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Hi I saw that you have hEDs, my mom think I may have it and I meet most of the criteria but I don’t have pain. So I think I might just be hyper-mobile.

hyper mobility is a spectrum, some people don't get a lot of pain. for some people it takes a while for that pain to develop, but i hope you avoid it altogether. a lot of my pain comes from injuries and my fibromyalgia. if you are hyper mobile it might still be a good idea to seek a specialist to make sure your connective tissues remain healthy. it's still worth seeing a doctor for. best of luck to you, feel free to reach out at any point

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Oh my god, can you please shut the fuck up? You and other bad actors make the LGBT community look ridiculous and cringe.

thanks for sending this message! annoying you means what i'm doing is working and i'm glad to hear that! i am glad to hear that what i'm doing is working, i'm so happy to be able to be of help to our community! i love being an important piece of our culture and helping others, so i'm really glad i'm here and speaking up! i love talking about marginalized queer issues! if being unabashedly yourself is "ridiculous and cringe" then i'm happy to be both! i'd rather be myself than living my entire life in fear of being "cringe". why would someone ever stop being themselves because someone else made a facial expression? that's the lamest thing i've ever heard in my life. you'd rather live not being yourself because someone might find you "Ridiculous?" that's pathetic! embarrassment is temporary, life keeps happening no matter what! getting stuck on a rando thinking you're "cringe" and preventing yourself from living your own life is the real "cringe" thing here. you are the one being embarrassing, i actually feel bad for you

you're that scared of being yourself because a stranger might find it "Cringe"? take a moment to reflect on that. your self worth is so low you need the validation of every single stranger you meet in order to feel justified in being yourself. that is ridiculous behavior. that is cringe.

queer people are already seen as cringe by cisheteronormative society! accepting weird queers as part of the family won't affect anything, cishets already hate you, it has nothing to do with "weird queers"! cishets will throw you in jail and kill you, too, they don't care about what type of queer you are, they hate you no matter what! sucking up to cisheternormativity won't keep you safe from queerphobia and casting out the "bad actors" won't make you look any more legitimate to cisheternormative society- you are also a target, because they hate all queers! we are ALL seen as "ridiculous and cringe" by queerphobes- they hate you, too. hope this helps, have a wonderful day! i will never shut up <3

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Holy Anubis this has been rebloged so much

Being plural is like

Woah I’m glad that breakdown is over, I hope no one saw that.

The fucking Grinch: Yeah

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Shark from Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time

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born to "SHUT THE FUCK UP OH MY GOD", forced to "/nm?"

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enby gaybian culture is having to explain that you dont identify as bisexual because people so often define it as "same and opposite gender attraction" , BUT THERE ARE NO "OPPOSITE GENDERS" TO YOUR OWN

THAT'S REAL ‼️

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Shoutout to systems with few fellow-system friends! Or few friends at all!

PT: Shoutout to systems with few fellow-system friends! Or few friends at all!

Having your literal identit(ies) be stigmatized and feared by a majority of the population is fucking awful, and we're here for you. Personally, we only know about two people who are plural, and only one of them is currently friends with us. It's lonely, it's isolating, it makes you stir crazy and wonder if you're ever going to meet somebody who knows who you (all) truly are.

You're not alone.

But also remember: If you do reach out to make more friends online, be extremely cautious. People will take advantage of the fact that the plural demographic online is usually assumed to be <30 y/o. People will take advantage of the fact that you likely have trauma (whether that caused your plurality or not), people will take advantage of the fact that being plural is isolating.

Know your boundaries, stick to them, and if you even THINK someone could be taking advantage of you, leave immediately. You don't need to risk getting hurt when you're already down.

You're loved, you're appreciated, and I hope you find someone you can connect with someday.

Sincerely,

Chatters A and B.

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Do you think you could do a level 3 dsmp Ranboo who was married to tommy? It/Its and any masc-like / ender-themed pronouns, if that's okay? Tommy just misses his Ranboo, but it's alright if not!!

I hope it turned out alright! We're+ a big Ranboo fan and We+ LOVE Alliumduo!

> Name(s): Ran, Ranboo, Ender, Allium, Indigo, Solstice, Equinox

> Pronoun(s): it/its, voi/void, ender/pearl, vwoop/vwoops, pur/purples, pur/purpurs, parti/particles, tele/teleports, end/enders, 

> Age: 17-20ish

> Gender: masc, purplebodiement, confusiongender, lavenstaric, loserboygender, clouvoidic, voidthing, calmvoidic, may like to steal or “collect” other genders

> Sexuality: gayyyy, homo, this is a gay person

> Role: romanticor, cupid, soother

> Source: Dsmp

> Faceclaims:

> Sign-offs: ❤️💚, 💜, 🖤, ◼️, 🟪, 👑, 🕳️, ⬛⬜, ◼️◻️, ◾◽, ▪️▫️, 

> Song theme:

> Front triggers(pos/neg/neu):

+ Tommy, things that remind him of Tom, showers or swimming, Minecraft

/ Endermen, alliumduo fanart, Tom wanting him in front, source and sourcemates

- Tubbo’s flirting with him, people hurting or upsetting Tommy, source attached Dreams

> Likes/dislikes:

+ Tommy, spending time with Tommy, water, being a good partner, stars, the nighttime

- being ignored, being short, people threatening or scaring Tommy, being held to its “source” relationship

> Personality: Very gentle and soothing, with a soft voice. May carry a lot of similarities to Exile Ranboo (the one who wrote Tommy letters and sent him flowers after accidentally hurting him). Can be VERY protective of Tommy, frequently following him to places and just standing there menacingly to let people know not to mess with Tom. Loves children and animals, and loves taking care of them. 

> Ways they do their role: Is mostly a soother and romantic partner for Tommy, caring for him and spending time with him. It may like to help with whatever Tommy’s role is, making sure that it doesn’t put too much stress on him. Was intended as a romantic partner for Tommy, and takes that very seriously, split with all of the knowledge and information to be the best partner possible. 

> Inner world occupation or behavior: May live with Tommy, or may have a separate apartment for itself. Which may look very end like, decorated with black and purple and white. Vwoop may even live in the end in some way. Likes to be with Tommy for the most part, being alone makes it nervous and causes ender to hallucinate, so it prefers to be with Tommy. 

> Possible outerworld behavior: May prefer to front with or around Tommy, may front alone to set up little dates for purpurself and Tom. May prefer having height advantages so that voi can see all the things it used to be able to in source. That being said, loves showering and putting its hands in water since it couldn’t do that before and it loves having that ability now.

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Normalize not sharing your triggers freely in your pluralkit profiles.

Or just in general.

It gives would be assholes free access to your weaknesses and they WILL use it. Your triggers should only be shared with people you genuinely trust; I should not be able to figure out how to send you into a meltdown by reacting ❓️ to any of your proxied messages.

"But, but, Marquess, how will I store individual members triggers?"

Make a private server with just you and PK; lots of systems do it to set up PK stuff in peace. From there, you can make channels with notes.

Or use your notes app.

You should NOT be sharing your triggers online publically. That Shits Dangerous.

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Damn okay since this seems to suddenly be so damn controversial in the system space all of a sudden let’s be clear.

Autism and hyper fixations are not just “liking a character or media” so no when people say they split an alter from hyperfixation it’s not just because they like it.

Hyper-fixations can be stressful af, your head literally cannot focus on anything else and can spark denial that oh well I’m so focused on stuff I really really enjoy so I must just be dramatic about my symptoms.

That shit is stressful, autism is not always this bright bubbly disorder as those of you in this tag seem to be suggesting. It’s also a way of coping very often especially those in less than ideal situations and circumstances, and with all that stress rattling around in the brain.

Yes, yes you can split from hyper-fixations but ya’ll anti endos are so damn obsessed with being “the right system” that you don’t even seem to understand how your own disorder works.

Also for folk who think that people who make cute SP and PK profiles are “fakers” get an actual grip and learn to focus on your own system and disorder before dictating what others do.

Some of us enjoy having control of what little we can while struggling with these dissociative disorders, and other origin systems are allowed to just have colourful profiles.

But you’re all not ready for that conversation yet.

- a diagnosed polyfrag system

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Damn okay since this seems to suddenly be so damn controversial in the system space all of a sudden let’s be clear.

Autism and hyper fixations are not just “liking a character or media” so no when people say they split an alter from hyperfixation it’s not just because they like it.

Hyper-fixations can be stressful af, your head literally cannot focus on anything else and can spark denial that oh well I’m so focused on stuff I really really enjoy so I must just be dramatic about my symptoms.

That shit is stressful, autism is not always this bright bubbly disorder as those of you in this tag seem to be suggesting. It’s also a way of coping very often especially those in less than ideal situations and circumstances, and with all that stress rattling around in the brain.

Yes, yes you can split from hyper-fixations but ya’ll anti endos are so damn obsessed with being “the right system” that you don’t even seem to understand how your own disorder works.

Also for folk who think that people who make cute SP and PK profiles are “fakers” get an actual grip and learn to focus on your own system and disorder before dictating what others do.

Some of us enjoy having control of what little we can while struggling with these dissociative disorders, and other origin systems are allowed to just have colourful profiles.

But you’re all not ready for that conversation yet.

- a diagnosed polyfrag system

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being intersex feels so hopeless. there's a weird undertone to all support of intersex people that feels inherently conditional, that intersex people are only being valued so long as we're "useful" whether that's for sexual pleasure or pats on the back for being "so inclusive" or to win arguments online

when intersex people aren't fulfilling a "use" we're seen as disposeable and ignoreable. because the majority of our support is that conditional bullshit, whenever those conditions aren't met it's only intersex people who advocate for ourselves. then we're being whiny or transphobic or "too woke" or sensitive because what we're asking for is too much: support that isn't a transaction

i see this everywhere, really. i've seen perisex people say word-for-word that they only care that intersex people complain about TME/TMA terminology because it gives them a "valid reason to dislike temrs they just thought felt icky". i've seen perisex people say word-for-word that "hermaphrodite" is an intersexist slur who still say it uncensored over and over to show how much of a well-informed intersex ally they are

am i supposed to feel heard by that? am i supposed to think that these people genuinely care when they tell me all they want from me is something petty and meaningless? because i'm not an idiot

intersex people are left with scraps and expected not just to settle for it, but to get on our knees and praise the benevolent perisex people for being such good allies. the bar shouldn't be that low and it breaks my heart when other intersex people see that as adequate, we deserve better

i don't trust perisex people anymore. not a single one of you. i can't feel heard by perisex people because the single mention of intersex people puts me on edge nowadays. it feels like for every genuine attempt at including intersex people there's a mistake that wouldn't have happened if the bare minimum research was put in beforehand. there's always just enough wrong for it to be uncomfortable. perisex people have never given me an environment where i can speak up for myself without worrying that i'm just hysterical and annoying, not even in places where talking about any other part of my identity comes easily

you people have failed intersex people so badly that being killed in silence feels safer than begging for help. i want you to feel ashamed of yourselves

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COMPARING MINORITES AND SYSCOURSE IS GOOD, ACTUALLY

I see a lot of sentiments about how being endogenic (a system formed without trauma) isn't comparable to struggles other minorities face. Which lead to a lot of disagreement on this post:

At first glance, I'd disagree too. Racism that affects the livelyhood of Haiti immigrants isn't the same as Syscourse. Racism and neurodivergentcy is different. So obviously you SHOULDNT compare any form of oppression to Syscourse, right? There's a few issues with that:

1) Syscourse doesn't exist in a vacuum. Prejudice and bias play into every action and belief we have because the society that raises bigots is the same society that raises us as well. No discourse with around ~1k members ISN'T going to be influenced, otherwise there would be no discourse. Internet discourse IS important and reflect issues in communities (kink positive/censorship issues in proship discourse, ableism in Syscourse) it's just the cause is obsecure. Discourse is about values and principles.

2) OP was comparing the tatic used.

What op is describing is called FEARMONGERING. It's a tatic used by people to persuade you to their side by invoking fear regardless of the evidence (like op said). Anyone can fearmonger for any reason, but one of the most common examples is fearmongering against minorities to persuade you into thinking a group of people are a threat.

Comparison is necessary to finding out what discourse and whatever conflict you're involved in is REALLY about. For example, a physically disabled person talked about her experiences with fakeclaiming and how those have harmed her. The fakeclaimers believed that *they* knew more about herself than she did and were entitled to dictate what resources she could or couldn't use. While endogenics aren't disabled, it's still ableist to fakeclaim one due to the principle of fake claiming.

It didn't take long to find the anti Endo reblog or the reddit post.

Anyways I'm hungry so I'ma go now. Remember, comparison is good, find the core principle of an argument, nothing is free of bias and prejudice, don't harass anyone cuz that's icky (seriously, don't), Sysblr has an ableism problem, watch out for fearmongering, and learn to identify pathos, ethos, and logos. Okay bye bye.

Edit: in the comments, impunkster-syndrome made a good point about how compairisons can be used to excuse one's own bigotry by comparing it to racism. Keep in mind to show the same wariness you would with arguments and claims.

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