#what is self love

[vorpal-doll]

My psychiatrist said something today that really hit me bc of how true it is:

She said,

“it seems to be a reoccurring theme in your life… not being heard. from family, friends, relationships, doctors… you’re always fighting to be heard. for people to believe you. for people to see you. to be taken seriously. it’s coming from all aspects of your life. that isn’t an easy thing to bare, you are draining yourself in every possible way.”

fuck.

[mostlydesires]

2024

the show (going out to get groceries. making myself a nice dinner. showering and opening the windows. being kind to myself in everything i do) Must go on

[poorly-drawn-mdzs]

License to Kitty.

[hellenhighwater]

Forbidden orange juice

[slfcare]

Lately I’ve been really into being honest to people about my positive feelings towards them. I told my classmate that I’ve admired her creativity from the start and named a project of hers that I loved, and her face lit up! I took the train with a project partner the other day and told her that I always have so much fun with her, and it prompted an entire conversation about the difficulties of graduating from ‘classmates’ to ‘friends’ and both of our insecurities in this regard (and how we’re definitely getting coffee later). I express my gratitude honestly. I say what I feel if I’d be happy hearing it, myself. I remember details so that I can refer to them later. Once you realize how great you can make someone feel, all of those mundane moments become so special. It will maybe even create some lasting connections, something I think we could all use more of.

[girlbossagenda]

if you're reading this I just want to let you know you look like a daydream

[fromheavensent]

[hinamie]

some quick jjk eye paintings

[restlesshush]

I was thinking about this and got curious

[girlwithrituals]

next time if you ever feel like falling back to old habits just remember this

personally, there's no better motivation than remembering that there's probably many people out there who don't want me to succeed.

[dyke-in-crisis]

I have noticed a pattern & I’m guilty of all of these

[raamenartz]

He's a little dramatic sometimes

[realprissygirl]

my current fav youtube channels

wildheartwaves - black women self accountability + analysis

pidgin doll - fashion sketching and doll composition

vintagecoochie - black girl cultural analysis

ruthy - bw beauty and makeup

chokoladka - psychological femininity and spirituality

fashion channel - vintage fashion shows

iconicallyiconic - deep dives into girly movies, brands and tv shows

darling dollz - doll releases and rankings

pretty boy xo - stripper vlogs and content

beauty and beyond - compilations of beautymaxxing content

r p - self help for women

earth rabbit - how to feel pretty

han ୨♡୧ - cute and calming doll + sanrio content

chrissie - content for bw mental reframing

kelsey the ballerina - minimalism and self love

msreadtheroom - mental level up content

style intellect - fashion analysis

lelegalliano - bw beauty content

sabrina lilliane - dolliest content

tea renee - hair and makeup tutorials

karine aloude - bw personality analysis

vogue - beauty secrets

codenamechanel - hypergamy content

just michelle - skin and beauty content

jaz turner - feminine development

the style and beauty doctor - skincare content

leah alexander - beauty and level up content

simonesimmo - mental level up

vinertria - beauty and fashion

bellazzi ent. - beauty utilization and self respect

[lovestruck-lamb]

[veveisveryuncool]

a little late to the party but!! here's worldwide miku but mixed chinese/mexican :D

[ins4nebxtch]

ultimate IT girl guide

a guide to looking effortlessly perfect

"You’ve got the false narrative of a girl who spends 30 seconds on her appearance, when, in fact, you probably spent hours.”

1. basic hygiene:

having clean teeth and good breath

smelling good 24/7. i highly recommend finding a signature scent as a scent is associated with memory, id suggest something sweet yet not too overpowering like vanilla.

being clean in general. regularly shaving and exfoliating your skin to get rid of bodily hair and dirt that accumulates on your skin to make your skin glow.

clean nails. having clean and maintained nails (with a simple design if you wish) looks better than having acrylics that are wayyy too long and appear tacky.

2. hair :

having smooth healthy hair looks much better than dry and damaged hair. take care of your hair by finding the best products for your natural hair. get rid of your split ends as they make the hair appear really damaged.

in my opinion, loose waves look the most effortless yet pretty. but don’t ruin your natural hair by applying too much heat! you can try heatless styling methods to achieve this look.

3. diet and exercise :

being toned is the way to go to fit this aesthetic

avoid oily foods or sugary foods that damage your skin. don’t completely get rid of these as we all have our cravings, but try your best to avoid it

find a workout plan that works best for you, keeps you healthy but doesn’t burn you out! moreover exercise releases endorphins that improve your mood.

4. makeup and skin care :

natural makeup on clear skin fits this effortless aesthetic perfectly!

take care of your skin by finding a routine that fits you the best, consult with a dermatologist for the best results.

having smooth, blended makeup creates an illusion that you aren’t wearing any at all! this appears much effortless than a full face. also try to avoid those really huge false lashes that make you look tacky.

maintain your eyebrows and find a shape that fits you best!

5. outfits :

having a signature style which suits your body type is essential. experiment until you can find what suits you best! you can use a body analysis app for this.

wearing outfits you’re confident in, hot but not too revealing goes a long way. confidence is key. wearing overly revealing clothing might seem like one is trying too hard, but if you can carry it with confidence then that’s great!

jewellery : having dainty, signature pieces is key! find out which suits you better (gold or silver) through an ai analysis and invest in timeless pieces. personally, i think minimalistic pieces such as solitaires, simple pendants, classic hoops etc. look much more effortless.

6. personality :

don’t be too judgemental towards anyone as you don’t know what they’re going through and this makes you seem unapproachable

don’t talk too much or overshare! this creates a mysterious aura which draws people to you more

confidence is key! posture is very important too, carry yourself with confidence and walk with your head held up high.

7. examples and references :

serena van der woodsen (gossip girl)

mia thermopolis (the princess diaries)

cher (clueless)

elle woods (legally blonde)

rory gilmore (gilmore girls)

robin scherbatsky (how i met your mother)

gigi hadid