#attraction to plurality

[radiomogai]

Pack / Communal Attraction Orientations

These are all orientations for pack/communal attraction. There aren't currently flags due to our fatigue, but we plan to get to them when we have the spoons; if you'd like to make a flag for it, feel free, but please let us know!

Homopack / Homocommunal: an orientation in which you experience pack / communal attraction to the same and/or similar genders

Heteropack / Heterocommunal: an orientation in which you experience pack / communal attraction to the opposite and/or dissimilar genders

Bipack / Bicommunal: an orientation in which you experience pack / communal attraction to two or more genders

Panpack / Pancommunal: an orientation in which you experience pack / communal attraction to all genders

Polypack / Polycommunal: an orientation in which you experience pack / communal attraction to multiple but not all genders

Omnipack / Omnicommunal: an orientation in which you experience pack / communal attraction to all genders with gender playing a role in attraction

Apack / Acommunal: an orientation in which you experience little to no pack / communal attraction

Apackspec / Acommuspec: the apack / acommunal spectrum

Autopack / Autocommunal: an orientation in which you experience pack / communal attraction to yourself, exclusively or not

Intrapack / Intracommunal: an orientation in which you only experience pack / communal attraction to people in your system

Abropack / Abrocommunal: a fluid pack / communal orientation

Fictopack / Fictocommunal: an orientation in which you experience pack / communal attraction to fiction, exclusively or not

@revenant-coining @chaoscoining (due to making the flag!)

[nichelink]

nichelink: a newly coined niche relationship/relationship dynamic that differs from social norms, but is consensual and aware of potential risks.

differ from the norm: this is flexible and vague on purpose. see the ‘examples’ section.

probably niche: niche, probably not many people will identify as this, it’s just now been invented and posted on tumblr dot com, but it’s still a valid want and identity label.

aware of potential risks: this is inspired by the kink phrase Risk-aware consensual kink or risk-accepted consensual kink (RACK), and it means that everyone in the relationship is silently nodding and acknowledging there might be risks. you don’t have to prove yourself to others on this, don’t feel expected to tell everyone your personal business on how you’re managing this risk, because it’s not their relationship…

consensual: this is inspired by the kink phrase Consensual non-consent. basically it means that everyone in the relationship agreed to have the relationship play out a certain way, and the relationship may play out (maybe in a sort of roleplay-like fashion) like it’s non consensual, but everyone in the relationship is both expecting this to happen and still has the ultimate say on if things need to 100% stop or if it’s time for them to leave the relationship.

newly coined: i want to make it clear that existing relationship dynamics shouldn’t be shoved into this label because that feels disrespectful to those existing words, so essentially this means that existing words for it didn’t 100% describe this dynamic, so you can’t just say xyz thing is actually this term. (however, if you find one of these describes something you've already been doing for years, it's perfectly fine to start identifying with this of course.)

examples:

relationship where one person is treated as if they are an object owned by the other/s in the relationship

relationship where one person is treated as if they are a deity, and the other/s in the relationship are their followers

relationship where one person is treated as if they are a pet owned by the other/s in the relationship

relationship where one person is treated as if they are a child adopted by the other/s in the relationship

relationship where one person is transforming the other/s in the relationship into something

labels under this umbrella have a Ratings System.

All-Ages: a label that is suitable for all ages.

16+: a label that would be best if it was only used by people 16 years or older (bodily). this doesn’t mean that it’s NSFW or something, but should be used when the term has something pretty intense or serious about it which probably shouldn’t be practiced with younger people. all terms under this umbrella that involve identity modification or training are inherently 16+.

18+: a label that is inherently not suitable for people under 18 years (bodily).

grammar:

nichelinking: the state of being in this kind of relationship with someone else. “we’re nichelinking,” “we might start nichelinking”

nichelink: 1) the specific terms themself. “i coined a nichelink,” “definition: an all-ages nichelink where you…” 2) the relationship itself. “our nichelink,” “his last nichelink”

nichelinker: someone who participates in nichelinking.

there is currently no word for having a nichelink-related crush on someone, suggestions welcome.

inspirations

neurowiry

relationship anarchy

roleplay

found family tropes

desirdae

dissomei

my own personal experience of becoming someone’s “dad” - i made a friend in high school who i came out as transgender too, and then as a joke based on how people in the undertale fandom called toriel “mom,” we began referring to me as my friend’s “dad.” this joke stuck and then started genuinely being a serious part of our friendship. reflecting on this made me realize that there’s actually lots of relationships in life that’re similar, where you refer to each other as something unusual and it feels like it changes the entire status of your friendship. i liked the idea of making a word someone can use for this kind of friendship/relationship if they wanted.

i did a lot of writing about what this term means and can be used for and it ended up being long so you can read it on this page. (updated 1/10) here are some of the faq questions (but not all, so please read that page):

is this a k*nk thing?

no, it’s not intended to be. there are plenty of nichelink terms usable by anyone at any age. however if you’re an adult and you find a term appealing and start to use it because of k*nk things, more power to you, go right ahead.

is this anti r*dqueer?

i don’t find it makes sense to say that something that isn’t a stance term/blankqueer term is anti this or pro that. but this term was inspired by r*dqueer “consensual abuse” relationships, and i did start working on this because i saw that there were a lot of people who craved a specific relationship dynamic or way of being treated who felt like they couldn’t get that outside of the r*dqueer community, so i wanted to make a risk-aware and safer alternative that is not attached to a harmful community known for abuse, transphobia, racism, etc.

if you crave being treated a certain way, yes even in a “harmed” way, this term is welcome to you.

can i coin my own?

not yet. i’m still working out the kinks (🥁✨) on definitions and guidelines. i also have a big list of terms i’d like to coin for it. you can send me a request at least.

can i post this term on…

wiki/term definition sites: yes, and you don't have to ask, but i would like to be informed.

pinterest/other social medias: no, never, i'm not comfortable with someone else posting my term for me.

tags: @antiradqueerguy | @radiomogai | @the-silent-fellowship | @harmlesspersonalidentityarchive | @beyond-mogai-pride-flags | @desirdae-archive | @dissodic-archive | @kiruliom | @anti-rq-gumi | @antiradqueerguy | @neopronouns // ask to be untagged

general flag for all All-Ages nichelinks:

general flag for all 16+ rated nichelinks:

[pro-cats-coining]

☆ Sparkarawramor ☆

☆ a term for: ☆

★ an attraction or love thats cringe (/pos) in nature, possibly relating to bright colours, eye imagery, sparkledogs, kandi or the scene/rave aesthetics

★ attraction to the cringe/weird kids, the more cringe someone is, the more attracted you are to them

★ fictoromantic attraction to mary sues and/or sparkledogs

--- made for @cocajimmycola s 1000 follower event, day 3, prompt: cringe + love ---

○ flag based off common sparkledog designs- yes the eye was drawn crudely on purpose

○ this term is loosely based off my own experiences

○ name: sparkledog + rawr + amor

[sanicsmut]

we need to acknowledge more plural people's complicated relationship with gender and attraction

[radiomogai]

[ID: Two flags with seven equal horizontal stripes. In order, the stripes of the first flag are pink, light pink, light red, pale yellow, yellow-green, light pink, and pink. The stripes of the second flag are orange, pale orange, dark muted pink, off-white, muted blue, light purple, and purple. /End ID.]

ID by @jackettranscribes

Partner System Terms

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Squish System

Platonic Partner System

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Plush System

Queerplatonic Partner Systems

[myths-of-creation-coining]

Soul Attraction

Soul Attraction is a form of Spiritual attraction where one is attracted to a person's soul as a result of being soulmates or the belief that one is tied to the subject of attraction through fate.

Flag colors meaning: Dark pink for feminine attraction, Dark blue for masculine attraction, white for neutral/non-gender specific attraction, and a red looped string/ribbon in the center representing the red string of fate.

-Angel

[ashenhopebby]

Today’s mood : I want a partner or a QPR

[chronicallyleggless]

‘This ___ desires a QPR’ (Full pack)

[the-silent-fellowship]

Orientation Holder

[PT: Orientation Holder]

Orientation Holder, also called Attraction Holder, is a alter in a system whos job is to hold/hoards Orientation terms. This can be mixed with other roles that may correlate with the terms they'd use. Subterms are welcomed. (This includes: Sexualities, Romanticisms, Tertiary Attractions, etc.)

Hoarder Holder Subterm(link)

[ID: in Alt text]

[Tags] @system-term-archive, @pluralitywords, @pluralterms, @radiomogai, @plurchive

[antiendovents]

aaa, so many terms along the lines of being non human or feeling non human are made by pro endos and I feel so uncomfortable

I know some anti endos coin terms, but for me when the original term was coined by a pro endo I cannot separate it from that

[syscest]

so I'm - we? - are new to being plural and. We were all kind of a little nervous about crossing boundaries inadvertently and where consent lied and. A few days ago after reading your blog, the others encouraged me to jerk off while they watched and teased me and now we're all just really casual about that sorta stuff; it really helped us get over that fear we had. I just wanted to say "thank you" for inspiring us to take that leap of faith

😭😭😭😭 aaaaaaaaaa

*ahem* it's so easy to get scared honestly. we were too scared to have opinions about eachother (including attraction) for two whole years. we thought we need to have direct communication first (applying silly singlet standards to ourselves) but it turns out as a system we just don't have that.

anyway, resting our head on our palms and grinning wildly rn

[chiroluna]

PAM Lesbian

a PAM term for when one is a lesbian in the innerworld, but something else while fronting.

Tag List: @radiomogai , @pluralterms , @system-term-archive , @plurchive

[rott3nmutt]

dear syskids who infiltrate agere spaces...

hii !! how r uu ?? welcomee :33 I hope ur having fun !!! stay a while ! it's pretty cool here hehe !!

!! endos dni !! u will be blocked !!

[tselcoinsthings]

✩Subnautican Attraction✩

A Tertiary Or Alterous Attraction Label For When One's Attraction Is Best Described By The Game Subnautica By Unknown Worlds. Subanutica And Ones Attraction Are Intertwined.

✦ Coined 11/24/2024 ✦ Sunday, November 24th, 2024

✦ Program Used - Microsoft Paint

✦ Colors Based Off Of This Palette

✦ Divider Credits - @/archonfurina

✦ Flag And Term By Us

✦ Flag Base From @/rabidbatboy's Lyricen Attraction Flag

[moderndaycassandra]

Women are hot Men are hot Trans women are hot Trans men are hot Bigenders are hot Agenders are hot Enbies are hot Gender-fluids are hot Plurals are hot GNCs are hot Any identity I haven't mentioned is hot You are hot

Unless that makes you uncomfortable, in which case you are adorable.

[redacted-coiner]

Plural-Wrap

[PT: Plural-Wrap]

A Objecrwrap(link) term for those who perceive their object partner/s as Plural.

[ID: none yet]

[ID: none yet]

[Tag] @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @object-concept-archive

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