#gaybians

[smilepilled]

shout out to gaybians. fagdykes. dykefags. gaybilesbians. lesbigays. gay lesbians. lesbian gays. turidykes/dykurians. sapphilleans. dykeldians/veldykes. gays who feel lesbian. lesbians who feel gay. anyone who's lesbian/sapphic and gay/turian/veldian/achillean at the same time, by any means. you guys rock!

[edwardallenpoe]

happy lesbian visibility week to every lesbian ever except TERF and radfems lesbians. Y'all SHOULD NOT be visible. Everyone else gets kisses and head pat's if they want them.

[genderqueerdykes]

you know, it makes sense to talk about when older queer people living as themselves inspires younger queers to do the same, but i don't think we talk enough about how the bravery of young queers can inspire and help older queers, too. like, actually seeing younger trans men who don't bind and wear dresses makeup and keep their hair long has inspired me to feel more comfortable being a feminine trans man.

actually, seeing young queers who use neopronouns helped me feel more comfortable in using pronouns i genuinely like as opposed to pronouns i feel obligated to use for everyone else's comfort. actually, seeing young queers who identify as things like gaybians, fagdykes, lesboys, girlfags, and other "contradictory" labels made me feel more confident in being those things, too. there is something to be said about the bravery of people who are just learning how to express themselves fully.

i think we can all take pages from each others' books. we all have something to learn from and teach each other. of course older queers being there for the younger generations is important, but older queers have a lot to learn from younger generations, too.

[womanman]

“We need more weird queer people” Y’all can’t handle 90% of the ways multigenders label their sexualities

[everyponie]

waow

[sapphic-boy]

Okay yes you reblogged a post about a boyfriend being a girl but are you like actually normal about multigender people especially about multigender lesbians and gay dudes

[justdavina]

Such a kissable transgender gurl! She's wonderful! She's adorable!

[applebees4prez]

riz being aroace as well as fabian’s gay awakening is the only correct option but also the funniest one. this loser (affectionate) is obsessed with you but in somehow the most platonic way possible and there’s a second where you think he might like guys and has even dated one but nope it’s the manifestation of his fears of his total lack of romantic attraction. meanwhile girls are asking YOU why you always bring HIM up and you can’t face the fact that you are actually just as obsessed with him because you are just afraid of your sexuality as he is of his. crazy.

[lesbianpolls]

happy international lesbian day!! especially to:

male lesbians and lesboys and boydykes

transmasc and transfem and transneu and transfemmasc and all other trans lesbians

nonbinary and multigender and xenogender lesbians

intersex lesbians

lesbians who use he/him pronouns and neopronouns

aromantic and asexual and aplatonic and afamilial and all other aspec lesbians

queerplatonic and alterous lesbians

polyamorous and nonmonogamous lesbians

bi and omni and ply and pan and abro and all other mspec lesbians

gaybians and straightbians

butch and femme and stud and futch lesbians

lesbians with stigmatized disorders

[old-acc-discourseisdumb]

stop assuming you can deconstruct gender without deconstructing sexuality when its all just people trying to communicate complex identities with limited vocabulary

aka if you can accept gender is a social construct of labels so bigender girlboys make sense, you should be able to accept lesboys

[yourfavusescontradictorylabels]

YOU use contradictory labels (has this been done yet?)

YOU use contradictory labels!

[haunted-thing]

hey daily reminder that if you say “but multigender people aren’t actually men!” in your argument against mspec lesbians / lesboys that is, infact transphobic. if you don’t deny whatever womanhood that person may have or lack there of gender that person may have why would you deny their manhood? you cannot bend other peoples gender identities just to fit YOUR beliefs. It’s their identity not yours.

-sincerely, a multigender lesboy

[gloaming-sometimes]

dear lesboy (and tbh any other nuanced identity) exclusionists who think your vein of thought is the majority in queer spaces id like to inform you that today at lunch with my (entirely queer) friend group the topic drifted to me being a butch lesbian and one friend goes "wait i thought you were a guy?" and i said "i am" and another friend interjected "dudes can be lesbians too" and that was that. no further probing about my identity, nohing about how im "invalidating transmen and lesbians", or whatever. everyone just accepted that thats how i identify and i dont owe an explanation for it and moved on. i promise u its not that deep 👍

[80s-masked-slasher]

"we need more weird gays"

you can't handle it is someone only uses xenos

you cant handle it if someone is gay and a lesbian

you can't handle if someone identifies as a boy and a lesbian

you can't handle is someone is nonhuman and that affect their identity

you can't handle if someone is a system making their identity veey complex

[lovelydisgusting]

no more infighting over identity labels. i just saw a post where op listed various queer identity microlabels, sorted into two categories under "support" and "don't support". It was super silly, but also made me frustrated and sad. so here's my message to my fellow severely online queers: other queer people are not your enemy. you might think their labels are nonsense, or contradictory, or even offensive - learn to accept this. remember what you are fighting for: freedom of identity, freedom of expression, bodily autonomy, liberation from binary-hetero-patriarchy. FOR ALL! playing identity cop is utterly counterproductive to the cause.

[everyponie]

sorry but being autistic and "not understanding conflicting labels" is NOT an excuse to put queer labels on your dni. Saying "lesboys dni" is just as bad as saying "trans men dni" or "lesbians dni". You can't pick and chose which queer people you do and don't accept. You either accept us all or accept no one. We are a community. Don't use autism to excuse transphobic and lesbophobic behavior.