#anti endo dni

[hero-kid-talkz]

Allow me to take that first sentence into my storage of useful quotes /silly

But you are so real for that!

I swear, some people are allergic to positivity. "Oh no the traumagenic tag is full of pro-endos, I'm so MAD about this!" Dude. Take a chill pill, first off. Second off, plenty of traumagenic systems are pro-endo because they find more of a COMMUNITY in those spaces. There is no contradiction.

Ask me, would we as a traumagenic system rather be in a space full of people who debate and rage against the existence of non-traumagenics and build up an atmosphere of fear of being fakeclaimed? Or in a community with an emphasis on positivity that accepts people for who they claim to be?

Maybe we traumagenics don't know everything about plurality? What happened to live and let live? Maybe we'd rather just talk about our experiences as they are, regardless of whether or not we came from trauma, and bond over the thing we DO have in common--- plurality?

Sorry but the second option sounds more like a community to me. And my system and I will never apologize for choosing it.

If you make your bed in fear, you have to lie in it. If you make your bed in kindness, you'll have a damn good night's sleep.

[thebl00dym00nsystem]

That epic moment when you realise the entire fleet of Santa’s main reindeers’ is literally in your head

How the fuck yall get here? You want a snack?? You want to play video games??? What do reindeer like??? I’m confused - Techno

[marquessofendos]

Hey sorry for asking this but you don't have to answer

What's radqueer supposed to mean?

Google wasn't particularly helpful

-syder

radqueers are hard to describe, so lets start with "a subsect of the MOGAI community". "radical queers" on paper does seem like a good idea. theyre pro-queer, pro-para, pro-endo, pro-good faith identities, and so far, all that sounds great, and you and i probably are also both pro these things.

until you get to the part where many radqueers fully believe children and animals can consent ("pro-contact radqueers"), as well as support harmful transitioning (i.e. RCTA/transrace/trace where people want to transition to a different race from their bodies) and just awful transid stuff in general (stuff like transautism where someone allistic wants to transition to having autism)

they also have a HUGE problem with ignoring dnis. radqueers WILL interact with anti radqueers as if its their god given fucking duty. so as a reminder to any radqueers who read this and think its a bright idea to send me an ask

anyways cheers i love answering asks idm at all

[lebloodymoonsystem]

Being plural is like

Woah I’m glad that breakdown is over, I hope no one saw that.

The fucking Grinch: Yeah

[cryptidcodex]

I'm gonna talk about this. I refuse to be in these types of servers. Littles are not literal children. Some littles do find it healing to be treated like children due to being parentified.

Others find it stifling and harmful to their healing. Infantilization is a common abuse tac tic to minimize a person and make them be quiet. Littles are little for a large variety of reasons.

It should be for a system to decide what is best for themselves, not some weirdo rando on the Internet. No one should have to pass a check point of your approval just to feel good about themselves or safe. Having a child alter doesn't change what age the brain is, or the chemistry around brain development.

Regression is a coping mechanism for various disabilities. The person doesn't just magically transform into a child just because they like my little pony or chew on a paci. There is no material experience that is exclusive to children, and even outside of system spaces, policing this stuff is ableist against people who use this for trauma coping, autism stimming, chronic pain/health issues, etc.

I spent my whole life being infantilized and talked down to as a way to make me feel small. There is not a single person on this earth who ever gets to do that to me or any of my head mates again. No matter how well intended you think you are, you're being ableist, and abusive. Learn from it and do better.

those syscord rules that are like "littles (alters under age 13) need to stay in the littles channel" piss me off because i have an alter thats 12 and doesnt consider themself a little, theyre very capable of conversing normally with other adults, but theyve been banished to littles channels before because of their number age. guys. im still 18 bodily. im an adult. if i say my alter is capable of talking like an adult to other adults, dont force them into a littles channel??

[the-eighteen-horsemen]

what having fictives feels like:

[lanterns-and-lightmares]

20 plurality lukewarm takes

(aka I don’t consider these to all be hot takes, because some of them are, in my opinion, warranting of a “well, duh”.)

Not every system has to be miserable to be valid

Endogenic systems are valid

Traumagenic but nondisordered systems are valid

Mixed origins systems are valid

Systems who have no fucking clue where their system came from are valid

Tiny systems are valid

Gigantic systems are valid

Systems that are all Brainmade are valid

Systems that are mostly introjects are valid

Introjects are not their source

Systems whose alters are different as night and day are valid

Systems whose alters are similar are valid

Anti-endos are sanist

Willogenics are not “roleplaying DID”

IT IS NOT FAKING A DISORDER IF YOU ARE NOT CLAIMING TO HAVE A DISORDER.

Plurality should be more informed about— it should be normalized to be accommodating of plurals

Final fusion is not a necessary step of the recovery process

Being a system can be hard. Being a system can be happy. The two can coexist.

You should always respect what different systems want to be called; some like alters. Some like parts. Some like headmates. Whatever their preference, respect it.

HEADMATES WHO SEE THEMSELVES AS PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE.

[the-mechanisms-system]

thinking about that post about how yeah, it's definitely possible and valid to be trans without dysphoria, but also a lot of trans people are underestimating the amount of dysphoria they experience that has faded to mental background noise

and thinking about how this almost certainly applies to systems and dissociation as well. like yeah, it's entirely possible and valid to be a completely non-disordered, non-dissociative system, but I think a lot of plurals are vastly underestimating the amount of dissociation they experience because it's common to them so they don't even notice. I know that's definitely how it went for us

[if not already clear, this post is inclusive of all origins]

[thecreepycrawlersss]

made some angry little user boxes >:)

feel free to use !! credit not necessary but appreciated

-malachite he/it/shi/lyr/they

[therihare]

im a traumagenic system, so telling me that "REAL traumagenic systems hate endogenic systems!!!" means literally nothing to me. funnily enough the folks this usually comes from have fakeclaimers in their DNI. hmm... anyways, endogenic systems have my full support and always will. its extremely entitled to say that you know exactly how the human brain works. you dont.

[daydream-the-demon]

"Are you single?"

No actually I'm plural.

[hi-im-kaybee]

now that i have the copies printed & stapled for school, here's the plurality comic i've been working on for a while now. the whole process was excruciating in physical media but it felt really good just to have the tangible product in my hands. cc info under read more.

Plurality: A Brief, Illustrated Primer © 2024 by Kay & Bea is licensed under CC BY-NC-SA 4.0

[marquessofendos]

Trauma is not always gigahyperultra bad things that happen to people. What's traumatic to one person might not affect another person in the slightest. Trauma is individual to the person experiencing it. If you have memories of something traumatic that you have been told repeatedly can't be traumatic because its "too tame", this is your sign to start accepting that trauma

update 1/7/25 since my tags are being ignored

[purple-space-aliens]

nervous system? yeah we are

[lebloodymoonsystem]

Host: *plays cool game once* That was fun

Fictive from said game: Yeah it wa-

Host: AAAAH

[monochrome-clown]

I block people who are pro abusing persecutors btw.