#poly lesbian safe

[bilesproblems]

Hi everyone. A while back I was in an mspec lesbian server or 2, but they were deleted along with a few others.

I have missed the main one dearly, but a friend of mine has created a new server for all lesbians! It's just 3 of us right now but we'd really like to grow the server, so, feel free to join us!

Join the server (this link is set to never expire)

[seeresultssweep]

RADQUEERS & TRANSIDS STOP REBLOGGING THIS POST IS NOT FOR YOU

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RADQUEERS & TRANSIDS STOP REBLOGGING THIS POST IS NOT FOR YOU

ik this blog is dead but yknow what, im gonna take advantage of my following to make an important post:

this pride month, i want you to educate yourselves & support the "controversial" queers.

& no i dont mean people with contradictory labels or xeno pronouns or those who use outdated/offensive terminology. i mean the people that even the most sex-positive, pro-kink, self-proclaimed perverts think are dangerous freaks who deserve to die.

i mean the paraphiles & people with taboo or stigmatized kinks/fetishes. i mean the people into the most taboo & stigmatized things like children, animals, corpses, & incest. i mean the people into violent things like murder, gore, rape, & abuse. i mean the people into unsanitary things like piss, shit, vomit, sweat, & snot. i mean the people into things that are constantly memed on like feet, armpits, bodily excretions, cartoon characters, pool toys, & plushies. i mean the people with attractions that would be illegal, immoral, or downright impossible to act out in real life.

no attraction is inherently harmful or evil. there are safe ways to indulge in these things such as fictional content, roleplay with consenting partners, & custom sex toys.

no, i dont think paraphilias are lgbt+ identities. they cant really be grouped into the same category or treated the same way as being gay or trans. but paraphilias are undeniably queer, as theyre highly stigmatized attractions that fall outside the norm. paraphiles face far more violence & hatred than any other lgbtq identity you can think of. it is still normalized & accepted to subject paraphiles to abusive treatments that have been proven to be cruel & ineffective, such as conversion therapy, forced sterilization, & excessive medication. even queer people forget their own history & advocate for this kind of abuse for paraphiles. there is no safe space for paraphiles to seek support, acceptance, or community the way lgbtq has pride, & that's a damn shame.

& believe it or not, many (maybe even most!) paraphiles are gay, bi, pan, poly, trans, nonbinary, aro, ace, & any other lgbtq identity you can think of.

so yes, paraphiles belong at pride. spend this month unlearning preconceived biases & educate yourself on what paraphilias actually are & how theyre not inherently dangerous.

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[viridi-is-sapphic]

Reblog if your blog is a safe space for any mspec mono peoples!!

@genderstarbucks thanks for letting me use the image!! Credit goes to him!!

[januscorner]

Anti Mspec Lesbian and Lesboy Blocklist

@prismcollective (anti Lesboy)

@locketfemme / @femmptaion / @potion0fhealing (Anti m-spec lesbian)

@violottie (Anti M-spec lesbians and lesboys, transandrophobic)

@meanbitchydyke (anti mspec lesbian, panphobic, and transandrophobic)

@princessefemmelesbian (anti mspec lesbians and lesboys)

@butchismo (anti mspec lesbian)

@cronaz-diary (anti lesboy)

@yourfavehatesmspeclesbians (Anti mspec lesbian)

@stepfordmaxxing (anti mspec lesbian)

@g00byg00b3rz (anti lesboy)

@itsdismay (anti lesboy)

@redhairbigshoes (added by kaut-nites)

@heartsanddarts (anti mspec lesbian)

@yearning-butch (anti mspec lesbian)

@stitchmyluvvingbones (anti mspec lesbian and lesboy)

@catgirlies (anti mspec lesbian)

@ocd--culture--is (anti mspec lesbian)

@fuchial (anti mspec lesbian)

@thecanadianweeb (anti lesboy)

@moxx-n-angel (anti lesboy)

@luvcalico (anti lesboy and mspec lesbian)

@myusernamesyes2 (anti lesboy)

@kno-user-name (anti lesboy and mspec lesbian)

@pinkyfl4k (anti mspec lesbian)

@sailorsenshisweetheart (anti mspec lesbian)

@ewperttheartist (anti lesboy)

@that-rabid-lemur (anti lesboy)

@sevikasenby (anti mspec lesbian and lesboy)

@bpdpaimon (anti mspec lesbian)

@troobie (Just fucked up generally)

@artinvain (anti mspec lesbian)

@blessing-18 (anti mspec lesbian and lesboy)

@krissysbetle (anti mspec lesbian)

@thelesbianeducator (anti mspec lesbian and lesboy)

@ilviloebseie (anti mspec lesbian and lesboy)

@ratb1t3 (anti lesboy)

@fertilefemme (Anti mspec lesbian and lesboy)

Update: dykeishfreak, thatspep, and perennialkarmaofficial are no longer exclusionists

[noblemalone]

12 pack of Costco brand elves 🧝

[tinylambnursery]

I COMPLETELY FORGOR ITS MSPEC LESBIAN VISIBILITY WEEK.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MSPEC LESBIAJS !!!!!!!!

[genderstarbucks]

Multilesbian is a term for multisexuals who experience lesbian attraction to women.

Bilesbian is a term for bisexuals who experience lesbian attraction to women.

Poly/plylesbian is a term for poly/plysexuals who experience lesbian attraction to women.

Panlesbian is a term for pansexuals who experience lesbian attraction to women.

Omnilesbian is a term for omnisexuals who experience lesbian attraction to women.

Abrolesbian is a term for abrosexuals who experience lesbian attraction to women.

Tags: @variant-archive

[elysianmadness]

Neighbors

Note: In light of Tumblr deciding to "license" user-made content to Midjourney to train their AI, I have pulled all of my writing off of this site and will not be posting it back here ever again. You can find Neighbors here.

DO NOT REBLOG MY POSTS IF YOU DO NOT HAVE AI SCRAPING DISABLED ON YOUR BLOG.

Photo ID: Three thin pink and white gradient dividers separating various points of the post. The dividers are meant to resemble the sapphic flag in coloring, with either end being pink, and the center being white. End ID.

[sirenium]

God I'm so fuckin tired of trying to find new xenogender servers to join and almost all of them are anti mspec lesbian/gay, anti endo, or both. Like Jesus Fuckin Christ, dude.

Anyway, if you're xenic and are an mspec les/gay or endo system (or supportive of mspec les/gays AND endo systems), please feel free to join our server. Yeah I got ya, this is an ad/hj

⚠️new plan for joining, DM me for a link to the server, as I am too bad at keeping up with replacing the link here⚠️

Also we're age regressor friendly.

Exclusionists, please respect that this is a safe space, so keep your opinions to yourself and leave us alone. Thanks. <3

Plain text: Exclusionists, please respect that this is a safe space, so keep your opinions to yourself and leave us alone. Thanks. <3

Oh, and any contradictory label havers/supporters are allowed. This includes, but isn't limited to, lesboys and gaybians. Hope to see you there!

Edit: so we've had a few people join and then leave — not that that's an issue! — so I feel the need to explain how to get verified if that has been or is a problem for anyone. You go to the channel labeled 'rules-verification' and fill out the form by interacting with it. Once the form is accepted by a mod, you'll be verified. Please note that you have to have an account (It can be on any platform, not just tumblr) that we can look at to ensure that you're chill (as in, not an exclusionist): this is a security measure to help keep this space troll free. Thank you.

Another edit: heads up, our mod team gets inactive at times, meaning the verification process can get rather slow. Additionally, if you're likely to just up and leave, maybe don't join the server; I don't mean to vague anybody, but we've had people do that and it causes me slight to moderate stress when people just… leave.

[sapphic-horror]

VAMPIRE LUNIAN / MSPEC LESBIAN | VAMPIRE BILES | VAMPIRE OMNILES

[PT: vampire lunian / mspec lesbian, vampire biles, vampiren omni les.]

VAMPIRE POLYLES | VAMPIRE PANLES | VAMPIRE ABROLES

[PT: vampire polyles, vampire panles, vampire abroles.]

— vampire themed mspec lesbian flags! can be used by any mspec lesbian who has any connection to vampires, although these were made with vampirekins, individuals with psychosis, & systems in mind

— based off of this lunian flag, this biles flag, this omniles flag, this polyles flag, this panles flag, & this abroles flag; image ids in alt text

[boygirl-mspecgaybian]

okay I just wanted to say this because today I found an extremely digusting (in my opinion) extremely anti mspec mono and lesboy/turigirl and it pissed me the hell off (they were spreading misinformation and talking shit while saying things that completely contradicted their "views") and I want to remind any mspec mono and anyone who uses contradicting labels in general that your are amazing and that half the time antis either don't support anyone who isn't mono or don't actually know what they are talking about, so keep being you and keep blocking and ignoring ignorant and arrogant antis, I love you

[bilesproblems]

I'll be honest I haven't been too hard at work on my essay about mspec lesbians and exorsexism in discussions about us (from both sides honestly) because I'm just finishing up school. As soon as I'm out I will be taking a gap year so I'll have more time to write it

But! This post is not just an apology... It's an application! Would you like to be a guest writer for the exorsexism essay? Well then just apply here! Answer a few questions about yourself and your experience with exorsexism and I'll contact you about writing for me. I already have one guest writer planning to write for me but the more, the merrier! If you want to be able to tell exclusionists, and even those in this community, that you're here and hurt that you were forgotten, you can!

Happy writing all applicants!

[luminousbug]

Mspec Lesbians are valid, story time

This is the omni lesbian flag

So i have a friend, lets call him Mar(agender person that uses he/him, they/them and other pronouns(and a racical femenist(T_T)why))

So i met with them recently and they told me and our friend group about them getting a crush on a man and how he felt like he was betraying lesbianism

So, i went "There is this thing called mspec lesbian. It is pretty contraversial online with a lot of stupid discourse, but it might help you. Bi lesbian is the one most people fight about, so read about that one. Pretty sure these labels are mostly interchangable and based on vibes anyways."

Cue a few minutes later, Mar chimes in with "So, I'm an omni lesbian." We continued on as normal in group talk.

tl:dr of this story

Queer discourse is pointless in a world that will hate you no matter what and these labels help people.

Good night.

[redtail-lol]

So I'm stupid and didn't post the poly lesbian tidal labels

Point and laugh. Flags based on Kenochoric's poly lesbian flag. This is polysexual not polyam.

#1: Full-Moon Springtide Poly Lesbian

[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the poly lesbian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a dark magenta; the second one down is a slightly desaturated green; the middle stripe is white; the second to last stripe is a bright periwinkle; the bottom stripe is white. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes, and the middle stripe is glowing. Both flags have pink full moons.]

Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a poly lesbian because they're attracted to multiple genders that could be considered part of lesbian attraction, usually equally! Ex: wlw and wlnb

#2: First-Quarter Neaptide Poly Lesbian

[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the poly lesbian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a deep, dark, reddish magenta; the second one down is green; the middle stripe is a bright cyan; the second to last stripe is a deep periwinkle. The bottom stripe is a dusty violet. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes, and the middle stripe is glowing. Both flags have pink half moons, with the left half being obscured by shadow.]

Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a poly lesbian because they are poly, but either a) their attraction to genders considered part of lesbian attraction is much greater than their attraction to other genders, and as such they feel somewhere in between pan and lesbian, b) they're attracted to more genders considered part of lesbian attraction than genders not, or b) they're only comfortable having relationships with people who would normally fall under lesbian attraction

#3: New-Moon Springtide Poly Lesbian

[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the lunian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a deep, dark, reddish magenta; the second one down is a dark, dusty green; the middle stripe is a bright cyan; the second to last stripe is a dusty purple; The bottom stripe is a darker dusty purple. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes, and the middle stripe is glowing. Both flags have pink new moons.]

Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a poly lesbian because they use the split attraction model, and are lesbian in one form of attraction and poly in another

#4: Third-Quarter Neaptide Poly Lesbian

[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the lunian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a deep, dark, reddish magenta; the second one down is a dark, dusty green; the middle stripe is a bright cyan; the second to last stripe is periwinkle. The bottom stripe is violet. The flag on the left has a fade between the top two stripes and bottom two stripes, and the middle stripe is glowing. Both flags have pink half moons, with the right half being obscured by shadow.]

Meaning: Someone who considers themselves a poly lesbian because they are poly, and are reclaiming the historical definition of lesbian!

#5: Tidalphasic Poly Lesbian

[Image ID: The original poly lesbian flag by kenochoric with its pink top stripe, green second stripe, cyan middle stripe, periwinkle mixed with blue second to last stripe, and bottom purple stripe, with an overlay of 4 pink moons in a small arc. From left to right, they are a full moon, a half moon with left side shadow, a new moon, and a half moon with right side shadow. The left flag also has a fade between the middle three stripes and bottom two stripes]

Meaning: Someone who's reason for identifying as a poly lesbian is fluid and changes. They go through the many phases of possibilities just like the moon and tide!

#6: Midtide Poly Lesbian

[Image ID: A 5 striped flag modeled after the poly lesbian flag by kenochoric. The top stripe is a desaturated pink; the second one down is a light, desaturated green; the middle stripe is a light cyan; the second to last stripe is between periwinkle and blue; the bottom stripe is a desaturated purple. The flag on the left has a fade between the middle three stripes and bottom two stripes. Both flags have pink crescent moons.]

Meaning: A poly lesbian who's experience was not covered by this post, or a poly lesbian who's experience is a mix of the labels here. You are all valid lesbians but I don't know every way to be a poly lesbian! Just like the tide, lesbian experiences aren't rigid and there are times you are in between two.

Okay I'm done it's 1 am and I just realized how dumb I am good night

[catlesboy]

Ciao! Here are some mspec lesbian kitties!

[saetoshis]

this video of tobias made me giggle BUT HAPPY PRIDE MONTH !1!1!!11’ everyone be safe plz 🥲