#mspec dyke

[1tz-4ll-m3]

If a label fits you, you have every right to use it. Even if it’s “contradictory”.

Being queer is not a club that people can exclude you from.

If your queer identity doesn’t hurt anyone, own it.

[stridercestous]

I heard like two people say it's the year of the lesbian boyfriend so I'm making this a thing

shout out to my muse for this and lesbian boyfriend @cuntryhuman

[everyponie]

Give me all the strange queerness!! I want lesbians with beards, femmes with top surgery, gay men with boobs, bears in dresses!! I want it all!!

[gloaming-sometimes]

dear lesboy (and tbh any other nuanced identity) exclusionists who think your vein of thought is the majority in queer spaces id like to inform you that today at lunch with my (entirely queer) friend group the topic drifted to me being a butch lesbian and one friend goes "wait i thought you were a guy?" and i said "i am" and another friend interjected "dudes can be lesbians too" and that was that. no further probing about my identity, nohing about how im "invalidating transmen and lesbians", or whatever. everyone just accepted that thats how i identify and i dont owe an explanation for it and moved on. i promise u its not that deep 👍

[lesvegas]

Poll for all lesbians, sapphics, wlw and dykes on this site... please reblog for sample size

[restarting-over]

daily reminder that dykes can date fags. dykes can fuck fags. dykes can love fags. dykes and fags have always been interconnected and always will be. thank you for your time

[love-ardour-anarchism]

it'd be false if I said to me being a lesbian has nothing to do with who I'm attracted to

to me being a lesbian has a lot to do with who i'm attracted to but it has JUST as much to do with how i interact with society and its rigid normative ideas of what that attraction is meant to look like and how i'm meant to express that attraction and how i am meant to feel, to act and to look

when i say lesbian i don't mean "woman attracted exclusively to women"

i mean "i clawed my way out of a grave that never had my name written on the headstone" and "i won't let anybody tell me how to live and love"

i mean "don't tell me how to smile" and i mean that i won't let ANYBODY dictate what my identity means to me

it means that i refuse to break myself into pieces that society can swallow and that i'm everything at once, the only thing i'm not is conformity

and i won't shave or cut my hair a certain way or sweeten my coarse voice to fit a mold but that all the things i'm not and that i'll never be can be the truest truth to someone else and that thats beautiful

it means that i find normative ideas of womanhood JUST as constricting as i found the idea i was meant to be a man because of an assignment a doctor made based on arbitrary traits

and identity has infinite layers and it changes all the time because i'm simultaneously a woman and not i'm nonbinary, i'm genderfluid, i'm a boy, i'm a girl i'm a fag and a dyke

it means femininity and masculinity and manhood and womanhood are ultimately arbitrary social constructs and femininity can be rough and tumble and masculinity can be soft and sweet

it means i won't let what gatekeepers and exclusionists prescribe "lesbian" to mean take me alive

yes lesbian, yes dyke, yes butch but no, i'm not a woman loving women and i might be bi or ace or even aro

the way i love, the way i present, the way i walk and talk and dress the way i touch those that i adore, the way that we describe and affirm our love is contrary to what society thinks "normal" relationships look like

yes queerplatonic, yes relationship anarchy, yes fuck you and your norms, fuck you very much

lesbian means liberation lesbian means whatever i want it to mean lesbian means labels are lovely because they help us find others like us but don't let them define you

[thecryptidcalls]

I'm Schrödinger's man:

A man whenever it's convenient for them but inconvenient for me and vice-versa

[smilepilled]

shout out to gaybians. fagdykes. dykefags. gaybilesbians. lesbigays. gay lesbians. lesbian gays. turidykes/dykurians. sapphilleans. dykeldians/veldykes. gays who feel lesbian. lesbians who feel gay. anyone who's lesbian/sapphic and gay/turian/veldian/achillean at the same time, by any means. you guys rock!

[lesboytism]

"mspec lesbians arent valid" "lesboys arent valid" "lesbian is woman liking only women" how about you shut up and we all kiss

[flutterrloves]

Happy lesbian visibility week to-

ftm lesbians, transmasc lesbians, mtf lesbians, transfem lesbians, genderfluid lesbians, nonbinary lesbians, multigender lesbians, 2spirit lesbians, gaybians, mspec lesbians, abro lesbians, asexual lesbians, aromantic lesbians, acearo lesbians, lesbians of color, butch lesbians, femme lesbians, futch lesbians, studs, ALL LESBIANS!

[receivingtranny]

i realized i was trans when i was a kid and i heard a radio show where some lady called in to talk about her brother who has transitioned. the way she explained it he had gone to her annual halloween party as Belle and then the next year came as the Beast with his girlfriend as Belle. so i thought if you were gay you had to transition. and thus a he/him lesbian furry was born.

[everyponie]

to be queer is to be free

oc uses he/it pronouns

[love-ardour-anarchism]

i'm a dyke but i'm also a little bit of a boy

my gender is incomprehensible and my passing is not bound by any true logic except that of the Fair Folk

when i'm out with partner A1 people often think we're a straight couple where i'm "the guy": this gives me gender euphoria because i'm butch and i've successfully fooled "the straights"

when i'm out with partner A2 (not to be confused with A1) people think we're a gay couple where i'm a twink/feminine gay guy/fagboy and this pleases me greatly because I love to confuse people AND i'm a bit of a boy AND i love being effemminate for my partner but its kinda in the way of "butch dyke goes drag queen"

when i'm out with partner J1 people usually think we're "just friends" but also that there's some underlying mystery... people also consistently think that she (arguably a cis woman, don't ask) looks more like a dyke than me, this is hilarious to me but also I look like a more feminine girl next to her and I like that cause sometimes we do a little tomboyfoolery

when i'm out with partner J2 (yes, i'm collecting same-letter names, A1 and A2 are both Alex and both nonbinary, i'm a stereotype) people are most certain that we're a lesbian couple where there's a competition for who's more of a fucking hell-bent dyke.. she takes me on dates to hardware stores and buys me carabiners and knows how to fix things with tools but i'm a little soft butch gentleman-ass knuckle tattoo dyke who looks great in suspenders and a bowtie... shes the practical type, i'm more of a statement piece of decorative function with a side of emotional support

in conclusion: you cannot misgender me in any way that matters and no binary will ever catch me alive the way that people "read" my gender has more to do with who i'm with than with who i am, all i know is i'm the punkest and most dog-brained fucking dyke in this part of town and i've lived through enough transphobic and queerphobic bullshit that accidental misgendering doesn't bother me and if someone's really dead-set on misgendering me on full purpose then to me thats worth it cause for every transphobic cunt that tries that i've been seen by 12 people who for just one moment knew that there's other queers around here and certainly this dyke with more tattoos and patches on her vest than self preservation has got your back

i'm alive and very happy to be, visibility is life

[mutigcupid]

Lesbear

Lesbear: Lesbian Bear. A Trans/Masc Lesbian who is large, hairy or both!

Flag by me! Inspired by the Solar Lesbian flag and The Gay Bear flag!

[sharpfangsss]

I'm so totally making a good faith discord server omg who wants to join!! It's still in the making tho

(UPDATE/EDIT)

Here it is gng