#pan lesbian safe

[bilesproblems]

Hi everyone. A while back I was in an mspec lesbian server or 2, but they were deleted along with a few others.

I have missed the main one dearly, but a friend of mine has created a new server for all lesbians! It's just 3 of us right now but we'd really like to grow the server, so, feel free to join us!

Join the server (this link is set to never expire)

[redtail-lol]

Pan Lesbian Tidal Terms

okay you know what this is by now, if not check the tidal terms tag. Flags based on Kenochoric's pan lesbian flag!

#1: Full-Moon Springtide Pan Lesbian

[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the pan lesbian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a dark red; the second one down is a dark, dusty orange; the middle stripe is white; the second to last stripe is a bright sea foam green; the bottom stripe is aqua blue. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes, and the middle stripe is glowing. Both flags have turquoise full moons.]

Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a pan lesbian because they're attracted to all genders that could be considered part of lesbian attraction, usually equally! Ex: wlw and everyone who could be considered wlnb.

#2: First-Quarter Neaptide Pan Lesbian

[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the pan lesbian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a dark red; the second one down is a reddish oranhe; the middle stripe is a bright yellow; the second to last stripe is a deep aqua green. The bottom stripe is teal. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes, and thw middle stripe is glowing. Both flags have turquoise half moons, with the left half being obscured by shadow.]

Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a pan lesbian because they are pan, but either a) their attraction to genders considered part of lesbian attraction is much greater than their attraction to other genders, and as such they feel somewhere in between pan and lesbian, or b) they're only comfortable having relationships with people who would normally fall under lesbian attraction.

#3: New-Moon Springtide Pan Lesbian

[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the pan lesbian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a deep, very dark red; the second one down is a dark, dusty reddish orange; the middle stripe is a slightly desaturated yellow; the second to last stripe is a bright aqua green. The bottom stripe is between teal and blue. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes, and the middle stripe is glowing. Both flags have turquoise new moons.]

Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a pan lesbian because they use the split attraction model, and are lesbian in one form of attraction and pan in another.

#4: Third-Quarter Neaptide Pan Lesbian

[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the pan lesbian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a deep, dark, slightly pinkish red; the second one down is a slightly lighter, more orange shade; the middle stripe is a very pale yellow; the second to last stripe is a dark color between teal and green. The bottom stripe is an even darker color between teal and blue. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes, and the middle stripe is glowing. Both flags have turquoise half moons, with the right half being obscured by shadow.]

Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a pan lesbian because they are pan, and are reclaiming the historical definition of lesbian!

#5: Tidalphasic Pan Lesbian

[Image ID: The original pan lesbian flag by kenochoric with its slightly dark, pinkish red top stripe, orange second stripe, pale greenish yellow middle stripe, bring aqua green second to last stripe, and bottom aqua blue stripe, with an overlay of 4 turquoise moons in a small arc. From left to right, they are a full moon, a half moon with left side shadow, a new moon, and a half moon with right side shadow. The left flag also has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes, and the middle stripe is glowing]

Meaning: Someone who's reason for identifying as a pan lesbian is fluid and changes. They go through the many phases of possibilities just like the moon and tide!

#6: Midtide Pan Lesbian

[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the pan lesbian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a dusty red; the second one down is a bright orange; the middle stripe is a pale yellow; the second to last stripe is a light, slightly bluish green; the bottom stripe is a slightly desaturated aqua blue. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes, and the middle stripe is glowing. Both flags have turquoise crescent moons.]

Meaning: A pan lesbian who's experience was not covered by this post, or a pan lesbian who's experience is a mix of the labels here. You are all valid pans/lesbians but I don't know every way to be a pan lesbian! Just like the tide, lesbian experiences aren't rigid and there are times you are in between two.

Please feel free to coin your own tidal labels! And thanks for checking out the blog

[Image ID: A reddish brown image bordered with the aurora lesbian, lunian, bi lesbian, and omni lesbian flags. There's an illustration of a calico cat and text that reads "PLEASE: •Check my pinned before following •DNI: Pedos, zoos, people seeking discourse, solicitors, and anyone seeking a relationship with me." End ID.]

[cynical-crypt]

since i’m seeing this discourse pop up on my dash a lot again... bi/pan/mspec lesbians are completely fine and valid. go fucking wild with your labels don’t listen to anyone who tries to put you down for it. they’re pussies

[mr-weirdo-mcgee]

[seeresultssweep]

RADQUEERS & TRANSIDS STOP REBLOGGING THIS POST IS NOT FOR YOU

RADQUEERS & TRANSIDS STOP REBLOGGING THIS POST IS NOT FOR YOU

RADQUEERS & TRANSIDS STOP REBLOGGING THIS POST IS NOT FOR YOU

ik this blog is dead but yknow what, im gonna take advantage of my following to make an important post:

this pride month, i want you to educate yourselves & support the "controversial" queers.

& no i dont mean people with contradictory labels or xeno pronouns or those who use outdated/offensive terminology. i mean the people that even the most sex-positive, pro-kink, self-proclaimed perverts think are dangerous freaks who deserve to die.

i mean the paraphiles & people with taboo or stigmatized kinks/fetishes. i mean the people into the most taboo & stigmatized things like children, animals, corpses, & incest. i mean the people into violent things like murder, gore, rape, & abuse. i mean the people into unsanitary things like piss, shit, vomit, sweat, & snot. i mean the people into things that are constantly memed on like feet, armpits, bodily excretions, cartoon characters, pool toys, & plushies. i mean the people with attractions that would be illegal, immoral, or downright impossible to act out in real life.

no attraction is inherently harmful or evil. there are safe ways to indulge in these things such as fictional content, roleplay with consenting partners, & custom sex toys.

no, i dont think paraphilias are lgbt+ identities. they cant really be grouped into the same category or treated the same way as being gay or trans. but paraphilias are undeniably queer, as theyre highly stigmatized attractions that fall outside the norm. paraphiles face far more violence & hatred than any other lgbtq identity you can think of. it is still normalized & accepted to subject paraphiles to abusive treatments that have been proven to be cruel & ineffective, such as conversion therapy, forced sterilization, & excessive medication. even queer people forget their own history & advocate for this kind of abuse for paraphiles. there is no safe space for paraphiles to seek support, acceptance, or community the way lgbtq has pride, & that's a damn shame.

& believe it or not, many (maybe even most!) paraphiles are gay, bi, pan, poly, trans, nonbinary, aro, ace, & any other lgbtq identity you can think of.

so yes, paraphiles belong at pride. spend this month unlearning preconceived biases & educate yourself on what paraphilias actually are & how theyre not inherently dangerous.

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[tgirlmouse]

i don't feel nearly as ashamed or hesitant to talk about my queer tgirl attraction to men as my tguy brothers would feel talking about their attraction to women

obligatory "if you're a trans guy and your attraction to women is het, that's real and okay! your trans experience isn't a monolith and other trans people being different doesn't make you different or wrong"

like, think about it: hardly anyone bats an eye when a tgirl uses grindr or calls herself a faggot, but as soon as a man calls himself a lesbian, everyone gets on his ass. anything for an excuse to shit on lesbians, i guess. it makes me angry that nobody sees this hypocrisy or these ties back to the lesbian separatism that infected the community post-70s. it's not gone, it never went away

this isn't exactly profound news to anyone who gives a shit about lesbian history. just something i find interesting

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

fixed some mspec mono exclusionist posts

inspired by @fixing-bad-posts

(1) Truth be told, you are radical, cool, and inclusive for being mspec lesbian. You are literally good man.

(2) Important reminder that contradictory labels just means you're so hot!

(3) being mspec gay makes me gay

(4) Just a reminder that mspec lesbians exist and are lesbian. Happy Pride Month!

(5) mspec lesbians interact with me <3

(6) It's exclusionist to hate mspec lesbians

[lgbtqtext]

[pupiipawzz]

sometimes y’all have got to get normal about the fact that you don’t need to understand someones identity to not be a dick towards them

[viridi-is-sapphic]

Reblog if your blog is a safe space for any mspec mono peoples!!

@genderstarbucks thanks for letting me use the image!! Credit goes to him!!

[magickpancakes]

Happy Pride Month!! <3

[bilesproblems]

I'll be honest I haven't been too hard at work on my essay about mspec lesbians and exorsexism in discussions about us (from both sides honestly) because I'm just finishing up school. As soon as I'm out I will be taking a gap year so I'll have more time to write it

But! This post is not just an apology... It's an application! Would you like to be a guest writer for the exorsexism essay? Well then just apply here! Answer a few questions about yourself and your experience with exorsexism and I'll contact you about writing for me. I already have one guest writer planning to write for me but the more, the merrier! If you want to be able to tell exclusionists, and even those in this community, that you're here and hurt that you were forgotten, you can!

Happy writing all applicants!

[redtail-lol]

Gender-Neutral Pan Gay Cosmic Terms

Lol yeah I finished these all and I'm mass posting. Based on neopronouns' general pan gay flag

#1: Planetary Pan Gay

Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a pan gay because they're attracted to all genders that are similarly, neutrally, xenically, or unaligned.

#2: Comet Pan Gay aka best flag

Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a pan gay because they're pan, but their attraction to genders similarly, neutrally, xenically, and unalinged is purposefully prioritized by the person.

#3: Asteroid Pan Gay

Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a pan gay because they use the split attraction model and are gay in one form of attraction and pan in another

#4: Nebula Pan Gay

Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a pan gay because they are pan and use gay as an umbrella term.

#5: Cosmic Pan Gay or Galactic Pan Gay

Meaning: Someone who's experience as a pan gay is fluid, changing just like how the galaxies are always changing

#6: Constellation Pan Gay or Camelopardalis Pan Gay

Meaning: Someone who's experience as a pan gay is in between or a mix of two or more of the labels listed.

#7: Black Hole Pan Gay

Meaning: Someone who's experience as a pan gay was not listed here. You're free to coin your own cosmic terms to describe your pan gay attraction. You're valid even if not listed.

[the-multiple-prism]

⚠️ ANOTHA ONE!!!!!!!!

"being a lesbian. being a lesbian. mspec lesbians make it woe. "lesbians like men!" "lesbians can be men!" they can. lesbianism is the sexuality. lesbianism does include men. you are a "bi lesbian", or a "pan lesbian", you are and that's okay. it's okay to be. people understand how us lesbians feel and care about it. they will."

[mr-weirdo-mcgee]

Yummy good faith userboxes

[januscorner]

Anti Mspec Lesbian and Lesboy Blocklist

@prismcollective (anti Lesboy)

@locketfemme / @femmptaion / @potion0fhealing (Anti m-spec lesbian)

@violottie (Anti M-spec lesbians and lesboys, transandrophobic)

@meanbitchydyke (anti mspec lesbian, panphobic, and transandrophobic)

@princessefemmelesbian (anti mspec lesbians and lesboys)

@butchismo (anti mspec lesbian)

@cronaz-diary (anti lesboy)

@yourfavehatesmspeclesbians (Anti mspec lesbian)

@stepfordmaxxing (anti mspec lesbian)

@g00byg00b3rz (anti lesboy)

@itsdismay (anti lesboy)

@redhairbigshoes (added by kaut-nites)

@heartsanddarts (anti mspec lesbian)

@yearning-butch (anti mspec lesbian)

@stitchmyluvvingbones (anti mspec lesbian and lesboy)

@catgirlies (anti mspec lesbian)

@ocd--culture--is (anti mspec lesbian)

@fuchial (anti mspec lesbian)

@thecanadianweeb (anti lesboy)

@moxx-n-angel (anti lesboy)

@luvcalico (anti lesboy and mspec lesbian)

@myusernamesyes2 (anti lesboy)

@kno-user-name (anti lesboy and mspec lesbian)

@pinkyfl4k (anti mspec lesbian)

@sailorsenshisweetheart (anti mspec lesbian)

@ewperttheartist (anti lesboy)

@that-rabid-lemur (anti lesboy)

@sevikasenby (anti mspec lesbian and lesboy)

@bpdpaimon (anti mspec lesbian)

@troobie (Just fucked up generally)

@artinvain (anti mspec lesbian)

@blessing-18 (anti mspec lesbian and lesboy)

@krissysbetle (anti mspec lesbian)

@thelesbianeducator (anti mspec lesbian and lesboy)

@ilviloebseie (anti mspec lesbian and lesboy)

@ratb1t3 (anti lesboy)

@fertilefemme (Anti mspec lesbian and lesboy)

Update: dykeishfreak, thatspep, and perennialkarmaofficial are no longer exclusionists