#pro aspec

[squidfreak]

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Credit to @the-church-of-strabismus for the image ID!

[brick-van-dyke]

Actually in light of recent discussions being brought up, I'd like to remind us all; queer and Palestinian solidarity always.

Anti zionist Jewish queers solidarity always. Mspec solidarity always. Aspect solidarity always. Zionists are not our friends, queer Zionists do not belong in this community, racist queers do not belong in this community. Zionism, racism and colonialism have always harmed queers and supporting those things is inherently queerphobic. Black queers, Palestinian queers, Christian queers, Muslim queers and Jewish queers deserve our support and love and solidarity.

I know I'm repeating myself a lot here, but I do so for a reason. Hate must always NEVER be tolerated in our community. We do not tolerate the intolerant. We never have, we never will.

[kiruliom]

"our history is beautiful and vibrant and we shouldnt let it be forgotten like the people who hates us wants us to" and "we shouldnt try to fit today's people into the past's boxes because humanity changes and should acknowledge that holding onto the belief of 'theres no evidence of this in history so it cant be real' is a conservative mindset" are ideas that can coexist btw.

made abt queer history but if it fits your experience with something else then that makes me a very very boy

[bitch-spectrum]

Seriously if you're still anti any label in this day and age there's no hope for you. Literally go cry about it alone in your room. You're just homo/transphobic. Get out of queer spaces if you can't handle queer people. We don't want you nor do you really even want a community if you exclude people for niche experiences. Grow up already.

This does not apply to labels like "dreamsexual" or "map" or whatever the fuck. This post is about xenogender, neopronouns, aspec, and mspec. Yes, including mspec lesbians, gays, and hets.

[xx-slug-xx]

“Your fantasies equal your real life desires”

I’m fucking asexual? I have no desire to do anything I fantasize about irl. Same with a shit ton of other people who are aspec?

Tbh, I think it’s just queerphobic, specifically aphobic but other shit too, to say “your fantasies are what you want irl.

It’s not just aspecs either. I know a fuck ton of lesbians who fantasize about fictional men. They are not any less lesbians because of their fantasies though.

I could go on with more about how it’s a stupid argument, and even how it’s ableist in certain contexts, but I’ll save that for other posts lmao

[lovelessrage]

Pro-kink advocacy goes hand in hand with aspec advocacy and if you don't understand this you need to start.

[obnebulant-mogai]

Loser Aro!

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For aros and arospecs who also use the term loser for themselves!

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Flags by me, tagging @radiomogai.

[sypphic]

Lesbian 4 lesbian

Lesbian loving lesbian flag(s)

For anyone identifying as lesbian who love, are attracted to or in relationships with other lesbians.

Inclusive to all lesbians, polyamory and all attraction types outside romantic or sexual.

I wasn't sure how to layout this post but the far left flag is the og idea, I like how the stripes line up better this way.

Coined by me, requested by none

Blocking if uncomfortable, no discourse allowed.

[bananonbinary]

i understand that the bots do not know or care what tags they spam, but there is something particularly heinous about a porn bot tagged "aspec"

[ridibulous]

Sepaspec terms

I really liked the original separomantic (link) here, but I really wanted an acespec equivalent for ourselves, and clean up the separomantic flag & label personally; a recoin if you will, but I tried to keep the spirit of the original in my recoin regardless out of respect.

NOTE: ANYONE (WHO FEEL THEY APPLY TO THE DEFINITION) MAY IDENTIFY WITH AND USE THESE LABELS & FLAGS, REGARDLESS OF OUR "DNI".

Sepasexual

An acespec microlabel for neurodivergent folk who experience dissociation (ex. (C-)PTSD, DPDR, BPD, DID/OSDD, etc.); feeling separated and/or dissociative towards sexual attraction, possibly viewing it in third person and struggling to connect your attraction with yourself & your feelings.

Dark purple: Asexuality and the asexual spectrum

Light purple: Fogginess, disconnection, and confusion from sexual attraction

Grey: Dissociation, separation, emptiness

Pink: Attempts to connect self with attraction and/or feelings towards sexuality

Red: Self love and pride in sexuality, or lack thereof

Separomantic

An arospec microlabel for neurodivergent folk who experience dissociation (ex. (C-)PTSD, DPDR, BPD, DID/OSDD, etc.); feeling separated and/or dissociative towards romantic attraction, possibly viewing it in third person and struggling to connect your attraction with yourself & your feelings.

Dark green: Aromanticism and the aromantic spectrum

Light green: Fogginess, disconnection, and confusion from romantic attraction

Grey: Dissociation, separation, emptiness

Light orange: Attempts to connect self with attraction and/or feelings towards romance

Orange: Self love and pride in romanticism, or lack thereof

Separoace

An aroace-spec microlabel for neurodivergent folk who experience dissociation (ex. (C-)PTSD, DPDR, BPD, DID/OSDD, etc.); feeling separated and/or dissociative towards both sexual & romantic attraction, possibly viewing them in third person and struggling to connect your attraction with yourself & your feelings.

Dark blue: Experiencing asexuality and aromanticism together, the asexual & aromantic spectrums

Light blue: Fogginess, disconnection, and confusion from both sexual and romantic attraction

Grey: Dissociation, separation, emptiness

Light yellow: Attempts to connect yourself with your attraction and/or feelings towards sexuality and romance

Yellow: Self love and pride in both sexuality and romanticism, or lack thereof.

[inknoidd]

SKUNK ARO / BAMBI ARO

[pt: skunk aro/Bambi aro ]

A term like Bambi lesbian or Bambi gay, an Aromatic being who prefers who prefers cuddles, hugs, kisses, and other affectionate and even sensual non-sexual acts over sexual acts. The term can be used by any aro-spec individual

if a term like this has been coined before, consider this a alternate flag and term

Tagging: @radiomogai

[squidfreak]

I'm noticing how I'm much more connected to my aromanticism than my asexuality... Maybe it's my complicated views on romance and relationships, maybe it's because I feel like romantic attraction is more important to me than sexual, maybe it's the trust I'd have to have in someone to be with them, maybe it's the trauma, who knows

Shout out to my GF also for being really supportive and understanding about it all, though I love her (2 years and continuing together :3)

[chronicallyleggless]

Apothisexual blinkies! (Quad)

[fooltemps]

25px Pride Flags pt 4!!!!

Flags Include; aegromantic, apothiromantic, aroflux, aromantic, aromantic spectrum, autoromantic, demiromantic, grayromantic, quoiromantic

Free to use, credits not needed but appreciated!

Link to all 25px pride flags here!!!

[xx-slug-xx]

When I say “I would have sex with that” as an aspec, what I really mean is “while the concept of sexual relations is intriguing in a fantasy setting. I accept that realistically I would be much more infatuated with simply holding hands with that individual while strolling on the beach, gazing into their eyes as the sun set reflects off of their beautiful skin, taking in the beauty of their presence and my love for them. I find that the non sexual aspects of a relationship much more desirable realistically and prefer to think about the romantic aspects more than the sexual”

This includes my sexual fantasies involving me and Godzilla lol

[your-rutherfurr]