#pro gaygirl

[squidfreak]

"Notice how we always see things about lesboys but never gaygirls? men are always trying to invade lesbian spaces..."

One, we don't tell you guys about turigirls/gaygirls because you'll also flip your shit over them just like you do with lesboys. Two, what the hell are you talking about??? And three, you're harassing lesbians and invading their spaces?!?!?!?!??! Even then, no one cares what turigirls/gaygirls are because people are too focused on trying to control lesbians.... 🫠

[sugutism]

ᛝ 𓂃 intersex gaygirl

for gaygirls who are also intersex 𓂃ᛝ

basic dni criteria. credit when using. req by @heavens-roses

posted by 🤍 mod

[genderstarbucks]

Adjusted Gaylm Man | Lesbian Man

Alt Lesbian Woman | Gaylm Woman

[astropocketme]

Lesbian Aries pros and cons

Pros:

Fearless Trailblazers: You're the superhero of the zodiac, fighting for justice and equality. ✊🌈

Passionate Lovers: You're a love volcano, leaving a trail of heart-shaped ashes. ❤️🔥

Independent Badasses: You're the knight, the armor, and the horse too! You don't need anyone to save you. 👊🦄

Cons:

Impatient Impulses: Patience might not be your strongest suit. Who has time for waiting when there's a world to conquer? 😡⏰

Competitive Spirit: Remember, not everything is a race. Life is not a game show. 🏆🔥

Restless Wanderers: Find ways to keep yourself engaged and avoid getting stuck in a monotonous routine. 🌪️🚶‍♀️

Short Fuse Syndrome: Find healthy outlets for your anger. Remember, not every disagreement needs to end in a fiery explosion. 💣😤

Blunt Force Honesty: Consider the impact of your words and practice a little tact when delivering truth bombs. 🗣️🔨

Love horoscope? More like a load of bull, but you slay the day anyway! 💪🌟

Based on the original article: Lesbian Aries pros and cons

[frostytundra01]

So I've known for a while that my identity is a sort of complicated mess. Like my sexuality is simple, I'm gay, I like men and all of that but my gender is a complex mess. It's filled with tens of fluid pronouns, quite a few static genders and a core of both xenogenders and just- male. But I've grown pretty confident in that and over time going from a snobby kid in truscum circles to this queer mess I've sort of mellowed out and stopped giving a fuck about what people identify as.

But being like this you sort of have to be aware of exclusionists and the mess that entails. Honestly though for stuff like neopronouns and gender that train has already started to die down. Like sure, there are a lot of assholes getting pissy about it but most of the people I know are fine with that stuff and aren't going to bat an eye. Like sure, trans stuff is still a nightmare and I'm not going to pretend it's not, or that it's not getting worse, especially for trans women but in the trans community itself and among a good amount of other queer people neopronouns and fringe identities are growing to be less of an issue. I can introduce myself to people with my full set of pronouns and have my list in a full pronoun page and I generally don't get harassed because people as a whole are getting better about this stuff.

Because of this and because of being more aware of this than other people I tend to pick up on other things that exclusionists do target. Mainly anyone using the 'wrong' sexuality label. While for most people new labels and new niche identities are fine, when someone has a complicated gender alignment it gets tricky when they identify as gay or lesbian. Though admittedly it usually turns up with lesbian more than often because just like with the truscum movement it tends to be us trans men cannibalizing the most.

Now for someone who's uninformed I get why this all may seem ridiculous. With such confirmed definitions how can a man be a lesbian or a woman be gay (in a non all encompassing term)? But I think a lot of people miss how important these communities can be for trans people. While I know for a lot of people this also has to do with how gender collides with sexuality and you can't discount that just because you want to be an asshole but even without that why are you trying to take people from this groups that are way safer for trans people than straight ones? When we're all facing such hard times I don't get how people ignore how devastating it can be to be driven away from these communities. Many trans men who like women or trans women that like men started in these communities and a lot of them hold on to that attachment. It's cruel to take that away just because you think those labels don't fit that person.

I think some of the same can be said for m-spec lesbian/gay people. Looking beyond the fact that sexuality is a spectrum people can fall in and out of and the fact that historical presidents exist these communities have a lot of overlap. Sure unlike with trans people they might not have fit into these communities at the start and it's not the exact same situation but these communities are still important spaces for a lot of people. When someone needs to fit in other spaces with people that have a queer attraction to men or a queer attraction to women I know these terms can be useful and while I can't say I know everything about them I still respect the hell out of them.

Beyond all of this I think the rigid separation and enforcement of labels can hurt the community more than ever help. At the end of the day we're all queer and while labels can help in confirming yourself and who you really are I don't think they should be small clubs and groups so separate from all the rest. I know from someone who has a collection of genders that's niche and probably has like 1 or 2 other people using some of them if that sort of means nothing. Obviously with a rift like that I'm not relating to anyone but I still feel it's a pretty lonely way to go about things. I just think it's better to accept people and those labels because at the end of the day that's just another queer person trying to get by. We aren't enemies, we aren't hurting each other just by existing so just let people exist with whatever labels they want. Thier definition of a label may not be exactly what you expect of that but it fits them so just let them use it and bring out a little more queer joy into the world.

Now at the end of this I do want to ask anyone who uses the terms or groups of terms I've talked about to correct me if I get anything wrong. I do have a lot of niche terms and fit into a more gender focused subset but I'm just a gay male leaning trans person so I can't get all the complexities of this topic. I just wanted to speak about something that's been bothering me so if you can help me make this better I would really appreciate it. That being said I hope everyone has a wonderful day except for exclusionists, homophobes and transphobes and I'll probably make another rant post like this some other day.

[cannibalsmayhem]

† LGBTIQRITPMK+ . †

Pt: L G B T I Q R I T P M K +

Lesbian (+)

Gay (+)

Bisexual (+)

Trans (+)

Intersexual (+)

Queer (+)

Radqueer (+)

Inclusionist (+)

Transid (+)

Paraphilic (+)

Mogai (+)

Kinky (+)

THiS iS A C♡MMUNiTY LABEL THAT iNCLUDES ALL TH♡SE STANCES. ( AND MORE )

Pt: This is a comunnity label that includes all these stances (and more).

This flag supports all kind of lesbians, gays, bisexuals, pansexuals, omnisexuals, polysexuals (etc) // MSPEC, contradictory labels, lesbians / gays that doesn't like woman / men ( etc ) // Also supports contradictory identidies // Transfem AFAB / Transmasc AMAB , lesboys , gaygirls , femboys , tomboys ( etc ) // .

This flag DOESN'T support "transmeds" but supports the freedom of trans people in all their decisions // Body modifications ( being a minor or not ) , trans feminine boys / trans masculine girls , to take testosterone ( being a minor or not ) , who do not want to modify their body or take testosterone ( etc ) // .

This flag supports the free choices of intersex people // genital operations ONLY WITH THEIR CONSENT , anti - mutilation with no choice , anti regender assigment without consent ( etc ) // .

This flag supports all kinds of good - faith queers , but does not support those who are pro - harassment or pro - bullying .

This flags supports all good - faith blankqueers , including radqueer , doesnt support those blankqueers who are harmful towards other people .

This flag its entirely inclusionist , It doesn't matter if you don't like the other person's way of life , it's their life , not yours .

Anti - antis who are pro - harrasment .

This flag supports all kinds of transids and supports non - harmful transition .

This flag supports all kinds of paraphilias and all kinds of stances ( but does not support non - consensual acts ) .

This flag supports ANY mogai labels .

This flag supports all consensual kinks .

This flag supports all good - faith identidies !

iF YOU DON’T LiKE US PLEASE JUST BL♡CK !!!!

Pt: If you don't like us please just block!

[bupsafr3ak]

Satisqueer

Satisqueer (or problaqueer) is a queer posture that focuses mainly on receiving people rejected by the community, not only LGBTQIAPN+ or MOGAI, but many others, this includes the paraphilic community, subs(edtwt, sh etc) among others. Our idea is to question social constructions and discuss whether everything that is considered wrong by the majority is, in fact, wrong as they say. More satisfied people should analyze reality in a material and not moral way and, in this way, have their own conclusions about the world and its functioning, position themselves before the rules and expectations that have been imposed on us.

Satisqueer also uses a lot of empathy trying to understand how others feel and support them and offer support to improve, in relation to how bad or problematic it seems to be, we welcome many fragile people who are often excluded and left aside by their disorders and coping mechanisms.

This queer posture may or may not be involved in speeches, whatever the reason, they have no obligation to discuss with whoever they judge that the discussion is not worth it.

Pro:

Controversial identities (gaygirl, lesboy, hetero-gay).

Alterhuman, otherkin(foodkin, objectkin, kin em pessoas reais).

Paraphilias, parafilic disorders and fetishes (taboo or not).

Endo, transplural and created system.

ANY type of hetero and Cisdissidence (including mono mspec, multiorientação, cistrans, iso...).

Non-monogamy.

Relationships between lesbians and men or gays and women.

Aldernics and extreme body modifications.

Paraphilias, paraphylic disorders and fetishes (tabu or not).

Pro-contacts of CONSENSUALS parafilias.

Sh, suicide and alimentary/mental disorders as artistic performance (may include assisted suicide).

Mad pride and anti-assylum movement

Autonomy on your own body (including abortion).

Consensual cannibalism.

Self-diagnosis / self-identification and any type of systems.

Destigmatization of mechanisms of unhealthy copings such as the romanticization of traumas.

Toxic, obsessive, abusive consensual and/or mutual relationships.

Proship and pro fiction / anti censorship.

Furry and other harmless communities.

Communism and anarchism.

ACAB (1312).

Feminism.

Legalization of all drugs.

Blm and other movements of racialized people

Sex workers.

Xenogenders, stetigenders, lexics, allions, vior, perspeque...

Xenosexualities and parasexualities.

RCTA

Transpara (transid in general).

Transition to trace.

Transautistics use identification badge/transable use wheelchair/crutch (things that match their disability).

Identify with things for fun (even though they are harmful).

Ed/shtwt among other subs.

MIF (minors in fetichism).

Incest (consang or not).

Radshifters.

Mahou shoujo irl.

Radqueer/inclus.

Sexual education/ children know their own body.

Loli, shota, kodo and nanacon.

Ageplay, petplay, rapeplay etc

CNC

Autopara (autopedo, autozoo, etc)

Fictosexuality

Neutral:

MUDs

MAP (just if the minor is 14+).

Claim and resignification of insults and offensive terms.

Transition to transharmful

Symbol of the puzzle to represent autistic people.

anti:

zoo contact.

Necro contact.

pedo contact.

Contact of any paraphilia that is done in a non-consesual way.

CP/CSEM/CSAM.

LSDqueer, basedqueer, kandiqueer, xenosatanism and similar.

Anti-therian

Bullying and harassment.

Conservatives, rightists, especially Nazis, fascists and capitalists.

Transmed

Sysmed

Cis/heteronormatividade against LGBTQIAPN+ people (ex: invalidating a trans boy for dressing in a “feminine” way and wearing makeup)

Radfem, radgay, genitalists, transphobics, exorsexists, binarists...

Misogyny, misandria and femism (not feminism) and similars.

Religious intolerant

Identification emoji idea:

🫧🌈 /🗂🌈 /🌈🌪

CURIOSITY: where did the idea of the name Satisqueer and problaqueer come from?

“Satis” comes from Latin, and means “quite” - who chose this name was lilico - and "probla" its from "problematic", indicating that we include a lot of communities, regardless of how problematic or bad they are (no matter how ‘shat’ it is). We fight mainly against cis/heteronormativity, transmed, capitalists and moralistic people.

No one is better than anyone else and has no wrong way to express themselves, identify or deal with their problems, I believe we should claim this label with pride, embrace the unusual and inconvenient ways of dealing with things as part of our identity and struggle.

Creator of the term: meee :3 (with the help of @transidiotloli )

[transidiotloli]

StrawberryQueer

StrawberryQueer is a blankqueer who focuses on being yourself without hurting anyone.

Identification emoji combo: 🍓🪼/🪼🌈

—Pro

Transid(transHarmful/hateful included)

Xeno

Contractual labels(lesboy, gaygirl, gaybian etc)

Cnc

Paraphilia

Subcultures

Autonomy of one's own body

TransID transition(transHateful of the transracist type not included)

Mud

Any form of artistic expression

Self diagnosis(Even physical disabilities)

Pro fiction, proship, comship etc

Mogai kids(No sexual/romantic practices involved, of course)

Abortion

Transable to use aids

Alter human/otherkin

Linkkin

—Anti

Pro contact of non-consensual paraphilias

Transitioning to Transharmful without having consent

Racism, Homophobia, fatphobia, ableism etc

Underage dating(Chrono child)

Xenosatanista(And similar)

Rape, Abuse and so on

Conservatism

Ex mogai

[sapphic-horror]

SÉVERIN — HY / GORE — 20

a horror beyond your understanding <3

intro !!

my main pronouns are hy / gore but the full list can be found here; mutuals are welcome to use he / she; nh terms preferred! i'm a butch xenic transmasc sapphillean aro lesboy girlboy; i use more than just these terms but these identities are all very important to me i love horror in general, stardew valley, minecraft, analog horror/args, biology, forensic science, bones, & many other things

ask game here! (link)

byi !!

i use slurs i can reclaim positively, including other historic terms containing slurs. all reclaimed slurs will be tagged as '[letter] slur/word' or '[letter] slur/word reclaimed'. queer will not be tagged as a slur, DO NOT tag my posts as 'q slur' (you may tag them as other terms, just not as a slur)

i tag other triggers as '[trigger] tw' or '[content] cw'

i am autistic, have cluster b pds (borderline/antisocial), c-ptsd, did, & some other things i am not comfortable listing; i experience paranoia, dissociative amnesia, & low empathy— no pref. for singular or plural terms, DO NOT call us sysmates or headmates, i use i/we interchangeabley

disabled, chronic pain, & photosensitive— most flags should be eyestrain friendly but i make no guarantees; if something needs to be tagged as eyestrain lmk!

i id as alterhuman/non-human; i use nh terms as a way to cope with trauma & dehumanization

this isn't a syscourse blog, i reblog posts from both pro-endo & anti-endo blogs, DO NOT ASK ME MY OPINION ON SYSCOURSE

dni !!

basic dni criteria

terfs EXPLICITLY get blocked on sight

zionists, including neutrals

fans of the following; harry potter (any jkr related media included), dsmp/qsmp, dream, tommyinnit, jschlatt, hazbin hotel/helluva boss and wilbur soot

anti good faith labels; anti xenos or neos

demonize cluster b disorders (including npd & aspd), use the term 'narc abuse' (or similar terms), demonize people who experience psychosis, demonize people with osddid, or other heavily stigmatized disorders

anti-anti or proshipper

transx/transid (transspecies, chronosian, & folks with biid/bdd can interact) or 'radqueer' / pro/complex/neutral-contract harmful paraphilias (pedophilia, zoophilia, necrophilia, etc.)

heavy religious blogs (christian); personal comfort

i will. . .

good faith identities (lesboy, gaygirl, gaybian, etc.)

alt/new versions of flags

themed flags

extremely specific terms

xin (x-in-nature) terms

neurogenders

alterhuman/otherkin/therian/transspecies flags

terms relating to gore, horror, the undead, cannibalism, etc.

might do reclaimed transx/transid terms (i.e., transautistic meaning a trans person who's autistic)

if it's not on here, ask!

i won't. . .

tranx/transid terms (non-reclaimed)

nsfw/18+ or paraphilia terms

non-traumagenic terms

terms relating to slurs i don't/can't reclaim

flags for disorders I don't have or am public about having

flags exclusive to cultures I'm not apart of

intersex or tfem related flags (i'm perisex tmasc)

some religious terms

theme flags based on/of real people

extremely bright/neon flags (i.e., extreme eyestrain)

ANYONE (REGARDLESS OF IF YOU'RE ON MY DNI OR NOT) MAY USE MY FLAGS!

PLEASE CREDIT ME SOMEWHERE IF YOU USE MY FLAGS (VIA LINK, ALT TEXT, ETC.)

[squidfreak]

"dni gaygirls" ooohhh, my abigender FtM swag is too much for you. my awesomeness is overpowering and undefeatable. I run while you crawl. you can not handle this bigenderflux T-bxyg?rls love for men and people alike. Does my queer complexity frighten you?

[scapeybelle]

hai.. >_0 im clarabelle!! im a schizotypal lesboy gaygirl & my pronouns r she/her [or it/its if ur my friend] & im an Adult !

im a fictive & i love sourcemates & doubles X3 skulduggery pleasant fictives pls interact

my interests include medical horror, early 2000s nostalgia, stars & space, zombies, and alternative fashion <3

no dni but im pro-endo & (anti-contact) pro-para if that matters

[ID: A blinkie with a light pink background and red hearts on either side of the text. It says "schizogirl" in red text. /End ID]

[ID: A dark red blinkie that says "I <3 SURGERIES" in black text. To the left of the text is a picture of a nurse's cap. /End ID]

[genderstarbucks]

Do you know flags for lesbians who are cis woman and trans man, lesbians who are cis man and trans woman, and their equivalent turian versions? And lesbians who are tris women or tris men, and their gay counterparts

FTM Lesbian

Trans Man Lesbian

MTF Lesbian

Trans Woman Lesbian

FTM Gay

Trans Man Gay

MTF Gay

Trans Woman Gay

Cistrans Man Gaylm | Cistrans Man Lesbian

Cistrans Woman Gaylm | Cistrans Woman Lesbian

Cis Man Gaylm | Cis Man Lesbian

Cis Woman Gaylm | Cis Woman Lesbian

[astropocketme]

Lesbian Pisces pros and cons

Pros:

Emotional Empaths: You're the emotional superheroes, always ready with a box of tissues and a comforting hug. 😭💖

Creative Mermaids: Your vivid imagination turns everyday life into a whimsical masterpiece. 🎨🧜‍♀️

Intuition on Fleek: Your sixth sense effortlessly navigates the currents of love and relationships. 🔮🔍

Romantic Dreamers: You're a hopeless romantic, always yearning for that fairytale love. 💭💕

Emotional Depth: You experience emotions on a profound level, making love and relationships incredibly meaningful. 😭💕

Cons:

Escaping Reality: Reality can sometimes feel like a soggy blanket, and you'd rather swim in the sea of your imagination. 🌈🌈

Boundaries? What Boundaries?: Your kind-hearted nature can sometimes lead to others taking advantage of you. 🚫🧜‍♀️

Indecisive Fishies: Decision-making can feel like swimming in circles of uncertainty. 🐠🤷‍♀️

Emotional Tsunamis: Your emotions can sometimes feel like a tidal wave crashing over you. 🌊😭

Love horoscope? More like fishy nonsense, but you embrace it anyway! 🌟🐠

Based on the original article: Lesbian Pisces pros and cons

[margo-lith]

Margo I don't know you very much but I do want to pin you down and fuck you gaygirl style tbh

yayay yippie!!!!!! I'm very pro strangers pinning me down :3

[scene-pup]

REMINDER: THIS LITTLE IS ANTI ENDO AND ANTI TULPA, ANTI MSPEC LESBIAN/VINCIAN, AND ANTI LESBOY/GAYGIRL

I've noticed some pro-endo/tulpa, pro mspec mono, and pro lesboy/gaygirl follow me and I am BEGGING not to do that. It makes me uncomfortable. PLEASE stay away from me and my account.

[thetimekeepers]

before you follow + opinions

byf

i am hazardqueer and anarchoqueer

we switch between i/me and we/us

we are very, very autistic. we are visibly autistic irl and have middling support needs. we require some tone tags in order to properly communicate, and you need to speak in clear language. we rarely mean to offend, please dont take anything we say personal and speak up if we hurt your feelings!

if you know our triggers, tag things as "#tksdl" or "#🕥dl"

i am cringe AND i am free. idgaf what people think of me, genuinely. i dont care if you think im weird or annoying. just block me if you dont like me, or i'll block instead.

opinions

queer stuff we support ALL contradictory labels, including mspec lesbians and gays, lesboys and gaygirls, aspec people, nondysphoric trans people, multigender people, etc etc. i am anti-exclusion and anti-transmed. i support bodily autonomy and safe body modification unconditionally. i am pro-kink.

shipcourse i guess i'm technically profiction but i stay away from darkship content, as it makes me uncomfortable. fiction can be a helpful tool in processing trauma. writing/drawing content including dark topics is not inherently bad, in fact it can be good for healing trauma. however, fetishizing topics such as csem, abuse, and bestiality can only be harmful.

syscourse most plurality can be explained neurologically, but not all plurality is traumagenic. human consciousness is unexplained scientifically. perhaps you just have multiple people in one body with no particular cause. until there is more in-depth research into DID and plurality, i will not exclude any kind of system. i guess we're a pro-endo sysmed? idk. with that said, system hopping does not and cannot exist. leave body-swapping in science fiction.

paraphilic disorders we avoid paraphilia discourse, but technically we could be called pro-para. HOWEVER, para communities often devlove into anti-recovery pro-contact abusive echo chambers that endanger children. if you have a paraphilic disorder, acknowledge it's an illness, and work towards bettering yourself, you're fine. if you are pro-contact or if you engage in paraphilia communities, DNI. animals, children, and corpses cannot consent.

misc we are punk and libleft, specifically a socialist anarchist. we believe the r-slur is unreclaimable due to its definition and etymology. pro-death penalty, but NOT in the hands of governments; instead, the victim and/or their family should be allowed to enact justice however they see fit. black lives matter, #landback, stop asian hate, and free palestine.