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[ID: A rectangular flag with 7 even horizontal stripes. Colored from top to bottom, they are; very dark purple, purple, light purple, black, light green, grass green, and very dark green. end ID]

Clueprefian

Where gender is a performance but you have no clue what your doing

Coined on 2/22/2025 | Colors are just based on vibes to be honest | For Day 3 of Dwllie's 500 event (link); Performance

(Taglist) @radiomogai @obscurian & @dwllie

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Shrimp Pride Flag

12 stripes for all the shrimp colors

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Second Edition Xenogender Survey

Hello, tumblr! I am pleased to present our second edition of the xenogender survey, first held in 2023.

This survey is intended to be a detailed look at xenogender and neopronoun usage. As long as you identify as/with at least one (1) xenogender in any capacity, either solely or in addition to non-xenogender identities, you may participate in the survey!

Please take a moment to consider reblogging this even if you aren’t taking the survey, in order to increase our sample size!

There is no DNI or anything else that disqualifies takers as long as you identify with / as at least one xenogender, as this is intended for research purposes.

The survey will be ending on June 1, 2025.

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✦ XENONOMINAL ALT FLAG.

pt: xenonominal alt flag. end pt.

an identity in which someone has a hypothetical name that isn't able to be understood by humans and/or expressed through human language, these people may have alternative names you can use for them, or may simply ask you to refer to them as "person", "that one", or "friend".

coined by @3scapethevoid

requested by none.

@vndead-pvppy @rwuffles @isurvivedtheinfinity @emailmeurheart

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Because it is the anniversary of his death, I wanted to share a small story about my grandfather.

Before I knew that I was intersex, I identified as a trans man. And I went the way any trans man has to go if he wants to transition in my country. My parents thankfully were supportive but I was afraid to tell my grandparents. My grandparents were German and lived/were raised during the third reich. While both of them never said or acted in a way that suggested that they had fascist views (my grandfather was until he died part of a leftwing political party), but there still was this fear in me. "They are old, they grew up surrounded by abhorrent beliefs...". And then there was my aunt. Who would constantly claim that my grandfather was homophobic.

The problem was, back then, there were no openly out gay people in our area, so I never got the chance to see my grandfather interact with someone who was queer. So I just believed her. Because she was so insistent on it. And because it confirmed my fears and my brain loves to be constantly afraid.

But I knew I wanted to come out. I had to, eventually, because I had stopped my estrogen treatment (back then, I did not know that I got that because I was intersex) and went on testosterone instead and first physical changes began to show. We all lived in one big house, so my grandparents would eventually notice.

I was so afraid that my father at some point offered to talk to his parents. I waited outside in the hallway that led to their kitchen and listened.

My father explained, easy to understand, that I was going to transition from female to male because I felt terrible in my body. My grandfather asked, "Is that why the child* is so depressed all this time?" I had been in and out of multiple clinics for manic depression at that point. My father gave a yes. And my grandmother made the incredibly selfish comment, "Can't that wait until I am dead?"

Before I even got time to be upset, my grandfather slammed his fist down on the table. I had never seen or heard him do anything like that before. He was a very calm and collected man who preferred to leave the room before he got too angry. "No, it can't wait. The child gets to get well now. And if that is what is going to help, then it needs to be done."

From that day on, he never used my deadname again or used the wrong pronouns for me. Sometimes, he would stop in a sentence to think and remind himself, but he did always address me correctly.

He celebrated with me when my name was legally changed. He built the bed frame for me and my boyfriend's bed when we moved in together, just like he had built the first adult sized bedframe for me when I outgrew my small bed. He drove my boyfriend to his chemo sessions because my grandfather also had cancer and knew how terrifying it was to go alone.

Did he fully understand what it means to be intersex? To transition? No. But he understood that one of his loved ones was suffering and that he could help to alleviate that pain. And so he did.

He taught me calligraphy. He taught me how to sew. He taught me bookbinding. He gave me many gifts.

But the biggest gift he gave me was, that when someone hated me for what I am, I could stomach it. Because this man was willing to unlearn the bigotry he had been taught for decades so he could love me for who I am.

*in my grandpa's dialect it was normal to refer to children as just 'the child' (genderless)

EDIT

I was blown away by how many people have reblogged this post. I believe my grandfather would be very happy to see that he can give some hope and love to others even now.

I do not want him to stay faceless; so here is a piece of art I made for his obituary, with a slightly altered quote added now.

Dahlias were his favorite flowers. Orange ones especially. They reminded him of the home he had to flee from as a child.

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　　JUNGWONBIASIC

　　ー 　when one's gender is tied to having jungwon as their enhypen bias

　　ー 　posted by he who is adored

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I am fucking sick of cishet people telling me that queer people have it great in the US.

Trans people are no longer allowed to leave the country.

Being queer in public is being labeled as a sexual offense against children + the right is pushing for the death penalty regarding child sex offenders.

They literally want to kill us. Full stop. No, Dad, America is not better than "those African and Middle Eastern countries where you'd be stoned to death", the only difference is that we'll be doing our executions of gay and trans people with more bureaucracy and less rocks.

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Useful websites / links for rentry , bundlrs , gfx & etc for you!

symbol sanatorium - Links to a google document with a ton of symbols , kaomojis & text layouts. I use it for pretty much all of my recent rentrys.

sozaino.site - Website that's been making its rounds on rentry as of late, useful for graphic making. Has dividers, pngs, frames ~ etc if you have the creative touch.

sozai-good - site I found recently that has a lot of pngs you can download, also has frames and borders. In japanese but isn't hard to translate. Everything is also sorted into sections.

lottie lab - Website useful for animating, can be used to move around PNGs for rentry and the like. I don't use it much myself atm, but it's pretty easy to get the hang of.

scripted.neocities - Neocities full of code you can use for bundlrs or carrd. Also useful for stuff like spacehey and other sites that use CSS / HTML

blinkies.cafe - Easily make or find blinkies here! Great for beginners who want to make some simple things.

emojicombos - Search practically anything and you'll find an emoji combo for it. Useful for finding symbol / text combos and kaomojis.

unicode character table - Has pretty much every single symbol you've seen or needed. You can find what you want pretty easily due to its sectioning. Has stuff like arrows , dingbats , brackets , etc etc..

yaytext - Make your text 𝙼𝚘𝚗𝚘𝚜𝚙𝚊𝚌𝚎! or U͟n͟d͟e͟r͟l͟i͟n͟e͟d͟!͟ easily with this website! May possibly break screenreaders in the process though so be warned.

lorem ipsum generator - Too lazy to generate a block of text to make a page look filled out, well look no longer! This site can quickly generate of block of pure gibberish to make it seem like there's actually text there! Good for newspaper / magazine gfx ~

And that's all ( for now )! I use most of all these sites and find them very useful! Hopefully one of them will prove useful to you too dear friend (❁´◡`❁)

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AWSGsongic

a gender related to the song angel with a shotgun ( specifically the nightcore ver but anything works )

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No one asked for it, but balloon emojis! 🎈

(Please read pinned post before using my emojis <3)

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MASKSELFQUOTIC．   ➷

pt: maskselfquotic. end pt.

⚘   ⌣   definition．

 when one's gender is, feels represented by, is related to, or connected to the quote, "masks and helmets that hides someone's face in such a way that they become the face themselves."

pt: definition, when one's gender is, feels represented by, is related to, or connected to the quote, "masks and helmets that hides someone's face in such a way that they become the face themselves." end pt.

COINER．  voice of the egocentric．  ➷

⚘   ⌣   mask + self + -quotic．

TAGS．  @radiomogai @sevvys @angeltism @jigumis @zoeynovie @eeriecute．  ➷

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guh. Ramble emojis some made for aac

Joyous ramble

Evil ramble

Info DUMPP

Spiraling ramble

Spiraling ramble with pupils

Annoyed ramble

Monotone ramble

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I hope this makes sense.

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viruglitchal - an umbrella for terms connected to glitches, viruses, technological errors, malware, software gore, and similar themes!

terminology:

viru- / glitch- / mal(w) - prefixes

-(gli)tchal / -irus - suffixes

viru - gendered noun, equivalent to boy/girl (plural form: viri)

glitchan - gendered noun, equivalent to man/woman (plural form: glitchen)

virare - a word for a viruglitchal gender (plural form: viraren)

viruline - gender quality, equivalent to masculine/feminine (noun form: virulinity; shortended form: vil)

VIIN - viruglitchal-in-nature

VIINgender - a term for genders that are viruglitchal-in-nature

glitchvic - gender alignment, equivalent to xenic

tagging @radiomogai @daybreakthing !

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people in your circles should not feel horrible from being framed as a evil queer over not fitting into xyz boxes

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　　❝ ViViAN BANSHEE iCONS ，

cr not needed ； do not repost. ✧ do not tag as kin id me or f/o.

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⠀⠀⠀⠀࿙ྀ࿚⠀⠀ old yumemizuki renders I made like a few months ago.. they're not super clean but shshhshhh

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀self⠀⠀✙˚̣̣̣⠀⠀indulgent ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ like⠀/⠀reblog⠀++⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀credit appreciated⠀!⠀୧‿̩͙ ˖

⠀⠀⠀〘 ⠀⠀ kin / id /me⠀tags⠀OK! ⠀⠀ 〙 ⠀ ⠀⠀ ᛝᛝ⠀⠀ art:⠀⠀ OFFICIAL ⠀⠀⠀꒱꒱