#endo safe space

[g-n-c-quoi]

the anti-endo side of the internet is rotting my brain by the second what are you people DOING

this is a little bit about the new octocon app but just in general-

speaking as a medically recognized (not diagnosed for safety reasons but doctors are aware) P-DID system, i cannot believe i have to say this, but endogenic systems are entirely unharmful and you look ridiculous trying to pretend they do

“DID/OSDD/etc is a trauma disorder!!” you would be hard pressed to find an endogenic system actually claiming to have those disorders. the vast majority of them have self described as non-disordered

“you can’t be a system without trauma!!” do we know that for a fact? dissociative disorder research is so full of stigma and misinformation that it’s mind boggling, do you honestly trust the dsm-5 to have literally every example of being a system ever written down verbatim?

also systems can be intentionally created for spiritual or personal reasons, please google search tulpamancy

also also it’s incredibly weird and potentially dangerous in some cases to demand proof that someone has experienced life altering brain damaging trauma before you can respect them as who they say they are

“they’re stealing resources!” literally what resources. therapy? they’re stealing therapy? please be serious.

w/ regards to pk/sp and octocon- what tangible harm is it doing to you for someone who calls themselves an endo system to use the same app as you. answer quickly.

i don’t even particularly care that much about this, i’ve largely stopped talking about being a system online because of how mind numbingly absurd the community is, i just cannot overstate how little this discourse matters

if someone is earnestly and intentionally faking being a system then the consequences of that behavior that turn up in their social life will be more than enough without you ridiculing them relentlessly for something that most of the time has little if any material impact

you’re just diet fakeclaiming please find something else to do with your time than bothering people who aren’t bothering you

[thestudsystem]

Yeah the plural community has "source disconnecting" shout-outs, which I love, but can I give a shout-out to "source connecting/attaching" right now?

[crispyandantisocial]

reminder

just because i use pluraltags like #endo-safe does not mean i am like anti endos who use it to harm people. If you have the words anti endo on your blog, you will be blocked

talking to you anti-endo pillow fort

you will also be blocked if you say anyi endo stuff to us! no anon asks

[the-menage-system]

Guess who's being a bisexual simp and blushing and giggling while talking to their crush right now?

Definitely not me. No way. Totally not.

...

Jk it's totally me haha

- Sonia 🏰

[systemserendipity]

mak1n anothr headmate 1ntro fastr than we thought bc-- 🌠 1 dcidd to show back up 🌠

1 usd to be our arguably most act1vly onl1ne mmbr when we wre a k1d and t33n (whn 1 fronted the most)

now 1 just k1nda float through l1fe, f33ling sad for myself, really embody1ng that gr1nch schdule mme

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📻 MAIN INFO 📻

Name: Willow Kross Wallace

Emoji: 🌠

Age: slides 16 to mid-20s

Gender: demifem crypto-gothgender

Pronouns: they/shy/any

Orientation: pandemisexual

Birthday: October 31, 2039

Species: augmented human

Active?: yes

System Role(s): trauma holder, ex-host, fused part (Shilo, Zydrate, Willow, Norman, Lydia, Mari, Edward, fragments)

Group: TBD

📻 SOURCE INFO 📻

Introject?: post-fictive

Okay with doubles?: yes

Source?:

Repo (musical), Bates Motel / Psycho, Beetlejuice (movie and musical), "Mary on a Cross," Ghost, Edward Scissorhands (and other Burton works)

Origin: cryptogenic

Split/Arrival Time: roughly childhood yrs (

📻 OPTIONAL INFO 📻

Random fact(s):

typing quirk (dpnd1ng on how comfortable thyre f33l1ng) will provide translations with quirked messages if requested

💿Mixtape:

Away Message:

rats

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1 hope u enjoy, whovr the fuk actually rds th1s sh1t, 1f noth1ng else 1m sure the gatk33prs and ovrs33rs'll s33 soooooooo

uh

h1 👋 fuk u /j

~~~W1llow 🌠 (they/shy/any)

[thehellsaint]

"sysmed" and "traumascum" are truly repulsive terms. The mental disorder you're cosplaying is, shocker, a disorder.

disorders are medical issues. just because you feel entitled to the parts of a disorder you find fun doesn't make the disorder less of a disorder.

[dolleriumfluffle]

I just desperately want more recognition of traumagenic experiences that lie outside of the usual "childhood abuse" assumption that everyone forces on that label. what about trauma from bullying? what about trauma from undiagnosed illnesses? what about trauma from queer experiences like transphobia? what about trauma from medical experiences like surgeries, hospitalizations, psych wards, and other areas where the medical field failed you? what about trauma from eating disorders? what about trauma from racism?

there are so many experiences that can fall under traumagenic, but are yet swept under a rug in favor of a strict, stereotypical narrative that's easier to comprehend. I think we as a community need to make an active effort to expand our understanding of traumagenic, especially where it may overlap with experiences traditionally considered endogenic, and understand that trauma can come in so many different forms. so often people are shunned for trying to create roles and labels that describe their specific traumagenic experiences, and I don't understand why. there can be no progress towards acceptance for all systems if we don't accept that traumagenic is an umbrella label too.

[g-n-c-quoi]

(op you’re safe this is not a hate rb this is a “the internet is fucking deranged” rb)

re: that text post of mine that’s getting stupid amounts of traction now-

this is exactly what i’m talking about. most if not all endogenic systems are asking for literally the bare minimum of respect as human beings. the amount of people who refuse to even offer that is staggering, and speaks more to the morality and acceptance of antis than it does anyone else.

if you’re waiting for some kind of definitive scientific explanation to believe people when they tell you who they are, you’ve already lost the plot.

in all honesty, i couldn't care less about endogenic plurality. not my stable, not my horses

Valid, all I ask for is respect.

[astroglitching]

Happy Plural Pride + Moon Landing Combo Holiday!!!!

Our history as the plural community deserves to be celebrated, and I wish you all a great day!

[g-n-c-quoi]

entirely expected and somehow also wildly alarming jump in followers so here’s a little intro post + some housekeeping because i’ve made some very cool mutuals lately and really don’t wanna have to break them

name: lavera

age: 18

pronouns: he/they and zie/hir

carrd: https://gnc-quoi.carrd.co (but most of the info is in this post)

i’m an artist and novice animator. my commissions are, as a rule, always open unless i explicitly state otherwise. my portfolio can be found here.

i intentionally do not have a dni as i believe that they are unenforceable at best. if i disagree with you, i scroll past. if you are actively dangerous, i block you.

this is not a discourse blog, however, i will occasionally participate in discourse conversations at my own discretion, depending on their relevance to me as a person.

i am a lesboy/ftm lesbian, among multiple other psuedo-controversial labels i use to describe myself. i am happy to elaborate on these if requested respectfully, but if you’re just looking to antagonize me, you will not receive a reply.

this is, at least sometimes, somewhat of an art blog, and some of my art is likely to contain themes that will involve gore and/or artistic depictions of sensuality and sexuality, and i will tag the applicable pieces as such. i cannot realistically prevent anyone from interacting with this content, but i would prefer most of the engagement on it to be the adult audiences it is intended for, if possible. generally speaking, though, just… be a normal person about it, please.

[thestudsystem]

found some anti-endo remaking pro endo posts without credits.

moos3-th3-goos3

I enjoy posting these so people can block them, please do not harass or anything. just block. i do it exclusively to make sure some of you don't have your posts remade.

[shitty-proendo-blackout-posts]

I think this deserves a shitty pro endo blackout

ENDOGENIC FUCKING SYSTEMS!!!!!!

I LOVE U

[the-menage-system]

I spot Sonia being bi on main again hehe :)

- Mikan Tsumiki

Ohh, you noticed?

Guilty as charged, I'm being super bi right now /lh

- Sonia 🏰

[angelsemotes]

i am angel. i do not use pronouns , but if absolutely necessary , you may refer to me with “ he ” .

all of my emotes are free to use with or without credit , as long as you do not copy me or claim my work as your own. all groups of all beliefs are allowed to interact with my blog , my art is for everyone. but i ask you respect my boundaries and spread no hate to any group.

my blog is not explicitly safe for littles , and i will occasionally post adult content such as marijuana use or blood . i do not condone unsafe practices that would harm ones health or the health of those around them . all mature posts will be tagged accordingly.

my emojis are characters with names : my old style being cupid (pastels), main emoji subject being chapel (yellow), secondary being cherub (green), and third being cross. (purple) you may specify wether your request is to be depicted as chapel, cross, or cherub. ref sheet below!

my inbox is always open , and you may request as you desire . but i cannot assure you that i will make anything for you. i go at my own pace.

i do not make emojis of animals , words , or characters i am unfamiliar with . i request that when suggesting an emoji , you do not leave your message vague . please specify what expressions or emotions you want conveyed . requests along the lines of “ (subject) emojis ? “ will be denied.

i believe in peace , and that we should treat others in the way we wish to be treated . with kindness and compassion . however , this will not stop me from expressing my opinions and bounaries .

cloud angel dividers by chocoperrito, emojis and introductory graphic by me.

[curekirin]

Here’s a little master list of resources for various issues! Queer resources, Nonhuman resources, Mental Health resources, and more! ^_^ Feel free to share your own and reblog to help others!

NOTE: some links are not attached the text. This post was made on mobile and for some reason URLs don’t attach every time. They still work though!

NOTE 2: I may not have the answers to all your questions, especially if they are questions not related to my cultures. But i’ll do my best to find you sources if i can’t answer it myself!

QUEER RESOURCES

WHAT IS MOGAI? - A guide from LGBTQIA+ Wiki!

WHAT IS INTERSEX? - https://interactadvocates.org/faq/

WHAT ARE NEOPRONOUNS? - https://neopronounss.carrd.co/

WHAT ARE XENOGENDERS? - https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Xenogender

WHAT IS M-SPEC? - https://bipanlibrary.com/mspec/

WHAT ARE GOOD FAITH IDS? - https://pennytable21.carrd.co/

NONHUMAN RESOURCES

WHAT IS A THERIAN? - A guide from Therian Wiki

WHAT IS AN OTHERKIN? - https://otherkin.fandom.com/wiki/Otherkin

WHAT IS ALTERHUMANITY? - https://alterhumanity.fandom.com/wiki/Alterhuman

WHAT IS A KEMONOMIMI? - https://kemonomimi.carrd.co/

MENTAL HEALTH RESOURCES

DSM 5 PDF (download) - https://www.mredscircleoftrust.com/storage/app/media/DSM%205%20TR.pdf

WHAT IS AN IRL? - this is not a medical resource, as these delusions are not medically recognized as a separate class of delusion. that doesn’t mean they aren’t real.

WHAT IS AN “ENDOGENIC”? - https://docs.google.com/document/u/0/d/1_5iSiTjqlyCjd3krzQwjAMbZOQzKKpbcmRI0NsHfPpA/mobilebasic

CULTURAL RESOURCES

A GUIDE TO LANGUAGE SYMBOLS - https://closedcultures.carrd.co/

USING CULTURAL NAMES - https://stopusingthesenames.carrd.co/

(SYSTEMS) USING CULTURAL NAMES

CLOSED CULTURES/APPROPRIATION - https://www.patheos.com/blogs/thebalancingpath/2020/06/closed-traditions-cultural-appropriation-and-race/

CHECK TEXT FOR CLOSED SYMBOLS - https://apps.timwhitlock.info/unicode/inspect

RESOURCES TO HELP OTHERS

PALESTINE RESOURCES - Resources to help Palestinians

SUDAN RESOURCES - https://www.rescue.org/article/crisis-sudan-what-happening-and-how-help

CONGO RESOURCES - https://www.doctorswithoutborders.org/what-we-do/where-we-work/democratic-republic-congo

ARMENIA RESOURCES - https://www.armenian-genocide.org/

GENOCIDE EDUCATION - https://genocideeducation.org/

— Please do let me know if any of these resources are unreliable or if there are better alternatives! This is meant to help as many people with various issues as possible, so any recommendations are appreciated! Send them to my inbox!

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