#pro good faith labels

[jeweledviolets]

please interact or credit if using!

[lifea16]

hmm wait i think femme-leaning bi aego/cupiosexual. that works right? cuz while i do only feel a little sexual attraction (for real people anyways) its for both genders tho leaning towards girls >:33 (im not even asking if its a thing anymore. see? progress!! /lh but also /gen)

Yea! It works!

Reminder that labels are whatever you want and all good faith labels are valid! <2

[1tz-4ll-m3]

Supporting Lesboys means supporting:

1. Multigender Lesbian people using "Les" for their "Fem side" and "Boy" for their "Masc side"

2. GNC Women who like to be called "boy" for gender nonconformity

3. Trans Women and Transfems reclaiming being called a "boy"

4. Transmasc Lesbians reclaiming being called a "boy"

5. Trans Men who don't feel misgendered by the term "Lesbian" and/or feels like their attraction to women is still queer

6. He/Him lesbians reclaiming being called a "boy"

Support all of them, or support none of them.

[tgirlmouse]

i don't feel nearly as ashamed or hesitant to talk about my queer tgirl attraction to men as my tguy brothers would feel talking about their attraction to women

obligatory "if you're a trans guy and your attraction to women is het, that's real and okay! your trans experience isn't a monolith and other trans people being different doesn't make you different or wrong"

like, think about it: hardly anyone bats an eye when a tgirl uses grindr or calls herself a faggot, but as soon as a man calls himself a lesbian, everyone gets on his ass. anything for an excuse to shit on lesbians, i guess. it makes me angry that nobody sees this hypocrisy or these ties back to the lesbian separatism that infected the community post-70s. it's not gone, it never went away

this isn't exactly profound news to anyone who gives a shit about lesbian history. just something i find interesting

[dr-049]

”be who you are!” Mfs when they see someone being who they are:

[takethebunny-andrun]

Here's your sign to let your identity flow peacefully outside the box. Your personality is just a concept so it makes sense that your identity doesn't completely fit any man made constructs, and that's OK!! You don't have to use labels, or you can use them all!! You can use a label just because it feels just a little like you. You can use labels even if they contradict each other. You can let your identity pour out any social standard, and just exist, exist as it is fully and freely. We are all such complex creatures, living life as it is. As long as you aren't causing harm, just let yourself be YOURSELF!!

[sirenium]

If you exclude endogenic systems from your inclusion, you're not an inclusionist. If you exclude lesboys and turigirls from your inclusion, you aren't an inclusionist. If you exclude mspec lesbians and gays from your inclusion, you are not an inclusionist. If your inclusion is conditional towards identities you don't personally understand, maybe get your shit together before calling yourself an inclusionist.

[gur0hana]

Can anyone tell me why lesboys/turigirls/gaybians are so hated in the queer community when the entire point of this community is to be yourselves and destroy gender norms?

Aren’t we supposed to be supporting every form of queerness, even weird and confusing forms, and continuing to break down those societal pressures around sexuality?

Everyone preaches inclusivity, freedom, and equality, and tells you to be queer and proud! Until you’re too queer. Until your queerness can’t just be boiled down to “boy who likes girls” or “nonbinary who likes girls”. Sometimes gender and sexuality are twisted up and combined together, sometimes they’re complicated. Sometimes gender isn’t one feeling, but a bunch of tiny feelings. Sometimes gender is several things at once.

So why is all of that so easy to accept… until it comes to lesboys/turigirls/gaybians? Why is it so hard to understand that I’m both a boy and a girl who is gay for men and lesbian for women? Using the terms I use gives me euphoria. And why is it okay to take my euphoria from me when you just don’t want to understand my identity?

The same arguments I see thrown around attacking lesboys have been used against neopronouns and xenogenders. But now xeno/neo users are LITERALLY using those arguments against other identities. How does that make sense??

[horrorcrew-diary]

I love you systems with lesboys

I love you systems with turigirls

I love you systems with mspec monos

I love you systems with straight gays

I love you afab transfem systems

I love you amab transmasc systems

I love you transfemmasc systems

I love you cistrans systems

I love any other system or alter with a "contradictory" queer label.

Having a CDD fragments your sense of self in a unique way, and if "contradictory" labels make you feel more comfortable in your sense of an already flaky self, I support you.

[squidfreak]

"Notice how we always see things about lesboys but never gaygirls? men are always trying to invade lesbian spaces..."

One, we don't tell you guys about turigirls/gaygirls because you'll also flip your shit over them just like you do with lesboys. Two, what the hell are you talking about??? And three, you're harassing lesbians and invading their spaces?!?!?!?!??! Even then, no one cares what turigirls/gaygirls are because people are too focused on trying to control lesbians.... 🫠

[pupiipawzz]

“dni anti xenogenders/neopronouns!!” “dni good faith labels!!” i’m gonna hold your hand when i tell you this..

[paintology-the-alien]

chat, i love lesboys!

[cat-doggy]

I think a, not really new, but still new pet peeve of mine is when ppl say stuff like "mspec monos aren't valid", "lesboys/turigirls/gaybians aren't valid", etc, but then proceed to say stuff like- "You can just say you're (mspec)sexual (mono)romantic or (mspec)romantic (mono)sexual!", "But nonbinary lesbians are valid!", etc. Like- you know that is one of the reasons why someone uses the mspec mono label, right? And that not every nonbinary person is afab and that multigender people exist, right?

It annoys the hell out of me- and my system members too

- Fry/Chat

[1tz-4ll-m3]

Supporting Turigirls means supporting:

1. Multigender Gay people using "Turi" for their “Masc side" and "Girl" for their

"Fem side"

2. GNC men who like to be called "girl" for gender nonconformity

3. Trans Men and Transmascs reclaiming being called a "girl"

4. Transfem Gays reclaiming being called a "girl"

5. Trans Women who don't feel misgendered by the term "Gay" and/or feels like their attraction to men is still queer

6. She/Her gays reclaiming being called a "girl"

Support all of them, or support none of them.

[curekirin]

— ZOMBLANDMINE / LANDMINE ZOMBIE

A gender related to being a landmine/jirai-onna and being a zombie, being a jirai kei zombie, being a zombie who is also a landmine/jirai-onna, etc.

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[contradictory-label-culture-is]

Contradictory Label Cultute is being blocked by queer people for being "too queer" sighh

I am actually scared to like or follow people cause I'm a lesboy (not on Tumblr tho, obviously.. TikTok 😔)