#mspec dyke

[genderqueerdykes]

"you can't be a bisexual lesbian"

[1tz-4ll-m3]

If a label fits you, you have every right to use it. Even if it’s “contradictory”.

Being queer is not a club that people can exclude you from.

If your queer identity doesn’t hurt anyone, own it.

[everyponie]

Give me all the strange queerness!! I want lesbians with beards, femmes with top surgery, gay men with boobs, bears in dresses!! I want it all!!

[gloaming-sometimes]

dear lesboy (and tbh any other nuanced identity) exclusionists who think your vein of thought is the majority in queer spaces id like to inform you that today at lunch with my (entirely queer) friend group the topic drifted to me being a butch lesbian and one friend goes "wait i thought you were a guy?" and i said "i am" and another friend interjected "dudes can be lesbians too" and that was that. no further probing about my identity, nohing about how im "invalidating transmen and lesbians", or whatever. everyone just accepted that thats how i identify and i dont owe an explanation for it and moved on. i promise u its not that deep 👍

[lesvegas]

Poll for all lesbians, sapphics, wlw and dykes on this site... please reblog for sample size

[restarting-over]

daily reminder that dykes can date fags. dykes can fuck fags. dykes can love fags. dykes and fags have always been interconnected and always will be. thank you for your time

[lesboytism]

"mspec lesbians arent valid" "lesboys arent valid" "lesbian is woman liking only women" how about you shut up and we all kiss

[flutterrloves]

Happy lesbian visibility week to-

ftm lesbians, transmasc lesbians, mtf lesbians, transfem lesbians, genderfluid lesbians, nonbinary lesbians, multigender lesbians, 2spirit lesbians, gaybians, mspec lesbians, abro lesbians, asexual lesbians, aromantic lesbians, acearo lesbians, lesbians of color, butch lesbians, femme lesbians, futch lesbians, studs, ALL LESBIANS!

[smilepilled]

shout out to gaybians. fagdykes. dykefags. gaybilesbians. lesbigays. gay lesbians. lesbian gays. turidykes/dykurians. sapphilleans. dykeldians/veldykes. gays who feel lesbian. lesbians who feel gay. anyone who's lesbian/sapphic and gay/turian/veldian/achillean at the same time, by any means. you guys rock!

[aholotte]

Comparing Twitter and tumblr queer culture is so amusing

Twitter queer culture: reminder that if you’re an mspec lesbian every character from honkai star rail hates you (?)

Tumblr queer culture: does anyone know if we have butch faggot joy tomorrow

[genderqueerdykes]

happy pride 2024 to bisexual lesbians & gays! bisexual lesbians and gays are lesbians and gays and deserve to be part of those communities as well as the bisexual community! we have always been here and will continue to be here- whether the person in question identifies as gay and straight, gay and a lesbian, a lesbian and straight, queer and gay, queer and a lesbian, or whatever else their identity may be, that person is what they say they are: bisexual and gay and/or a lesbian.

bisexuals and lesbians and gays do not exist as polar opposites or forces to cancel each other out- often times there is heavy overlap between the two. our history goes way back, here's a fun snippet from Alison Bechdel's "Dykes to Watch Out For" penned in 1999 which features a bisexual lesbian character named Sparrow. love yourselves bisexual lesbians and gays. love your bisexual lesbian and gay friends like there's no tomorrow. happy pride 2024!

[violottie]

since my old blog got nuked, i gotta make this post again because yall refuse to be anything but ignorant

lesbian sexuality ≠ heterosexual men's sexuality

lesbian attraction to women ≠ men's attraction to women

trans men cannot be lesbians, because they are men. if you think so, youre a transphobe as well as a lesbophobe.

lesbian attraction is not perverse, predatory, dehumanising to or sexualising of women's bodies

men have never and will never be included in lesbian sexuality and attraction under any circumstance

(and if your mind immediately goes to trans women and transfems when reading the above, congrats, youre a transphobe)

butch, femme, stud and stone are lesbian only identities

similarly, dyke is a slur that literally means lesbian. if youre not a lesbian, you're not a, nor can you 'reclaim', dyke.

butches and studs ≠ men or man-lite

butch ≠ masculine

femme ≠ feminine

transmasc ≠ trans man, therefore transmasc lesbians are a thing and trans men cannot ever be lesbians

trans women and transfems have been & will always be included in lesbian attraction, sexuality and community

trans lesbians & transfems can be butch

he/him lesbians ≠ (trans)masc, butch, stud lesbians

black lesbians ≠ automatically masc, butch, stud or tops

"bi lesbians" or "mspec lesbians" do not exist.

the split attraction model is for aromanticism and asexuality only. if you identify as such, youre just a bisexual who doesnt wanna unpack your internalised biphobia so resort to lesbophobia to cope with your self loathing caused by harmful stereotypes about your sexuality, which is bisexual. if you claim they do exist, you're both lesbophobic and biphobic

thank you for coming to my TedTalk. im sure you didnt listen to a word i said.

[everyponie]

to be queer is to be free

oc uses he/it pronouns

[1000dykes]

you do not need anyone's permission to identify as a lesbian. there is no one more qualified on your identity than you!! nobody!!! no matter what!!!! the only person you need to consult with before you call yourself a lesbian is you

[mutigcupid]

Lesbear

Lesbear: Lesbian Bear. A Trans/Masc Lesbian who is large, hairy or both!

Flag by me! Inspired by the Solar Lesbian flag and The Gay Bear flag!

[lesboytism]

tw homophobia transphobia lesbophobia

i posted this thread yesterday on twitter because there was so much lesboy hate on a term i coined, so i just wanted to explain what a lesboy is right.

you can already see the ratio on it. hundereds upon hundereds of quotes who mostly, did not even read the thread. they all started insisting i, a nonbinary lesbian, was a straight man for educating people on lesboys and identifying as one. i made a joke about someone calling me straight by showing my cutesy fem outfits, and people continued to say i had internalized transphobia because.. im a rosboy? i specified it was a joke abt myself and ik fem straight guys exist, but the amount of people trying to force the straight label oh me is disgusting. we have so much to work on as a community. it is so sad to see this much hate from my own community of people over a damn label. you cant claim we can do whatever we want with gender because its a construct without breaking down the fact sexuality is also a construct that reinforces gender roles.