#gentle reminder !!!!

[theshunbun]

Sanbun again ✨🤍🩵 I'm looking forward to seeing you all having all the Tato stickers, already got a few of em up on redbubble 🌷💕 gonna have more up there, looking to put my whole catalogue on there~ redbubble.com/people/TheShunbun

[ed-recoverry]

People who self harm only for attention are just as valid as people who self harm for any other reason.

Seriously.

Parents often make the mistake of dismissing their child’s self harm as “attention seeking” when it’s otherwise.

But what always gets me is that, even if a child is harming themselves solely to get attention, that is a huge problem they need help for!

If a person has to go as far as to cause physical harm to themselves in order to gain what they feel as the proper amount of attention, that is someone who needs help ASAP.

No matter the form, no matter the severity, no matter the reason, self harm is a sign of severe distress that deserves immediate, intense attention.

And no one will ever convince me otherwise.

[glowettee]

✧ mastering academic email etiquette (1/20) (S1) ✧

(The Academic Weapon Series - by mindy @glowettee)

hi loves! mindy here <3 let's talk about something that literally no one teaches us but is so important - how to email your professors/teachers and academic advisors like a pro. if you couldn't tell this is a brand new series and instead of just having a certain amount of posts (which for this series its 20) i'm actually going to have SEASONS as well. so this is season 1, each season will have an amount of 20 posts each. i'm still continuing the manifestation series and almost done with the 'preparing for next semester series' as well, but this is a new one i'm so excited for!

your email presence is part of your academic reputation, so let's make it absolutely perfect:

subject line formula:

course code + brief topic

example: "eng101 - research paper consultation request"

keep it clear and specific

no vague "quick question" subjects!

email structure:

greeting

"dear professor/teacher [name]" (always)

never "hey" or "hi" alone

introduction

who you are

which class/section

when you meet

main content

one main topic per email

clear + concise

specific questions/requests

closing

thank them for their time

your full name

student ID if relevant

pro tips that changed my email game:

email during business hours

proofread twice, send once

no emotional language

wait 24 hours before follow-up

keep a professional email signature

things to absolutely avoid:

demanding immediate responses

writing walls of text

using slang or emojis

sending multiple emails about the same thing

asking questions answered in the syllabus

bonus tip: save email templates for common situations like:

office hours scheduling

assignment clarification

absence notifications

extension requests

recommendation letters

remember: professors get hundreds of emails! make yours stand out by being professional, clear, and respectful.

xoxo, mindy 🤍

[shamelesslyimpurrfect]

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[enii]

🌸🌺🥀🌼💕

[neuroticboyfriend]

all your stuffed animals love you. they're not sad if they're in a box, or on the floor, or not held/played with as much. they understand. they know that you might need another stuffie more, or that you don't have enough space. they're just happy to be with you, and if you ever give them away, they'll be happy there too. stuffies are for comfort. they understand. they love you too. it's okay.

[biscuitdolly]

୨ৎ the girl with everything in her bag .ᐟ

your ultimate guide on how to prepare a bag for whatever the world throws at you!

( any bag should work ─ you could use a smaller bag or use a bigger bag with heaps of pockets! )

WHAT TO PACK .ᐟ

face/makeup related:

makeup for touch ups (if you wear it!)

spare lash glue (if your use falsies!)

lip balm

lip gloss

mini flip mirror

body, hand and hair related:

deodorant (preferably spray on)

mini perfume/body mist

mini lotion

hand cream

hand sanitizer

nail file

spare pad/tampon

hairbrush and/or comb

hair ties

pencil case:

mini notebook

pen and pencil

eraser

mini ruler

sharpener

highlighter

purse/wallet essentials:

house/car keys

ID

drivers license (if you drive)

credit card

spare loose cash

any useful gift cards you own (make sure they have money on them and that they're not expired!)

misc:

gum

mints

wet wipes

mini tissue pack

a snack

bandages (you can also go the extra mile and make a mini first aid kit, although this is optional!)

if you have braces, a toothbrush and mini toothpaste in a travel case are a must!

[itscassc]

the way you talk to yourself matters too.

[writethatdown]

a reminder to seek out people & places & media that fills you up with love for life and motivation. discipline is key but finding ways to keep you inspired makes everything suck less.

[zeenmrala]

gentle reminder for anyone that needs it!! creating fanart and fanfic and OCs for your favourite series or franchise is not cringe, it is joyful!!!!! dedicating time and energy and creativity to what makes you happy is NOT unproductive!!!!! have fun and be kind to yourself in your fandom experiences

[theshunbun]

Red Bliss the angry potato 💕

[ed-recoverry]

This post exempts you from any and all “If you don’t ___ this post, ____ will happen.” You are hereby immune to it all. You are now protected! Be free!

[glowettee]

30 Ways to Romanticize Your Life 🌸

Life is more beautiful when you slow down and notice the magic around you. Here's how to romanticize your everyday moments:

 Wake up early to watch the sunrise.

Use your favorite mug for morning tea or coffee.

Write love letters to yourself in a journal.

Go on a solo date to a cozy café.

Light a candle while you work or study.

Play soft instrumental music while cooking.

Take a walk in nature without your phone.

Organize your desk with pastel stationery.

Capture small moments with a disposable camera.

Make your bed every morning.

Wear an outfit that makes you feel confident.

Add fresh flowers to your space.

Watch your favorite childhood movie.

Dance in your room to nostalgic music.

Try a new skincare routine.

Write down three things you're grateful for every day.

Learn calligraphy or start a creative hobby.

Keep a collection of your favorite poems.

Use a fancy pen for your daily notes.

Take a luxurious bubble bath.

Treat yourself to your favorite dessert.

Read a book that inspires you.

Keep a vision board of your dreams.

Watch the stars on a clear night.

Use aromatherapy oils for relaxation.

Write a letter to your future self.

Wear perfume even if you’re staying home.

Set up a cozy nook for reading or journaling.

Look for beauty in small details.

Smile at yourself in the mirror every morning.

[sunsetsandhope]

Due to personal reasons I will be loving myself with my whole heart

[miso-so]

miso reminder 🫶

You can simply let the good things happen because you deserve it.

[scary-friend]

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