#attraction to other genders
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[PT: Master x Servant: a flag for masters/servants who have, prefer, emphasize or prioritize relationships with servants/masters.
Minors do not Interact // 18+ Only. end PT]
Master x Servant: a flag for masters/servants who have, prefer, emphasize or prioritize relationships with servants/masters.
Minors do not Interact // 18+ Only
#orientations#master x servant#theme: dynamics#needs ID#attraction to d-types#attraction to s-types#reference book#attraction to dissimilarity#theme: M-S#theme: kink
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today i realized i could draw anything i want, so.
i drew myself a girlfriend
#cow is poly like me so i can draw infinite partners for it and i don't know why i havent capitlized on that yet#also not technically today i posted this like two days ago to my alt twtt but its sfw so i can post it here too#my art#sketch#oc: cow#furry#anthro#fursona#furry fandom#clean furry#oc#the original idea was a butch bull w a weird gender but then i realized i was attracted to her so. mine now#living out that one post thats like#a gay dude and a lesbian who are BEST friends and also dating the same person but not#each other because they are a gay dude and a lesbian but their mutual partner has a weird enough gender for it to work#its me i'm the mutual partner with a weird enough gender#aweaaeeaA#no name for the bull yet btw but i might just call her bull to match w cow lol
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Two ends of the gender envy spectrum
Twink
and whatever the fuck this is
#david tennant#michael sheen#campbell bain#miles maitland#thorne jamison#peter vincent#takin over the asylum#bright young things#laws of attraction#fright night#both of them make me scream “gender”#but both are very different genders#one is like “I wanna be pretty”#and the other is like “I wanna be pretty but in the bitch way”#either way I wanna be both at the same time
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Just in general I think trying to look to pre-late modern period history for validation of LGBT+ identities is an absolutely useless venture. Every single underlying human experience defined through the lens and framework of LGBT identity has always existed, but it's impossible to pin down Exactly who and what a figure might have been if they existed in this contemporary context and decided to self identify via these labels.
It's also a wildly reductive lens that flattens the complexity and variety of how sex and gender has been constructed across time in different cultures, how sexual norms have varied, etc. This is not a constructive approach to learn about history and you're never going to be able to fit historical figures neatly into little identity categories.
#I think people really really really need to get it through their heads that LGBT+ identities exist largely as an interaction with#mostly western gender norms and VERY specifically in our contemporary context and these labels do not objectively describe#innate underlying qualities neatly applicable to and distinctly separated in all contexts#Like there have always been men attracted to/who have sex with the people defined as men in their culture but that description#is not Always going to neatly match up to how you conceptualize 'being gay'#Or like. WRT the 'I will sodomize and facefuck you' poem. I saw people just absolutely WILDLY missing the point of it#at its face value of a man describing engaging in sex acts with other men and it's like. the message here is 'you are accusing me#of effeminacy and I am rhetorically threatening to exert my masculine dominance over you via penetrative rape to show you#who the real effeminate man is'. Like most people clearly at least got the message that it's intended to be insulting but like#it's not just that. It is straight up Normative Roman Masculinity (albeit notably aggro) and is not implying actual interest in sex#with men in a recognizably 'gay' sense#See also most arguments over 'was this '''woman who disguised herself as a man''' a trans man/lesbian/cishet woman escaping misogyny'#like YOU WILL NEVER FUCKING KNOW. JUST REFER TO THIS PERSON HOW THEY WANTED TO BE REFERRED TO AND STOP ARGUING#I think there's a very understandable drive to look to history to say 'see? we've always been here' but the mistake is trying to do that#for SPECIFIC identities defined in HIGHLY SPECIFIC AND CLEARLY SEPARATED ways.#Rather than as proof that yeah the western cis/heteronormative conceptualization of what sexuality/gender is and should be has#never been right and people who diverge from this (and from other cultural gender/sexual norms) have always existed
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I've been loving ur mombin comics, but where is the other mom? what trans hottie is not paying her child support out here? (this is said with a lot of love and affection, im very curious abt how she got into that situation, if you have thoughts abt it <3)
ajsjhsdfh i wasn't going to answer this because it's explained in the next comic but kudos to you for being the only person to say 'who's the other mom' instead of 'WHO'S THE DAD'
also the way this is worded made me laugh for like 5 minutes thank you so much xx
#ramble#mombin™#anon i love you we are holding hands together right now#the amount of comments that were like 'who's the DAD' and not 'who's the other parent/donor'#sometimes!! there isn't a dad!!!!#i have a really bad feeling that this comic is going to reveal some people's very nasty opinions about trans women#'but robin is a lesbian she wouldn't get pregnant by a trans woman' so you admit that you think gender+attraction is defined by genitals#this wasn't meant to be a vent i'm so sorry#but to answer your question yes there is a trans girl somewhere out there who was on like a weekend trip or something and has NO idea
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if the target audience of house was middle-aged cishet dudebros then why are all the promo shots of him so sexually compelling to me personally. like what feelings are these meant to evoke other than “I need to fuck that old man or so help me god”
#I’m a little tipsy rn and I think I hauv covid…#that pic of him in the vicodin bath is making me feel the same way I assume playboy mag enjoyers feel#I need that printed out above my bed#like. WHY ARE YOU LOOKING AT ME LIKE THAT!!! [jerks off and dies]#house md#greg house#gregory house#hatecrimes md#hugh laurie#the only other fictional male character I have been this viscerally attracted to (as opposed to just gender envious/admiration)#is nbc hannibal lecter#that’s two evil gay doctors. is that my niche kink or something.#I need to see a psychiatrist#or not. considering that I might nut
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honestly, i think one of the reasons i can tolerate julian’s early seasons' behaviour towards jadzia is the way he approaches miles in an almost identical way, being annoyingly persistent, desperate for any chance to spend time alone with them, incredibly uncomfortable moments of trying to get miles to use his first name, etc. etc.
and whether I read that as julian having a similar puppy crush on miles as he does on jadzia or interpret it as a platonic desperation to make friends, either way, it at least tells me that for all julians faults (and boy are there plenty to go around—) he at least… isn’t Like That towards jadzia because she’s a woman, y’know? he’s just Like That with everyone because he’s overenthusiastic and lacking in social graces.
like, his behaviour towards jadzia is super uncomfortable and all, but the fact that he then turns around and acts the exact same way to his middle aged male coworker just… it adds something in context that shifts it from “wow julian is really creepy with women” to “wow julian is an idiot with people” for me.
i mean he is still pretty creepy with women a lot of the time and has obvious issues with toxic masculinity but at least his horrendous ‘wear them down until they say yes’ approach is apparently just the only way he seems to have of getting to know people and making friends.
#star trek#star trek ds9#julian bashir#stella talks#.also something about how sisko is like ‘well i knew dax when he was an old man’.#.and julian is just like ‘… yes? does that not make her more attractive to you? why not???’#.like other characters consistently are like ‘geez knowing dax when she was a he must be so uncomfortable for you sisko’.#.and then julian is just absolutely confused as to why that would possibly be an issue for anyone ever.#.<- we should talk about how people react to dax and gender whenever someone tries to pull the bigotry free utopia line.#.because clearly transmisogyny is alive and well in the federation even if it’s much more understated now.#.anyway i was playing an old farming/romance game on the 3ds and there’s this one guy in it.#.and i hated him when i played as a girl because he’s always talking about how pretty you are and calling you darling.#.even if you’ve like… just met him. and i was just immediately like ugh nope stay away from me.#.and then i played as a guy. and he… does the… exact same thing…#.and suddenly i… didn’t hate him anymore because oh. that’s just how he talks to people. oh my god.#.i mean that character is also definitely bisexual as well but.#.like i thought he was a misogynistic flirt but. nope. he covers for akwardness in social situations by talking that way.#.and once i had the context of it being a completely gender neutral behaviour with no ulterior motives attached. well.#.it made me recontextualise everything about the character and i realised i actually really liked him.#.and yeah realising that julian just doesn’t know how to make friends except via brute force does make me view him differently.
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Eddie pulls Robin aside after noticing how she's interacting with Nance and how she keeps reassuring that shes Not Dating Steve and asks her if shes "a friend of dorothy"
#robin is so fucking confused until she remembers an article she read in a lesbian zine once and just gets so fucking giddy and nods#gay/lesbian solidarity- theyre so fucking excited to have found each other#forever upset that we didnt get more canon eddie + robin interactions- i know theyre just so fucking happy and excited to know someone like#+ Them! specifically someone who knows theyll never be attracted to the opposite gender and have already given up on pretending#cause yeah- basically everyone around them is inches away from a bi awakening- but they've both known for so long that theyll never be +#+ “normal” and have kinda given up on being “normal”....... also theyre both autistics who cannot mask for the life of them- lol#aNY WAYS.#🪲#stranger things#stranger things 4#stranger things eddie munson#stranger things hcs#stranger things netflix#stranger things s4#stranger things fandom#stranger things season 4#stranger things season four#eddie munson#eddie stranger things#eddie the banished#eddie the freak munson#robin buckley#ronance#mentioned but ya know#eddie munson and robin buckley#robin buckley and eddie munson#platonic ship
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(what gender do you prefer for a whumpee, not just generally in whump)
i know that this is simplified and doesn't include all possible combinations of preference and attraction, you can't explore a lot of nuance in this format but this is probably the most complex i can get within the poll options, feel free to pick other/nuance and elaborate in the tags or discuss in comments/reblogs!
e.g if you prefer female characters in whump and arent attracted to anyone (not women or anyone else) or multiple genders excluding women, pick the 4th option if you prefer female characters and are attracted to multiple genders including women, pick the 3rd
(of course male/female characters also include trans characters)
#whump#whump poll#whump community#poll#like yeah there can be so much nuance to this - some people whump characters theyre attracted to#some find their faves attractive but arent attracted to them#and with the split attraction model theres even more complexity#and with all the fluidity and spectrum of attraction#but im still interested to see where this simplified version will go and what people think#it would also be interesting to split the options up even more like - prefer male characters & attracted to men + other genders or only men#or split up the no preference/multiple preference#but yeah this is in good faith im just curious to see what people think#there is No wrong answer except being rude about other peoples preferences#this is the torture fandom after all
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I will never clown on Gay Astarion enjoyers for hating him being paired with women, because seeing Minthara shipped with men fills me with the same feeling of puzzlement.
#baldurs gate 3#baldur's gate#baldur's gate 3#bg3#baldurs gate#baldur's gate iii#baldurs gate iii#larian studios#larian#minthara baenre#minthara#astarion ancunin#astarion#like as a bisexual I respect that they're not exclusively attracted to one gender#but there's just this initial rejection of anything other than homosexuality#you know?
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I gotta say, I do love a guy who prioritizes survival over anything else. Who absolutely will just leave if the current situation isn’t great. Whose morals get thrown out the window the second they’re in real danger. I love that shit, keep it up losers 👍👍👍 I’m kissing all cowards on the lips rn
#Nothing more attractive than a guy who is terrified!!!#this is all gender neutral by the way I love all cowards#SHOUTOUT TO PEOPLE WITH WEAK MORALS 💞💞#astronomically random#oh this was inspired by chilchuck but also applies to Grian and several other characters#oh btw! Being cowardly is different from being a scared anxious mess (e.g. Luigi or Mumbo)#THOSE fellas are terrified but they’ll probably stay#(out of the anxiety that people would judge them if they leave. Or yk morals or whatever idk)#But 💞COWARDS💞 are tough until they know they won’t win and then they book it#shoutout 💞#Astro liveblogs
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Patalliro! is fascinating to me because of stuff like this. It's unapologetically gay - even within its anime which aired during primetime hours in 1982 - in a way that many later BL manga would never be, like the ones from the early 2000s which would never dare to call their characters actual homosexuals. Patalliro has actually aged quite well in this regard, there's something comforting about how campy it is.
#i still dont really understand how they got away with this kind of thing honestly#female VAs i get that - but first m/m kiss in an anime in episode THREE?????#theres also the maraich/thomas episode where they are *Both* voiced by women....advanced yuri#patalliro#i love how bancorans gender expression is pretty much explicitly to attract only bishounen#you blushed - so you must not be a girl#etc#i also love how joyful it all is#theres never anything sad or tragic about being gay - only that bancoran is forced to kill the bishounen spies/assassins/etc#when bancoran finds out that gay sex feels good after demian; in the manga he is elated. its basically a positive thing#he awakens to his true power...lol#also notable is that while bishounen youth is glorified maraich is 18#this means it portrays being gay as an adult as normal; not a phase relegated to nostalgic adolescent periods of time#according to the NYT japan's psychiatric body called homosexuality a mental illness until 1995#im NOT going to say patalliro changed that or anything lmao but its just significant to me that banmara get to live their lives happily#even raise children together in the manga....???#especially contrasting that with kaze to ki no uta and other manga of the time (no shade intended)#yaoi#<- for tagging purposes#obviously it also got away with a lot by being a gag manga. but still!#months later edit: want to say im not intending to moralize BL manga from the 2000s either. like gen. no hate on them.#as a gay person i just appreciate when characters who act gay are considered gay textually#and its kind of disheartening how gay-as-identity was treated as something incredulous in those manga a lot of the time#even the mere suggestion of attraction to men as a whole and not just the other male lead...yknow#this post is meant to praise patalliro for being unique in its approach to gay content compared to other titles#ive enjoyed plenty of 2000s yaoi titles despite their shortcomings lol#joseiposting#shoujo
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Stay out of the gay tag woman
I. Am gay? Posting gay content? And tagging the gay content made by a gay woman, "gay?"
...real question: do you think the term Gay is just for men?
#ask#anon#gay#gay gay gay#gay ladies who like other ladies and are gay#what a fine day to be gay because I'm a person who is attracted to the same gender as me and that's (the most widespread) definition of gay
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Man, genuinely there's little that excites me more than encountering queerness in fiction where I wasn't expecting it. I'm gonna be thinking about Kikuhiko/Yakumo from SGRS for so long.
Even setting aside the subtext of his feelings for Sukeroku, the narrative around his relationship to gender norms and his own expression is so fascinating. Guy who grows up steeped in rigid 40s gender roles and actively tries to enforce them, yet only truly feels like himself when he's acting on stage as a woman. Guy who says his life would have been better if he were born a woman and then refuses to elaborate.
#I don't know what kind of queer he is but MAN he's certainly something#gay or bi or trans or ace or whatever combination of the above#I was so ??? when he said the 'if only I were born a woman' line in chapter 3. and then we just kept going#Kiku ily so much#wish you had been born in a world where you were allowed to be bitchy in a girl way instead of just a misogynist way#and of course you can't really separate his feelings for Shin from his gender situation bc like#being a man attracted to other men (even if you never acknowledge it) can shape your own relationship to gender expression#man kiku is so good#this series was a treat#shouwa genroku rakugo shinjuu#sgrs#descending stories#kikuhiko#yurakutei yakumo
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Xie Lian is so for real with that "I can't get erect" line, because if I, too, were assumed I had a penis, the 1st thing I'd say to get out of a sexual encounter would be that. But what am I gonna say? "Sorry, my strap broke yesterday, too bad so sad?" "I'm demisexual and not into you like that?" "I'm a bottom and YOU are expecting me to top." Sadly, no excuse is as respected as a person with a penis' inability to get it up. It sucks that as someone most people perceive as a woman my reasons are 'flimsy excuses' and 'I should get over it'. I wish I could have a penis for the sole purpose of telling people I can't use it.
#tgcf#xie lian#gender thoughts#rant post#I like being hot but I draw the line at other people finding me attractive#demisexuality#acespec
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