that you don’t need to understand someones identity to not be a dick towards them

[buntress]

would you consider making lesboy / turigirl or similar pride pixel stars? if so, could you also do pan lesboy specifically?

thankyou ! <3

💜🧡 Queer Stars :: Lesboy 🩵💙

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Lesboy // Mspec Lesboy // Bi Lesboy Pan Lesboy // Poly Lesboy // Omni Lesboy

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More Here [link] // Turigirl coming soon!

F2U w/ credit <3

[batpoisonz]

twitter users be like

"lesbians can't like men. but we aren't bisexual even tho we are attracted to women and a spectrum of nonbinary people"

but also be like

"yeah a man who likes women and a spectrum of nonbinary people isn't straight, that's actually bisexual."

the double standards are insane.

[honeylemony]

Begging and pleading for people to uncouple genital preference from sexuality labels

Begging bi/pan people to just use the label that describes their experiences instead of cosplaying as "lesbian that's available to men".

This is always where that "bi lesbian" shit was heading. Transmisogyny and lesbophobia.

Lesbians are not "actually straight women" when we love and date our trans lesbian partners. Lesbians are not "confused" or "less gay" for liking sex with trans lesbians.

[everyponie]

what is a lesboy? let's find out together!

[mr-weirdo-mcgee]

Unicorn:

A presentation term for queer people wearing pastels and/or white with some rainbow pastels OR a queer person with labels like xenogenders or complex identifies that other queer people make fun of, MAYBE specifically mocking it like "uwu I'm a (blank complex identity) and I'm so valid, uwu x 100" (yes that is a way people make that)

Maybe both, with people with complex identities wearing pastels.

Day 16 of cointober

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

Contradictory label culture is merely existing in a way that isn't conventional enough to have been considered by coiners.

Multigender people especially are affected (like me I'm multigender.) How can you be nonbinary and a girl? I'm multigender, they are my genders. How can you be midbinary, binary, and abinary? I'm multigender, which label I use depends on if I'm talking about myself collectively or just one of my genders. How can you be cisgender and isogender? Because my aporinity is not cis but is distinctly transn't. But I still relate to cisness because of my being a girl. How can you be enbian and a woman? I'M MULTIGENDER!

It's sad that multigender people basically can't win with sexuality labels, like seriously, I think it needs more rep in media because of it! And someone who ..I don't think was exactly multigender? I think genderqueer? They said something SO simple (no offense) it was being sapphic and Achillean, but it was on tiktok so you know even simple "contradictory" labels are weird to them (there were good comments, btw) but still, someone genuinely thought "sapphic = lesbian, Achillean = gay" I'm sorry WHAT

That's the whole reason for the term sapphic and Achillean!! It's so that multisexual people feel included in wlw or MLM without people saying "lesbian relationship" while one of them is literally bisexual or pan or omni etc!! HOW did they think sapphic was lesbian??

Of course, (TikTok wouldn't like this) but people can be gay and a lesbian (Gaybian) BUT even if you couldn't, you can be wlw and MLM!! It's SO simple and I can't people TikTok was rotting people's brains this much.

And again, it's like multigender people can't live with a sexuality!! I'm gonna go over a few.

3: "erm abrosexual!!" No?? Did they say it was fluid, my guy?? No?? Not every multigender person is genderfluid and not every genderfluid person's sexuality is fluid!!

2: "Gynesexual!!" Yeah you would want someone to just use a term that's basically woman romantic, right? No offense to people who are Gynesexual, but there is absolutely no rep for it anyway, and guess what? Lots of people feel connected to the lesbian label. (Believe it or not, someone pulled out Gynesexual and abrosexual when debating me on my sexuality. Not this next one tho)

1 (absolutely number one goes toooooooo): "that's just STRAIGHT!!" Boom we have a winner!!! 🏆 Of being the dumbest exclusivist! Maybe this should go on r/one joke or r/one comeback!!! Am I right?? Here's several reasons why they wouldn't be straight.

First off, actually tell me how you think a woman loving woman is straight. "Well it cancels out cause you're a man too!!" No it doesn't. That's just multigender transphobia, or @transmultiphobia-discussion (hehe had to tag them, sorryyyy) trans multiphobia! But actually thinking that it's crazy a woman would call herself a lesbian cause she likes women is CRAZY (reminder! Multigender CAN be straight, I'm just pointing out the logic)

And again, it's like double the gayness if they also like men! It's wlw and MLM! That's SO gay! So how the hell is it wrong if they're gay?? And it's like hell ok earth if a monosexual multigender even breathes, like GOD.

I just wonder what they'd say if a multigender person said they're straight so uh... If you want to rant about someone who hates multigender lesbians/gays that also hated straight multigender people... Tell me!

[genderstarbucks]

Can y'all stop centering the definition of lesbian around hating men and start centering the definition of lesbian around our love for women?

Like if gay was centered around the definition of hating women you'd call that misogynistic right? So why is it okay to do that with lesbian

Lesbian will never have a clear cut definition that fits everybody, but centering it around hating men feels icky

What about the lesbians that DO love men? What about us?

Being surrounded by people who think that lesbianism is just about hating men is getting tiring

Lesbianism is defined by our queer love for women, it shouldn't be defined about hating men

Also while I'm at it, the non men loving non men definition of lesbian is icky too

Nmlnm isn't as inclusive as you think it is, plus the word non men (and non women) was used to dehumanize black people

You can use the nmlnm definition of lesbian for yourself, but don't force it on others

[lesboytism]

ᜊ( ' ⩊ '𖦹)ᜊ BI-LESBOY

a term for those who identify as both a bi-lesbian and lesboy!! flag made by me :3 the symbol is from @/bi-lesbian mspec lesbian flags!!

p.s. i don't know if the term bi-lesboy already exists so i'm not claiming to have coined the term !!

[cryinginthefkncorner]

Do you accept m-spec women into all sapphic spaces and understand they are individuals not responsible for the actions of people who hurt wlw like a normal person, or do you demonize them and blame them for the fetishization lesbians face at the hands of perverted cishet men like an exclus misogynistic pick-me freak?

Please note there is a right answer and the validity of your opinions on the queer community rely on giving and holding true to the right answer.

[lesbianamalvada]

mspec lesbian supporters is it okay if I call myself bisexual even though I'm not attracted to men and I'm exclusively attracted to women. can I become a spokesperson for the bisexual community and talk about how hard it is being bisexual while loudly proclaiming i'm only attracted to women. and then can I call all two-sex attracted bisexuals bigots for trying to gatekeep the bisexual community and get them kicked out of bisexual spaces. can I prove biphobes right with my very existence, that bisexuals can pick a gender and most are just faking it, and when any bisexual person calls me out they are accused of helping conservative politicians take our rights away. would that be okay?? i just want to know the rules to this.

[our-lesboy-experience]

is there a bi lesboy flag? i can't seem to find one

there's quite a few of them!

most common one I see by @neopronouns

flag by @futchfawn

flag by @caeliangel

flag by @mogai-sunflowers

flag by @lesbiandykeboy

I can always look for more if you'd like ^^