#physically disabled npd culture is

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

Physically disabled + autistic + NPD culture is at first thinking you don’t have NPD because you genuinely are better than all the sheeple able bodieds ignoring COVID and guzzling vaccine misinfo and then suddenly you want to die because someone told you your discord message was word salad when it made sense to you

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[cluster-b-culture-is]

Physically disabled with NPD culture is constantly fantasizing about fame for art that’s made even more difficult with said disabilities (anyone who suggests using generative AI is getting their fingers bit)

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[the-npd-culture-is]

Physically disabled NPD culture is being so desperate to fill your supply that you push your body beyond its limits just for a chance that someone might notice and praise you

-🩵🎭 (claiming this signoff)

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[aberrati-by-design]

NPD + physically disabled culture is enjoying being different and then falling into all-encompassing rage when your body prevents you from doing things like carrying a bowl of FUCKING SOUP, or from actually being physically strong the way you were once so proud of… Now I just want bloodshed because my body does not work. And now the things you could do that reliably made people admire you are GONE.

[the-questioning-system]

identifying. documenting. mapping. tedious. laborious. indigenous. dissociative. self medication. modalities. spirituality. it’s all coming together. who are we? who are you? where are we? when are we? what are we? we are a collective

-Pågo 🌺 Narcisa 🌔 and Apathy ❓

[syscultureis]

Welcome to our System culture blog!

Every other plural culture blog we've seen has always been pro endo, tulpa, and other non-traumagenic systems.

We are not, while our views from alter to alter vary, we consider ourselves as a whole anti-nontraumagenic

We use plural because we've used it to describe ourselves since before we even knew what a system was. It is not us "reclaiming" or "stealing" the term, it's us using a term we have always, and will always, use. Stop sending asks about it (please)

About us and our blog!

Submit asks about how being plural affects you! We'll post it either with a response to it, or just on its own.

Non-traumagenic and their supporters are not welcome here. Mixed orgins systems included with that. (Being neutral on endos is fine, just be aware that we are anti endo here)

Don't be worried to submit the more negative stuff, we'll try to add trigger warning best we can

We're bodily 20 and a system of about 40 known alters.

This blog is for any kind of traumagenic system. OSDD, DID, P-DID, Polyfragmented, etc. If you want to start your ask with your specific type of system go for it!

We don't want to be a syscourse blog, but we can't promise there won't be any. We will tag it as syscourse though

Singlets (non-systems) are welcome to follow and interact (politely) and if you have questions you can ask! We may not have all the answers but we'll answer what we can

This blog is to share experiences with our community, the good and the bad

Swearing is okay, but please try to keep slurs out of asks. You can censor them if they need to be used.

We are bodily disabled, so don't be mean about physical disabilities

Go ahead and send in things about comoridity as well! Example: "Plural autistic culture is..."

This system uses neo pronouns!! And supports xenogenders!!

This blog supports people with all disorders, and we will do our best to avoid posting asks that use terms like "narcissistic abuse" as we believe it adds stigma to disorders such as NPD

Please don't use the term "Core" in our asks when referring to the first host. It's an outdated term that basically means "first and original alter" which isn't really a thing, and we don't like promoting misinformation like that, especially when it very often promotes the idea that one alter is more real and important than the others

Feel free to spam the ask box as much as you want

We are not an informational blog, lots of this stuff is light hearted and humorous. We joke about things the same way people do with any other disorder. Do not take everything at face value, if you're going to clarify or correct information just be nice or we're going to block you regardless of if we agree or not

Please also note that depending on who's fronting our views may vary, one alter does not speak for our entire system. Not even if they claim to, there is almost nothing we all agree on wholeheartedly. If an issue arises we will do our best to control and adress it.

Brief summary for those that can't read long things:

- xeno genders welcome

- cluster b disorders supported

- non-traumagenic and supporters not welcomed

- not every post has to be positive

- singlets welcome

- try to avoid syscourse

- self diagnosis is valid

- We are not an informational blog, most of this these

posts are joking or having fun

Link to our discord servers (let us know if it doesn't work):

[ghxst-system]

Welcome - We're the Forest Collective

This post contains our Do Not Follow , Before You Follow and some extra info about us bellow the cut

Collective Terms + Identities:

Forest , Xi/They/Wolf/Howl , Transmasculine

Therian + Otherkin (Primarily Wolfkin + Wolf theriotype , but we also identify with ragdoll cats, bunnies, and several others)

Punk , Cripplepunk / Cpunk

Collectively we are situational mute (do NOT call us selective mute) and predominantly semiverbal

(we have several masked verbal alters who communicate for us verbally when necessary, but we are considered semiverbal)

We interchangeably use parts , headmates and alter language and mainly use We/Us when talking about us.

We are intersex.

Get blocked (DNI):

Antisemitic, homophobic / transphobic, TERFs/SWERFs, racist, ableist, fatphobic, zionists etc

Non-traumagen "systems" + supporters/neutrals (endo, willo, etc) OR culturally appropriate closed practices

Pro/neu contact paras, radqueers and transIDs fuck off

If you reduce introjects to their source / blacklist certain sourced introjects (wtf is wrong with you)

If you don't know how to actually tag and TW things you're getting blocked

If you don't follow your own DNI

Anti contradictory labels - you are literally so intersexist and transphobic.

If you cannot tell the difference between real values and FICTION

Before You Follow:

If you stigmatise cluster B PDs by promoting the myth of "narcissist abuse"

Perisex but use Intergender or think you can transition to be intersex

Do not use complexity labels on us

We are physically disabled and use mobility aids

We often lose the ability to speak or communicate coherently as well as the ability to advocate for ourselves

We will block you if you actively post / reblog about our triggers

We are bodily intersex and will not tolerate intersexism of any kind.

Posts / reblogs tagged with: "dir post 🧂" or "dir reblog 🧂" are directed at our syspartner

Anons and asks will be tagged with:

"🌳 forest.chats"

Random rambles unrelated to our usual posts will be tagged with:

"🌳forest rambles.exe"

We have survived RAMCOA , Programming and TBMC and post about it (tagged with appropriate warnings)

Our Disorders:

AuDHD , Dyslexia , Speech disorders (stutter, situational mute, semiverbal), Tourettes

Agoraphobia, C-PTSD, Polyfrag DID

Cluster B PDs: BPD, HPD, NPD

Cluster C PD: DPD

OCD, DPDR, Pica, ARFID, Anxiety + Depression

We are visually impaired with VSS (currently looking for more Dx that may explain our vision)

POTS, FND, Hypermobile EDS, Fibro

Our Collective Pronouns page:

(this also contains links to other headmates pronouns pages)

[fairygodsystem]

Your Fairy God System

Gender coining - Open ! Name/pronoun help - Open ! Character icons - Open ! Flag making - Open ! Sysbox/Userbox making - Open ! System term coining - Open ! and more below the read-more!

. ݁₊ Hello and welcome to our blog! I'm a physically disabled DID system with NPD and autism (and other disorders) that loves coining, editing, and generally helping out other systems!

. ݁₊ I switch between using I/me and we/our to refer to me and my system but they/them pronouns are always preferred!

Some tags that will help you navigate:

#FairySysboxes

#FairyFlags

#FairyTerms

#FairyMogai

#FairyAsks

#FairyGenders

#FairyNames

#FairyPronouns

#FairyIcons

#FairyTemplates

DNI:

Basic criteria

Endos or pro/neu endo

Source shame introjects

Cultural appropriate

Believe in NPD abuse / cluster B abuse

BYI:

I want this blog to be as accessible as possible, please let me know if there's something I can change to be more accessible ^-^

I will usually ignore hate asks but will sometimes answer them to make fun of them!

This blog is going to be mostly free of syscourse in order to spread info and positivity while helping other systems but when I do post something related to it, I will tag #syscourse !

Now that we have the info out of the way, feel free to ask or browse as much as you like! Thank you for reading <3

[witchcraft-system]

Pinned Post

My blog is explicitly safe for Muslims and Palestinians (and any person apart of any religion, I say Muslims and Palestinians as I know there's a lot of hate towards them from certain loud speaking Hindus)

Wow, look at me finally making a pinned post lol

We're the Cryptid Collective! We have OSDD along with multiple other physical and brain disabilities including the oh so spooky npd, aspd, and bpd (seriously why tf are pagan and witch communities so ableist), mid-high support needs autism, PoTS, arthritis, etc. We're cripplepunk, neuropunk, madpunk, and autipunk! We're a selective pagan and specifically follow Gaelic Celtic, Kemeticism, Heathenry, Hellenism, Roman paganism, and Hinduism (but like, a really strange version of Hinduism woopsies-), along with demonolatry, angelolatry, Lovecraftian, Pop culture paganism, and conpantheons.

I have signed the Declaration of Deeds.

Common Fronters:

Jeremy ; He/it + neos

Michael ; It/He/She + neos

I do not like the terms "White witch/magick" nor "Black Witch/Magick" (as in the idea that good magic is white while "evil" magic is black while also catagorizing poc practices (voodou, hoodou, love magic, etc) as "Black Magick"/"Evil" magick). I am also against new age spirituality as it is extremely bigoted (this includes Wicca).

We're also alterhuman and experience vampirism (sanguinarian).

[finally-got-a-diagnosis]

Welcome to my mess of a blog. Here you'll find all sorts of stuff related to physical and mental disabilities including but not limited to:

ADHD

ARFID

Arthritis

Asthma

Autism

BFRB

Black Autistic Culture

Chronic Pain

Cluster B Personality Disorders (Specifically NPD and BPD)

Dyspraxia

OCD

Paranoia

(I don't have everything on this list it just interests me)

My personal posts are under: #jay's tism thoughts

General Autism Information: #tism things and #the tism stricks again

Autism Tips: #tism tips

I reblog a lot to my main blog at @/jacuzziwaters

My one DNI rule

(Dividers Via: @animatedglittergraphics-n-more)

[void-thegod]

So like. I'm autistic. And definitely have cptsd.

My life was never okay.

And for most of it and even now..

I wonder "do I deserve this, for how I am?"

I burnout bad. So bad I can't do anything for months. I can be moody and impulsive. I talk and sing to myself. I physically stim in a number of ways.

It's pretty clear Something Is Up(tm)

But usually? Usually..

I get the impression people just think I'm a weirdo. And stupid. Or whatever.

I'm trans. I'm brown. Unfortunately, I'm capable enough of independence that no one thinks anything could be Wrong(tm)

But there clearly is. And has always been. I'm moody. I have some impulsive behavior. It's hard to be around people. I can't form interpersonal relationships to save my life.

I generally end up with people who are abusive, emotionally unavailable, and/or ignorant. Even a combination of the three.

And you know, you hear "Abusers find victims" or they gravitate to one another.

Whatever. I think we need to be honest and just admit that there's not as many "good" people as we think

Or our standard of good is so skewed by our culture as to be warped.

Because people would much rather ostracize and ignore me - for who and what I am - than admit...

They've been bullying a disabled person.

Like it's so clear that I'm Not Normal(tm)

In many ways. But my looks. My intelligence. My capabilities. My personality.

Somehow because of what I am

.. I cannot be another thing??

How many of us have heard this sort of thing before in a different context?

Bad faith interpretations. Brown, queer, and women being given misdiagnosis of BPD, npd, bi polar etc?

But not autism. Not adhd.

Oh you're definitely depressed. You're definitely anxious.

But you can't be disabled. Because you're too.. abled?

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

physically and developmentally disabled NPD culture is knowing that you aren't super strong or smart or skilled but feeling that you're inherently "better" than anyone else anyway

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[cluster-b-culture-is]

physically disabled self-aware NPD culture is feeling like you're just attention seeking and overdramatic when trying to find the answer to your physical problems. and finding a disorder that could explain SO MUCH (functional neurological disorder/FND for me) and you experience so many of the symptoms but oh, it's a rare disorder. and you know. maybe you're just looking for a rare disorder to have so you're special and unique and you know logically that's not what you're doing, you just want answers but of course you're cynical, self-aware self KNOWING about your NPD just can't help but pipe in "hmm, are you sure you're not just hoping it'll make everybody bend over backwards and pity you because you're the one with the super rare disorder?" even though you KNOW the reality of the disorder and you KNOW that not even many doctors believe it exists let alone the general public and just. GOD. i'm just so fucking frustrated by my physical symptoms and by not having an answer that explains things that ties everything up in a neat little bow (i mean, where the fuck are my non-epileptic seizures coming from? and the sudden extreme muscle weakness that prevents me from getting off the couch when i was fine literally two hours ago? and the sudden inability to talk and slurring all my words together and the constant sleep problems and the chronic daily headaches and migraines and the inconsistent difficulties swallowing and the and the and the--)

because of course having a rare disorder would make the NPD happy. but it would also make the me happy if it actually describes my genuinely life-ruining physical symptoms. but of course, the cynical little voice in my brain just keeps going "hmm, but it's actually probably just because of your NPD, so you can't actually have this disorder and your suffering means nothing."

tl;dr, there's a disorder that would explain so many of my physical disability symptoms that aren't necessarily covered or fully explained by my already known physical disability(/ies), but the stupid little cynical voice in my brain keep saying "um, actually, you have NPD so clearly this is all just a bid for attention. keep suffering without understanding <2"

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[st4rvncr0wz]

INTRO

DNI if under 15

murder of crows sys

native & white🪶19𖤐fren/eng

änä b/p, f4tphobic but pro recovery

ed obslov vent drug+

we have osdd

crow he/it, no emoji=me

⚡️D he/they

🎀Drac she/they

🧚🏻‍♀️Veda she/it

→ we also have bpd npd and more, physical disabilities n chronic illnesses, we don't tw this is your warning

stats: 5'1ft/155cm

sw: 93lbs

hw: 108lbs

gw: 75lbs

gw2: 73lbs

gw3: 70lbs

gw4/ugw1 : 65lbs

→ anti-religion !!

→ spiritualist

i own "absurd" things related to my cultural practices, tics cause us to double tap our keyboard, i try to fix it but there's double spaces n mistakes

→ we use we/i/us/our/my interchangeably

twt and insta have the same @ !!

↓future additions↓

future criminologist !! very into anything crime and psychology !!

[adriagan]

I noticed a lot of people in the notes mentioning that they can relate to this comic, and some people saying some not-so-kind things, and I thought it might be helpful to add some context to why people with borderline may feel these ways.

BPD is theorized to be a traumagenic disorder, which means that it's caused by trauma. Not in the same way as classical PTSD, which we typically imagine as coming from One Big Trauma, but from something called C-PTSD. That C can alternately stand for "childhood-onset" or "complex", depending on context. C-PTSD, along with traumagenic disorders such as BPD, NPD, RSD, DID, etc., is most often caused by growing up in an environment where you were under constant stress. That stress can vary- if you were constantly on-guard for emotional or physical abuse, or neglected, or faced constant rejection from peers due to race, disability, gender, all of that can contribute. When you're under constant stress, your system will accommodate to survive, and you may not be able to develop the social and emotional skills you otherwise would have been able to in a healthy environment.

This is why we think BPD and other personality disorders are very likely to be traumagenic. Imagine a person who grew up with dismissive, cold, neglectful parents- their emotional needs were not met, and they were taught from the beginning that there were unsaid negative undertones to things that other people said to them. If you spent years in that situation, would you assume that other people were likely to treat you the same way? Would you be sensitive to unsaid undertones? Do you think that your system might try to protect you from further emotional harm? That example isn't the only situation where someone might develop these kinds of responses.

Someone might also be deeply sensitive to lacking communication and not happen to have borderline. These types of emotional responses might occur in someone who is autistic, has ADHD, has anxiety, or has any of a great myriad of other personality disorders. A person might also need clear communication and have intense feelings without identifying with any of those conditions.

People with borderline personality disorder are not inherently different from you. It's incredibly common for people who have suffered abuse to develop personality disorders, and those people are then far more susceptible to further abuse from their doctors and their loved ones. When we continue the narrative of personality disorders as "abuser disorders", we contribute to & reinforce a deeply ableist cultural norm that results in institutional neglect and abuse. If you hold a belief that people with BPD or any other personality disorder are more likely to hurt others than the average person, I urge you to think deeply about where you learned that idea, why you believe it now, and if there could be evidence that it isn't an accurate assessment of the reality of these people's lives.

[jokers-biological-son]

Joker Junior

19

he/it/she/they + neos

Fictive of a Joker Junior OC of ours

Quite a bit attached to source but in like... A healthy way?

About The Body

We are bodily 19, white, intersex, and bodily disabled (both physical and mental) including OSDD, autism, NPD, ASPD, OCD, etc. We're mid-high support needs as well.

More About JJ and the blog!

I am a gender hoarder and pronoun hoarder! I'm on the aroace spectrum, objectum + conceptum and still figuring out my orientation overall. I'm an ageslider. I'm gonna be the only one running this blog so yeah!

There might be some RP stuff but I assure you that I, JJ am a real fictive and we really do have OSDD! I just like to be silly :3

As we are an adult, there might be some posts that I ask that minors do not interact with. They will be tagged accordingly!

Definition of OSDD"-1" since IG y'all need it or something idk

"OSDD-1 is the subtype that is most similar to DID. It is used for individuals who have similar symptoms to those with DID but who do not meet the full diagnostic criteria for DID. Most commonly, this describes individuals who have dissociative parts that are not sufficiently differentiated to qualify as alters or individuals who do not have amnesia between dissociative parts. Some individuals with OSDD-1 lack both amnesia and highly distinct parts, and other individuals with OSDD-1 have highly distinct parts but rarely or never switch between them."

Tags

JJ is speaking :: my general tag!

JJ is rbing :: my rb tag!

JJ is rating :: where I rate stuff jokingly (usually either 100/10 or 0/100)

JJ eats art :: art tag (for both my art and others art)

JJ answers an ask :: ask tag

Dad mention :: stuff about Joker!

Mom mention :: stuff about Harley Quinn!

DNI + BYF

This is a sideblog so I cannot follow back through this blog! Sorry

My blog is explicitly safe for Muslims, jews, Hindus, and any other minority religion and/or culture)

I am antiship (aka I'm against ships that glorify and romanticize abuse, pedophilia, incest, beastiality, etc.)

I am PRO KINK. Yes that includes the kinks you think are harmful despite them being with consenting adults with safety precautions (such as CNC, feedism, ageplay, petplay, etc.). I am, however, mostly sex repulsed so I ask that blogs that are centered around kink please don't follow (you can still interact!)

I am a strong believer that "narc abuse" does not exist... Because it doesn't.

DNI people who think pronouns = gender

DNI anti-mogai

DNI anti-neopronouns/nounself pronouns

DNI anti-agere/if you think agere = ageplay (it doesn't)